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Date Posted: 04:33:27 06/12/10 Sat
Author: Bill to Steve cc to Joel and Rick
Subject: Re: You mannned up, so why bitch and moan about it?
In reply to: Steve--to Joel 's message, "You mannned up, so why bitch and moan about it?" on 15:14:56 06/11/10 Fri

Hey Steve. Good to see a post from you.
>
Listen. Don't be so hard on Joel. I kind of understand where he is coming from as there are some similarities between our situations. In my case, my parents were divided on the issue of spanking with my mom believing in it and my dad not. Over the years, my grandmother (my mom's mom) was openly critical of my dad for not spanking us; much like the way Kyle's dad was critical of Joel's dad for not spanking him.
>
I suspect that the broken window incident at Kyle's house when Joel and Kyle were playing baseball together was the tip of the iceberg and that there may have been other times over the years that Kyle and Joel were in trouble together with Kyle getting spanked and Joel not and that Joel not getting spanked all those times was like a burr in Kyle's dad's saddle.
>
I suspect this "pot has been brewing for years" as Rick said and Joel may not have communicated very well, this probably being his first experience confronting an adult about a problem and that may explain why Kyle's dad thought Joel wanted to be spanked and saw it as the perfect opportunity to spank Joel like he wanted to do way back when but couldn't.
>
That said, I think your advice to Joel was right on. He needs to stand up and be a man. When he sees Kyle's dad, he should greet him warmly with a firm handshake today. I think he will feel much better about himself if he can bring himself to do that.

>Hey Joel--- sorry i've been so busy so not alot of
>time to respond to posts. You may not like what I
>have to say, but I think you need to hear this from
>me.
>
>I'm not sure what you are complaining about as you
>seem shocked that Kyle's dad paddled your butt and
>surprised that Kyle enjoyed watching the paddling.
>
>I think you got EXACTLY what you were looking for in
>your meeting with Kyle's dad. You even brought and
>fetched the paddle out of your car because you didn't
>want the belt and for no apparent reason you are
>scared of the belt---even though you've been whipped
>with the razor strap which is tons more painful than
>the belt! That makes no sense at all buddy.
>
>So i don't think you got 'tricked' or pressured into
>taking the paddling. You got punished just like i knew
>I would that day almost 16 years ago when i fessed up
>to Jakes' dad and took a hard bare ass strapping in
>the garage. AND believe me just like Kyle enjoyed
>watching your paddling, Jake was smiling ear-to-ear
>too wacthin my ass getting blistered with the strap.
>So I didn't really get upset with Jake for doing that
>and you shouldn't be upset with Kyle.
>
>So you manned up and took the punishment----so man up
>and stop complaining about it, got it!

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  • Re: You mannned up, so why bitch and moan about it? -- Joel to Steve, 07:49:54 06/12/10 Sat
  • Re: You mannned up, so why bitch and moan about it? -- Steve---to Joel, 10:49:20 06/13/10 Sun
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