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Date Posted: 19:12:51 05/27/16 Fri
Author: Susan (Hang in there)
Subject: Re: A familiar pattern
In reply to: Rob 's message, "Re: A familiar pattern" on 14:57:06 05/27/16 Fri

You're already winning Rob. Given what you've shared here, your ex-wife is hanging on because she's terrified of leaving. That's why she's being so awful to you. She wants you to kick her out because she's too afraid to do it herself. Pity her because she's a coward. All bullies are. You're the strong one.

My ex-husband was just the same. But hatred burns hot and it eventually burns itself out. Once we separated the healing really started for me. And now just a few years later, I've never been happier. Feelings are like waves. They wash over you and some may also turn you upside down. But I've learned that the seas eventually calm. It's smooth sailing for me these days and it will be the same for you. So let her rage and storm around. It's all she has left.

Good luck!

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  • Re: A familiar pattern -- John (Watch yourself, Rob!), 10:51:25 05/28/16 Sat
  • Re: A familiar pattern -- Rob (Thanks), 23:51:25 05/28/16 Sat
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