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Date Posted: 09:47:27 05/19/16 Thu
Author: Casseopia
Subject: Re: Sexual abuse as a young boy and TGT
In reply to: Still Wondering 's message, "Re: Sexual abuse as a young boy and TGT" on 17:02:11 05/18/16 Wed

Your story sounds so similar to mine... only except that he really did go cold turkey on the gay sex seven months ago. I know this because, with advice from his therapist, I installed a tracker app and a childlock on his phone and have known where he is and what he's doing since then.

It's a miserable life though, when you have to monitor your husband like a child.

I am 99% sure that I am done with this marriage. I think you may be right in that my husband may not be done with TGT yet. I don't know. Maybe he doesn't know himself. But could I go through all of this again. Hell, no. It's been painful beyond belief.

I discovered all of this 2 weeks after our big wedding party with all of our friends and family, after getting married abroad. This is the farthest from the honeymoon period as I can imagine.

Thank you for your advice and kind words.

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