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Date Posted: 10:45:49 05/26/16 Thu
Author: Still Wondering (It's up to you)
Subject: Re: Can we stay friends
In reply to: Ashley 's message, "Can we stay friends" on 15:12:10 05/25/16 Wed

How do YOU feel? As long as you're doing this for the right reasons I think remaining friends is fine. If you're doing it because you're still head over heels in love and you are trying to find a way to keep the closeness then no, that's not a good idea. If the passion has worn off and at this point you were really just more like best friends that that's one thing. But if a) he's pressuring you to stick around for support or b)you're still hoping against all hope that you can change him or that he will come back then all you will be doing is torturing yourself.

So - ask yourself the questions above and figure out what you want and why you want it. I agree with the other poster who said to talk to a friend too. You need support, this is your break up too. You control your own future here. It sounds like you weren't married and so maybe you're still very young and haven't wasted too much time on him. If so, that's great! Take time to heal and then move on - xoxo

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  • Re: Can we stay friends -- Susan, 12:09:29 05/26/16 Thu
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