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Subject: Stupid question


Author:
Wes
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Date Posted: 22:37:52 11/20/12 Tue

I have a stupid question on a minor point in a story I'm kicking around. I'm planning a scene set in a dorm room at a private college in the late 1950s, and I'm presuming the college would have something like a housemother to keep the lid on, enforce separation of the sexes, and probably keep booze out of the dorms. It would be very strict in comparison to what we're used to today. However, the "housemother" would in this case be a man. What would be the term used to describe him? Housefather? Something else?

-- Wes

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[> Subject: Re: Stupid question


Author:
Al
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Date Posted: 22:57:15 11/20/12 Tue

>I have a stupid question on a minor point in a story
>I'm kicking around. I'm planning a scene set in a dorm
>room at a private college in the late 1950s, and I'm
>presuming the college would have something like a
>housemother to keep the lid on, enforce separation of
>the sexes, and probably keep booze out of the dorms.
>It would be very strict in comparison to what we're
>used to today. However, the "housemother" would in
>this case be a man. What would be the term used to
>describe him? Housefather? Something else?
>
>-- Wes

My first year in college was 1962, all our freshmen dorms had resident assistants, RA's, who supervised the section and lived in that section. All RA's were the same sex as the residents. Remember in 1962 there were few if any co-ed dorms. I think RA's were paid and got the room free.

None of the dorms had housemothers. Some fraternities on the other hand did have housemothers, but most at my school did not and more than 50% of the upperclassmen lived in fraternities.

Here is a link describing RA's

http://www.ehow.com/list_6500767_resident-assistant-duties.html

Not sure if this helps.
[> [> Subject: Re: Stupid question


Author:
Wes
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Date Posted: 23:30:15 11/20/12 Tue

>>I have a stupid question on a minor point in a story
>>I'm kicking around. I'm planning a scene set in a dorm
>>room at a private college in the late 1950s, and I'm
>>presuming the college would have something like a
>>housemother to keep the lid on, enforce separation of
>>the sexes, and probably keep booze out of the dorms.
>>It would be very strict in comparison to what we're
>>used to today. However, the "housemother" would in
>>this case be a man. What would be the term used to
>>describe him? Housefather? Something else?
>>
>>-- Wes
>
>My first year in college was 1962, all our freshmen
>dorms had resident assistants, RA's, who supervised
>the section and lived in that section. All RA's were
>the same sex as the residents. Remember in 1962 there
>were few if any co-ed dorms. I think RA's were paid
>and got the room free.
>
>None of the dorms had housemothers. Some fraternities
>on the other hand did have housemothers, but most at
>my school did not and more than 50% of the
>upperclassmen lived in fraternities.
>
>Here is a link describing RA's
>
> >href="http://www.ehow.com/list_6500767_resident-assista
>nt-duties.html">http://www.ehow.com/list_6500767_reside
>nt-assistant-duties.html

>
>Not sure if this helps.


I don't know. I guess I'm envisioning something a little stricter and more conservative. In this scene, the underage character is hiding booze from the (whatever the hell the term is).

-- Wes
[> [> [> Subject: Re: Stupid question


Author:
Javahead
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Date Posted: 16:01:43 11/21/12 Wed

>>>I have a stupid question on a minor point in a story
>>>I'm kicking around. I'm planning a scene set in a
>dorm
>>>room at a private college in the late 1950s, and I'm
>>>presuming the college would have something like a
>>>housemother to keep the lid on, enforce separation of
>>>the sexes, and probably keep booze out of the dorms.
>>>It would be very strict in comparison to what we're
>>>used to today. However, the "housemother" would in
>>>this case be a man. What would be the term used to
>>>describe him? Housefather? Something else?
>>>
>>>-- Wes
>>
>>My first year in college was 1962, all our freshmen
>>dorms had resident assistants, RA's, who supervised
>>the section and lived in that section. All RA's were
>>the same sex as the residents. Remember in 1962 there
>>were few if any co-ed dorms. I think RA's were paid
>>and got the room free.
>>
>>None of the dorms had housemothers. Some fraternities
>>on the other hand did have housemothers, but most at
>>my school did not and more than 50% of the
>>upperclassmen lived in fraternities.
>>
>>Here is a link describing RA's
>>
>> >>href="http://www.ehow.com/list_6500767_resident-assist
>a
>>nt-duties.html">http://www.ehow.com/list_6500767_resid
>e
>>nt-assistant-duties.html

>>
>>Not sure if this helps.
>
>
>I don't know. I guess I'm envisioning something a
>little stricter and more conservative. In this scene,
>the underage character is hiding booze from the
>(whatever the hell the term is).
>
>-- Wes

For what it's worth, when I attended university (much later - 70's) the RA was responsible for checking for alcohol, etc. I remember my RA checking my room on a regular basis and getting frustrated that although I had a large display of empty bottles (1 each of every imported beer I'd tried) he never found any actual beer. (I didn't drink on-campus, or drink much, and since I wasn't underage I just tried bottles in the local college bars and restaurants.) Frustrated the devil out of him because he was *sure* that I had booze somewhere. Though he didn't know about the secret compartment in the closet some previous resident had built in - I could have stashed a dozen bottles there without worrying. But it was mostly a game on everyone's part.

My younger daughter is currently a CA ("Community Advisor" - UC Santa Cruz we're-so-special for "RA"). She says that she's expected to report any OBVIOUS drinking or marijuana use, but not to go looking for it. Very much a don't ask don't tell policy. Though she can call campus security if necessary, her biggest duties appear to be helping freshmen settle in, advising them about campus resources, and helping people who lost their room keys.
[> Subject: Re: Stupid question


Author:
Deadly Ernest
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Date Posted: 00:14:36 11/21/12 Wed

In some other countries they did you as you mentioned and had a guy in charge of the boys' dorms, he was known as a Housemaster and were usually also teachers during the day. If my memory serves me right, some of the stricter church owned colleges in the US did do the same, wasn't Robin William's position in the Emporer's Club that of Housemaster?

