| Subject: Drawing it out, and the value of longer spankings |
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Emily
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Date Posted: 13:29:09 01/11/26 Sun
Hi everyone,
Unlike myself, who truly HAS to spank full force for it to sting enough, Ruben ensures me that he never uses his full strength when he gives a spanking. Ruben prefers to deliver a higher number of lower strength swats rather than a lower number of higher strength ones. He believes that a longer period of "quality time" while bottoms up over his lap is generally going to make the lesson sink in better, and he definitely tries his best to draw out the spanking in order to get the initial what he calls "protest tears" out and replace them with true sorry bawling and crying.
When I am feeling especially defiant, rebellious, or moody... as much as I don't want to admit it, I have to say this approach to spanking works best for me, and for my girls. You almost feel like you can take it at first, want to "prove a point" somehow by taking the pain, which doesn't start off as bad... but as the thwack thwack thwack of the paddle begins, and keeps on, and on, and ON... you really do forget your silliness. When you've been facedown with your head and chest on the bed, tummy resting on his muscular thigh, your feet wriggling with your bottom burning up for what feels like an eternity... you start to understand how fruitless your defiance is and how childish you are acting. Nothing is more humbling than that.
I always try to deliver a good quality spanking to my Ella and Amelia as best as I can when they have earned it, but that true classic post-spanking sweetness really does come best when Ruben takes over. And that includes myself... ESPECIALLY myself.
It doesn't always feel like it in the moment, but I am quite a lucky woman!
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