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Date Posted: 03:13:30 07/18/16 Mon
Author: Kate #1 (Trust me; walk away.)
Subject: Re: Sexual abuse as a young boy and TGT
In reply to: Casseopia 's message, "Sexual abuse as a young boy and TGT" on 16:37:11 05/18/16 Wed

My ex-husband used the trauma, thus confused identity excuse (molested at age nine by his older brother) through ten years of counseling for him and us (at my insistence) while simultaneously continuing to carry on a secret, cheating gay lifestyle. Lying is lying. Cheating is cheating. Betrayal is betrayal. Lack of integrity with narcissism negate love--it's that simple, yet it's still taken me over a decade to finally see this father of my children is too toxic to my well-being to spend much time with anymore. I learned that no therapist was better than trusting my gut feelings---eventually. Bull*hit is bull*hit. Tell it like it is!

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