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Date Posted: 16:07:17 07/19/07 Thu
Author: Jubellant
Subject: Here we have two families, the Sherwoods where Denise up to this point has done what Frank wanted and the Holden's where Frank says he has listened to and respected his wife for18 years. Denise has been straight laced and Claudia Joy more the experimenter. The Holden household appeared to have a more relaxed atmosphere than the Sherwoods but the outcome is the same. Two teenagers who hate the military life and seem to resent their respective fathers. Is there a positive side to being in a military Dad? Does the discipline it takes to be in the army automatically spill over into your home life?
In reply to: Jubellant 's message, "After seeing CB this week all I can say is WOW! Her quiet strength and determination really got to me. She is right to have put Jeremy's room back together. The guy is going through major turmoil and to discover any trace of his existence had been wiped away would have pushed him even further into his self-destructive abyss. Hitting his Mom had nothing to do with her IMHO. It all has to do with getting back at his father and what better way than to hurt what he loves most. He has hurt Denise physically and now by joining the army he is hurting her emotionally as well. This will not make her proud but add to her worries. Staying and facing the humiliation instead of running would have been more courageous. (Inside)" on 11:04:24 07/19/07 Thu


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[> [> Should read positive side in being a military Dad? -- Jubellant, 16:13:24 07/19/07 Thu [1]


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[> [> [> I'm not sure there really is a positive side to being a military dad. Being a good dad yes, but a military one, not really. There's no other profession where any man would be seen as honorable making babies knowing he very likely won't be around for long months or maybe years of their kids lives, and can't really be involved in raising them. Especially in this day and age where fathers are expected to participate as much as mothers are. Inside... -- Theresa, 17:21:41 07/19/07 Thu [1]

With these two families, you have men who were most likely away from home quite alot when their children were small and in their bonding years, and then come home and expect to be equally respected and have their orders followed. When their kids don't feel bonded to them. How can any child understand that daddy has to put his career before them? How can any child not feel abandoned in their younger years by someone who chooses to be an absent father on purpose? How can any child believe that their father is deserving of respect when he didn't really raise them?

Michael is good with CJ, but all I've seen him do is order around his kids. He's not like Trevor who is a hands on dad. The only time I've ever seen Michael or Frank hug their children was when CJ was a hostage and when Frank returned home, and even then Jeremy waited for a cue to come and hug his father. CJ understands her kids and has a friendship with them. Michael just barks orders at them unless it's serious crisis like the hostage situation.


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[> [> [> [> I agree wholeheartedly Theresa. :o) -- KH, 18:02:22 07/19/07 Thu [1]


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