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Subject: salat tasabih


Author:
nusaiba
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Date Posted: 06:11:52 11/29/02 Fri
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salaaam alaykum warahmatullahi wabarakatah please i want to know what is salat tasabih is it sunnah muakadah or not wajazakallah kheyr
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Subject: leaving a person who does not pray


Author:
sister
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Date Posted: 07:18:43 11/29/02 Fri
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salam aleikum

How we suppose to do when a person has not the courage to leave a husband who is not praying and they have children. He is threatening to take the kids from her and she live under pressure but he is not the abusive person . She has no family near and relative, no money etc. She put her trust ALLAH but she need financial help to leave him.

Salam aleikum
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Subject: position on prayer


Author:
abu musa
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Date Posted: 01:57:41 11/29/02 Fri
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in prayer where should the hands be because some people say on the chest please could you get evidence from hadith
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Subject: Salatul 'Id and Salatul Jumu'ah


Author:
Hydar Ali
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Date Posted: 20:16:45 11/28/02 Thu
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Assalamu 'Alaykum
When 'Id falls on the day of Jumu'ah (as it is likely this year, In Sha' Allah), is it necessary to perform both Salatul 'Id and Salatul Jumu'ah, or does one perform Salatul 'Id and Salatul Zuhr, instead?

Jazakumullah bi khayr
Hydar.
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Subject: LIFE INSURANCE


Author:
Muhammad Zeeshan
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Date Posted: 13:52:42 11/28/02 Thu
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ASSALAM-O-ALIEKUM

The question i would like to ask the respectable TEACHERS & SCHOLARS is about the LIFE INSURANCE:


Is it allowed to have a life insurance of yourself in ISLAM (ignoring the financial intrest, wheather paid or not by the organisations which run them)?
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Subject: job


Author:
sister
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Date Posted: 14:55:21 11/28/02 Thu
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Salam aleikum

What shall we do with a husband who force his wife get a job and work though that she does not want to work and he have a good salary and can support the family.


Salam
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Subject: hijaab


Author:
sister
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Date Posted: 06:17:42 11/28/02 Thu
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ASSALAMU ALAIKUM,
Respected sister , can u plz tell me whether what actually hijaab refers to.Does it mean to cover ourself with cloak(viel)? What basically in india the word hijaab is taken is burqua(veil), but if a women doenst wears veil and if she covers her chest with full dupatta and hairs with scarf then still is hijaab done or not?
JAZAKALLAH KHAIR !
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Subject: Haj


Author:
sister
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Date Posted: 06:05:28 11/28/02 Thu
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Salam aeluikum

My friend want to make Haj but can not afford. She want to borrow money to perform haj.Could she do that?

Salam aleikum
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Subject: speaking to fiancee


Author:
tabassum
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Date Posted: 05:58:24 11/28/02 Thu
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ASSALAMU ALAIKUM,
Respected Sir,can u plz tell me whether ISLAM permits speaking to fiancee. Can we speak to our fiancee on phone? Are there any restrictions on speaking to fiancee. Do we have any hadith regarding it so as whether to speak or not to speak to our fiancee untill marriage? plz help me out in this situation.
JAZAKALLAH KHAIR !
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Subject: praying


Author:
sheema
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Date Posted: 17:40:28 11/27/02 Wed
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i was wondering, when you read naffil namaz, can you read it sitting down? also, when you write letters, or meet some1, can you say "salam" for short instead of usalamaliakum?
thank you
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Subject: questions


Author:
raana
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Date Posted: 17:46:41 11/27/02 Wed
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can we eat from a non-muslims hands...can we eat out, like in macdonalds or something..or if we know somebody, work wise or neighbour etc who gives us food, can we eat knowing they are not muslim, even if the stuff they give us is halal or a vegetarian dish.

is there anything we can read for the dead?

thanks
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Subject: marriage.


Author:
mumtaz
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Date Posted: 04:20:40 11/28/02 Thu
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assalamualaikum,
i would like some advice on marriage. i wish to marry a man in morocco but as im not able to go there in the immediate future we are thinking of getting married before i go there.please could you let me know if its possible to do nikah by letter and if so how is it done.please reply to my email.
salaam from mumtaz
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Subject: marriage


Author:
sister
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Date Posted: 17:43:14 11/27/02 Wed
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i wanted to ask, if you can marry somebody you love in islam yet you can have no contact with the opposite sex, how do love marriages form? i know that the prophet said they are allowed but i dont know how it can be if we cant "mingle" with the opposite sex. how do people fall in love then?
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Subject: The daleel on screens in the Masjid/


Author:
Sadiqah
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Date Posted: 07:20:39 11/27/02 Wed
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I have read about the life of Propher Muhammad (pbuh).Nowhere did it make mention of putting up screens or walls up in the Masjid while men pray in the front.As woman are there to pray also, I have a hard time hearing or knowing what is going on. Then I go to other Masjid, where there isn't a barrier screen. Is it the Sunnah to put up walls, or
is it culture?
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Subject: can i fast


Author:
nusaiba
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Date Posted: 06:42:50 11/27/02 Wed
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salaam alykum please help me with my problem i used the pills so that i wont get my monthly period during the ramadhan , but now i see some brownish discharge can you please inform me is it ok for me to continue fasting because i am still on the pills wajazakallah khayr nusaiba
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Subject: confused and frustrated


Author:
rafiya
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Date Posted: 03:22:37 11/27/02 Wed
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As-salaam alaikum wr wb,
Im married to a man (a convert-dont know why he did???) but one who does not pray. doesnt accept sunnah. in short does nothing that a muslim should do. I have no children because i dont want to have a child with such a man. Sometimes i think of talaq. but i have no place to go back to. sometimes i get so frustrated by his un-islamic manners that i feel like like poisining him. atleast its better to live like a widow than like this.
sometimes i control my anger and ask allah for guidance and keep my patience but now im running out of it because im almost 30 and i want to have children. I want to know is it acceptable to Allah if out of anger i leave him and lose patience or shd i continue to persuade him. I wld like to add that he is a good person by heart, always helping others,never objects to my hijab or way of living. but doesnt pray himself, this is my biggest trouble. please make dua for my life.
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Subject: Clarify ayat


Author:
undisclosed
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Date Posted: 10:41:28 11/26/02 Tue
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I am reading the Koran for the second time and somethiing confuses me.
"believers,Jews,Christians,and Sabeans- whoever believes in God and the last day and does what is right- shall be rewardedby their Lord:they have nothing to fear or to regret."2.61
The Koran also repeats this in 5.65.
Can you please give your interpretation of this.
Does it mean muslims believe that other religions will also got to heaven?
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Subject: Problems with attending college


Author:
sara
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Date Posted: 14:02:56 11/26/02 Tue
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Asalama Aleikum

I am a student attending a mixed college, due to arduous circumstances i am not able to attend a girls school, inshallah through this course i will be learning a number of crafts that will inshallah be of use to me in the future if i ever need to work, with these skills i can work from home. At college i am able to pray my 5 daily salats and i observe the appropriate attire for a muslim woman. I do however have male teachers to whom i must talk to about my work, i am able to keep my distance and conversation is strictly about work. At times i somethimes feel that attending college is not right because it is mixed. Also at times i feel asthough i should leave but my family would not understand nor would they listen to reason i would experience a lot of difficulties if i were to leave but at the same time i feel that maybe these difficulties would be a test from Allah. Could you please clarify whether my attending college is not permissible, and if so how should i deal with my family if it is not permissible and i must leave.

Jazakallah
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Subject: Songs ,Photos and Dead


Author:
Reda Ayad Mohammed
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Date Posted: 01:56:23 11/26/02 Tue
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AlSalamu Alaikum WaRahmatu ALLAH Wa Barakatuhu,
I hope you will have the pateince on answering my question.
1-What i know about listening to music and songs that it is Haram but i need the (daleel) from Sunna or Quraan and when singing Islamic songs is it allowed to use drums or only music is haram.
2-What is the Daleel from Sunna or Quraan which says photos is Haram and photographers will have big punishment from (ALLAH).
3-Is it Halal or Haram to ask for merci or Rahma from ALLAH on a christian friend who died.
4-In TV in MAKA i see people walking infront of prayers without leaving much space,maybe because of the croud is that considered as an exception.

Getting answers for those question will help me to convince my friends much easier.

Thank's
Salamu ALaikum WaRahmatu ALLAH wa Barakatuhu
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Subject: prayer behind an imam


Author:
brother
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Date Posted: 01:55:11 11/26/02 Tue
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As salaam alaikoem, Is a prayer behind an imam without beard in mosque valid or not? Can this be proved by ahadieth, please. Should i go on, visiting a mosque with imam without beard? He would have more knowledge then me. I did read somewhere that if you see, or hear an imam without beard giving Dawa, that is schould be better to put fingers in ears, meaning not listening to them. How far should i follow this? Can you please give me as much ahadieth you can about beard is fard, so i can send it to the imam in the mosque, hoping he will take the richt path. Wa alaikoem salaam wa rahmatoellah wa barakatoeh
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Subject: land of kafir


Author:
abu bakr
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Date Posted: 05:43:08 11/25/02 Mon
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in a hadith in sunan abu dawood it states that moving from a muslim counrty and living in a kafir country is not alowed even the scholars of saudi arabia agree on this unless to do jihad or dawa purposes my question is why are the muslims in the land of the kafir when this is not allowed and half of them don't do jihad or dawa. i also wanted to ask you shiek badi o shah of cind said it is not permissible to pray behind a person of bida and he said you should pray behind a salafi imam.
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Subject: troubles in muslim home


