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Date Posted: 04:09:55 05/16/16 Mon
Author: Susan
Subject: Re: Update
In reply to: Vicky 's message, "Update" on 13:06:44 05/15/16 Sun

Thank you for sharing Vicky. It's refreshing to read such a happy and positive post. I appreciate your fresh perspective on something that turned out to be so painful for so many of us. I wish you and your family the best of luck on your journey. We cannot help but project our own experiences, both the good and the bad, on others and this is why some previous messages may have seemed a bit CRITICAL. What you refer to as SSA (or 'same sex attraction') others who have suffered refer to it as denial. There are many straight spouses who heard the word 'bi' only to learn their spouses truly wanted to be in exclusively gay relationships. We all have our stories. I am rooting for you and hope that the outcome is different than what happened to me. You're light years ahead of where I was because it sounds like you have good communication with your husband and an open/positive attitude. Please come back and share your journey. Good luck!

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  • Re: Update -- Abby, 22:53:19 05/16/16 Mon
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