Subject: Re: Further analysis |
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Starla
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Date Posted: 23:51:53 03/03/05 Thu
In reply to:
RockGroupieCom
's message, "Re: Further analysis" on 17:39:41 03/03/05 Thu
One thing that struck me from hearing Lori M. interviewed was how she was 'afraid' of Pamela. Jim Morrison's girlfriend was intimidated by Pam, too. I can't help but think the guys liked this dichotomy & some may have even promoted it to not only keep the girls in line, but so they could feel the rush & power of being the sought after object. It gave their egos & self-esteem a constant boost, while keeping all the girls close.
It's so interesting that you would bring up the impulsivity of musicians. Despite being 'randy' or 'polygamists', esp. the British ones, seem to like having a main girlfriend. I bring this up, also, b/c of what was said in the two previous posts about ardor & pursuit. This isn't something that's addressed much, rather 'rock star' antics or incidents are.
This is the same situation experienced w/my past love. Calls every night, exchanges of love, reassurance & tears - flying, traveling & meeting all over along w/plans to move in. Then it just stops. Maybe the woman won't phone b/c she feels she should be the one pursued. Then, the next thing you hear is that he's marrying the baby-sitter.
The contrast b/w that & the prior vital furvor of the loving relationship doesn't add up & is hard, if not impossible to reconcile.
>So, when I read your book, things seemed to go from one >quick meeting to a second meeting at a hotel then to a one- >nighter then an invite to England and so forth.
>He apparently started asking Pam DesBarres to marry him back >in the day. From what I've read he strikes me as sort of an >impulsive guy - like a guy who meets a girl and quickly >jumps into "commitment talk" only to back out later. When >reading Pam's book and your book, I got the impression he >was just a guy that liked handing the girls a bunch of lines >to get what he wanted. Nothing struck me as sincere in what
>he was saying.
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