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Subject: Re: Mistaken for a small child


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Eliza
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Date Posted: 04:41:00 08/09/25 Sat
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In reply to: Matteo 's message, "Mistaken for a small child" on 01:06:05 07/25/25 Fri

Matteo, dear, you are a truly lucky boy. :)

From what I've seen here you think of your situation as some kind of curse, but in fact it's the opposide - this is a blessing plenty of kids dream of but they're too scared to admit. You get to experience the freedom of being out there at the beach and feel the sun, the wind and the water unrestrained. You should be grateful for that and happy - even with you being naked at home and given baths by your family. They truly love you and they mean you no harm.

I think this should continue even when you finally hit puberty.

As a mom of two wonderful boys(10 nad 12) I know what I'm saying. :)

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Jayne to Eluza
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Date Posted: 12:22:15 08/09/25 Sat
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Matt
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Date Posted: 12:24:43 08/09/25 Sat
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Yes I like Eliza,

I was normal tall healthy boy growing up. I was a tall blond boy with bright blue eyes so had no issue getting doted over by moms.

I was not nudist in sense we called it that, just in summer I just wore only briefs or nothing when warm. Every day we were kicked out of house to go get fresh air and sunshine. Itwwas three boys and tomboy and regular group and sometime one or two joined the extended group.

We lived aon rurqal unpaved farm road and no one was around. Under 10 boys walked naked to a lake if we wanted.

We had a lot of exercise lot opf food and lot of routine. Only expectation was to do some work and be out of the house most of the time.

I would stay naked a lot. No one cared what boys under 10 doing this on a farm. I alwasy took a bath after diner and statyed naked when under 10 too

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Matteo to Eliza
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Date Posted: 18:32:54 08/10/25 Sun
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Hi Eliza, do you let your kids go to the beach without swimsuits? Are they ashamed? Today I was the only older kid on the beach naked, and I felt ashamed, especially because I ran into a girl from school.

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Eliza
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Date Posted: 22:43:52 08/10/25 Sun
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Dear Matteo. Sometimes I do when we are in a secluded spot and they love the freedom. They still don't mind being seen naked. :)

Sweetie, what nature has given you is a wonderful gift - an opportunity of experiencing joys of being a child for a little longer. Use that gift and be proud of that because it won't last forever. Every time you're naked at the beach be proud of that for it is a golden privilige.

Same with being naked at home and being given baths. Your family loves you very much and wants you to enjoy the privilige as long as you can. I think deep inside you know that and you wouldn't mind that to last even longer. :)

Could you do something for me? Next time when you're naked at the beach(or being given bath etc) give your family a big hug and let them know you understand and appreciate this kind of love and you would love it to continue as long as it can. :)

Big hugs and kisses Matteo! Be proud! Be happy! :)

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Matteo to Eliza
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Date Posted: 00:26:52 08/12/25 Tue
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Hi Eliza, I read that you only leave your children naked in secluded places. That would be fine with me, too. Besides, I like going to nude beaches, where we're all equals. For example, today we stopped by a small lake: there were only two guys in their twenties and a family with two naked children of about 10. In this situation, I have no problem being naked. But yesterday was different. The beach was crowded, all the children over 5 were in swimsuits. And then I met this girl from my school. Her family set up their umbrella next to ours. When my friend and I went into the sea and were away from our parents, she said to me, "Oh my God, I can't believe you're all naked like newborns! Aren't you ashamed?"

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Eliza
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Date Posted: 05:50:13 08/12/25 Tue
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Dear Matteo, my advice stays the same. Learn to love it, find a joy being unrestrained by swimsuit because it won't last for ever. :)

You're 14 and a half years old which means that probably within couple of months or a year your puberty will start and you're finally gonna be allowed a swimsuit on a regular beach. Initially it will feel great, finally being able to cover up your things. But soon this will pass and you're going to feel regret that this joy of being trurly carefree is gone forever. Trust me, I speak from experience. Most if not all adults live with this regret. Don't do this to yourself. The nature has given you a chance of prolonging your carefreness. Use it. Love it, be proud and more importantly be happy! :)

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Matteo to Eliza
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Date Posted: 07:00:14 08/12/25 Tue
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Eliza, do you decide to undress your children, or do they ask you to get naked? Anyway, today I'm trying to be more relaxed, like I do on nude beaches. The family from this morning with the two naked children has left. The little beach by the lake is crowded; only two 3- and 4-year-olds are naked, but I try not to think about it.

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Eliza
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Date Posted: 10:34:06 08/12/25 Tue
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Yes Matteo! That's the spirit! Enjoy, relax and just be a happy child. ;)

Tell me how it went afterwards. :)

To answear your question: yes, I decide to undress them but they're very cool about it. They even ask me from time to time if they can get naked.

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Nathan
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Date Posted: 19:51:54 08/12/25 Tue
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My mom was like Eliza. She lets me stay naked at home all the time growing up. When her best friend came over I put on shorts but after awhile I stopeed and just played naked still.

I asked her why once and she just said her brother grew up same way. My dad was naked a lot too but I always was.

