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Subject: Re: It Ends when you let Go... Author: Heather [ Next Thread | Previous Thread | Next Message | Previous Message ] Date Posted: 11:20:31 08/07/06 Mon In reply to: Free Spirit & New Spirit 's message, "It Ends when you let Go..." on 10:04:35 08/07/06 Mon That is wonderful for you. I have a question for you and it is only out of the guilt that he brings to me by manipulation. Have you ever seen your ex get to the point where he looks awesome, looks clean, no more sucked in cheeks, but still acting very strange in his behaviour? My soon to be ex looked great the last time I saw him but still sucked the life out of me and my little boy and all we were doing was trying to come to some understanding for visitations for my son and him. He acted the same way he has acted in the past. But now he was calling me in the middle of the night drunk and driving telling me his feelings for me. I have blocked his number from my home phone, but he calls at work and he calls my cell number. I am going to change my cell number no cause he called Saturday night at 2am telling me he was coming over and that I am still his wife and he loved me and I loved him and he missed me so open the door when he gets there. I told him I don't have any interest in seeing him and said goodbye. I called the next day to tell him not to do that and his attitude changed big time. He started saying mean stuff to me and blaming me for kicking him out and putting a wall between him and his son. I realized at that moment what the true meaning of sick is. He is sick and I told him that. HE said yes I am sick but I am getting better. ??? It doesn't seem that way to me. He is still acting really really strange when he talks to me. I wonder if he is still using or if he is just mentally sick now. Who knows but I see the judge next month and I hope ans pray that they listen to me and don't give him visits unless this guy take hair tests, has counseling or sees a psychologist or something. How did things go for you in the court room? If I wasn't married to him I would have never had to go to court and could completely let go, but I fear the judge will give him visits. [ Next Thread | Previous Thread | Next Message | Previous Message ]

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Subject Author Date Heather Free Spirit & New Spirit 11:54:13 08/07/06 Mon Re: Heather -- Heather, 12:08:49 08/07/06 Mon Re: Heather -- Free Spirit & New Spirit, 12:57:13 08/07/06 Mon Re: Heather -- Heather, 14:24:02 08/07/06 Mon