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Date Posted: 08:04:54 12/07/09 Mon
Author: Joel
Subject: Joel's Dad Give Him His First Paddling at Age 17

Before I begin, a special thank-you to my buddy Steve, who founded this forum and allowing me to post this.

Event Date: Sunday Evening, Dec. 6, 2009

Many of you who visit this forum know me, I'm Joel and l7 yrs. old. I have a great mom and dad who love me, and would do anything for me, except all of the years of my life they have never given me a spanking while I was growing up. They always used other punishments to correct my misbehavior.

I never gave it to serious a thought why I was never spanked because a spanking is suppose to hurt. All my buddies I was growing up with, especially my best buddy Kyle, got hand spankings, a paddle used on them and some a leather belt on their butt. I was never putdown to much by them for not getting spanked, but I guess I thought I was lucky. When they did spanked at home or school they would always talk about it while I was around them, some even let me see their spanked butt with they were sharing about their ordeal. It's a guy thing, if you have learned or heard about this "sharing", always asking details how it was given, by whom, how many swats, did it hurt much, etc.
Off and on I have asked my parents why I was never spanked like my buddies, and they would always give excuses didn't have time to talk about it or why you want to know that.
A few months ago a buddy of mine named Rick, age 25, had his brother David, age 23, introduce himself to me. Rick had received spankings,paddlings, belt whippings when he was growing up and shared them with me, but I learned David had not gotten first spanking until age 9 by his dad, and he used a paddle on him.
David and I began to share to each other about our lives, became really good buddies, probably because we both had each been underspanked growing up. David was really surprised I had never been spanked yet by my parents. He told me I had a right to know why I wasn't.

So David decided to give me a challege to ask my dad why I was never spanked, and if I could get my dad to give me my first spanking at age l7 with a paddle on my bare butt, David would accept the bet loss and allow his brother Rick to give him a paddling on his bare butt, giving him the same number of swats I got.
I accepted that challenge, looked when I might have a talk with my dad and see if I could win him over finally to give me first paddling.
To help me, my buddy Kyle made me a homemade wooden paddle, with drilled holes to give a bite to bare butt cheeks, and even embossed my name on the handle.
I invited Kyle, and two other buddies of mine Luke and Sean on Sunday, Dec. 6, 2009 to help give me backup support if I needed them, but I wanted to talk one on one with my dad about why I wasn's ever spanked and to get my first paddling that night. The meeting with dad I planned for my bedroom, and Kyle, Luke and Sean could listen outside the door.
My dad came to my bedroom and I asked him if we could have a father/son talk, like we've had many other times on different subjects. We've always had a great dad/son relationship, and I thought this is going to be it, I'm going to pester him, won't let him leave my room, until I get him to give me my first spanking with a paddle.
When he sat down he saw I had the paddle that Kyle had made me laying on my desk. He asked, "Where did you get that?"
I told him "Kyle was really good in woodshop in school when we had the class, and just this past week he made and gave me the paddle, even has drilled holes to give extra bite to a bare butt, and has my name on the name."
"What are you going to do with that, Joel?", said my dad.
"Your going to give me my first paddling in my life with it," I told him.
Dad said, "I see. What brought this on?"

I told my dad he always would turn me down why I never got spanked growing up, Kyle and others always did, but him and mom never spanked me once!
I told my dad I wanted an answer, and he wasn't leaving the room until I got one. (I think I was shaking a little when I told him that).
"Well Joel, maybe you need an answer, and I think you deserve one," my dad told me, while we sat side by side on my bed.
My dad told me when he was growing up that he had a good childhood, and when he needed to be spanked he got hand spanked, a paddle used on him, a belt, and even a razor strap which he said hurt like hell when he was a teenager. I asked him if he thought getting the razor strap was abusive by his dad, and he told me he accepted that punishment because it was typical of that time period for him and other boys to be punished with him.
I asked my dad, "why did grandpa use a razor strap on you, isn't that kind of harsh?