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Eliza
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Date Posted: 22:54:02 08/12/25 Tue
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Your mom was right. It is very healthy for a child to be naked as much as it's possible. :)

Tell me Nathan, were/are you naked at the beach as well? How old are you?

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Nathan
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Date Posted: 03:48:42 08/14/25 Thu
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Yes we had a cold water beach but we went when hot and sand got hot too.

I always went with same girl my age and I went naked along with her little brother to help watch him.

Sometimes we were the only naked kids in AM.

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Matteo to Eliza
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Date Posted: 00:41:30 08/13/25 Wed
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Yesterday afternoon ended with an embarrassing moment. I'd fallen asleep on my towel, and when my parents woke me up to go home, I immediately realized I had an erection. I sat up with my legs pulled up to my chest to hide my penis, but Mom immediately ordered me to get up because she had to get dressed. Luckily, the beach had cleared out a bit: only an elderly couple was watching and smiling.

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Eliza
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Date Posted: 08:46:31 08/13/25 Wed
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Matteo dear don't worry about those things. We're all human beings. It just happens sometimesand there's nothing we can do about it. Erections are also very noticeabe in swimsuits so instead of a tent they saw a mast - makes no difference. :) Concentrate on enjoying the moment because it won't last forever. And be happy! :)

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scamptoo to Matteo
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Date Posted: 10:40:36 08/13/25 Wed
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>Yesterday afternoon ended with an embarrassing moment.
>I'd fallen asleep on my towel, and when my parents
>woke me up to go home, I immediately realized I had an
>erection. I sat up with my legs pulled up to my chest
>to hide my penis, but Mom immediately ordered me to
>get up because she had to get dressed. Luckily, the
>beach had cleared out a bit: only an elderly couple
>was watching and smiling.

Erections are normal and natural, and anyone with any sense knows that males sometimes get them while they are sleeping, so I would be willing to bet that no one paid much attention to you erection.

And if, as you say, that you look like a boy younger than you are, and that your penis is smaller than other boys your age, and you have no hair yet, that elderly couple probably though you were a younger boy and how cute you looked with your little erection.

I hope that you are not ashamed of what you have.

It's not how much you have, but what does matter is does it function as it is designed to function, that is all that really matters.

Be proud of what you have.

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Andrea
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Date Posted: 07:33:25 08/14/25 Thu
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>Yes Matteo! That's the spirit! Enjoy, relax and just
>be a happy child. ;)
>
>Tell me how it went afterwards. :)
>
>To answear your question: yes, I decide to undress
>them but they're very cool about it. They even ask me
>from time to time if they can get naked.


Hi Matteo,

I think Eliza is right: what's happening to you is a wonderful gift!

I know it seems the opposite to you because I experienced it too and felt exactly the same way. I'm 28 now, but I had a rather delayed puberty compared to my friends (I was the shortest in my class and my testicles started to grow, and my first pubic hair only appeared around 13 and a half).
I hated it because my parents made me naked at home (it was nice), but also on the beach or at the lake (very embarrassing for me).
They also made me bathe at home, which I didn't like because I felt grown up and wanted to do things on my own.

Now, however, thinking back to those years and what I really felt deep down, beneath the embarrassment that covered everything and prevented me from thinking clearly, I completely agree with Eliza... Even if I couldn't admit it, it was very beautiful.

As Eliza said: "enjoy, relax and just be a happy child. ;)"

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Date Posted: 20:29:45 08/14/25 Thu
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Hi Andrea, Were you naked all the time at the beach? I go to the beach in a T-shirt and underwear, so I'm naked from the moment we set up the umbrella until we leave (sometimes they dress me in the parking lot). Have you ever run into classmates or anyone you know at the beach?

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Andrea
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Date Posted: 08:54:18 08/15/25 Fri
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>Hi Andrea, Were you naked all the time at the beach? I
>go to the beach in a T-shirt and underwear, so I'm
>naked from the moment we set up the umbrella until we
>leave (sometimes they dress me in the parking lot).
>Have you ever run into classmates or anyone you know
>at the beach?

Hi Matteo,

my experience, at least on this aspect, is practically identical to yours: I also go to the beach in a t-shirt and underwear, so I'm naked from the moment we set up the umbrella until we leave. My parents almost always dress me in the parking lot, so during the walk from the beach to the parking lot I finish drying myself after they've washed me to remove the sand and dried me quickly with a towel. I was often one of the very few or the only one naked in the parking lot, almost everyone changed on the beach…

After having set up the umbrella and undressing me, my mother took the bottle of sunscreen (SPF 50) and spread it very well on my "private" areas, so that they were protected from sunburn. Often, at the end of this procedure, my penis was partially erect, and this was very embarrassing. Luckily, it would then go down almost immediately, but those around me would see it and smile. Very embarrassing, especially when there were girls my age around.

Unfortunately, I happened to run into classmates or anyone I knew, and I swear they were the most embarrassing moments of my life. It was much better to be naked in front of strangers.

