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Subject: respect


Author:
naeemah zakiya
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Date Posted: 07:40:00 11/19/02 Tue
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As salaamu alaykum,
I live at home with my mother, and my brother who is 31 years old. He does not clean up after himself, and does disrespectful things like eating the meal i made to break fast. He also does not bring money into the household. I am tired of cleaning up after him. Am I direspecting my mother if I do not clean his messes anymore? He, nor my mother are muslim. I am not able to move yet,I am having trouble finding work, which is my ultimate goal,insha Allah.

As salaamu alaykum,
Naeemah

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Author:
Laila Nasheeba
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Date Posted: 09:19:37 11/19/02 Tue
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As Salaamu Alaikoum,

Praise be to Allah.

As Muslims we are ordered to obey and respect our Parents. Your brother is not your parent so you do not owe this to him.


AND ALLAH KNOWS BEST


Laila Nasheeba


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