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Date Posted: 16:03:56 05/22/16 Sun
Author: WendiT
Subject: Re: And still nowhere
In reply to: Todd 's message, "Re: And still nowhere" on 13:49:56 05/22/16 Sun

I think you are being way too hard on yourself.

- Perhaps you fell out of love with her and in love with someone else because your emotional and physical needs as a straight man were not being met by a bi/gay partner?

- Also you are blaming yourself for the failure of a relationship that was not meant to be. Pairing a Str8 with a bi/gay is like trying to force a square peg into a round hole. It is just not meant to be.

- Subconsciously you probably knew long ago that she was doing deceitful things behind your back, like the loans and debt.

Perhaps its time to leave the self-blame behind and start being kind to yourself. Forgive yourself and let it go, it is only harming you.

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