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Date Posted: 10:37:56 05/26/16 Thu
Author: Still wondering
Subject: Re: A familiar pattern
In reply to: Susan 's message, "A familiar pattern" on 04:41:46 05/26/16 Thu

Beautifully written. So many good points Susan. It never ceases to amaze me that I learn something new here that coincides with my situation every day. I hear it here over and over again. After the sadness it's the anger that finally prompts you to realize that this shit isn't changing until YOU make it change. It wasn't until I got ANGRY and told the second therapist HE was waaaaay off that I gained the strength to set me on my journey. The therapist (male, PhD) told me that men look at "everything" even other naked men and gay porn, and to wear a rubber band and snap my wrist every time I thought he was gay because I was clearly wrong. Oh and one more thing, he added, after I hit 40 and I hit my "sexual peak" (I have yet to hit that at 43 apparently) I'd probably like dildos in my ass too. I laughed - and never went back.

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