Author:
Haleema
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Date Posted: 10:39:14 11/25/02 Mon
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ASSALAMAUALAYKUM MUSLIMS
I WANT TO KNOW I ANY ONE CAN HELP ME WITH THIS MY BEST FRIEND IS MUSLIM AND SHE IS FROM EGYPT NOW HER BROTHER WAS MARRIED 2 TIMES AND IN THE 2 TIMES HIS MARRIAGIE FALIED HIS WIVES WASNT GOOD SO HE DIVORECE NOW HIS MOM WANTS HIM TO MARRY AGAIN BUT HE DONT WANT TO MARRY HE WANTS TO DATE THE GIRL BEFORE HE MARRY HER BECASUE OF WHAT HAPPEN TO HIM BEFORE HE KNOWS ITS AGAINST HIS RELGION TO DO SUCH NOW HIS MOM TOLD HIM THAT SHE WISHES HE WOULD DIE IF DONT MARRY A GIRL FROM THERE COUNTRY WHICH IS EGYPT AND HE DONT WANT THAT HE WAS MARRIED BEFORE TO EGYPTIAN GIRL AND SHE SAY ALSO IF HE DONNT MARRY SHE WILL NEVER CLAIM HIM AS HERE SON AND WHEN SHE DIE SHE WILL NOT ADD HIM IN HER WILL NOW HIS SISTER WHICH IS MY BEST FRIEND IS SO UPSET ABOUT THIS SHE WANTS TO KNOW WHAT SHOULD HER BROTHER DO OR IS HER MOM RIGHT FOR SAYIN THIS SHE WANTS TO SAY SOMTHING TO HER MOM BUT SHE IS AFRAID HER MOM WILL TURN AGAINST HER TO PLZ IF ANYONE CAN HELP PLZ E-MAIL ASAP THIS IS CAUSIN A WONDERFUL FAMLIY TO BREAK UP SHOULD HER DATE THIS GIRL THEN MARRY HER OR WHAT I HOPE I DONT COFUSE NO ONE WITH THIS
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Subject: Riba/Intrest/Usury


Author:
Ajam Ebrahim
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Date Posted: 20:37:55 11/24/02 Sun
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Is Riba/Intrest/Usury all the same thing if not what is the difference and is leasing or buying a house on mordgage allowed ?
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Subject: Problem killing a sheep


Author:
brother
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Date Posted: 05:22:38 11/25/02 Mon
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As salaam alaikoem, I eat always meat from halal butchers but is there something wrong with, when a man cannot kill a sheep on the Islamic way? I don't have guts to do it. Knowing that the animal saw me first, is the problem i think. Wa alaikoem salaam wa rahamtoellah wa barakatoeh
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Subject: Hijaab and Niqaab


Author:
Legae
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Date Posted: 20:29:42 11/24/02 Sun
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As Salaam Aleikum

This question is directed at Shaykh Morsy.

My wife wears a full Hijaab (the face cover included). Now the question is: Does the Hijaab have to be black. I know it cannot be brightly coloured and attract attention, however I need a complete daleel on the colour having to be black as opposed to grey, blue or some other colour that does not attract attention.

Allah reward you.
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Subject: shaking hands w/ the opposite gender


Author:
mUsLiMaH
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Date Posted: 22:44:00 11/23/02 Sat
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Assalamu'Alaikum...

I know that shaking hands w/ a non-mahram is prohibited in Islam...but there was a difference of opinions amongst my Muslim club at school. I need to show some of them authentic hadiths that prove that one should not shake hands w/ the opposite gender...Jazzak'Allah Khair.
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Subject: annullment or divorce


Author:
Naeemah Zakiya
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Date Posted: 13:39:26 11/23/02 Sat
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As salaamu alaykum,
I went to the imam at my masjid, but he said my husband has to call, or atleast be present in a 3 way call to undergo counseling. My husband and i where married in June in the prison, by a brother incarcerated, and my wali was a brother in prison also. My husband has started to throw stuff in my face regarding my past (before we where married), and he says things such as, He has to humble me, and take me off the pedestal I'm on, and i dont have the right to speak to him, in a certain way, and i need to just listen and stop being who i am, he says i am western influenced (we are both american). He also says things about me being dishonest, which I have not been with him. He is saying that all our issues are to be blamed on me, when i make sure to make all my prayers, study, and protect myself from any evil deeds or thoughts. I think he wants me to have a different personality, which i dont know that i can change. i want to just annull the marriage,if it is Allahs will because i am starting to doubt myself, as a person. allahu alim

RE:
As salaamu alaykum

What steps do i have to go thru to get my marriage annuled? My husband is in prison, and very verbally abusive, causing me to be depressed.


As salaamu alaykum,

Sister Naeemah
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Subject: The site Shuyoukh


Author:
Legae
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Date Posted: 18:50:53 11/23/02 Sat
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Is it possible for us to have a profile of the shoyoukh on the site detailing where they studied, what schools of thoughts they follow, their qualifications, level of knowledge etc. That way we may be able to follow their advices with comfort.
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Subject: Salat with husband


Author:
Sister
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Date Posted: 03:16:01 11/23/02 Sat
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Asalamualaikum Warahmatullah

When a wife prays with her husband at home where should she stand? Jazakumallah Khair.
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Subject: Arzaq


Author:
Sister
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Date Posted: 11:21:03 11/22/02 Fri
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I have question about Arzaq ( feeding) That Allah says I will feed my servant till the days he days. My cousin is going through a divorce and want to leave the country with her kids without have saved any money . She said she put her trust in Allah and Allah will feed her and the kid, it does not matter from where. She has a strong emaan.

What advice can i give her?

And Allah knows best
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Subject: marriage annulment


Author:
naeemah zakiya
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Date Posted: 06:58:46 11/22/02 Fri
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As salaamu alaykum

What steps do i have to go thru to get my marriage annuled? My husband is in prison, and very verbally abusive, causing me to be depressed.


As salaamu alaykum,

Sister Naeemah
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Subject: IS HARRY POTTER HARAAM, OR OK FOR YOUNG CHILDREN?


Author:
BOBBIE
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Date Posted: 06:32:40 11/22/02 Fri
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AS SALAAMU ALAIKUM TO ALL,

I KNOW HOW MUSLIMS FEEL ABOUT PARTICIPATING IN MAGIC OR WITHCRAFT, BUT IS WATCHING A MOVIE THE SAME. I
HAVE ONLY BEEN MUSLIM FOR ABOUT FIVE AND A HALF MONTHS. I WAS'NT MUSLIM AT THE TIME I TOOK MY KIDS TO SEE THE FIRST HARRY POTTER, AND NOW THEY WOULD LIKE TO SEE THE NEW ONE. MY KIDS ARE 12, 10 AND 4 YEARS OLD AND THEY HAVENT TAKEN SHAHADA YET. CAN YOU EXPLAIN IF IT IS HARAAM OR NOT. AND WHY IF IT IS ONLY A CHILDRENS MAKE BELIEVE MOVIE. SHUKRAN
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Subject: Devil


Author:
Ibrar
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Date Posted: 03:03:09 11/22/02 Fri
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Salam Sister,

Can you explain the hadeeth, that in Ramadhan the devils are locked up. During Ramadhan i started to get satanic whispers, is this me or the devil

Are the devils weak? can you explain how i get whispers?
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Subject: Symbol of islam


Author:
Thalia
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Date Posted: 18:15:15 11/21/02 Thu
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does anyone know what is the name for the symbol of Islam
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Subject: Marriage/Family


Author:
Kelly
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Date Posted: 15:57:55 11/21/02 Thu
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Laila
I have had no relationship with this man, and now that we have grown to like each other, we would like to marry.
I would only convert for my own need and never for a man but only for myslef.
I am upset that his family could stop us marrying, and feel that they need to put him under this pressure.
I thought he would be free to marry anyone he likes and that he makes the choice.
I have never even touched this man, but feel things inside and want to marry him, and am sure he feels the same way.
Also for someone to convert is that no harder than someone born into Islam???
So you would say that this man could never be with me or even marry me?
Please help as i need advice and guidence.
Thanks
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Subject: Mothers right


Author:
Sister
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Date Posted: 08:48:20 11/21/02 Thu
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Salam aleikum

My mother has only daughters and five of them are married. We all live in europe and mummy is alone in our homecountry. Alhamdulilaahi she is healthy and can take care of herself physically but not financially.Her husband died 2 years ago.

My other sisters send money to my mother every month but i can not afford to send her anything and i have her in my mind everytime and feel guilty. I am aware that the Quran speak strongly about the right of parent but What if Allah sees me that i am honest and can not support my mother financially every month.

She is not the kind of person who call and beg for money but i am afraid that she is hurt inside. What should i do. I know i could never pay back for what she did for us. I feel so guilty that i do not call her and the only time i call is when i send money. Life is hard in my country and no one can survive wihtout money.

How can i get rid out of this guilty because Allah see me that i am not neglecting my mother.

Allah knows best.
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Subject: Marriage/Family


Author:
Kelly
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Date Posted: 15:33:59 11/21/02 Thu
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Salam
I have an issue, as i have been seeing an Arabic muslim for nearly a year, and we would now like to be serious and marry. However he thinks his family will push him away due to me being english (ready to convert to Islam)and they will not agree with him marrying me.
Although we care for each other very much, he now feels that he is in the middle of me and his family, i have applied no pressure as i would never ask that of him, and think that his family are v.important to him and me.
I feel sad for him, as his family would feel the need to apply such pressure.
I am also concerned that although he cares i could loose him due to his family views.
I would appreciate your words and advice on this upsetting matter.
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Subject: woedoe


Author:
brother
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Date Posted: 09:08:57 11/21/02 Thu
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as salaam alaikoem, After using toilet, we use paper and water to clean private parts. Is it necessery for a good muslim that he makes woedoe, or may he wait and do it before salat or reading Qor'an? Wa aliakoem salaam
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Subject: covering the face


Author:
brother
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Date Posted: 01:16:27 11/21/02 Thu
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As salaam alaikoem, covering the face for a woman, or the boerka like in Afganistan, is this Islamitic or not?
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Subject: About the wife i'm married to


Author:
Muhammed
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Date Posted: 00:29:05 11/21/02 Thu
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As salaam alaikoem,
I became a muslim in the beginning of this year. I married (Maroc woman)almost 10 years, we've got 2 childeren. My wife does not wear hijaab, now at the beginning of this ramadan she started praying but she's not doing it on the wright ours. She nows Allah (swt) will punish her herefore. She rather watch television or is to lazy to do prayers at wright moments. I try to do my best, but she's says to me that i am like people in the time of the Profet (saws), wich is not true (just no music and almost no television and other little things like beard), i think i have to go a long way, before i can be like one of them. I believe she's thinking that Islam has to go with time.
Allah (swt) did say we have to marry very good believing woman. What about my situation? I don,t like the way that she is an i wich i had a very good believing wife, i make doea to Allah putting her on right path. It would be better and easier to may and for childeren to learn about Islam. Wa alaikoem salaam
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Subject: Menses


Author:
Sandra
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Date Posted: 20:08:29 11/20/02 Wed
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Thank You sister, I did not know about the Hadith of staying away from the masjid while on my menses. I will certainly respect that. I only knew of the one to stay out of the musalla. Again Thank You! This web site is truely a blessing. I have been muslim for a little over2 years and I have never had a close sister community. This web site will certainly help me.
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Subject: women's disharge


Author:
helabi
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Date Posted: 11:03:12 11/20/02 Wed
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assalmu alaycum,
Like many women I get white discharge on a daily basis. This is very common amongst many women that I speak to. Because of this I always redo my wudu before every prayer. Some women say that it is not necessary to do wudu, please could you tell me what is the correct opinion, as I have found it difficult to find a clear answer.
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Subject: divorce


Author:
Sister
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Date Posted: 04:50:29 11/21/02 Thu
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Assalamoalykum

please could you tell me whether it is a sin for a husband to divorce his wife to marry another woman. I know it is not favoured upon but is it a sin.
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Subject: Marriage/Divorce


Author:
Anisa
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Date Posted: 16:01:48 11/20/02 Wed
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Assalamoalaykum

i am a single girl and would like some advice on marriage/divorce.

i want to get married to a married man with 3 kids. i asked him whether he would divorce his wife, he said to me that it is a very big sin islamically for him to divorce his wife and marry me. is this correct? please could you give me as much information as possible.


please could you also tell me how can a woman get a divorce. is it a sin to divorce?

