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Date Posted: 12:38:41 05/21/16 Sat
Author: Casseopia
Subject: Re: Sexual abuse as a young boy and TGT
In reply to: Rob 's message, "Re: Sexual abuse as a young boy and TGT" on 11:21:59 05/21/16 Sat

Thank you Rob. Yes it is a mind-fuck. And the main reason why I keep coming here asking - but what if he's not really gay? Because I don't want to really believe it and because he's also saying it's not true, it makes things extra hard and muddy in my mind.

Yes - I kept my vows too and would never hurt my husband but he broke every vow in the book and some more that haven't even been thought of so what kind of crazy fool would I be if I even thought about staying?

For me - while he's still in rehab, it's easier. Limited contact (one letter and a phone call every week) from him and knowing he's not out there doing drugs or trawling for men on the internet. I think when he comes out, it will be harder. But he's not coming back here (at my request) so maybe that won't even be as hard as I imagine it will be.

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