The least awkward moment of the two was when I met our neighbor's daughter. She was older, probably 20 or 22, and was at the beach with her boyfriend. When she saw us, she stopped to say hello to my mom and me. After exchanging a few pleasantries with my mom, she looked at me, smiled, and said, "Andrea, I didn't think you were naked on the beach. You're 12 now, you're a big boy!" Then, staring at my penis, she said, "Not that big… it's the same as when I used to bathe you years ago as your babysitter… You don't need a swimsuit… your mother is right to leave you naked, little puppy" and she laughed a lot, along with my mom and her boyfriend… and she walked away, giving me a little pat on the butt. Then I wanted to sink into the sand, extremely embarrassed, I turned red like a lobster.

I never thought I would experience a more embarrassing moment than this one in the future. Instead, the following summer, the one I was 13, I met a male classmate of mine at the seaside. I was playing by the sea when I heard someone calling my name. I looked up and it was Luca, a classmate of mine. He wasn't one of my best friends; he'd never come over to my house to study or play, but I liked him and we got along well. "Oh my God! Why are you naked?" "Aren't you ashamed, you're 13!" He said in surprise in a voice loud enough for those around to hear and look at me. But the worst thing was that next to him was his sister Chiara, who was a year and a half younger than us. She started laughing, putting a hand over her mouth, without taking her eyes off my penis. Instinctively I covered myself with my hands, but Chiara, still laughing, said: "Andrea, we've all seen your "pisellino" (little penis) by now, can you take your hands off…" "Luca, why is his penis so much shorter than yours? It looks like a little child's…" (this sentence also slightly embarrassed him since she was talking openly about his penis) "He's even shorter than you, are you sure he's your classmate?" And they both kept laughing while I was dying of embarrassment and shame.

I read a post of yours somewhere where you talked about a friend of yours (or classmate, I don't remember exactly) who came to your house with her mom and saw you completely naked while your mom was bathing you, and they commented on the size of your penis. So I think you can understand exactly how I felt at that moment.

I also read the answers you gave to Eliza and scamptoo.

Do your grandparents' friends have sons/daughters your age or are just adults. In the latter case, you shouldn't be too embarrassed…

I used to swim and play soccer, and I understand you perfectly: my teammates and the boys at my swimming lessons saw my even tan, without any traces of my swimsuit, and they also made fun of me, saying things like yours: "Andrea is still a little boy because he sunbathes naked on the beach," or "Aren't you ashamed of being naked at 13?" or "I would have died of shame, but since you're still a little boy, you can do it…" or things like that, which embarrassed me greatly and made me suffer. Luckily, my best friend defended me, telling them to shut up and that it was my parents' choice, not mine.

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scamptoo to Andrea
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Date Posted: 10:18:56 08/15/25 Fri
Author Host/IP: 24.57.206.80

>>Hi Andrea, Were you naked all the time at the beach? I
>>go to the beach in a T-shirt and underwear, so I'm
>>naked from the moment we set up the umbrella until we
>>leave (sometimes they dress me in the parking lot).
>>Have you ever run into classmates or anyone you know
>>at the beach?
>
>Hi Matteo,
>
>my experience, at least on this aspect, is practically
>identical to yours: I also go to the beach in a
>t-shirt and underwear, so I'm naked from the moment we
>set up the umbrella until we leave. My parents almost
>always dress me in the parking lot, so during the walk
>from the beach to the parking lot I finish drying
>myself after they've washed me to remove the sand and
>dried me quickly with a towel. I was often one of the
>very few or the only one naked in the parking lot,
>almost everyone changed on the beach…
>
>After having set up the umbrella and undressing me, my
>mother took the bottle of sunscreen (SPF 50) and
>spread it very well on my "private" areas, so that
>they were protected from sunburn. Often, at the end of
>this procedure, my penis was partially erect, and this
>was very embarrassing. Luckily, it would then go down
>almost immediately, but those around me would see it
>and smile. Very embarrassing, especially when there
>were girls my age around.
>
>Unfortunately, I happened to run into classmates or
>anyone I knew, and I swear they were the most
>embarrassing moments of my life. It was much better to
>be naked in front of strangers.
>
>The least awkward moment of the two was when I met our
>neighbor's daughter. She was older, probably 20 or 22,
>and was at the beach with her boyfriend. When she saw
>us, she stopped to say hello to my mom and me. After
>exchanging a few pleasantries with my mom, she looked
>at me, smiled, and said, "Andrea, I didn't think you
>were naked on the beach. You're 12 now, you're a big
>boy!" Then, staring at my penis, she said, "Not that
>big… it's the same as when I used to bathe you years
>ago as your babysitter… You don't need a swimsuit…
>your mother is right to leave you naked, little puppy"
>and she laughed a lot, along with my mom and her
>boyfriend… and she walked away, giving me a little
>pat on the butt. Then I wanted to sink into the sand,
>extremely embarrassed, I turned red like a lobster.
>
>I never thought I would experience a more embarrassing
>moment than this one in the future. Instead, the
>following summer, the one I was 13, I met a male
>classmate of mine at the seaside. I was playing by the
>sea when I heard someone calling my name. I looked up
>and it was Luca, a classmate of mine. He wasn't one of
>my best friends; he'd never come over to my house to
>study or play, but I liked him and we got along well.
>"Oh my God! Why are you naked?" "Aren't you ashamed,
>you're 13!" He said in surprise in a voice loud enough
>for those around to hear and look at me. But the worst
>thing was that next to him was his sister Chiara, who
>was a year and a half younger than us. She started
>laughing, putting a hand over her mouth, without
>taking her eyes off my penis. Instinctively I covered
>myself with my hands, but Chiara, still laughing,
>said: "Andrea, we've all seen your "pisellino" (little
>penis) by now, can you take your hands off…" "Luca,
>why is his penis so much shorter than yours? It looks
>like a little child's…" (this sentence also slightly
>embarrassed him since she was talking openly about his
>penis) "He's even shorter than you, are you sure he's
>your classmate?" And they both kept laughing while I
>was dying of embarrassment and shame.
>
>I read a post of yours somewhere where you talked
>about a friend of yours (or classmate, I don't
>remember exactly) who came to your house with her mom
>and saw you completely naked while your mom was
>bathing you, and they commented on the size of your
>penis. So I think you can understand exactly how I
>felt at that moment.
>
>I also read the answers you gave to Eliza and scamptoo.
>
>Do your grandparents' friends have sons/daughters your
>age or are just adults. In the latter case, you
>shouldn't be too embarrassed…
>
>I used to swim and play soccer, and I understand you
>perfectly: my teammates and the boys at my swimming
>lessons saw my even tan, without any traces of my
>swimsuit, and they also made fun of me, saying things
>like yours: "Andrea is still a little boy because he
>sunbathes naked on the beach," or "Aren't you ashamed
>of being naked at 13?" or "I would have died of shame,
>but since you're still a little boy, you can do it…"
>or things like that, which embarrassed me greatly and
>made me suffer. Luckily, my best friend defended me,
>telling them to shut up and that it was my parents'
>choice, not mine.

