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Date Posted: 10:18:03 05/27/16 Fri
Author: Z Walker
Subject: Re: Thank you Zombie
In reply to: Anna 's message, "Re: Thank you Zombie" on 21:09:50 05/25/16 Wed

Dear Anna:

I agree wholeheartedly. I was thinking about something recently...the whole concept of feeling safe in a relationship. For the most part I'm there with my H at this point but for a very long time I was looking over my shoulder waiting for the next shoe to drop. That is no way to live.

I feel at least for now, this is where I am meant to be. That could change by his choice or mine.

There are no guarantees in any relationship. Two people fit or they do not.

You are right, the acting out of a CSA survivor is a complicated situation. The simple declaration of "he's gay, run" doesn't always fit for the circumstances.

In the end we must take care of ourselves first. No regrets...

Thanks for sharing your story.

Zombie Walker

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