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Subject: Re: New Years Resolutions


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KevintoKristina
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Date Posted: 05:51:11 01/21/24 Sun
In reply to: Kristina 's message, "New Years Resolutions" on 06:51:43 01/20/24 Sat

>Soo, how was everyones Christmas, were the children
>able to stay on or get back on Santa's nice list ? :)
>
>Hope you all had a good new year. SO hubby and I had
>discussed it, making some big changes this year, and
>it has been about 3 weeks now since implementing them.
>
>On Christmas, Santa brought each of the children their
>very own paddle, don't worry for their age, they are
>small thin lexan paddles that can easily be used over
>knee or in diaper position.
>
>So, after a VERY sound hand spanking when a punishment
>is needed, there are 10-15 paddle spanks as well
>before sitting in the corner. we hug and talk and
>comfort after corner time has finished and pray
>together of course.
>
>I will be keeping a wooden spoon in my purse, for
>occasions such as discussions needed at church, which
>is fairly common, we feel its important to instill
>certain behavior and manners in God's house.
>
>We also have decided to use nightly bedtime spankings,
>to allow a special bonding time to end the day, let
>the children release any stress of the day and sleep
>soundly, with a clean slate. It has made the bedtime
>routine alot smoother , I will say that much, and I
>feel so much more motherly and close to them.
>
>We also are trying to cut out giving warnings, as they
>know well enough to listen when we speak to them first
>time.
>
>Other changes include alot more bible reading as a
>family, we have a picnic or special meal together
>every sunday after church, inviting a few other church
>families, that has been wonderful.
>
>We have now put reward charts on the fridge, one for
>each child, with cute cartoon stickers. Good behavior
>or a good job with manners or chores, will allow them
>to put a sticker on the chart.
>
>10 stickers mean a small inexpensive treat or toy as a
>reward, they seem more confident and such now which is
>so great to see.
>
>I am now praising for even small things, making it an
>exciting accomplishment. they love that.
>
>If anyone would like to learn more, feel free to email
>me ( i love receiving emails from other families) or
>message on here or both lol
>
>But i would love to hear if anyone else has any
>changes or resolutions in their homes this new year?
>
>God bless you all
Dear Kristina, Sounds beautiful! Esp those nightly spankings. They are so wonderful for mutual bonding.
Luv that you are keeping your wooden spoon in your purse, of course. Wooden spoons, for all ages, are VERY under rated.
Wooden spoons are great for giving long spankings.
Luv your Lexan, too.
I will confdentially email you if you dont mind.
Keep up the great work.
God bless you all as well.

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