I'm sure your daughter deserved to win. In fact, she probably worked hard at achieving the goals which qualified her for the position. That said, it invalidates all that hard work & insults those who have done it when someone who hasn't done that same work achieves the same position. Crystal's win is just one more inexplicable result after 9 yrs of inexplicable things. Were we talking about a healthy system, no one would be suspicious. But we're talking about trust that has been broken again & again. Additionally, Crystal bears some responsibility as well. One can't lie & finagle & expect to never be called out. Yes, we have to make the best of it, but please don't tell a group of people who've been damaged by this system that they shouldn't question what experience has taught them to question. Don't tell people who worked hard that they don't have a right to be offended. And it's not classy to condescend to & insult people, no matter how passive-aggressively you try to dress it up. -- ILLINOIS Pageants Board

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Subject: I'm sure your daughter deserved to win. In fact, she probably worked hard at achieving the goals which qualified her for the position. That said, it invalidates all that hard work & insults those who have done it when someone who hasn't done that same work achieves the same position. Crystal's win is just one more inexplicable result after 9 yrs of inexplicable things. Were we talking about a healthy system, no one would be suspicious. But we're talking about trust that has been broken again & again. Additionally, Crystal bears some responsibility as well. One can't lie & finagle & expect to never be called out. Yes, we have to make the best of it, but please don't tell a group of people who've been damaged by this system that they shouldn't question what experience has taught them to question. Don't tell people who worked hard that they don't have a right to be offended. And it's not classy to condescend to & insult people, no matter how passive-aggressively you try to dress it up.

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Date Posted: 19:50:54 08/25/15 Tue
In reply to: 's message, "Setting aside my immediate reaction to anyone besides my own mother donning a condescending tone with me and telling me what I should or should not be ashamed about, let me reassure you I am not the mother of anyone who competed, although I can't speak for the other posters. If you are a mother of a former, then you know the culture of the administration that was recently fired by MAO. No one has done anything but question this win since it happened & for good reason." on 19:44:13 08/25/15 Tue

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