Jazakallah
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Subject: Khilafah


Author:
Aisha
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Date Posted: 11:40:51 11/20/02 Wed
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Asalama Aleikum

My brother recently went to a talk at a local Masjid, the Imam gave a kutbah on the khilafah in which he stated that all muslims should try to work towards re-establishing the Khilafah State and the state will rise again.

My question to you is, is there any truth in what has been said, if so can you supply me with the relevant evidence

Jazakallah
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Subject: zakat / sadaqa


Author:
brother
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Date Posted: 05:31:59 11/20/02 Wed
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as salaam alaikoem, may we give zakat or sadaqa to non-muslims? wa alaikoem salaam
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Subject: Menses


Author:
Sandra
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Date Posted: 20:59:54 11/19/02 Tue
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As salamu Alaikum, I was recently approach by a new (to the community) sister and she asked me why was I sitting outside the Musalla? I told her I was on my menses and I was waiting for salat to finish and the room be turned back into a classroom (just so you understand, we only have one room to worship and part of it, the first half, was in use as the musalla). She told me that menses is not a disease and that I am depriving myself of blessings by not offering salat while I am on my menses. I corrected her by telling her that a woman is impure while on her menses and that we are not allowed to offer at that time. She responded, "Listen sister I have been Muslim for forty years and believe me you can offer when you are menstrating. You just can't do the physical postions." She continued by saying that Allah gave us the mercy of being able to offer mentally while sitting in a chair because many women cramp and endure pain when on their menses." This scard me that she said she had been Muslim for forty years and believed this. Like always I went home and researched the matter and found only documentation to prove what she said was wrong.I read to the sister from Sahih Al-Bukhari " There is no Salat to be offered by a menstrating woman in lieu of the missed salat during her menses (216 summarized version and A menstruating woman should leave observing Saum(210). It was also a statement about menses and the musalla in 218 that the menstrruating woman should keep away from the musalla. I am collecting more books to educate myself on a variety of matters, but the resources I have available say this is wrong. I would greatly appreciate your guidance.
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Subject: looking in the eyes


Author:
AbdarRahmaan
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Date Posted: 09:24:22 11/19/02 Tue
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As salaam alaikoem,
When a man is talking to a woman, ans she 's not his wife.
May he look into her eyes when talking to her (just normal talk, nothing wrong in mind). I'm became moslim this year, that's reason why so much questions. Thanks for all the answers you allready giving me.
wa alikoem salaam.
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Subject: respect


Author:
naeemah zakiya
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Date Posted: 07:40:00 11/19/02 Tue
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As salaamu alaykum,
I live at home with my mother, and my brother who is 31 years old. He does not clean up after himself, and does disrespectful things like eating the meal i made to break fast. He also does not bring money into the household. I am tired of cleaning up after him. Am I direspecting my mother if I do not clean his messes anymore? He, nor my mother are muslim. I am not able to move yet,I am having trouble finding work, which is my ultimate goal,insha Allah.

As salaamu alaykum,
Naeemah
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Subject: about the beard


Author:
AbdarRahmaan
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Date Posted: 09:05:52 11/19/02 Tue
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as salaam alaikoem,
the question is going about the beard. I'm very sorry to ask questions about things who are allready answerd on the site, but i belive this one is new. The hairs on my beard are very dry, and my question, what may i use herefore? Did our Profet Mohammed (saws) used something herefore?
Wa alaikoem salaam wa rahmatoellah wa barakatoeh
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Subject: accepting zakah from a wealthy friend


Author:
Sister
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Date Posted: 07:59:27 11/19/02 Tue
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Salam aleikum

I have a friend who her husband did not want to pray nor make ramadam. He refuse to do it. they have 3 kids. she want to make hijrah with her kid but her husband said that she have to leave her son with him and take the 2 girls otherwise he will make trouble legaly so she will never be able to leave the kufar land to a muslim land. She face this dilemma and she does not want to leave her son behind. But sometime she think it is better to save some of them instead to loose them all in the land of kufar and that her husband will answer before Allah on the Day of judgement for what he is doing.

He is a good father supporting them in everyway but she think it is more important for her that he obey what Allah has ordered us to do, and to fullfill the islamic duty.

Secondly, she has a friend who is wealthy and is offering her financial help for her to make hijrah with the kid.Could she take this money. It is zakah this friend is paying from his money and he has to pay anyway. She need the money for making hijra but she is not sure if she could take it. Could you pls give advice on this matter. Could you respond as soon as possible.

And Allah know best.

Sister
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Subject: seeking forgiveness to parents and elders on the day of 'Eidul fitri


Author:
Said Omar Abdullah
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Date Posted: 06:46:17 11/19/02 Tue
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seeking forgiveness to parents and elders on the day of 'Eidul fitri......is this an Islamic Action or is this bid'a? with daleel plz. very important. Jazaakumullah!

can sheikh Morsy answer this plz? no offence Sis Laila.

PS: can u advice me abt the day of 'Eid... what Rasuulullah SAW recommendS?
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Subject: Appointment of a new Imam


Author:
Brother
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Date Posted: 15:00:43 11/18/02 Mon
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Assalaamu Alaykum
This concerns the appointment of an Imam to replace the existing one in a Masjid. The present one feels he is too old to carryout his duties as Imam. He has been told by the Mufti of the Dar ul Uloom in Trinidad that he must appoint his replacement. However he is not of this view since he feels this would cause more fitnah to what already exist in the jamaat. Some members are clamouring for election by voting since there are persons equally qualified to be appointed as Imam.
But he knows that he should get the Islamic Ruling from Qur'an and Sunnah. Please advise on what is the correct thing to do.
Shukran
Wa alaykum assalaam
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Subject: break the fast


Author:
brother
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Date Posted: 00:37:19 11/19/02 Tue
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As salaam alaikoem, Can you tell me how dit the Rasoel (saws) break his fast. Did he eat or did he the prayer first? Wa alaikoem salaam
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Subject: Music and singing about Allah and the Profet (saws)


Author:
brother
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Date Posted: 02:24:44 11/19/02 Tue
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As salaam alaikoem, Music and singing about Allah (SWT) and Rasoel (saws),is it allowed, or not? Can you tell me are there instruments allowed in Islam? I tought that every singing and instruments except 'daf' is haraam.
Wa alaikoem salaam
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Subject: Riba


Author:
shuaiba
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Date Posted: 04:22:43 11/19/02 Tue
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Asalama Aleikum

I read the transcript of a lecture given on riba and mortgages in which the imam stated that it is permissible to charge a non-muslim interest but not a fellow muslim and it is not permissible to accept, pay or be charged interest in any way, shape or form. The imam did not give any hadiths or use the qur'an to back up what he said so if i were to explain to another sister the sin of taking riba i would need some evidence, could you please supply me with the relevant information.
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Subject: Riba, Intrest


Author:
sister
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Date Posted: 11:01:45 11/18/02 Mon
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Aslamoalaikum,
What is riba (intrest)?

Is the money paid on fixed deposits and the saving certificates riba?

How does a money recieved on a principal amount become riba?

If so what hallal economic alternatesare there?

thanks
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Subject: bleeding but not menstruation


Author:
Sister
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Date Posted: 09:08:33 11/18/02 Mon
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Salam aelikum

I had had my mentruastion in the first week of ramadan and i began fasting after that. Last night i began to bleed again so i could not fast today and i do not know how long it will go on. I use birth piller and i forgot to take them the last two night and it can be the cause. I have also personal problem with my hubi and i do not know if it can be the cause ( worries)

What shall i do? I know i can not pray nor fast in this situation but do i have to do fast these days again.
It will be almost 2 week of ramadan that i miss.

I heard that there is bleeding that is not the normal menstruation but i want to have more information about it.

Salam aleikum

Sister
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Subject: Shi'a names...


Author:
Bu Abdulrazzaq
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Date Posted: 03:41:31 11/18/02 Mon
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Assalamu alaykum brothers and sisters,

I am a sunni brother but I have many shi'a friends who have names like "Abdul Redha, Abdul Rasoul, Abdul Hussain..." I know these names are not allowed to be given to a Muslim who believe that only names we can give to ourselves especially with Abd or slave is only to Allah's names or attributes not to persons. My question is... Can I call my friends' names with their chosen shi'a names? and if I called them with their names, am I sinful to whenever I name them even if it accidently?

Jazakum'Allah khair..
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Subject: Sadaqa-Llah Ul'adiem


Author:
brother
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Date Posted: 03:06:59 11/18/02 Mon
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As salaam alaikoem, After reciting Koran, most of the people say 'Sadaqa-Llah Ul'adhiem'. I read more then ones that it is haram to say. What is your opinion about this?
Wa alaikoem salaam.
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Subject: quran khawani


Author:
amtul
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Date Posted: 23:59:03 11/17/02 Sun
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Asalamoalikum
sir i want to know about the quran khawani and milad sharif we use to hold at our homes. are these practices unislamic? specially when a person dies can we hold quran khawani for that? i feel instead of mourning we should read quran. plz answer in detail along with references from Quran and Hadith.
thanks
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Subject: singing


Author:
sister
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Date Posted: 18:09:54 11/17/02 Sun
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ASSALAMU ALAIKAUM,
Is singing forbidden in ISLAM? And what abt tv, even is it forbidden or can we watch news or any informative programs on it,as it is necessary for now a days
JAZAKALLAH KHAIR!
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Subject: Question


Author:
brother
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Date Posted: 23:18:39 11/17/02 Sun
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As salaam alaikoem, May a woman, who's having her bleeding, give her husband an orgasm by masturbating?
Wa alaikoem salaam
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Subject: Joining feet during congregational salaat


Author:
TedEBear
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Date Posted: 19:49:37 11/16/02 Sat
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Salaamualikum,

I've been searching for hadiths that talk about keeping our feet joined to the person on either side during congregational prayers so as to fill up the gaps, but the hadiths I have found so far talk about having the shoulders touch each other. Are there any hadiths that mention about the feet? JAzakhallah khair.

