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Date Posted: 23:09:52 04/23/11 Sat
Author: Margaret
Subject: Re: If you are here still
In reply to: Ben 's message, "Re: If you are here still" on 06:18:24 04/22/11 Fri

Hi, Ben!
With my big pleasure, I'm writing some my commentaries about your answers and answer on your questions myself

>>>6. What do you think, does he masturbates now more or
>>>less since he is together with Jessica? - I know
>>Jack masturbates, as any boy in his age, but,
>>honestly, I don't know as often.
>
>Honestly? As his mother, you should try to find out.
>Believe me, it's important to keep control. -

- Ben, how can I control Jack's masturbation? He isn't all time under my direct supervision and he never masturbates in front me. I saw it a few times accidently only. I think, he can do it in toilet, during showering, in the bed... Moreover, Ben, you know (we began earlier our coversations since this question) I consider masturbation is normal and natural thing for teen-boys and, if be honest, for teen-girls too. I read books about teens raising and doctors consider masturbation is natural in this age. Of course, I can see spots on his linen or PJ but it may be results of wet-dreams the same as traces of masturbation.
>To answering your questions:
>
>>1). Ben, I know you checked bottom cleanliness your
>>children before weekly bathing, as part of spanking.
>>Did you checking their bottoms within week? If yes,
>>how, when, how often, and who more was checked - boys
>>or Vanessa?
>
>They were daily checked, both, boys and Vanessa. -
-Now, I check Jack's bottom when he is in bed already. I use old-fashion "diaper position". I take off his blanket,tell him pull down PJ, bent legs to chest and spread legs. It position gives me completely view on his crack and anus. When I did it the first time, Jack did it very reluctantly and told "you will be able to see too much!" I asked him which part his body would be new for me, and that he lost my trust about his cleanliness and regular checking will be part of our life till constant good result. A few times, when his bottom was dirty, we together went to bathroom and I wiped him as little boy.
If I check him within day (I do it sometimes), he ought to pull down trousers and boxers till knee, bent, and spread his cheeks by hand. Ben, how did you checked boys and Vanessa during daily checking (except Saturday prespanking checking)?

2) How often your boys changed underpants?
>
>Daily. - Did you check their underpants daily or during laundry only. Who checked Mark's underpants, you or his mother?
>
>>3) were they ashamed, when were skid-marks, or boys
>>considered it natural?
>
>I made them be ashamed. - Ben, how you made it?

>
>>4) Was Mark ashamed that his mother bathed him
>>including all privates, but Kevin bathed himself
>>independently?
>
>Of course he was, but his mother was very strict in
>this point. And as she used his bathing to "remove his
>boyish
>aggressive feelings" and to calm him down she had
>cause to do it. -
- Ben, were twins or someone other witnesses when Mark's mother bathed him? If yes, till which age?

>
>>5)Ben, what is your opinion, when you had "spanking
>>parties" when Kevin and Mark were embarrassed more -
>>when their behinds cleanliness was checked in front
>>girls or getting spanking?
>
>Of course the cleanliness checking. I think, it's the
>same with Jack, isn't it? -
-It's absolutely right. Jack hates, when his cleanliness was checked in front Nancy and Mark, but, when I,before beginning of spanking, see his dirty crack or feel smell, his crack and anus are checking in front them.

>>6)Ben, I understand, it's aukward question, however,
>>may I ask you, how was with your cleanliness in age
>>15-16 and how your parents checked it?
>
>As you say: boys are boys. And I was a very dirty one.
>I got an enema at least three times the week. My
>mother also checked my body hygiene daily twice after
>my washing. I had to stand naked before here, my hands
>on my head (after I showed my hands to her). She
>checked me with her own hands, also my teeth, my penis
>(also mostly erected), my balls, my crack. My whole
>body was totally exposed to her and supervised by her.
>I always felt her full control about it. If she found
>some dirt, she removed it, but then I was thrashed
>hardly for it.
>It worked! After my stubborn puberty years I was the
>cleanest young man you may imagine.
>You should try this with Jack. -
- Now, I'm sure it was good method of your mother and it would be useful for Jack. I think, neglecting of cleanliness is part of boy's rebel in puberty age. Parents request cleanliness? I won't wipe behind even!
Ben, how old were you, when your mother began this complete checking and when she trust to you to be independent in cleanliness and stopped control. Was anyone witness of this checking?

>>7) Ben, you are father 2 young men and know about boys
>>raising everything. Must I keep secret about Jack's
>>cleanliness from Jessica? Which is your opinion?
>
>You should threat him that you will tell Jessica about
>it,
>if he doesn't improve his cleanliness.
>And if that's not enough, than really talk to her! -
- It's good advice. Thank you.
>
>
>Margaret, I also have again a few questions, if you
>allow?
>
>1. When Jack stands before you with a full blown
>erection, is his glance exposed? Can you see if it's
>clean? - Yes, when his penis almost touchs his abdomen, glance is open, but I couldn't evaluate is it clean enough then.
>
>2. How does he react when you commanded him to wash
>his penis in front of you? - He makes it very reluctantly and tries do it maximally fast, but I request do it qualitative enough.
>
>3. How much hair brush spanks did you gave him last
>time? Tell me about his further reactions during his
>last spanking. - I didn't count, but last times he got about 30-40 spanks (15-20 on each cheek). Any case, his behind was dark-red, when I ended punishment, and his spanking-dance, when he jumped and rubbed his behind still crying was a few minutes.

>4. During Jack's hardest spankings, did he ever lose
>semen, urin or even excrement? - Now, after his 14, I spank him with pillow on my left lap. It's our special "spanking pillow". Yes, sometimes, including last spanking, it's wet after spanking, because Jack had loss of semen. I saw, when he ejaculated, but his penis was on pillow and didn't touch me. I gave him short break and then continued spanking.
>
>5. Margaret, when I tell about Mark's mom's special
>bathing and education methods, you seem to avoid this
>matter. What do you reckon and think about it? - Ben, I'l disscus this question with you sincerely, but I have no information enough. I would thanksfull to you for complete information about Mark's mom special methods. I know your "trio" according to your words and any additional information help us to speak about our children raising. For you it's past, but for my boy present and any information from such experience man is useful.

Best wishes, I'm waiting your answers,
Margaret

PS. By the way, I think, your mother had great work to change rebellious teen in good and lover father your own children and Mark, really? Her methods were right, yes?

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