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Subject: He hurt my feelings


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Heather
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Date Posted: 16:26:55 03/19/07 Mon
In reply to: Heather 's message, "Re: I am so co-dependent" on 19:06:28 03/18/07 Sun
 Yes I have that wall up but he still hurt my feelings. Yes I know I am to blame for listening to the same old bull again. He really had me going this time.
And today he had the nerve to tell me that he did nothing wrong and that I crossed his boundaries. He said that he has friends that are girls. Well I know what I read on those text messages and I asked him if I can see him hand held phone/computer. He was right there when I was looking, so how did I cross boundaries. If anyone crossed boudaries, he crossed mine.
So with all that said, how many of you think he is still using and I was manipulated? And what about he is clean but just a jerk with no morals or feelings for anyone but himself.
How in the world do I get him out of my life? We have a son together. Do I allow them to still have a relationship? After all, he knew he would be hurting not only me with his lies and manipulation but the kids as well. Who knows? He may not even call my son for another couple of months. Some advice? Since I made another mess for myself to clean up. I let him back in to our lives only to go through the same thing again, only this time he was treating us great. Except behind my back.
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Re: He hurt my feelingsShelly20:23:44 03/19/07 Mon

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