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Date Posted: 15:22:54 05/19/16 Thu
Author: Rob (the doubt=gaslight)
Subject: Re: Feeling horribly sad and reaching out to know I am not alone
In reply to: Sue 's message, "Re: Feeling horribly sad and reaching out to know I am not alone" on 16:18:45 05/17/16 Tue

Yes they suddenly list flaws ...anything they can thing of...
to explain why we destroyed the marriage. ie. you didnt like the TV shows I watched, you left dirty dishes in the sink, you did this and you did that.. One was you go to work and I am alone. (did she ever come visit me for lunch?).

But the elephant in the room is still sitting there.. (shes cheating with a woman). They were childish excuses. She also said just about those words...do you realize what you did. All i know is I could not have humanly been a better husband..there was nothing left of me. I gave her all my time, all my money, all my love.

It's exactly like the movie gaslight.. telling me things that are untrue and making me doubt myself; "You never loved me". What ? I gave back and foot rubs everynight, whatever you wanted..

No all narcissistic lies now to make themselves feel better about what they are doing.. Hard to believe our's spouses had thing kind of morality.

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