My dad explained that when he got spankings throughout his life it was always on his bare butt.
My dad told me when we went to college to play sports and get an education that he belonged to a fraternity and they had a paddle that was used on him and other members and always got on bare butt.
I asked again, "why didn't I get spanked growing up, ever?"
My dad told me that he and my mom read boosk about how to raise children before I was born, and even a Dr. Spock suggested besides the books that it was wrong to spank a child and other punishments could be just as effective to correct them, so they decided they would try not spanking me as long as they could. He thought they did good for not doing so for l7 yrs.
I told my dad that sometimes the guys critcized me for not getting spanked, and made me feel like I wasn't one of them sometimes, except Kyle always accepted me for being me, even not getting spanked and there were times Kyle and I should have being in trouble or by myself I should have growing up.
My dad asked me if I "felt cheated for not being spanked over those years?"
I said, "Some of the times I wished I had and other times I was glad I wasn't. When I was around the guys, especially Kyle (whom dad knew I accepted him like a brother because neither of us had a brother or sister and Kyle was about 5 months older then me when I first came to know him and grew up together), they's talk about spankings or paddlings they got at home or at school you'd sometimes see their paddled red butt in the showers or dressing for sports practices and even games, and I never had anything to share with the guys, even to show them a red spanked or paddled butt."
I explained to dad that it was a Guy Thing, all this talk and show'n tell, and sharing. My dad said he and his buddies did the exact same thing when they were growing up. I was surprised when he told me that.
So dad returned to the eariler question to me, "you want to do something about getting a paddling, Joel?"
I told him if he didn't think I was crazy, I wanted to, and it had to be a real paddling, to hurt my butt.
I even told my dad I could make a list out of things I had done that I never got caught while growing up, and the paddling could be to pay them off in punishment.
He laughed, and said, "maybe clear my conscience?"
I was surprised he didn't make me make out the list, but my dad had been in a good mood all week at home, so maybe at least I would get what I wanted, a paddling, that I could tell the guys about?
I told my dad that he could initiate my butt for a first time paddling, and it had to bare butt, with the paddle that Kyle had made me.
"If I agree to this, how many swats are you look to get, Joel," my dad asked me?
"I'm l7 yrs. old, how about a swat for each year of my age," I asked?
"Think you can take that many," my dad asked.
I told my dad that I didn't know how many swats he would have given me when I was younger if I was getting spanked, but being an athlete I thought my butt's been punished more on the playing field worse, even been hit in the butt several times when playing baseball by an errorist pitcher before.
My dad laughed. And then said the words Ihad been waiting for all my life.
"Joel, that's enough talk. I think you need to get your pants and underpants down young man for paddling, so we can get your butt fired up!" my dad said.
I had waited for those words forever to hear, and don't think I didn't pulldown my pants and boxer shorts down to my ankles in less then 5 seconds to bare my butt.

Excited about what was about to happen (and I could hear Kyle, Luke and Sean laughing behind my bedroom door) I started to give him instructions what to do, and he had to remind me, "who's the dad here, me or you, Joel?"

My dad reached out with his hand to me and told me to come over to him where he was sitting at in my desk chair in the room. He pulled me over his stretched out leg, which raised my bare butt up into the air for him.
I glanced around sideways and saw him pickup the paddle that Kyle had made and given me.
I even had time to think for a few seconds about my buddy David who had at age 9 got his first paddling from his dad the same way I was about to get mine, and WIN and collect on the bet he challenged to.
I was looking at the floor, when my dad asked, "are you ready, Joel?"
There was no turning back now, "yes, sir!" I said.
Suddenly I heard a crack, the paddle had just landed and given my bare butt its first swat ever in my life from my dad for my first paddling.
It took my breath away for a second, and then I could feel the pain of the swat.
Then the second swat came in about the same location, the "sitdown spot", and then I started to feel a fire set in across my butt.
My dad picked up the pace for swats three and four, slowed for swat five for a burn to set in more. By this time I was started to squirm and twist a little, but my dad kept a tight gripped on me.
Swat 6 and 7 followed, and my butt was really on FIRE for sure then, but I thought I wanted a real paddling from my dad to tell the guys about, and my dad wasn't disappointing me.
Swat 8, 9, l0 followed wrappedly, then dad slowed down on swat ll and l2 to allow more fire across my butt, as swatted the sittdown spot, and areas above and below that region I could feel take on a burn to.
"Almost done, Joel," dad said.
Then came swats l3, l4, l5 and l6 in wrapped motion, and then a long pause for the finale... a HARD SWAT #l7 that dad really let my two red butt cheeks have!

MY FIRST PADDLING OF MY LIFE WAS OVER WITH!

All during it, I was wondering if I was going to cry, cry-out and kick like a baby. If I did there would be no crime as a paddling is suppose to hurt!
I was surprised. I guess being l7 years old helped, but my eye's just got teary, and I gritted my teeth alot and did squirm and twist some through the whole thing.
As soon as my dad said I could get up, I jumped off his leg and started to jump up and down into the air, with my hands rubbing up and down on my two red butt cheeks, which I could feel the heat from my dad's just completed work.

He said, with a laugh, "Let that be a lesson to you, young man!"
I stopped jumping just enough to walk over to him, and give him a big hug and said "thank you for being my dad to give me my first paddling. I love you", I said as tears streamed down my face.
My dad had tears on his face as he said, "I love you to Joel. Thanks for being me son."
I bet we bear hugged each other for 5 minutes, and started laughing.
About that time, my buddies Kyle, Luke and Sean who have been listening the whole time came into the room, and hollered and screamed, "Joel, got paddled! Joel, got paddled! and started laughing their asses off.
My dad said he'e leave us "four guys to talk," and left the room.
I started to jump up and down again some from the fire my bare butt was still feeling, and the guys started look my butt over like they had never seen one like mine before.
I said, "what's the matter guys, have't you seen a paddled butt before?"
"Boy Joel, your dad really knows how to paddle your ass red. It's cherry red.
Kyle said, "You better watch it, boy! You never know when your dad might want to paddle you again!"
It didn't matter to me. Even though my butt was on fire, and I would be sleeping with it bare after I rubbed alot of lotion on it to try to sooth the hurt, I thought, "Now I was really one of the boys!"
Plus, I was thinking, I had won the challenge bet from David, and he soon would be getting a bare butt paddling from his brother Rick, getting l7 swats, and I would be wondering who got the reddest butt, him or me.

Thanks dude, I owe you one David!

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