Date Posted:13:21:20 07/30/14 Wed
He punishes me in his room, I wish he would do it in my room, it's scarier to go into his room to wait I don't know why, even the smell makes me nervous.
I have to pull my pants down, I usually try to stall but stalling doesn't really help because he gets irritated but I can't just do it lol.
Date Posted:10:26:39 08/01/14 Fri
Usually he tells me to get my bare butt over his knee and then there's no talking him out of it, but sometimes he gets so mad he doesn't say anything and just grabs me and goes at it, then sometimes if I act really sorry he will only spank me on my underpants so I try to make him really mad so that happens.
It's actually better when he loses his temper because he feels guilty and sometimes I can talk him out of a worse spanking. When he's more controlled I get spanked for longer and usually bare. I don't know, it's weird.
If he's calm he will wait forever til I pull them down, if he is really pissed he will pull them down himself but when he's mad he usually just starts whipping me over my pants forever until he calms down.
He keeps the saddle cinch on top of his dresser, lately that's all he punishes me with but he's used other things like a switch and a ping pong paddle.
Date Posted:09:22:26 08/04/14 Mon
No he never tells me how many I'm gonna get and that makes me nervous, I wish he would, I never really thought about that before.
I always think I'm not going to cry, I never cry before I get a spanking but I always end up crying before the end.
Date Posted:09:24:40 08/04/14 Mon
I never get any other punishment but spanking. I came to live with my brother when I was 11 and I never got spanked before that but now I do all the time.
Date Posted:21:08:12 08/06/14 Wed
He spanked me the first night I moved in because I wouldn't eat some gross thing he cooked and I was being kind of a jerk. He spanked me with his hand on my pants and then bare.
I never had anyone do that to me before, after he finished he told me that was how it was going to be. He was going to spank me every time I broke a rule or did something wrong, all that kind of stuff and then he made me sit in a hard chair in the corner with my pants down and I couldn't believe how much it hurt because it was making all the hot spots hotter and it was really rough wood so it felt like all the lines in the wood were digging into my butt.
Date Posted:14:28:56 08/09/14 Sat
I didn't get punished at all before I came to live with my brother, my dad left a few months after I was born and my mom drank all the time so I pretty much did whatever I wanted to do.
For the first spanking he put me over his knee and spanked me on my pants and then pulled them down and spanked my bare butt.
Yeah my brother talks about how dad used to spank him with the saddle cinch all the time but he doesn't hold a grudge because it made him a good person.
I think some things they helped me stop, like I used to not listen to anyone and the fear of getting a spanking made me listen more. I am impulsive though and a lot of the time I just react instead of thinking about what will happen. I am better about it then I used to be so I guess they worked.
I didn't have any rules until I came to live with him so it seemed like he had a rule for everything.
Date Posted:11:53:46 08/07/14 Thu
Hi Jack, You think your brothers spankings are fair and you deserve them, I think my parents are usually pretty fair. It must have been a surprise getting spanked for the first time at 11. My parents believe in spanking and its the punishment we get here when we get in trouble for something so I already had been spanked lots of times by the time I was 11. I dont get it over the lap any more, I get the paddle now same as my older brother and sometimes we get a choice of a paddling or being grounded as our punishment. My younger brother still just gets spankings. We've always chosen the paddle because everything is over with quick. Somehow I think it makes it easier to take when you get a choice.
Date Posted:14:39:22 08/09/14 Sat
I don't always think it's fair, I think he's too strict a lot of the time. It was weird not having anyone ever tell me know to getting spanked all the time but I liked the attention at the beginning even though I hated the spankings.
I thought that I wouldn't get it over his lap anymore because I'm 15 and he said he would think about not doing it anymore but I can't stay still so he usually has to clamp my legs down. I don't know how to not struggle, I can't help it. Can you take it without moving?
I wish I would get the paddle instead of the saddle strap because it hurts less, I used to get spanked with a ping pong paddle, sometimes I still do but it's mostly the strap. I would like to have a choice too. I would like to choose not to get it over his knee but I'm not big enough to fight him on it.
Date Posted:09:31:54 08/11/14 Mon
Hi Jack, I sometimes cant help fussing and keeping in position as well. The first time I got the paddle I didnt take it very well. I was expecting a spanking but got told I was getting a paddling and to go and fetch the paddle. Dad had to give me a spank to make me go and fetch it. It makes a difference how I get it, dads paddled me two different ways, I had to bend over my desk chair or he's put his left leg on a stool then I bend over his leg and he holds me tight then lays the paddle on. I think if I have to get a paddling its better that way because dad holds me tight so I cant really fuss any and its over quicker. I got paddled about two weeks ago and I asked if I could get it that way and he agreed. Maybe you could ask your brother to do it that way with the ping pong paddle instead of the saddle strap and promise you wont fuss any the next time you have to get punished.
Date Posted:13:08:51 08/30/14 Sat
I wish I could get him to only use the ping pong paddle, it still hurts but not as bad but he doesn't listen to me. Also I am allergic to latex and last time he spanked me with the rubber side and I had a reaction so he thinks he shouldn't use it anymore.
I just don't know how to make my body be still and just take it, he has to hold me down.It stings so bad all I want to do is move it's like I can't control it.
Is your paddle really big? I don't know if that would be better than the strap really because you could really get hurt getting hit with a big piece of wood.
Date Posted:15:32:37 09/02/14 Tue
Hi Jack, My parents have the paddle hanging up behind the laundry room door so I measured it. My grandpa made it for my dad, its not that big the spanking part that lands on my butt is 11 ins long and 2.5 ins wide and just under 1/4 ins thick and the handle part is 4 ins long. It has the words bottom warmer on one side and a space for our names on the other. Bottom stinger would be more accurate, it really kills when I get paddled with it.
How big is the saddle cinch? You ever get sent to fetch the thing you're going to be spanked with?
Date Posted:12:46:18 11/22/16 Tue
my dad started using the bent over the bed, BELT whipping technique WAY too early in my opinion - from age 8 onward. So, my last OTK was probably age 7