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Date Posted: 15:52:26 12/24/00 Sun
Author: Mystic
Subject: Ugh! Dating can sure wreak havoc on one's nerves!
In reply to: Romy 's message, "dating" on 15:21:52 12/23/00 Sat

>Hey Mystic!
>
>Sorry about the forum. But hey, now at least, all
>those so-called-true-christian-messages are gone too.
>They are now trashing another wiccan message board I
>frequent.
>Oh, and their message board got closed, but they've
>got a new one, it was something like voy.com/1180 or
>1186 (I'm not sure, didn't think it was that
>interesting)
>
>Something totally different though (sorry, need to
>rant): Why the hell did they make this dating-thing so
>damn complicated?

Whomever invented it all thought that this would be a nice way to get laughs. Heh I really wish I knew why it is so complicated.

>It's been a while since I've had a crush on someone.
>Until now, obviously. There's this guy I met at work,
>a few weeks ago. Cute guy, definately attractive. But
>it was nothing more than attraction. So I've been
>flirting with him for 4 or 5 weeks now [I flirt with
>about every guy I meet, just for fun, nothing more]. I
>only see him at work, where I work at the counter
>(just to get money to go to Australia), and he works
>ín the store. So he comes by to say hello about 10
>times a day (seriously, and with lame excuses too).
>All very well, but yesterday I noticed I liked him
>more than just 'attraction', after he'd come to ask
>what time I got off, or something, and some customer
>(an old man, for god's sake) asked me 'if I was in
>love with the guy'... Um, well, yeah...And I'm tired
>of flirting, I want more. I LOVE flirting, as long as
>*I* am not in love, I get along great with guys, 'til
>I fall for them, then I usually go ga-ga near
>them...(so I stick to one-night-flings, that's safe)

Everyone always has crushes on guys sometimes crushes can just sneak up on you and that sucks to me because I hate it when you "just realize" that you have an attraction to a certain someone.
>
>So now it's What's next??? My last 'serious' boyfriend
>was about 3 years ago (so when I was about 13...),

Man! I never had serious boyfriends when I was 13 it was all fun and games then

>well, my summerlove, well, he was the sweetest guy
>ever, but well, I wasn't exactly in love.
>
>So I figure I keep on flirting, see if I can get the
>message thru (although...if even some stranger old man
>could figure it out...). But now everytime he comes at
>me, I go like "when the hell are you gonna ask me out
>on a date?" [and no, I do not dare asking him].

I myself do not like to ask guys out for some reason it bothers me now. LOL
>
>Anyway, just needed to get this out. Sorry if this
>totally does not interest you at all.

Hey, just let out everything that you need to let out of your system we all have these types of days.
>
>Love and Light,
>Romy

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