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Date Posted: 04:58:24 05/20/16 Fri
Author: Susan (Nasty little squirrels)
Subject: Re: Blaming and shaming
In reply to: Sue 's message, "Blaming and shaming" on 19:40:37 05/19/16 Thu

Thanks for sharing Sue although I'm so sorry your gay ex-husband was (and continues to be) such a D*CK. I made the same mistake of looking for clarity too soon and it completely bit me in the *SS. For most of our marriage, my ex-husband was cute, frolicking, and harmless little squirrel. He was cute and cuddly when he had a whole gay forest in which to frolic...and hump I guess. But corner that little F*CKER and the teeth/claws come out. He was cornered emotionally when I confronted him about being gay and I realized the same rabid animal bares it's teeth every time I try to hold him accountable for the failure of our marriage. My advice? Set him FREE and set yourself FREE. Every time you try to corner him, he'll bear his teeth and claw his way back to freedom...even though that freedom may seem bizarre in your estimation. I FINALLY gained my own freedom once I stopped looking for him to provide me answers and started finding my own. I hope that helps in some way. GOOD LUCK!

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