How many years ago was it that you were 13?

.

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Author:
Andrea
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Date Posted: 14:30:55 08/15/25 Fri
Author Host/IP: 185.165.241.180

>>>Hi Andrea, Were you naked all the time at the beach?
>I
>>>go to the beach in a T-shirt and underwear, so I'm
>>>naked from the moment we set up the umbrella until we
>>>leave (sometimes they dress me in the parking lot).
>>>Have you ever run into classmates or anyone you know
>>>at the beach?
>>
>>Hi Matteo,
>>
>>my experience, at least on this aspect, is practically
>>identical to yours: I also go to the beach in a
>>t-shirt and underwear, so I'm naked from the moment we
>>set up the umbrella until we leave. My parents almost
>>always dress me in the parking lot, so during the walk
>>from the beach to the parking lot I finish drying
>>myself after they've washed me to remove the sand and
>>dried me quickly with a towel. I was often one of the
>>very few or the only one naked in the parking lot,
>>almost everyone changed on the beach…
>>
>>After having set up the umbrella and undressing me, my
>>mother took the bottle of sunscreen (SPF 50) and
>>spread it very well on my "private" areas, so that
>>they were protected from sunburn. Often, at the end of
>>this procedure, my penis was partially erect, and this
>>was very embarrassing. Luckily, it would then go down
>>almost immediately, but those around me would see it
>>and smile. Very embarrassing, especially when there
>>were girls my age around.
>>
>>Unfortunately, I happened to run into classmates or
>>anyone I knew, and I swear they were the most
>>embarrassing moments of my life. It was much better to
>>be naked in front of strangers.
>>
>>The least awkward moment of the two was when I met our
>>neighbor's daughter. She was older, probably 20 or 22,
>>and was at the beach with her boyfriend. When she saw
>>us, she stopped to say hello to my mom and me. After
>>exchanging a few pleasantries with my mom, she looked
>>at me, smiled, and said, "Andrea, I didn't think you
>>were naked on the beach. You're 12 now, you're a big
>>boy!" Then, staring at my penis, she said, "Not that
>>big… it's the same as when I used to bathe you years
>>ago as your babysitter… You don't need a swimsuit…
>>your mother is right to leave you naked, little puppy"
>>and she laughed a lot, along with my mom and her
>>boyfriend… and she walked away, giving me a little
>>pat on the butt. Then I wanted to sink into the sand,
>>extremely embarrassed, I turned red like a lobster.
>>
>>I never thought I would experience a more embarrassing
>>moment than this one in the future. Instead, the
>>following summer, the one I was 13, I met a male
>>classmate of mine at the seaside. I was playing by the
>>sea when I heard someone calling my name. I looked up
>>and it was Luca, a classmate of mine. He wasn't one of
>>my best friends; he'd never come over to my house to
>>study or play, but I liked him and we got along well.
>>"Oh my God! Why are you naked?" "Aren't you ashamed,
>>you're 13!" He said in surprise in a voice loud enough
>>for those around to hear and look at me. But the worst
>>thing was that next to him was his sister Chiara, who
>>was a year and a half younger than us. She started
>>laughing, putting a hand over her mouth, without
>>taking her eyes off my penis. Instinctively I covered
>>myself with my hands, but Chiara, still laughing,
>>said: "Andrea, we've all seen your "pisellino" (little
>>penis) by now, can you take your hands off…" "Luca,
>>why is his penis so much shorter than yours? It looks
>>like a little child's…" (this sentence also slightly
>>embarrassed him since she was talking openly about his
>>penis) "He's even shorter than you, are you sure he's
>>your classmate?" And they both kept laughing while I
>>was dying of embarrassment and shame.
>>
>>I read a post of yours somewhere where you talked
>>about a friend of yours (or classmate, I don't
>>remember exactly) who came to your house with her mom
>>and saw you completely naked while your mom was
>>bathing you, and they commented on the size of your
>>penis. So I think you can understand exactly how I
>>felt at that moment.
>>
>>I also read the answers you gave to Eliza and
>scamptoo.
>>
>>Do your grandparents' friends have sons/daughters your
>>age or are just adults. In the latter case, you
>>shouldn't be too embarrassed…
>>
>>I used to swim and play soccer, and I understand you
>>perfectly: my teammates and the boys at my swimming
>>lessons saw my even tan, without any traces of my
>>swimsuit, and they also made fun of me, saying things
>>like yours: "Andrea is still a little boy because he
>>sunbathes naked on the beach," or "Aren't you ashamed
>>of being naked at 13?" or "I would have died of shame,
>>but since you're still a little boy, you can do it…"
>>or things like that, which embarrassed me greatly and
>>made me suffer. Luckily, my best friend defended me,
>>telling them to shut up and that it was my parents'
>>choice, not mine.
>
>How many years ago was it that you were 13?
>
>.