TedEBear
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Subject: divinity,mysticism


Author:
razia
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Date Posted: 23:49:32 11/16/02 Sat
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ASSALMU ALIAKUM,
i would like to know whether knowledge abt divinity and mysticism can be acquired only if ur mureed of some murshid(scholar), or else it can be even be gained without it,if so then plz do say me how?
ALLAH HAFIZ!
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Subject: love marriages in ISLAM


Author:
sister
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Date Posted: 02:27:38 11/17/02 Sun
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ASSALAMU ALAIKUM,
Sir,i had a question regarding love marriages. are love marriages forbidden in ISLAM. if the boy and the girl never even touched each other but yet they do love each other and want to marry then is it forbidden and wrong according to ISLAM or is it permitted in ISLAM to practise love marriages. most of the indians have the feelings that it is wrong even though they both doesnt have any wrong relationship but just they do love each other and like each other. kindly explain me in brief abt it.
JAZAKALLAH KHAIR!
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Subject: dreams


Author:
brother
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Date Posted: 02:38:42 11/17/02 Sun
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ASSALAMU ALAIKUM,
Sir, what does it symbolizes if a person(lady) sees HUZOOR PAK(SAW) with open eyes in sky and that too many times.
and what does it symbolizes if a person continuously gets the ziyarat of HUZOOR PAK(SAW)....i mean not daily but in a month or so.
And one more thing, plz recommend me some book through which we can have the interpretaion of our dreams.
JAZAKALLAH KHAIR!
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Subject: Last part of the night


Author:
Sister
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Date Posted: 16:19:39 11/16/02 Sat
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salam aleikum

There is a hadeeth saying that Allah descend the last part of the night and we have to ask Allah for everyhting we need. Could you clarify the last part of the night? is it 9 pm to 12 midnight?


Salam aleikum
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Subject: arabic


Author:
naeemah
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Date Posted: 16:09:32 11/15/02 Fri
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As salaamu alaykum,
Is it obligatory upon muslims to learn arabic? Will i be commiting sin if i do not wish to learn any more than what is needed?

as salaamu alaukm,
naeemah
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Subject: Obligations


Author:
Naeemah
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Date Posted: 19:59:26 11/15/02 Fri
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As salaamu alaykum,
My husband had a child before he became muslim, outside of marriage. He is currently incarcerated. He and his sons mother do not have a good relationship. He wants me to find a way to bring his son to visit, and says if i do not he will have someone else, maybe another female bring his son to him. I have never met his sons mother, nor the rest of his family, and cannot find a way to do bring his son to him. Is it my responsibility as his wife to do this? Is he wrong to ask, since this child was created in zina? Will my husband be commiting a sin if his sons mother brings his son and they have a visit, or if he has another women (not family) bring his son to see him? I want to do right by Allah, but am very uncomfertable in this situation.

As salaamu alaykum,
Naeemah
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Subject: Jamat of two people


Author:
Irfan
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Date Posted: 20:25:57 11/15/02 Fri
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Is it obligatory for my father and I to pray in jamat when whe are alone at home or we can pray separately, each in his room? Yazaaka Allahu thayra
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Subject: dont kno what to do..................


Author:
Khan
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Date Posted: 22:18:30 11/15/02 Fri
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Asalamualaikum Wa Rahmatullahi Wa Barakatu

I come from a very confusing family. I was raised in USA all my life. I am 20 years old. I have a little sister who is now 18 that was raised here too.

When we grew up here in usa my sister got mixed up with the wrong group of friends. She was 14 when she started to have a boyfriend. My parents told me to watch her and so I did. I protected her from the guy and tried to avoid him from coming near her. I even talked to my sister in a nice manner, why is she doing this? She would just give me bad looks and blackmale me with false information to my parents that I have done something bad like have a girl friend or something. To this day I never dated, had a girlfriend, touched any girl, etc. My parents actually believed her and started to disbelieve me when I told my parents my sister is dating. They told me that I was the bad guy and I will be sent back to my country if I did anything bad again. However, I never did anything, it was my sister who was giving my parents false lies just to protect herself. So one day, I came across proof of what my sister was doing. I showed all my family members and told them my parents did not believe me and they treated me like the bad person. My parents then stopped talking to me because they said I caused them shame in front of other family members. I was hurt and shocked. They started speaking to me again months afterwerds. Even though they knew what my sister did they still give her more respect then me. I dont get it. I did what they asked me to do and protect my sister, I stayed clean as a Muslim should but yet they still disliked me more. And the strange part is my mom started giving my sister support about her boyfriend. I was shocked and confused, they told me never to hang out with the opposite sex and now I hear this.

Then about a year ago, one of my dad's friends came to visit our home with his two daugthers. I have never met them before. My father and my dad's friend told me to get their email addresses (the daughters). I had a hard time doing that because I was so shy to be infront of them or to talk to them. I had my head down because I could not even look at them. But after my dad constantly telling me I went and got their email addresses. I was not attracted to them at all at the time. So, I started talking to them online, even online I was afraid to talk to them thinking I am doing a major sin. After talking to them, I found out they were very religious and had a lot of knowledge about Islam. I started getting attached to one of them because of that. I talked to her for about 3 hours a day on average everyday since last year. First it was just chat, then I talked to her on phone, then next thing you know I sent her gifts. I dont know what I did was wrong or what, I am really confused. I did not flirt with her, I talked about Islam with her,her knowledge of Islam and desire to learn Islam more, made me like her even more. One day my sister found out how much I talked to her and what I have done. She told my parents of what I did. My parents did not want to speak to me again. They told me to get lost and I was really confused and upset. I dont know what I did. Her mom also knew I talked with her and my parents also knew. But when my sister told everyone in the family they got upset with me. This is the first girl I ever really socialized with, I never ever talked to a girl before like this. I kept clean to everything. My whole family cursed me, they even cursed the girl. The girl told me she did not want to have my family say stuff about her in a bad way. My family did, my sister did. So, i protected that girl by arguing with my sister and my family. I just did not want anyone talking about that girl in a bad way. She did nothing at all and people were making up bad stories about her.
Then all arguing did was get me into more trouble, my family totally ignored me. I really like that girl, I dont know what to do. When she is sad, I am sad. It's really weird. I have never felt this way before. I dont even remember how she looked like a year ago when I saw her, I like her because her knowledge of Islam, her desire to learn Islam, and her personality. I have never even met up with her or anything. Only on the internet and on phone i talked to her. Yet, my younger sister has met up with her boyfriend and everything but my parents were supportive of that. I dont know what I am doing.

I am really confused. How would and could I ever let my parents know if I like a girl. It seems they think whatever i do is wrong. They want to arrange it all for me. I do not want an arranged marraige. I am in a lot of stress and tension, I cant think straight either. What can I do in this situation? I am really really lost....
Please, if you can email me some advice, that would be great. Thank you.

Jazakallah
Asalamualaikum
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Subject: Sickness and Trials


Author:
Huiaar1
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Date Posted: 04:53:11 11/14/02 Thu
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Assallamu allaykum
What is the islamic perspective for one who is encountered with hardship, trials, sickness?

How should the muslim who is in this situation treat hardships/circumstances?

Are these afflictions from God/Shaytan/Self?

Are these afflictions punishment or a form of test/trial?

I would like some clarification please because I have assumed under "doing the best you can to rectify the problem and then trust in Allah eg.If sick, go to the doctor to get help/remedies then trust in Allah"

(I've been told by a few Christians who say it is enough to pray to God and wait for healing... no medical treatment needed or allowed)

Jazakaallah Khayrun
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Subject: advice pls


Author:
Síster
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Date Posted: 16:23:19 11/13/02 Wed
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Salam

I made a promise to my friend but can not fullfill my promise because of the illegal thing she was going to do. She want to help a friend come into the country we live illegaly with my help.

Though that i promised her i regret now because that it could make me in trouble and that i do not want to lie and find excuse. She is waiting for my help and have hope but since i am fasting and fearing Allah, how can I explain to her that i can not do it and that she should find someone else even if it cost our friendship. Pls help

Sister in Islam
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Subject: Idols


Author:
Brother
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Date Posted: 02:54:22 11/13/02 Wed
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Asalamulaikum Warahmatullah

A Hindus used to share our flat and stayed in one bed room. In his room he used to have idols now Alhamdulillah he left from here. So, we want to use that room what should we do? How can we clear the Shirk air he used to have in that room? Is there anything we recite etc? Jazakumallah Khair
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Subject: about the second soezjoed in salat


Author:
Muhammed
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Date Posted: 02:08:11 11/13/02 Wed
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As salaam alaikoem,
I watch different times the video by Muhammed Adly, how to perform the salat. I don't understand something, and it is after the second soezjoed, to sit. At home now, i preforme salat on the same way as on the tape, but in the mosque, nowbody is following this way. I started to be a muslim in the beginning of this year, and i want to do the salat as good as possible. Can you please give me ahadieth about to sit first after the second soezjoed? When i do the praying together with my wife, does she not have to do it that way, because on the tape the shayck is saying 'Allahoe akbar' when he's going to the standing position. (On this way my wife cannot now, when i go to the sitposition)
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Subject: giving hands


Author:
Muhammed
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Date Posted: 04:31:38 11/12/02 Tue
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As salaam alaikoem,

My wife's sister is comming to visit us next week, is it allowed to give her a hand to say 'hello' or not?
Normally sinds i became a muslim i do not shake hand of woman anymore. Except at times when i'm a guest, and a muslimwoman comes to me, and give me her hand to say me hello. I prefere to no do it anymore, what can i do in a situation like this?
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Subject: ill treatment


Author:
huda
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Date Posted: 15:25:41 11/11/02 Mon
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my husband has treated me very badly from the time we got married. we have a son together, and have been separated twice. even now he treats me badly. please tell me if i should stay with him in the hope that he improves or divorce him.
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Subject: Taraweeh salah?


