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Subject: Re: Disobedient Wife Author: Laila Nasheeba [ Next Thread | Previous Thread | Next Message | Previous Message ] Date Posted: 04:04:18 01/28/03 Tue Author Host/IP: dhcp024-210-177-110.woh.rr.com/24.210.177.110 In reply to: Abu-Zahra 's message, "Disobedient Wife" on 23:29:32 01/27/03 Mon As Salaamu Alaikoum, Praise be to Allah. If a woman refuses her husband’s request to come to bed with no Islamically-sound reason (such as sickness, or his being drunk, for example), what happens is as described below: Abu Hurayrah (may Allaah be pleased with him) said: “The Messenger of Allaah (peace and blessings of Allaah be upon him) said: ‘If a man calls his wife to his bed and she refuses [and does not come], and he spends the night angry with her, the angels will curse her until morning.’” (Reported by al-Bukhaari, 4794; the additional phrase quoted in square brackets is from Abu Dawood, al-Sunan, Kitaab al-Nikaah, Bab haqq al-zawj ‘ala’l-mar’ah). This is a right that every man has over his wife and her failure to fulfill her rights give us the right to take action. Whether the husband wants to discipline his wife, or forgive her, or take another wife, or divorce her, this is all up to him to choose. AND ALLAH KNOWS BEST Laila Nasheeba [ Next Thread | Previous Thread | Next Message | Previous Message ]