Hi scamptoo,
These things happened 15 years ago, and I'm now 28.

But I assure you, they've embarrassed me so much over the years that I remember them as if they happened yesterday.

Although now, at 28, as I wrote in the first post to Matteo, I agree with Eliza: what's happening to Matteo is a wonderful gift!
I completely agree with what she wrote: "Initially, it will feel great, finally being able to cover up your things. But soon this will pass, and you're going to feel regret that this joy of being truly carefree is gone forever. Trust me, I speak from experience. Most, if not all, adults live with this regret. Don't do this to yourself. Nature has given you a chance to prolong your carefreeness. Use it. Love it, be proud, and more importantly, be happy! :)"
I am one of those adults; I now live with this regret.

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Date Posted: 01:28:35 08/16/25 Sat
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Hi Andrea, it seems like your childhood was the same as mine. As I said, last week I met a high school friend of mine: she behaved well in front of my parents, but when we were at sea she said all sorts of things to me. Only when I was about to cry did she stop a little. During the games in the water, however, he found every possible excuse to touch my private parts and then said: "Oh sorry, okay you're still a child, after all I haven't touched anything". Last year, however, one of my middle school classmates found herself witnessing my bath time several times. And she also saw mom putting my night diaper on several times.

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Date Posted: 08:34:35 08/17/25 Sun
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>Hi Andrea, it seems like your childhood was the same
>as mine. As I said, last week I met a high school
>friend of mine: she behaved well in front of my
>parents, but when we were at sea she said all sorts of
>things to me. Only when I was about to cry did she
>stop a little. During the games in the water, however,
>he found every possible excuse to touch my private
>parts and then said: "Oh sorry, okay you're still a
>child, after all I haven't touched anything". Last
>year, however, one of my middle school classmates
>found herself witnessing my bath time several times.
>And she also saw mom putting my night diaper on
>several times.


Hi Matteo
I'm only replying now because I've been away for a couple of days...
Wow! I imagine it was very embarrassing, both with your high school classmate who repeatedly touched your penis and with your middle school classmate who witnessed you bathing and wearing diapers at night. OMG! I would have died of embarrassment the first time!
why did the middle school girl attend it more than once?
Which of these three situations embarrassed you the most, and why?

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Date Posted: 08:59:57 08/17/25 Sun
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The most embarrassing thing was definitely Martina seeing me in my diapers. I felt so small.

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Date Posted: 09:02:28 08/17/25 Sun
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>The most embarrassing thing was definitely Martina
>seeing me in my diapers. I felt so small.

Hi Matteo,

Thanks for your honesty.

Sorry, why did Martina attend it more than once?

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Date Posted: 13:47:31 08/17/25 Sun
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I meant that Martina has seen me naked many times

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Date Posted: 14:06:17 08/17/25 Sun
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>I meant that Martina has seen me naked many times

Both while bathing at your house and naked on the beach? Both many times?

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Date Posted: 14:10:20 08/17/25 Sun
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Unfortunately yes.

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Date Posted: 14:12:46 08/17/25 Sun
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>Unfortunately yes.

Why did your mom let her see you bathing after the first time?
The beach is fine, but bathing is a private moment.

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Date Posted: 14:19:04 08/17/25 Sun
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You're right, but Mom treats me like a little child. Until what age were you bathed by Mom?

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Date Posted: 14:28:42 08/17/25 Sun
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>You're right, but Mom treats me like a little child.
>Until what age were you bathed by Mom?

I understand that your mother treats you like a toddler because you're not fully developed. Unfortunately, my parents did the same to me. I understand!
But I don't understand why we allowed Martina to witness this private moment several times.
My mother bathed me until I was fully developed. For a few months after the onset of puberty, she continued to bathe me under the pretext of checking that everything was going well and not stopping.