Author:
EL-Amin
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Date Posted: 07:26:06 11/11/02 Mon
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Is Taraweeh Sunna Or Bidaa? If sunna or bidaa, where can I fine informations concerning this. I live in U.S.A. & some of the islaamic country dont do taraweeh salah @ masjid. Some do @ home but not @ masjid's! One of chat rooms said it was Bidaa,(Pal Talk), cause the phrophet(sas) didn't do @ masjid. Plus the question came to me that some do 11 rakas, & some do 20,& after how many do U do salaams ok, now where can I fine the inform..Some say you can fine it @ Bukari Muslim,but where @ to some this maybe something small but i think it's not. PLease help me with this. I will hope you will have time to anwser me..
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Subject: Hadiths


Author:
shuaiba
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Date Posted: 11:27:11 11/11/02 Mon
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Asalama Aleikum, could you please explain what is meant by the following hadiths
Jazakallah

Uqbah bin Amre Al-Ansari narrated that the messenger of Allah said :

p "Among the words people obtained from the First Prophecy are : If you feel no shame, then do as you wish."

p It was related by Bukhari.


On authority of Sufian bin Abdullah, may Allah be pleased with him said:

p I said: "O Messenger of Allah, tell me something about Islam which I can ask of no one but you". He said:" Say:'I believe in Allah', and thereafter be upright."

p related by Muslim.
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Subject: Voice of the women is NOT AWRAH


Author:
ABU ATTAYYEB
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Date Posted: 04:18:19 11/11/02 Mon
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Assalaam Alikom.

Some one asked this question:
Is what is said about a woman’s voice being ‘awrah correct?

And the answer is NO, Voice of the women is not awrah,And here is the Fatwa From Fataawa al-Lajnah al-Daa’imah li’l-Buhooth al-‘Ilmiyyah wa’l-Iftaa, 6/83:
The woman’s voice is not ‘awrah in principle, for women used to complain to the Prophet (peace and blessings of Allaah be upon him), and ask him about Islamic matters. They also did that with the Rightly-Guided Khaleefahs (may Allaah be pleased with them) and the rulers after them. And they would greet non-mahram men with salaams and return greetings, and NONE of the imams of Islam denounced them for that. But it is not permissible for a woman to speak in a soft or alluring voice, because Allaah says (interpretation of the meaning):
“O wives of the Prophet! You are not like any other women. If you keep your duty (to Allaah), then be not soft in speech, lest he in whose heart is a disease (of hypocrisy, or evil desire for adultery) should be moved with desire, but speak in an honourable manner”
[al-Ahzaab 33:32]
because men may be tempted by that, as is indicated by this aayah. And Allaah is the source of strength.
From Fataawa al-Lajnah al-Daa’imah li’l-Buhooth al-‘Ilmiyyah wa’l-Iftaa, 6/83. End of the Fatwa.
Sheikh Qaradawee Said :

The Qur'an, , specifically mentions that those seeking information from the Prophet's wives were to address them from behind a screen (33:53). Since questions require an answer, the Mothers of the Believers offered fatwas to those who asked and narrated hadiths to whomever wished to transmit them. Furthermore, women were accustomed to question the Prophet (SAW) while men were present. Neither were they embarassed to have their voices heard nor did the Prophet prevent their inquires. Even in the case of Omar when he was challenged by a woman during his khutba on the minbar, he did not deny her. Rather, he admitted that she was right and he was wrong and said: "Everybody is more knowledgeable than Omar." Another Qur'anic example of a woman speaking publicly is that the daughter of the Shaykh mentioned in the Qur'an in 28:23. Furthermore, the Qur'an narrates the coversation between Sulayman and the Queen of Sheba as well as between her and her subjects. All of these examples support the fatwa that women are allowed to voice their opinion publicly for whatever has been prescribed to those before us is prescribed to us, unless it was unanimously rejected by Islamic doctrine. Thus, the only prohibition is the female talking softly and flirting in a manner meant to excite and tempt the male. This is expressed in the Qur'an as complacent speech which Allah mentions in 33:32:

"O consorts of the Prophet! Ye are not like any of the other women: If ye do fear Allah, be not too complaisance of speech, lest one in whose heart is a disease should be moved with desire: but speak ye a speech that is just."

What is prohibited then is alluring speech which entices those whose diseased hearts may be moved with desire and that is not to say that all conversation with women is prohibited for Allah completes the verse:

"...but speak ye a speech that is just." (33:32)

Finding excuses to silence women is just one of the injustices certain scholars and imams attempt to inflict upon women. (End).
More details:
Narrated Abu Said: A woman came to Allah's Apostle and said, "O Allah's Apostle! Men (only) benefit by your teachings, so please devote to us from (some of) your time, a day on which we may come to you so that you may teach us of what Allah has taught you." Allah's Apostle said, "Gather on such-and-such a day at such-and-such a place." They gathered and Allah's Apostle came to them and taught them of what Allah had taught him. (Bukhari Volume 9, Book 92, Number 413)
Another famous incident related to the response that a woman gave to Omar in a Mosque in the case of Al-Mahwar. Omar changed his opinion and accepted hers openly saying: "The woman was right and Omar was wrong.". Ibn Kathir mentioned it in the Tafsiir of Surat An-Nisaa2 and said that its isnaad was jayyid.

Women They asked about issues related to their religion that many women today would be embarrassed to ask. Aisha praised the Ansaari women saying that the shyness did not stop them from understanding their religion. They asked about the major ritual impurity, sexual maturity, washing, the period, sexual maturity as well as other such things.
It was not enough for women to attend. They wanted the prophet to themselves and asked him to make one day for them where men would not outnumber them. So the prophet dedicated a day for them and gave them wisdom and commandments

We find that Moses - while he was at the peak of his youth and strength - talking to the two girls, the daughters of the old Sheikh. He asked them questions and they answered without being guilty or embarrassed. He helped them gallantly. One of them goes to him later, sent by her father, to invite him to go with her to her father. Then one of them suggests to her father that he make use of him because of what she saw in him of strength and honesty

Let us read what came in Surat Al-Qasaas (verses 23-26): (And when he arrived at the watering (place) in Madyan, he found there a group of men watering (their flocks), and besides them he found two women who were keeping back (their flocks). He said: "What is the matter with you?" They said: "We cannot water (out flocks) until the shepherds take back (their flocks): and our father is a very old man."

So he watered (their flocks) for them; then he turned back to the shade, and said: "O my Lord! truly am I in (desperate) need of any good that Thou dost send me!"
Afterwards one of the (damsels) came (back) to him, walking bashfully. She said: "My father invites thee that he may reward thee for having watered (our flocks) for us." So when he came to him and narrated the story, he said: "Fear thou not: (well) hast thou escaped from unjust people."

Said one of the (damsels): "O my (dear) father! engage him on wages: truly the best of men for thee to employ is the (man) who is strong and trusty.")
In talking: women should not talk seductively (Al-A7zaab 32) (O Consorts of the Prophet! ye are not like any of the (other) women: if ye do fear (Allah), be not too complaisant of speech, lest one in whose heart is a disease should be moved with desire: but speak ye a speech (that is) just.


From all that mentioned above ,it is clear that THE VOICE OF WOMEN IS NOT AWRAH,And All the Ulamaa of Al Salaf agreed about that.

And ALLAH KNOWS BEST
ABU ATTAYYEB Moustafa Morsy
Subject: Jealousy


Author:
Naeemah Zakiya
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Date Posted: 14:42:50 11/10/02 Sun
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As salaamu alaykum,
I would like to know if the below statemnts are correct, which someone told me regrading jealousy in polygamy, insha Allah:


Jealousy in Islam is haram in any form. Nor is it a natural thing for all women. It is for those women who has failed to accept what Allah has allowed and feel that their husbands should only belong to them. Inspite of what Allah has allowed in the Quran.The term for men having more than one wife in Islam is not polygamy (where either man or woman can have more than one spousal partner at one time) In Islam men can have up to four wives at one time if he can care for them, the term is called Polygyny. However, women can have only one husband at one time. Make no mistakes here. women and men who dislike polygyny, something which Allah allows, I ask the question "Which of
the favors of Your Lord will you deny?" )
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Subject: Jinn


Author:
Muhammad
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Date Posted: 09:11:45 11/10/02 Sun
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Asalamu Alykum, All Praise be to Allah, Can Jinn marry humans?

Jazakullah Khair
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Subject: sexual intercourse


Author:
Anisa
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Date Posted: 06:34:20 11/10/02 Sun
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Assalamoalaykum

i would like to know what is required of a person after they have had sexual intercourse.

does the person have to do ghusal or just wuzoo? i am very new to this and would appreciate as much information as you can give me.

jazakallah
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Subject: Husband leaving his wife


Author:
Sister
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Date Posted: 02:40:23 11/10/02 Sun
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Asalamulaikum Warahmatullah

What is the length of period for a husband to leave his wife? I heard a Hadith which says “ A husband shall not leave his wife for more than six months”. Is this mean without getting in touch with her or being far from her? Please refer the full Hadith. Jazakum Allah Khair
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Subject: Quran teaching


Author:
Jawid
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Date Posted: 00:31:35 11/10/02 Sun
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Assalamu Alaikum,

A friend of mine is very good with the tajweed of the quraan mashaAllah. He would like to teach the quraan to kids at a local community, and just moved down here.

His question was-Since he does not have any other career, and has to make a living here, can he charge money on those he teaches? He is afraid if he does this "He will be selling the quraan." He drives 50 miles to the community, and 50 miles back. So he has lots of expenses. What is a reasonable price he can charge if it is permissionable?
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Subject: Toys


Author:
Muhammad
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Date Posted: 06:43:42 11/09/02 Sat
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Asalamu Alykum, All Praise be to Allah, I wanted to ask you about salah, can we read salah in a place where there are toys which resemble animals?

Jazakullah Khair
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Subject: Fasting Niya


Author:
Sister
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Date Posted: 01:48:46 11/09/02 Sat
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Asalamualaikum Warahmatullah

Should we make Niya every night before Fajr for the next fasting day in Ramadan? Jazakumalla Khair.
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Subject: Surah 2:241


Author:
Hanif
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Date Posted: 12:52:09 11/08/02 Fri
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My wife is a christian and we are seperated going through a divorce.I am the one who has asked for the divorce do to her wanting to make our children kafir and just not getting along.Am I required to pay her maintenance as surah 2:241 says or does this apply to me.
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Subject: nursing mothers fast


Author:
Aasiyah
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Date Posted: 15:59:57 11/08/02 Fri
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salaam

i have a 7 month old daughter mashaalah. I want to know if it is obligatory upon me to observe fasts.

jazakallah be khairun.
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Subject: Ramadan


Author:
Sameena
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Date Posted: 17:08:06 11/08/02 Fri
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Assalamu alaikum

I am a new shahada I wanted to know can I fast even though I am not making salah correctly? By me just begining what will happen? Do I make this up?


