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Date Posted: 12:16:13 10/20/04 Wed
Author: Brother in Christ
Subject: Re: freedom to chose --NOT
In reply to: Nick T. 's message, "Re: freedom to chose --NOT" on 17:07:40 10/19/04 Tue

I'm sorry. I tried not to get involved in this thread but i must say something. Yes the horror stories told about people marring after a one week engagement are true.

But also much of what is said is not true. I personally dated two girls in UBF. We had the freedom and did go to movies and dinner many times, and without other UBF people present. I had their phone number and they had mine. We talked many times on the phone. I was personally asked on more than one occassion who I wanted to marry and I rejected three girls who they asked if I wanted to marry.

I know of many who dated that way. So this you marry by faith and who your shephard tells you is not true. I know this UBF controlled marriage ways have happened and still does, but it is not the case always.

Don't get me wrong here i do not support the UBF way of marriage fully but it also is not exactly as it is being portayed here.

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