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Date Posted: 15:45:46 05/17/16 Tue
Author: WendiT
Subject: Re: Update
In reply to: Vicky 's message, "Re: Update" on 11:58:35 05/17/16 Tue

I hesitate to answer because I don't know what it takes to make a MOM work. But based on the failure of my unilateral MOM (for lack of a better term) I would think that:

- complete open honesty and commitment would be required from both parties
- Clear and concise rules of engagement would have to be agreed upon
- counseling and support for the establishment of these rules
- full, complete, sober, and open disclosure of his SSA, since your partner only admitted to all of this while "a bit drunk". If he needs liquid courage to open up then do you have the full picture of what you are getting into. Make sure you know.

I hope that Cameron comes along. He would be the very best person here to give you feed back. I would also hope that keep a firm grip on what YOU want and that you don't loose yourself in this venture and that your needs and desires are met too. I think SSN main web page has a list of groups for people who are in MOMs that you could join for support and suggestions.

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