Salaam
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Subject: etiquette


Author:
Naeemah
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Date Posted: 14:07:18 11/08/02 Fri
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As salaamu alaykum,

Is it rude for one muslim to say to another that they should "stop thinking", and that they should just "hear and obey" regarding our religion. Also saying that there feelings dont mean anything?

As salaamu alaykum,
Naeemah
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Subject: Beef - halal or makrooh


Author:
Abdullah
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Date Posted: 07:20:02 11/08/02 Fri
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Assalamu alaikum
Is beef halal for us to eat or is there any evidence to say that it is makrooh?

JazakAllahu khair
Abdullah
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Subject: Prayer of the Traveler


Author:
ummi
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Date Posted: 08:01:06 11/08/02 Fri
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Assalaamu Alaykum

does a brother who has 2 wives who lives in two different cities, shorten his salah whenever he goes see any of the two wives since he doesn't really has a permanent residence because he spends nights in one city and the other.
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Subject: Classes


Author:
ummi
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Date Posted: 05:41:21 11/08/02 Fri
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Assalaamu Alaykum

Thanks on the username and password info, but I don't see anywhere on the website where I can enter into the classes...Do I got into the voice chat lobby? Or is it a separate website all together for the classes? JazakAllahu Khairn
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Subject: Istiwaa


Author:
ummi
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Date Posted: 05:54:30 11/08/02 Fri
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Assalaamu Alaykum

In the Quran Allah saids he rose above the throne....Some scholars say we just affirm what has been said and leave it at that, some say it means he established himself on the throne, or it shows his power and status, and some say he rose above the throne bithatihi(sp?). So when someone says "where is Allah" I hear "Allah is above the throne" I hear Allah exists without a place" I hear "Allah is as he was". Some people use as a proof that Allah is in the sky the hadithu jariyah, which I heard was a mudtarib hadith. Of course we know that Allah existed in nothingness before the creation and he did not take on any new attributes once he created the creation, which basically says that Allah is as he was....can u explain a bit more.

JazakAllahu Khairn
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Subject: Yadullah


Author:
ummi
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Date Posted: 05:48:10 11/08/02 Fri
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Assalaamu Alaykum

I know that Allah is attributed with a yad. From what I have been told is that it's ok to say Allah is attributed with a yad bi laa kaif, instead of trying to explain what yad means when it comes to Allah, Since we know that yad has many different definitions in order to be on the safe side we should just say "Allah is attributed with a yad, bi laa kaif" Now I have been told that some scholars said it's ok to say that, some scholars say it means power and some scholars say that it means hand. Allahu Alim

So do we say that Allah has body parts when Allah says in the Quran "laysa kamithlihi Shay" So in other words was yad and the likes explained by any of the sahaba as meaning that Allah has a hand, eye, shin, face. etc. etc.

JazakAllahu Khairn

p.s. sorry if this sounds redundant, didn't quite know how to word my question.
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Subject: sect


Author:
malika
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Date Posted: 14:56:29 11/07/02 Thu
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Assalaamualaikum,

I embrace your website and it's teachings. Thank you.

My question is what kind of muslimah am I? (i.e.Sunni)
As I am not married, I want to get married soon Inshallah. Then when I am married will it change? (i.e.type of muslimah)

My intended wants to take shahada and get married all in same day, is this allowable...and is it lawful to marry in the month of Ramadan?

We want to be right muslims. Thank you

Alhamdulillah
Sister Malika
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Subject: Reasons for divorce


Author:
Naeemah zakiya
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Date Posted: 16:03:57 11/07/02 Thu
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As salaamu alaykum,

RE:Who told you that a woman can just divorce a man for no reason at any time??? Tell whoever told you this to either show their evidence from Quran or Sunnah or avoid speaking about this deen without knowledge...


This is the proof i was given:Volumn 007, Book 063, Hadith Number 197.
Narated By Ibn 'Abbas : The wife of Thabit bin Qais came to the Prophet and said, "O Allah's Apostle! I do not blame Thabit for defects in his character or his religion, but I, being a Muslim, dislike to behave in un-Islamic manner (if I remain with him)." On that Allah's Apostle said (to her), "Will you give back the garden which your husband has given you (as Mahr)?" She said, "Yes." Then the Prophet said to Thabit, "O Thabit! Accept your garden, and divorce her once."
and
Volumn 007, Book 063, Hadith Number 199.
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Narated By Ibn 'Abbas : The wife of Thabit bin Qais bin Shammas came to the Prophet and said, "O Allah's Apostle! I do not blame Thabit for any defects in his character or his religion, but I am afraid that I (being a Muslim) may become unthankful for Allah's Blessings." On that, Allah's Apostle said (to her), 'Will you return his garden to him?" She said, "Yes." So she returned his garden to him and the Prophet told him to divorce her.

The above two hadiths show that the women could divorce her husband, for no reason. If I read correctly that is what I have been explained and read.

As salaamu alaykum,
Naeemah
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Subject: Khula


Author:
ummi
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Date Posted: 13:21:22 11/07/02 Thu
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Assalaamu Alaykum

I know that once u get a khula u must wait one menstrual cycle before remarrying again...but in the case of waiting to remarry your husband, what if u find out that u are pregnant, can he just remarry you after finding out your pregnant or does he need to wait until the baby is born to remarry you...JazakAllahu Khairn
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Subject: divorce


Author:
naeemah zakiya
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Date Posted: 13:05:20 11/07/02 Thu
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As salaamu alaykum,
My question wasnt about stipulations, I am familiar with that. What I was asking is why should a women have to do that when she can ask for a divorce for no reason, and just has to give the mahr back? The stipulation isnt saying that a man cannot do it, it is saying that if he does than the wife can leave.In the same way that a man can just divorce his wife for no reason. But she can leave at any time. So, what I am saying is, what is the point of stipulating this, if a women can just leave anyway if she doesnt want this?

As salaamu alaykum,
Naeemah
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Subject: Divorce


Author:
naeemah zakiya
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Date Posted: 10:50:08 11/07/02 Thu
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As salaamu alaykum,
I want to know what is the reason that a muslim women has to put a stipulation in the marriage contract regarding Polygamy (meaning she does not want it),if a women can divorce a man for no reason, and just give the mahr back? I know that it is the most hated of permissable things, but why does a sister have to write it out when a man can just marry again, it is his right? Does a sister get more, if she stipulates this? I know there is no such thing as alimony, a man just takes care of his kids. I pray I have asked this question clearly.

As salaamu alaykum
Naeemah
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Subject: New Muslim


Author:
Sameena
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Date Posted: 08:28:10 11/07/02 Thu
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I am currently in a realtionship with a non-muslim. I have been giving him books so he can also become muslim. What are some good books for him so he can get a better understanding in Islam? I have been in my realtionship for five years and would like to stay in it. What if he doesn't want to become muslim? What am I to do.
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Subject: Wake Up


Author:
naeemahzakiya@aol.com
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Date Posted: 08:43:06 11/07/02 Thu
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As salaamu alaykum wa rahmatullahi wa barakatu,

If my alarm clock does not wake me up for Fajr,can I make it up as soon as I wake up? Within the context of Ramadhan, If the above happens, am I still capable of fasting that day that I woke up late? I made the intention before sleeping to wake up before imsak, and to fast that day.


As salaamu alaykum wa rahmatullahi wa barakatu
Naeemah Zakiya
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Subject: Few Questions


Author:
Faizah
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Date Posted: 22:37:25 11/06/02 Wed
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ASSALAM-O-ALAIKUM

1)Is it halal to eat farm raised fish fed on meat(beef/pork)?

2)Are eggs halal from hen raised on commercial feed(feed contains feather,skin remnants,bones etc)?

3)If only husband and wife are praying,is it ok for them to offer salat in jamat or should they pray separately?

Jazakallah khairan.
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Subject: time of fasting


Author:
Farooq
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Date Posted: 20:35:47 11/05/02 Tue
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salaam! (1) an ayaha mubarka abt Fasting(wa aati mu siyyam illal lail.....)where is its location in Quraan.
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Subject: Wife converting to Islam


Author:
Dan
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Date Posted: 09:48:20 11/06/02 Wed
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My wife is considering converting to Islam. I am Christian. Does Islam require her to divorce me. I hope my ignorance does not offend anyone.

Sincere thanks,
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Subject: RAMADAN MUBARAK


Author:
HASNA`
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Date Posted: 09:54:15 11/06/02 Wed
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AS SALAAMU ALAIKUM WA RAHMANTUALLAHE WA BARAKATAHU I NEED PROOF THAT THE SAYIN OF RAMADAN MUBARAK IS UPON THE SUNNAH OR NOT? N IF SO DID THE PROPHET SAWS DID SUCH ? N IF HE DIDNT DID HE APPROVE OF HIS COMPANIONS TO DO SUCH?I HEAR THAT THIS IS BIDAH BUT LAST NIGHT N CLAS I HEAR THAT THE PROPHET SAWS DID SUCH I WOULD LIKE THE DALEEL ON THIS IF IS IS UPON THE SUNNAH N IF IT IS NOT SO THAT I COULD TELL OTHERS INSHALLAH ALSO IF IT IS NOT UPON THE SUNNAH MAY ALLAH FORGIVE THOSE WHO FOLLOW THEIR DESIRES N DOING SUCH BIDAH AMEEN MAY ALLAH FORGIVE US FOR OUR SINS N ACCEPT OUR FASTING N KEEP US FAR AWAY FROM THE MAJOR SINS N FORGIVE US FOR OUR MINOR SINS AMEEN JAZZAK ALLAH KHARIN
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Subject: Fasting


Author:
Amjad Asker
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Date Posted: 17:50:42 11/05/02 Tue
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assalam alaikum wa rahmit Allahi wa barakatu

I have a question about fasting. My aunt had a miscarriage about two weeks ago. I would like to know if she would be able to fast because the Blessed month of Ramadan is here. Also, is she able to pray.

