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Date Posted: 16:42:45 08/03/16 Wed
Author: Patti (Welcome)
Subject: Re: Don't know what to feel
In reply to: Squirrel 's message, "Don't know what to feel" on 12:12:03 08/02/16 Tue

I'm so sorry that you're facing this new challenge in your life, but it's wonderful that you value YOU enough to reach out for support.

We get it. We really do.
More than anything else, know that you are not alone. Not any more.

The thing to remember is that this was never about you. It was about her choices to manipulate and deceive.

A reputable therapist can be very helpful.
A support group of kindred folks can also be helpful. Go to the Straight Spouse Network's link. Depending upon where you live, you may find a support group with local meetings near you. Where do you live? (if you don't mind sharing)

The process of sharing/journaling is quite therapeutic. Feel fee to post whatever you're feeling.

Best of luck to you and your child. As long as you can focus on him, it will be in everyone's best interest.

Again, welcome,
Patti in CA

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