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Date Posted: 14:33:56 08/17/25 Sun
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For my mother, children should not have shame

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Date Posted: 23:25:02 08/17/25 Sun
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Matteo, your mom is absolutely right. All children, but especially prepubescent ones, should not be ashamed at all.
As I've said before concentrate on the positives of your situation and be a happy boy, sweetie! ;)

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Date Posted: 10:27:32 08/18/25 Mon
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>For my mother, children should not have shame

Your mother is correct.

And remember, to her you will always be her child no matter how old you get to be.

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Date Posted: 10:23:18 08/18/25 Mon
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>Unfortunately yes.


Well if Martina has seen you naked many times, while bathing at your house and naked on the beach, then why are you not used to her seeing you naked and feel comfortable at those times?

I would think that by now you would be used to her seeing you naked and not be embarrassed anymore.



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Date Posted: 14:46:32 08/18/25 Mon
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There are situations where I'm more comfortable undressing, like on nude beaches. Other moments are and will remain awkward, like my female classmate watching me while my mom washes me like a baby.

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Date Posted: 10:08:25 08/15/25 Fri
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>Hi Andrea, Were you naked all the time at the beach? I
>go to the beach in a T-shirt and underwear, so I'm
>naked from the moment we set up the umbrella until we
>leave (sometimes they dress me in the parking lot).
>Have you ever run into classmates or anyone you know
>at the beach?

You say, "(sometimes they dress me in the parking lot)".

You say "they", who is it that dresses you if it is more than one person?

Does that mean that they also dress you on the beach most times?

And what about undressing, do they do that for you as well, or do you undress yourself at those times?

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Date Posted: 06:32:50 08/16/25 Sat
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I wrote "them," meaning my parents. But only one of them, either Mom or Dad, makes me wear panties. Most of the time, I'm dressed on the beach, but sometimes, if there are public showers along the way from the beach to the parking lot, they'll wash me there and then let me walk naked to the car to dry off.
When I arrive, mom or dad undress me.

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Date Posted: 15:41:01 08/23/25 Sat
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Hello, Eliza!

Thank you for your words that "Most if not all adults live with this regret. Don't do this to yourself."

I thought I was the only person who felt that way.
Like you, I’m sorry Matteo can’t spend the rest of his life in Nature’s garb,
but I never had that chance in the first place.

Where I grew up, there were no nude beaches. I didn’t even know there were any.
Where I grew up, high schools didn’t have nude swim teams which held competitions which were open to the public. I didn’t even know there were any.
I grew up wondering what it felt like to be nude outdoors.

Even partial nudity makes me feel envious.
I recently read of a British school which held an annual May Day celebration. In front of an audience of 200 parents and friends, the 9-, 10-, and 11-year-old boys skipped around the May pole, wearing nothing but minimal gym shorts.
I would give anything to trade places.
During the Seventies, I saw boys confidently roaming anywhere they wished, sporting bare feet, bare chests, and shorts which did not waste an inch.
I would give anything to trade places.

Thank you for assuring me that I wasn't crazy.
I hope every girl on the beach gets a good close look at Matteo.

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Date Posted: 01:17:24 08/24/25 Sun
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>I hope every girl on the beach gets a good close look
>at Matteo.

You can be sure of that! I've never worn a swimsuit to the beach. Luckily, sometimes, like yesterday, I go to nudist places, so I also see naked girls. It's nicer on equal terms.

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Date Posted: 09:51:03 08/12/25 Tue
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>Hi Eliza, I read that you only leave your children
>naked in secluded places. That would be fine with me,
>too. Besides, I like going to nude beaches, where
>we're all equals. For example, today we stopped by a
>small lake: there were only two guys in their twenties
>and a family with two naked children of about 10. In
>this situation, I have no problem being naked. But
>yesterday was different. The beach was crowded, all
>the children over 5 were in swimsuits. And then I met
>this girl from my school. Her family set up their
>umbrella next to ours. When my friend and I went into
>the sea and were away from our parents, she said to
>me, "Oh my God, I can't believe you're all naked like
>newborns! Aren't you ashamed?"

Maybe she was jellous that she couldn't be naked on the beach as well.

You have nothing to be ashamed.

In years from now you will wish that you could still look younger than you are.

Believe it or not, some men actually shave the hair they have in order to try to look that young again.

As Eliza said in the post above, and which I have copied and pasted below;

"You're 14 and a half years old which means that probably within couple of months or a year your puberty will start and you're finally gonna be allowed a swimsuit on a regular beach. Initially it will feel great, finally being able to cover up your things. But soon this will pass and you're going to feel regret that this joy of being trurly carefree is gone forever. "

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Date Posted: 00:56:24 08/13/25 Wed
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You and Eliza are probably right, but put yourself in my shoes. Among fourteen-year-olds, it's not cool to be the shortest in class, with a high-pitched voice, and a hairless 2-inch dick. And then there's another reason that makes me long for the onset of puberty: my pediatrician told me that once puberty is over, I'll have a good chance of leaving my bedwetting problem behind.

