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Date Posted: 18:23:52 03/29/17 Wed
Author: I understand
Subject: Re: A lifetime lost
In reply to: Christine 's message, "A lifetime lost" on 14:33:56 03/29/17 Wed

I was married for 38 years. Found out after 33 years. Separated for 2 years and divorced last summer. You are not alone. These are very sick people. After I found out about my ex's secret life, I just could not understand how he could have done something so horrible to me and our family and yet live his life as if everything was normal. No guilt. Once I learned about personality disorders and specifically NPD it all made sense. I was married to a false person who did not feel guilt or empathy like normal people do. He wasted the only life I had and left me traumatized and disconnected. I am so sorry about your daughters. The loses from this are profound. It sounds like you have a good extended family. I hope you find some love and support from them.

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