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Date Posted: 23:11:15 05/29/16 Sun
Author: Anne (so sorry)
Subject: Re: Feels like I'm dying
In reply to: Josie 's message, "Feels like I'm dying" on 06:22:38 05/29/16 Sun

Josie,
You feel like you're dying because part of you is dying - the part that believed that your husband and marriage were real and not based on a lie. It takes a while for the truth to sink in as you desperately try to figure out how to make it all go away.

We are all in different stages of grief after our own discoveries, as you will soon see. I can tell you that that pain lessens over time but you can't rush it. It will be hell for a while so hold on tight. If you haven't found a therapist yet please do. And watch your finances. The fact that he's also using drugs is a big threat to your financial stability. Set up separate banking accounts so he can't spend your income.

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