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Date Posted: 10:16:11 08/13/25 Wed
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Oh sweetie I'm sorry to hear about your problem. My brother also had this issue. He slept in Pampers diapers until he was 10. After that it just stopped and he was so happy. :)

I know what you're saiyng and how you feel and let me assure you: puberty IS comming. It WILL happen. It is NOT cancelled. Focus on the positives of your situtation becaue they're many and plenty of adults would be jelous. :)

btw: I should have brought this up earlier. My friend in Germany has a son just like you. He's 13 and a half, quite short for his age and stil waiting for puberty. He's also kept naked at home and at beaches. My fiend also takes him to naked hikes to the mountains or to the forests.

I will probably start a new thread about it when I find the time.

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Date Posted: 02:30:38 08/14/25 Thu
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I also wear diapers at night, for trips and other special occasions. This is the main reason my parents make me naked as much as possible: to let my skin breathe, which comes in contact with pee and poop at night. I'm so ashamed of this, especially around my cousins. Is your brother younger than you? I've read that nudism is quite widespread in Germany. But that's not the case in Italy. Next Monday I'm finally leaving for Croatia, a place I've been before and I know I won't be the only one naked.

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Date Posted: 09:28:02 08/14/25 Thu
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Now this sheds a totally new light on your sutuation. Your parents are doing your skin and your areas down there a great favour. You HAVE to be naked. My brother used to suffer from several fungal infections of his pelvic and anal areas. It itched him so much he couldn't sleep and curing one took months and sometimes over the year. Fungal infections also cause severe complications.

Oh sweetie I'm sorry to say that but you being naked is not a matter of puberty but rather of your condition. If, hypothetically, your puberty starts tommorrow and it hits you like a truck growing you to 190cm, giving you knee long pubic hair, huge penis but your situation still isn't resovled - you're still going to have to be naked at home and at the beach. Let's be optimistic and hope puberty solves this issue. :)

To your question: my brother is 2 years older then me, he's all grown up and has a family of his own - wife and 2 boys(13 and 15). And even though 15 year old is in full blown puberty, me and my sister in law sometimes manage to convince him into joining his younger cousins. My sister in law then takes off his swim briefs and rubs a sunscreen into those areas. The 13 year old recently started showing the first signs of puberty but he's still very cool with being undressed automatically.

Nudism in Germany used to be very widespread and hiking naked was very popular but nowadays there are only few nude hiking trails. My friend takes her son mainly to the clothed ones. She says most passers by are positively surprised, complementing him and it sometimes makes him blush. :)

Croatia is nice! I whish you a happy and carefree trip! :)

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Date Posted: 20:03:22 08/14/25 Thu
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What does your sister-in-law say to her 15-year-old son to convince him to give up his swimsuit? What factors does he use to decide whether or not to accept it?

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Date Posted: 03:27:07 08/15/25 Fri
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Usually she approaches him, lays her hand on his booty, pats it gently and asks: "Sweetie, why don't you join your brother and your cousins?"
He's like: "No thanks" but we can see his answer isn't instant and he's thinking about before answering so she continues.
"Come on, the weather is so fine today"
"We're all family"
"No one's here besides us"
"You'll get more vitamin D"
"Just look at the boys: they've all had their panties taken off and they're so happy."

After couple of arguments spoken in favour of him taking off his swim panties she sees in his eyes that he's about to agree. She then grabs the waisband of his panties, makes a pleading look and says someting like: "Come on, you have nothing to loose sweetie...well, except your panties." And smiles.

He usually agrees at this point and my sister in law begins to take off his panties. She reaches with her hand to the inside of the front and grabs the drawstring. After untying it she slides them down to his knees and tells him to grab her shoulders and step out of them. She then folds them, puts it on her towell and grabs the sunscreen bottle. She uses spf 50 for those areas. She rubs it very thoroughly onto his areas making sure that everything down there is secured from getting a sunburn.

He then joins the other boys playing ball on the beach, doing flips in the water etc. Initially he's a little bit embarrased, but the more time he spends naked the more comfortable he becomes.
There have been situations in which some people came and opened their towells right next to ours but he was so comfy he didn't care. ;)

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>Usually she approaches him, lays her hand on his
>booty, pats it gently and asks: "Sweetie, why don't
>you join your brother and your cousins?"
>He's like: "No thanks" but we can see his answer isn't
>instant and he's thinking about before answering so
>she continues.
>"Come on, the weather is so fine today"
>"We're all family"
>"No one's here besides us"
>"You'll get more vitamin D"
>"Just look at the boys: they've all had their panties
>taken off and they're so happy."
>
>After couple of arguments spoken in favour of him
>taking off his swim panties she sees in his eyes that
>he's about to agree. She then grabs the waisband of
>his panties, makes a pleading look and says someting
>like: "Come on, you have nothing to loose
>sweetie...well, except your panties." And smiles.
>
>He usually agrees at this point and my sister in law
>begins to take off his panties. She reaches with her
>hand to the inside of the front and grabs the
>drawstring. After untying it she slides them down to
>his knees and tells him to grab her shoulders and step
>out of them. She then folds them, puts it on her
>towell and grabs the sunscreen bottle. She uses spf 50
>for those areas. She rubs it very thoroughly onto his
>areas making sure that everything down there is
>secured from getting a sunburn.
>
>He then joins the other boys playing ball on the
>beach, doing flips in the water etc. Initially he's a
>little bit embarrased, but the more time he spends
>naked the more comfortable he becomes.
>There have been situations in which some people came
>and opened their towells right next to ours but he was
>so comfy he didn't care. ;)

While your sister-in-law thoroughly rubs that spf 50 onto her son's areas, making sure that everything down there is secured from getting a sunburn, does he ever erect, and if so what is his reaction at those times, or her reaction?