Jazak Allah khairun
assalam alaikum
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Subject: Juz


Author:
Naeemah Zakiya
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Date Posted: 07:24:45 11/05/02 Tue
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As salaamu Alaykum,
How much of the Quran is 1/30th juz? How much is a Juz, I would like a detailed answer.



As salaamu alaykum,
Naeemah Zakiya
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Subject: a funeral for the non-Muslim parents?


Author:
Moustafa Morsy
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Date Posted: 21:30:45 11/04/02 Mon
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Assalaam Alikom

I was asked this question:
Is it permissible to attend a funeral for the non-Muslim parents?
And the following is the answer :Praise be to Allaah.
It is permissible for a Muslim to attend a kaafir’s funeral if the kaafir is a relative, such as a mother, father, brother or other relative, but it is not permissible to join in the prayers or any other rites of their religion.
Zakariya al-Ansaari (may Allaah have mercy on him) said: “He may (i.e., it is allowed for the Muslim and is not makrooh) attend the funeral of a kaafir relative, because of the report narrated by Abu Dawood from ‘Ali who said, ‘When Abu Taalib died, I came to the Messenger of Allaah (peace and blessings of Allaah be upon him) and said, ‘Your uncle, the misguided old man, has died.’ He said, ‘Go and bury him.’” (Reported by al-Nisaa'i, 190). Al-Adhraa’i said: “It is possible that this includes permission to attend the funeral of a wife or slave…”
As for visiting graves, in al-Majmoo’ it says: “The correct view is that this is permissible, and most scholars said this, because of the hadeeth narrated by Muslim in which the Prophet (peace and blessings of Allaah be upon him) said: ‘I asked my Lord for permission to ask for forgiveness for my mother, and He did not give me permission; I asked Him for permission to visit her grave, and He gave me permission.’ It was reported that he also said: “Visit the graves, for they remind you of death.” (Asnaa al-Mataalib Sharh Rawd al-Taalib, part 1, Fasl: Mashiy al-Mashee’ li’l-Janaazah).
This is the funeral does not involve doing anything haraam, such as listening to musical instruments and so on; in that case attending the funeral is haraam.
And Allaah knows best.

Shk Salih Al Monajid.
Subject: Student of Knowledge


Author:
ummi
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Date Posted: 21:53:54 11/03/02 Sun
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Assalaamu Alaykum

I want to know how do one become a student of knowledge, and what's the best most efficient way of studying. I want to become a student of knowledge, but don't know the first steps that needs to be taken in order to do so....JazakAllahu Khair in advance
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Subject: musterbation


Author:
sajida sawalhi
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Date Posted: 15:41:57 11/03/02 Sun
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Asallam allekom.My Question is .Is it harram for a man whose married to do the musterbation and even hes not married and after he does that can he prayer with out taking a shouer?
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Subject: Istikirah salat


Author:
Sister
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Date Posted: 09:28:13 11/03/02 Sun
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Salam aleikum

How do we have to read the du'a of istikirah prayer, i usually read after the second sujud before the taslim. As i can not arabic can i read in english and reading it from a book. How many times a day can we made istikirah prayer?

I want to make hijrah but my husband does not allow it (we live in Europe). I certain want to give up making the guidance prayer as it is almost 3 years now i want to make hijrah and it seems that is is getting nowhere(Istarfiralaah) , may be i am so desperate that sheytan is whispering in my ears and making my eeman weak.

Pls advice
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Subject: Words to Naats (praising of the Prophet)


Author:
Muslim sister
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Date Posted: 05:03:52 11/03/02 Sun
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Assalaamualikum respected scholars: Where can i find the words to naats, as i love to listen to beautiful naats but often i cannot make out the words. Is there a site where i can find the words to naats (in Urdu)? So that rather than the words of popular songs, i can 'sing' the words that praise the Prophet Muhammad (peace and Blessings be Upon Him).

jzakallah khiar
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Subject: WUDU


Author:
LLOYD BILAL
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Date Posted: 00:39:04 11/03/02 Sun
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WUDU STATIONS SUCH NOT BE IN THE SAME ROOM AS THE TOITLETS?
IF THIS IS SO, AND YOU WISH TO MAKE PRAYER AT WORK HOW DO YOU MAKE WUDU THEN? DO YOU USE CLEAN SAND? WHAT IS CLEAN SAND AT A WORK PLACE. HOW DO YOU USE CLEAN SAND?
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Subject: Khulah


Author:
ummi
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Date Posted: 16:19:11 11/02/02 Sat
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Assalaamu Alaykum

thanks for answering part of my question on a khulah....but I also wanted to know about the iddah...I heard it was for 30 days and then I heard it was one menstrual cycle. Are both opinions correct, and what is the daleel.

JazakAllahu Khair
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Subject: Khulah


Author:
Ummi
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Date Posted: 14:38:21 11/02/02 Sat
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Assalaamu Alaykum

I want to know if u ask for a khulah and it's granted, could you take that statement back. could he take u back or do you have to wait until your iddah is up. I heard that the iddah is 30 days, and I also heard it's one menstrual cycle. Also once your iddah is up do u have to do a new nikkah, or do he simply just take u back as his wife. Are u still his wife while in iddah or not, and does he have to leave the home immediately? Jazakallahu khair
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Subject: Leaving debating and arguing


Author:
Ibrar
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Date Posted: 10:19:47 11/02/02 Sat
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Salam sister laila,

Thank you for your previous answer to my question. Insh'allah i will buy a computer in the future and will learn from you scholers. At the moment i haven't got a computer. i use the net cafe.

My question to you this time is, can you also expound and explain when the Prophet said in a hadeeth:

The one that leave's debating and arguing....... i guarenty him paradise.

Can you expound and explain

Salam Ibrar
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Subject: I forgot to ask


Author:
Muhammad
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Date Posted: 06:19:18 11/02/02 Sat
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Asalamu Alykum, All Praise be to Allah.

Shaykh Muhammad ibn Ibraaheem wrote in his Fatawa: volume 12 page 280 that ; "Tawheed is comprised of four Anwa'aa (matters) which are Tawheed ar Rubobiyyah, Tawheed al Uloohiyyah, Tawheed al Asma wa Siffat, and Tawheed al Hakimiyyah.

My Arabic is not good, this is why i wanted to know what Hakimiyyah is.

Thanks anyway.
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Subject: Speaking with-out knoweledge and Tape recordings


Author:
Ibrar
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Date Posted: 00:38:35 11/01/02 Fri
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Salam Sister Laila,

Can you expound on the meaning "speaking with-out knowledge" and how we muslims alot of times fall into this matter.
And also, is it possible that, the tape recording that you scholers do. Can i order these because i live abroad in the United Kingdum (U.K) in Birmingham. I find i the tapes the scholers do at this web-site very educational and how strong they are in the deen.

If i give my address is it possible that you can post them?

Salam Ibrar
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Subject: THEY SAY THEY FOLLOW QURAN AND SUNNAH CONTINUED


Author:
Aminata
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Date Posted: 20:56:27 10/31/02 Thu
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Asalamu alaikum

I forgot something to add to my post. The shaykh of this community says that his shaykh from Pakistan said that his wudu was good for 40 years and he never slept for 50 years.


your sister in Islam,

Aminata
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Subject: THOSE WHO DON'T FOLLOW QURAN AND SUNNA


Author:
Aminata
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Date Posted: 20:34:48 10/31/02 Thu
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Asalamu alaikum

I live in a Muslim community that when I found out how they were, I had to stay to myself. And my husband stays to hisself as well, save him going to juma'a.

These people who call themselves Muslim in my community say they follow quran and sunna. But when my husband and I were amongst them, they revealed their true selves. They quote false hadiths, hadiths that cannot be traced back to anyone authentic from the sahaba, blessings be upon them, they fast and celebrate the 15th of Shaban, they make 100 rakats and recite surah Iklas dozens of times for Rajab, they say for each day of Rajab is this many more blessings, 1000 one day, 3000 another, a reward that I've never heard of for each day, they celebrate the rasool's birthday, they read out of a dhikr book that has no sound chain, that says you'll be promised paradise for this dhikr and for that, and they basically have these tails concerning the rasool, pbuh, that don't even exist.

I didn't know all of this until I came to your site, and saw how and the things they did, didn't add up to the quran and sunna. My question to you is, should my husband continue making juma'a at their masjid, or should he go elsewhere? And is it wajib, fard upon my husband not to set foot anymore in there masjid?

your sister in Islam,

Aminata
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Subject: Prophet Muhammed (PBUH)


Author:
Khaled Abdulraouf
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Date Posted: 07:50:49 10/31/02 Thu
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Assalamu Alaikum,
I have recently been given a cd of Anaasheed and one of them states about Prophet Muhammed (pbuh) as being the son of Adnan where i know he is the son of Abdullah. can anyone shed some light?
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Subject: to fold or not to fold hands after rukoo in salah and standing up to the next rekaah


Author:
Abdullah
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Date Posted: 03:56:31 10/31/02 Thu
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I have two questions for our sister Laila about Salah. First is it sunah to fold hands after rukoo or to let them hang by the sides? I ask this becase I cannot find any hadith that says to put hands by sides of the body in the prayer.
And also I have to ask how to support when standing up to the next rekaah after sujood. To support on the ground (I've found sahih hadith about this opinion) or to support on your knees as Sheikh Bin Baz said in his article about prayer.
Jezaake Allahu Hayra.
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Subject: Women let in paradise before men


Author:
Zakiya
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Date Posted: 14:17:58 10/29/02 Tue
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As salaamu alaykum
A woman who sends her husband out in the path of Allah and she abides by the etiquettes, then that woman will go to heaven 500 years before the man.

7000 Angels will walk holding her dress.
She will be the leader of all Damsels (Hoors) in Jannah.
She will be bathed in Jannah.
She will be sitting on a horse made of pearls waiting to greet her husband.

I cannot find the proof for this. Is this true,insha Allah?