Ernest

>I have a stupid question on a minor point in a story
>I'm kicking around. I'm planning a scene set in a dorm
>room at a private college in the late 1950s, and I'm
>presuming the college would have something like a
>housemother to keep the lid on, enforce separation of
>the sexes, and probably keep booze out of the dorms.
>It would be very strict in comparison to what we're
>used to today. However, the "housemother" would in
>this case be a man. What would be the term used to
>describe him? Housefather? Something else?
>
>-- Wes
[> [> Subject: Re: Stupid question


Author:
bytemangler
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Date Posted: 14:35:49 11/23/12 Fri

>>I have a stupid question on a minor point in a story
>>I'm kicking around. I'm planning a scene set in a dorm
>>room at a private college in the late 1950s, and I'm
>>presuming the college would have something like a
>>housemother to keep the lid on, enforce separation of
>>the sexes, and probably keep booze out of the dorms.
>>It would be very strict in comparison to what we're
>>used to today. However, the "housemother" would in
>>this case be a man. What would be the term used to
>>describe him? Housefather? Something else?
>>
>>-- Wes

In the 1950's my freshman dorm had a grad student in residence (the RA term hadn't been invented). The upperclass dorms had a housemaster (faculty member with a very generous apartment) and usually several more resident faculty.
[> Subject: Re: Stupid question


Author:
Jerry
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Date Posted: 19:07:37 11/21/12 Wed

>I have a stupid question on a minor point in a story
>I'm kicking around. I'm planning a scene set in a dorm
>room at a private college in the late 1950s, and I'm
>presuming the college would have something like a
>housemother to keep the lid on, enforce separation of
>the sexes, and probably keep booze out of the dorms.
>It would be very strict in comparison to what we're
>used to today. However, the "housemother" would in
>this case be a man. What would be the term used to
>describe him? Housefather? Something else?
>
>-- Wes

At the college I attended in 1965, each dorm had a faculty member who was more-or-less in charge, called a residence counselor.
[> Subject: Re: Stupid question


Author:
Skip
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Date Posted: 21:05:54 11/21/12 Wed

>I have a stupid question on a minor point in a story
>I'm kicking around. I'm planning a scene set in a dorm
>room at a private college in the late 1950s, and I'm
>presuming the college would have something like a
>housemother to keep the lid on, enforce separation of
>the sexes, and probably keep booze out of the dorms.
>It would be very strict in comparison to what we're
>used to today. However, the "housemother" would in
>this case be a man. What would be the term used to
>describe him? Housefather? Something else?
>
>-- Wes

Can't be much help as I went to a Military College (Norwich) and graduated in 1955. We had o\no RA, housemother or other adult supervision.
[> Subject: Re: Stupid question


Author:
marv
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Date Posted: 21:48:28 11/21/12 Wed

>I have a stupid question on a minor point in a story
>I'm kicking around. I'm planning a scene set in a dorm
>room at a private college in the late 1950s, and I'm
>presuming the college would have something like a
>housemother to keep the lid on, enforce separation of
>the sexes, and probably keep booze out of the dorms.
>It would be very strict in comparison to what we're
>used to today. However, the "housemother" would in
>this case be a man. What would be the term used to
>describe him? Housefather? Something else?
>
>-- Wes

I attended a private Baptist college in 1968. We had a dorm dad that lived right by the front door. We had a dorm mom that lived right by the back door. The dorm was a three story H shaped building and at the center of the long legs of the H lived dorm proctors. The proctors were upper classmen and tried to keep good order in their area of the dorm.
[> Subject: Re: Stupid question


Author:
Ralph Burner
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Date Posted: 19:36:41 11/22/12 Thu

I attended Bowling Green State Universiy in Ohio during the early 60's. Each dorm floor or wing depending on the dorm had a RA(Resident Advisor) whose duties were to maintain order, counsel students and be a role model for their charges. The RA's were usually undergraduates. The Head Resident of the dorm was usually a graduate student. When I was a student there was no alcohol allowed on campus, no members of the oposite sex in dorm rooms. At BGSU at this time girl dorms had "hours' just like curfew at home.

>I have a stupid question on a minor point in a story
>I'm kicking around. I'm planning a scene set in a dorm
>room at a private college in the late 1950s, and I'm
>presuming the college would have something like a
>housemother to keep the lid on, enforce separation of
>the sexes, and probably keep booze out of the dorms.
>It would be very strict in comparison to what we're
>used to today. However, the "housemother" would in
>this case be a man. What would be the term used to
>describe him? Housefather? Something else?
>
>-- Wes
[> Subject: Re: Stupid question


Author:
Kirby Lambert
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Date Posted: 14:30:28 11/23/12 Fri

>I have a stupid question on a minor point in a story
>I'm kicking around. I'm planning a scene set in a dorm
>room at a private college in the late 1950s, and I'm
>presuming the college would have something like a
>housemother to keep the lid on, enforce separation of
>the sexes, and probably keep booze out of the dorms.
>It would be very strict in comparison to what we're
>used to today. However, the "housemother" would in
>this case be a man. What would be the term used to
>describe him? Housefather? Something else?
>
>-- Wes


From fall 67 to fall 69 I attended ( did time at ) a fairly strict church college of my parents choice.

All dorms had a dorm mother or father or married couple. each floor had an RA who was an upper class student. Rooms were checked regularly for contraband and if any was found punishment up to expulsion was the order of the day. Maybe 1 strike but no more.

Kirby


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