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Date Posted: 11:13:41 08/15/25 Fri
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Well, sometimes he does have an erection. He then blushes and says: "Oh I'm sorry I didn't mean that" or something similar to that.
My sister in law assures him this is normal and natural reaction, there is nothing wrong that. She then asks him: "Do you want to rub the sunscreen on him yourself then?"

I guess he feels uncomfortable touching his erect penis in front of his mother so he says: "No, you can do it. I'm fine."

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Date Posted: 04:37:25 08/15/25 Fri
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Is your nephew comfortable being naked even if families with daughters settle near you? Today in Italy it is a holiday (it's called "Ferragosto") and we are at our grandparents' house to have a barbecue. My uncles and cousins are also there. This morning we swam naked in their pool, adults and children. It was beautiful! But now it's lunch time and my parents, uncles and grandparents have gotten dressed. When I asked for my clothes, Mom said we kids could be naked. This worries me a bit because I know that after lunch some of my grandparents' friends will arrive.

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Date Posted: 08:30:30 08/15/25 Fri
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Well, sometimes he blushes but after a short while he's back to being comfortable. I think that after all he likes being naked as much as his cousins. ;)

Have a great and happy barbecue! Tell us how it went. :)

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Date Posted: 00:57:07 08/16/25 Sat
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Yesterday went well. The grandparents' friends were a couple of their age and I was not embarrassed. I even let the woman put on sunscreen for me.

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Date Posted: 01:28:01 08/16/25 Sat
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I'm so happy for you andI whish you more comfortable moments like this was! :)

So nice of you to let the woman help you with the suncreen. :)

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Date Posted: 01:35:47 08/16/25 Sat
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Oh, after all she is a grandmother. The real embarrassment was without her. In the evening, after the shower, mum, as usual, put a diaper on me, "so we don't have to put it on later at home when you're tired". This meant spending the last hour at my grandparents' house in a t-shirt and diaper, in front of my uncles and cousins.

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Date Posted: 01:52:19 08/16/25 Sat
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It might have been a little embarrasing for you, but after all they're your family and they love you no matter what. Don't worry about that. :)

btw: How many specialists your parents consulted about your problem. Incontinence can be a symptom of plenty of conditions both physical and mental. Maybe there's some unresolved early childhood trauma that's causing all this problem. Have you consulted child psychologist?

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Date Posted: 03:52:16 08/16/25 Sat
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Yes, I have to say that in my extended family, no one makes fun of me for wearing diapers, not even my cousins. But it's still embarrassing for me to be seen wearing a toddler's outfit. Of course, my parents have taken me to many doctors: my bladder is small for my body, but it should return to normal with puberty. During the day, I can hold my urine (for at least ten minutes after the urge), but not at night or when I'm sick. My pediatrician says I'm not the only teenager with this problem, but maybe she's just saying that to console me.

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Date Posted: 05:59:44 08/16/25 Sat
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Bladder, along with prostate, grows bigger during puberty so it should solve the problem. :)

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scamptoo to Matteo
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Date Posted: 08:52:22 08/16/25 Sat
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>Yesterday went well. The grandparents' friends were a
>couple of their age and I was not embarrassed. I even
>let the woman put on sunscreen for me.

It was nice of you to allow that woman to put the sunscreen on you.

That could be your first step to being more comfortable in those situations.

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scamptoo to Matteo
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Date Posted: 10:50:07 08/13/25 Wed
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>You and Eliza are probably right, but put yourself in
>my shoes. Among fourteen-year-olds, it's not cool to
>be the shortest in class, with a high-pitched voice,
>and a hairless 2-inch dick. And then there's another
>reason that makes me long for the onset of puberty: my
>pediatrician told me that once puberty is over, I'll
>have a good chance of leaving my bedwetting problem
>behind.

I too was the shortest in my class, and much like you I too did reach puberty until I was past 14.

As for you having "a hairless 2-inch dick", if I remember correctly when I was your age I was much the same in length but when erect it was a good 3-ince dick.

I didn't give a rats ass if anyone seen it in either state, and if they made any negative comments my comeback was usually, "why are you looking at other boys dicks".

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Matteo to scamptoo
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Date Posted: 20:18:48 08/14/25 Thu
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I can't be as confident as you were. I'm just trying to shower and get dressed as quickly as possible. Besides the lack of growth, like every year, there will be another reason to mock me when soccer practice resumes in September: my teammates will see my even tan and say, "Ah, ah, Matteo is still a little boy lying naked on the beach!"

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