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Date Posted: 16:47:40 09/09/16 Fri
Author: Chris
Subject: Re: Help! Is my gut telling me something
In reply to: DG 's message, "Help! Is my gut telling me something" on 12:58:39 08/28/16 Sun

Sounds fishy to me. My ex wife who came out as gay never used her tounge in kissing for 15 years, covered her face during sex, and virtually never got aroused. I've posted on the group that the oddities were more profound to me the first year or so. As the years went on it just became the norm. I too had fairly little experience before marriage but now clearly know after my post marital relationships that heterosexual partners get very excited in each other's presence. There is a magical feeling out there that I never, mean NEVER, experienced with my gay wife. My advice is to aggressively confront the situation and avoid having children until you're confident. Gay doesn't go away..... it springs up on Craigslist after you have a few toddlers running around. Looking back I knew something was off very early, as in first few dates, and if do anything to have avoided an emotionless marriage, horrible sex life, and coming to find out never standing a chance at having my family stay together. She came out right after her 40th birthday, and now I have a 12 and 4 year old going back and forth between houses. Missed out on so much... and didn't even know it, although something did always seem off. Just thought I could help her self confidence and she'd come to be more comfortable. How wrong I was.

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Re: Help! Is my gut telling me something -- Anne (Run), 15:46:22 09/16/16 Fri

Re: Help! Is my gut telling me something -- Betsy, 09:49:03 10/27/16 Thu

Re: Help! Is my gut telling me something -- Kate, 02:13:22 11/16/16 Wed