As salaamu alaykum
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Subject: About Jinn


Author:
Karima
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Date Posted: 04:36:06 10/29/02 Tue
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As salaam alaikoem, Is it possible that a jinn visiting somebody at night and pulls somebody out of the bed, and what is the meaning of this?
It seems to be something regular that it happens with a woman i know. What can she do when it is happening?
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Subject: ATHA-HIYAT PROCEDURE


Author:
MOHAMED ALI
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Date Posted: 11:01:29 10/28/02 Mon
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Assalamu alaikum(warah)

I want to know the exact atha-hiyath procedure.Some raise their finger only once, some signal throught as though calling somebody.I heard a hadith whereby Messenger of Allah(pbuh)asks us to show a signal(ishara)asthough calling somebody.I dont know whether i should signal throught as though calling somebody or only once , if once when . Pls reply

JAZAK ALLAH KHAIR
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Subject: questions


Author:
imad
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Date Posted: 14:51:08 10/28/02 Mon
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salam,
i was wondering, when you are reading namaz and when you go down and start reading (translation, i witness there is one god and one god only) and we place put one finger up, do we put the finger up because we are saying there is one god and one god only or somebody told me we put it up because it is to shun the shaitan away...which is correct?

also, in terms of marriage, what should one do if the parents of the girl do not wish for the girl to get married to somebody she loves, even though he is very good and religious person and is a good influence on her? but is not extremely wealthy or his parents are no longer together?

what should one do if they are in strong in their beliefs of islam and other people around them like family, are not? even though they might try to preach to them bu the others do not want to hear?

thank you
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Subject: mahr


Author:
fatima
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Date Posted: 06:44:11 10/28/02 Mon
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assalam alaikum
I need some informations about mahr.why groom pay mahr to bride.
1-i know that mahr is neccecary for nikah.but is it only a written agreement.actually some one was telling me that if there is a cndition in which a bride asks for her mahr before nikah then it is the duty of groom to pay it right away otherwise it is not necessary to pay it at once after taking the bride home and having sex with her and even in thier futher lives.

2-Is this mahr ,the what husband gave to her wife,is it the property of wife or she must share it with her husband.the person who was telling me above question he told me that home is for both man and woman so it should be use in home for their better future and wife should not become angree if husband does not pay her mahr.so can you plz explain it with hadiths.

3-this question is not for mahr it is for pokket money (certain amount of money that is given every month).Is poket money is the right of woman.husband should give her wife some money that she wants to expand by her own way or not.if she wants to do sadaqa or other good deeds and husband do't give her money what should she do.

kindly explain my questions Allah will reward you.
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Subject: gave worshipping


Author:
farooq
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Date Posted: 06:57:13 10/28/02 Mon
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i wanted to ask why are people going to the grave yard and asking dead people for help and this is happening in pakistan. and also i wanted to say that doing milad al aiis a bida and why are people doing it then. please could you get me quranic and haith verses to back what i said.
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Subject: Reciting quran before moving to a new place


Author:
Kareema
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Date Posted: 16:48:25 10/27/02 Sun
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As salaamu alaikum

I'm moving to a new apartment soon and was told it is sunnah to recite suratul Baqarah before moving in to get out any jinns that could be residing there. I personally dont know suratul Baqarah nor do I know anyone that knows it. Is it suffient if I play a recording of the surah? Also is there a specific procedure that must be done when doing so? BarakAllah feek.

wa salaam alaikum
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Subject: shaban


Author:
fatima
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Date Posted: 04:40:22 10/28/02 Mon
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assalam alaikum
I have two questions about month of shaban.

1-is there any spacial worship on 15th of shaban?if there is plz explain it.

2-Fastning during the last three days of month of shaban.is it allow to fast on these 3 days?
thankyou.
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Subject: Misc Questions


Author:
kdsalk
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Date Posted: 14:25:05 10/26/02 Sat
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Does a mother who breastfeeds have to feed one person each day or can she feed 30 people in one day? Also if she can not afford to pay feeding, can her husband do?

If there were 4 days left to fast from the previous Ramadan, and the sister is breastfeeding this Ramadan, what should she do?

If a person makes ghusl, is that sufficient enough to pray with or does he/she have to specifically make wudu afterwords?
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Subject: I WOULD LIKE TO GET MARRIED,VERY SOON.


Author:
BOBBIE
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Date Posted: 18:23:58 10/25/02 Fri
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AS SALAAMU ALAIKUM,
I AM A NEW SHAHADA(5 MONTHS NOW)AND I HAVE BEEN PRAYING FOR A GOOD MUSLIM HUSBAND FOR A LONG TIME NOW, WHENEVER I MAKE DUA, I ASK FOR A GOOD MUSLIM HUSBAND. FOR EVERYONE ELSE IT SEEMS SO EASY,TO FIND A SPOUSE. IT SEEMS LIKE EVERYONE AT MY MASJID IS ALLREADY MARRIED. I WAS INVOLVED WITH A MUSLIM MAN WHO SAID THAT HE WANTED A MUSLIM WIFE(HE ALLREADY HAS A CHRISTIAN OF 5 YEARS) ALLTHOUGH I UNDERSTAND THE REASONS FOR POLIGYNY AND WAS WILLING TO BE A CO WIFE, HE NEVER TOLD THE WIFE ABOUT US OR HIS WANTING A SECOND WIFE. HE KEPT TELLING ME BE PATIENT, I WILL TELL HER WHEN THE TIME IS RIGHT. I KEPT WAITING AND WAITING,BUT HE NEVER TOLD HER. I WANT TO GET MARRIED, I FEEL LONELY WHEN I GO TO THE ISLAMIC FUNCTIONS, I WANT TO SHARE MY LIFE AND ISLAM WITH A SPOUSE. WHAT CAN I DO TO REALLY GET THE BALL ROLLING?
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Subject: Biz profit


Author:
Muslimah
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Date Posted: 07:21:28 10/25/02 Fri
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Asalamulaikum Warahmatullah


May all praise be to Allah(Swt).

When I import a product from another country which is not available where I live, How much is the profit I should make on this product? Can I make any profit I want?

Jazakumallah Khair
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Subject: cupping


Author:
AbdarRahmaan
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Date Posted: 06:25:37 10/25/02 Fri
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As salaam alaikoem,
can you give me an explenation of the word cupping please (hijaamah)
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Subject: Sahih?


Author:
Muhammad
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Date Posted: 07:09:04 10/24/02 Thu
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Asalamu Alykum, All Praise be to Allah. I wanted to know if this hadith is sahih [Authentic] or not.

The Prophet said 'I am the city of Knowledge and Ali is the gate to this city of knowledge'

Al-Hakim 3/126, Jama as-Saghir 2705 and others.

Please could you find out if its authentic, Jazakullah Khair
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Subject: Salat


Author:
Mohammed
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Date Posted: 02:12:01 10/24/02 Thu
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As salaam alaikoem, Do we have to say complete Soerah's in salat or is a part of it enough, and if yes, how much aya's should it have?
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Subject: What effect does music and tv have on a muslim struggling to be a good muslim


Author:
Anonymous
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Date Posted: 21:42:00 10/23/02 Wed
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I would like indebt information on the effects that music has on the {spirit, mind, body, dua, soul,prayer etc..}. I would also like to know if the eye sees something bad for example: TV, romance on soap operas,people on the streets doing something that should be done in private {Kissing}, what effects does that have as well. Please if there is any indebt information that I can get it would be greatly appreciated. If the information is too much to put on the question board please send it in the form of email.
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Subject: Ramadan


Author:
Mohammed
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Date Posted: 04:04:51 10/24/02 Thu
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As salaam alaikoem, Ramadan, a person who is sick, does not have to do the ramadan. Are there ahadieth who tells us how hard sick one shout be that he's not having to do Ramadan. Is for example a normal cold enough?
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Subject: Ramadan


Author:
AbdarRahmaan
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Date Posted: 04:16:26 10/24/02 Thu
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As salaam alaikoem, At person who's got the intension to travel, may start at home breaking his fast. What is the meaning in this situation? Is it that he's leaving his town, and is there a difference between a small and a large town, or how many kilometers does he shout travel?
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Subject: ABOUT YASIN


Author:
NAZZO
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Date Posted: 11:20:48 10/23/02 Wed
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SALAM.I HAVE A QUESTIONI WOULD LIKE TO KNOW SOMETHING.OK ALMOST A YEAR AGO MY READ I THINK IT WAS 7 OR MAYBE MORE AND SHE SAID THAT SHE ASKED ALLAH THAT SHE IS READING THIS B/C (THEY SAY IF HAVE A HAJAT JUST READ YASIN 7 OR AS MUCH TIMES AS POSSIBL SO SHE DID)..BUT SHE ASKED ALLAH IF HE CAN OPEN HER KISMAT ....IN OTRHER WORDS MARRIAGE.AND AFTER A FEW DAYS AFTER SHE READ THE YASIN SHE SAID THAT SHE MEET SOMEONE...BUT SHE DIDNT KNOW HIM AT FIRST BUT THEY BOTH FEEL IN LOVE WITH EACH OTHER BUT THEY WERE AJANABEES B/4.SHE WANTS TO KNOW IF THIS IS THE GUY HER KISMAT IS WITH OR A SIGN THAT IT IS HIM OR SOMETHING...

THANK YOU...

SALAM ....
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Subject: YASIN


Author:
MEDINA
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Date Posted: 11:32:08 10/23/02 Wed
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SALAM.I HAVE A QUESTION.I AHEV A QUESTION ABOUT YASIN.MY FRIEND READ YASIN ALMOST A YR OR SOMETHING LIKE THAT AND(THEY SAID WHAT EVER HAJAT YOU HAVE ALLAH WILL COMPLETE IT IF YOU READ 7 OR POSSIBLY MORE)SHE RAED YASIN 7 TIMES OR WAS IT MORE AND HER HAJAT WAS MARRIAGE....SHE WANTED TO GET MARRIED ALREADY....SO SHE DID BUT AFTER A FEW DAYS WEN SHE READ IT SHE MEET SOMEONE SHE NEVER KNEW.SAW.AND TALKED TO.BUT THEY BEACME LOVERS.NOW SHE WANT S TO KNOW IF THIS A SIGHT FROM ALLAH THAT THIS IS THE ONE OR SOEMTHING....PLZ

SALAM
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Subject: 2 questions


Author:
naeemahzakiya
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Date Posted: 10:16:11 10/23/02 Wed
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As salaamu alaykum,
My questions where deleted.

I am looking for a hadith regarding not blowing on food. I am not sure if it is just liquid or food, but i cannot find hadith.

also, I read a hadith stating that women would be permitted into paradise before men, and that they would be prepared for men. Is this true? Partly, or in whole?

As salaamu alaykum,
Naeemah
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Subject: Oral Sex


Author:
Abdul Malik Muhammad
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Date Posted: 23:06:19 10/22/02 Tue
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As Salaamu 3laykum,
Aight I want to know is oral sex Halal or Haram with you mate if you married some say this is Halal others say this is Haram Inshallah can you help me out on this??
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