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Date Posted: 10:27:53 04/21/11 Thu
Author: Margaret
Subject: Re: If you are here still
In reply to: Ben (happy to be back) 's message, "Re: If you are here still" on 06:51:25 04/18/11 Mon

Hi, Ben! I have pleasure to continue our conversations with you again. Indeed, I have possibility to speak with you about some problems which appear with my son. You have great experience with your "trio" and your opinions help me to make decision sometimes. Jack is 16 already now! He was such sweet during Birthday party and I hope he will be smart enough now. Alas... Perhaps, he decided his new age gave him permission to be out of discipline. I think, he tries understand where is border of his obedience. His behavior and acts were reasons of many marks in his punishment calendar. He had skip of lessons (twice!), bad grades, notes from teachers, back talk and rudeness with me, neglecting of chores. Moreover, problems with his hygiene began again! I decided it's enough and Saturday (Apr.9) Jack had "day of reckoning". I spoke with Nancy and, because Mike had sins enough too, we decided to punish both boys together. Jack was indignanted that he ,"such old", would be punished as "little Mike" ,especially, in front Nancy and Mike. Nevertheless, I explained him, if his behavior is such childish, he would punish as child. He begged to spank him in his room, no in front Nancy, but I told he deserved public punishment and ought to be thankfull that get in front Nancy and Mike only. Mike was embarrassed too (he is 14 and Jack is "role model" for him). They both took off their clothes very reluctantly (and I myself had to pull down Jack's briefs), but, after short time, both stood in line totally naked, covering their penises by hands. Jack was amazed, when I ordered him "hands on head!". He refused to do it himself, but, despite his resisting, I did it. Nancy told it's right decision and Mike ought to do it too. Jack had full erection almost immediately but had to stand so during my and Nancy lectures. Then, Mike got the first, over Nancy's lap, and was Jack's turn. When Jack was bent over my left knee and his bottom was open, I have seen that his crack is dirty! 16-year-old lad! I understand that he was ashamed enough, when I showed his dirty behind Nancy and still crying Mike (but Mike was more concerned his burning bottom), wiped him in front them, and, then, my hair-brush gave him good lesson. I hope, next spanking won't be soon.



>Margaret, please let me also ask you a few questions
>again. - With my pleasure, and I'l wait your commentaries.


>1. (The first question I asked in the beginning of my
>post.) - I answered already.

>2. How about Jack and Jessica, everything fine
>between them? - I think, everything is fine. Jessica is very good and smart girl. I hope, she will have good influence for my boy, who is stupid and foolish yet, sometimes. Ben, you understand better who are 16-year-old boys, really? Jessica, as oldest, is leader among children in her family, she care about both younger brothers and she has skilling to keep boys inside discipline rules.
Ben, I may speak with you sincerelly. I was concerned about possibility Jack's and Jessica sexual relations, because, I consider, their both are too young for it. I understand that stupids boys in this age think hormones instead head, but girls have to be careful. I spoke with Jessica very carefully, but she calmed down me, that she knows everything, Mom told with her, and she understands God forbids it.


>3. When do you had to punish Jack the last time and
>how it worked? - I told alredy (Apr,9) and now his behavior is better. However, who can know how long?

>4. Does he still accepts your motherly authority,
>ALTHOUGH he has a girlfriend now? - Of course, he requests more independency, but I raising him alone, without father, and, despite his age and girlfriend, he has to accept my authority. If no - childish barebottomed spanking is the best medicines. I think so.


>5. What’s with his cleanliness? Do you still have to
>wipe after his crack? Does he clean his penis? -
- Ben, I told already, that we again have problems with Jack's cleanliness. He tries skip bathing and I ought to remind him! Skid-marks on his briefs appeared again after his birthday! I don't know, is it neglecting only (does he think is too old for my checking?) or he underlines his masculinity? May be it's normal for teen-boys? I remember, you told Kevin and Mark had skid-marks till 17, indeed? Below, I'l give you a few questions about it, OK? Nevertheless, last week till now, he is inside my checking his cleanliness, despite his age and embarrassment. Twice he took bath under my supervision and had to wash himself qualitative enough. Yes, he was embarrassed, but he had to wash his penis under my supervision. I told I'm mom and ought to teach you for your hygiene. I check his bottom each evening and, sometimes, inside day too. He knows, that my checking wll stop, when he will keep his body clean enough.


>6. What do you think, does he masturbates now more or
>less since he is together with Jessica? - I know Jack masturbates, as any boy in his age, but, honestly, I don't know as often.

>7. Did you catch him again doing it or did you catch
>the both by being intimade? If yes, how was your
>reaction? If no, what do you think, HOW would you
>react? - I don't know. I hope, Jessica is smart enough.

Ben, I tried answer on your questions. I'l wait your commentaries.
Now, a few my questions (more part about boys' cleanliness):

1). Ben, I know you checked bottom cleanliness your children before weekly bathing, as part of spanking. Did you checking their bottoms within week? If yes, how, when, how often, and who more was checked - boys or Vanessa?
2) How often your boys changed underpants?
3) were they ashamed, when were skid-marks, or boys considered it natural?
4) Was Mark ashamed that his mother bathed him including all privates, but Kevin bathed himself independently?
5)Ben, what is your opinion, when you had "spanking parties" when Kevin and Mark were embarrassed more - when their behinds cleanliness was checked in front girls or getting spanking?
6)Ben, I understand, it's aukward question, however, may I ask you, how was with your cleanliness in age 15-16 and how your parents checked it?
7) Ben, you are father 2 young men and know about boys raising everything. Must I keep secret about Jack's cleanliness from Jessica? Which is your opinion?

Thank you,
Margaret

PS. My kiss to Vanessa. How about her?

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