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Subject: After school Rituals Author: Ross [ Next Thread | Previous Thread | Next Message | Previous Message ] Date Posted: 12:10:03 11/17/25 Mon Author Host/IP: 82.132.239.232 Growing up in the 90s, I had a very unique—and surprisingly consistent—after-school ritual that shaped much of my childhood comfort and self-awareness. The moment I stepped through the front door, no matter the season or whether guests were over, the routine was non-negotiable: school uniform came off. Every piece—shoes, socks, tie, shirt, trousers—was removed with a quiet sense of ritual. I’d fold each item neatly, hang the blazer if I wore one, place the shoes by the closet, and set the socks perfectly aligned. It was almost like shedding the outside world, layer by layer. Once undressed, I was expected—by my parents—to remain completely nude for the rest of the afternoon, evening, and even into the next morning, whether I was indoors or playing in the garden. Weekends? Same rule. No clothes unless we were leaving the house or school started again the next day. It wasn’t a suggestion; it was simply how things were at home. What’s more, it didn’t matter if family dropped by or friends came over—nudity was the default. No one batted an eye. There were no awkward moments, no comments, just normalcy. My parents never framed it as something “weird” or “shocking.” To them, the home was a private, natural space—free from the constraints and expectations of clothing. They believed that being comfortable in your own skin, literally, was essential to developing confidence and body positivity. Looking back, I realize how profoundly this shaped me. I never developed a sense of shame or anxiety about my body. Being nude wasn’t sexualized, wasn’t performative—it was just being. It felt as natural as breathing. I learned early on that my body wasn’t something to hide, judge, or apologize for. Of course, I understand this isn’t the norm for most families, and every household has its own boundaries and values. But for me, this simple, consistent practice fostered a deep sense of ease and authenticity that I still carry today. It makes me wonder—how many of our childhood routines quietly shape who we become, long after we've outgrown them? [ Next Thread | Previous Thread | Next Message | Previous Message ]

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[> Subject: Re: After school Rituals Author: Nathan [ Edit | View ] Date Posted: 13:05:01 11/17/25 Mon Author Host/IP: 107.215.19.132 Your experience reminded me of mine. Whenever I got home from baseball (Little League) or later Football (grades 7-12), mom expected me to enter the house via the garage leading directly to the laundry room and strip everything off before heading to my bathroom for a shower. Mom and my younger sister saw me naked many times, and occasionally our housekeeper that worked on alternating Fridays. It never really bothered me since it was a routine that started at age 6, and I almost always stopped in the kitchen for water or juice before heading up the stairs to my bathroom. [ Post a Reply to This Message ]

[> Subject: Re: After school Rituals Author: Sean [ Edit | View ] Date Posted: 17:27:29 11/17/25 Mon Author Host/IP: 76.195.201.31 A boy I grew up with would do the same thing, and would see it often. When about 10 I was at a girls house and her brother took off clothes after school. I was not concerned as he was 7 but asked girl why he did it or if I should too. Instead of responding she asked her mom. Her mom instead of explaining said I could undress too, it was fine. I just did it and we played that way from then on. I dont remember being embarassed, instead I did same thing at home to so real consequences. I did not have to do it except at beaches. I was always told to go naked at beach and pools. [ Post a Reply to This Message ]

[> [> Subject: Re: After school Rituals Author: Gnome [ Edit | View ] Date Posted: 04:06:10 11/18/25 Tue Author Host/IP: 76.195.201.31 At 17 till 22, I was in college, and my escape from college classes was to work at a gym 10 miles away. I was assistant for boys swimming and after school programs, where I instructed, lifeguarded, and helped with field sports. It was usually 10 or so boys in field and another smaller group swimming. Originally I was in boys class then instructed remaining few years. Most weekdays after college I would undress shower and join swimming and then join field sports till 6pm. I would even study in cubby there and let myself out. I always swam nude and put on shorts for field sports. After class there was zero privacy in locker room as well. I would even wash clothes there as well in back. It is hard to believe now but in summer the fields sports were often nude to. [ Post a Reply to This Message ]

[> [> Subject: Re: After school Rituals Author: spelvin (to Sean) [ Edit | View ] Date Posted: 07:49:26 11/20/25 Thu Author Host/IP: 72.78.201.247 Sean, I hate to be a pest, but I would like to know every detail you can remember about the visit to the girl's house. I would like for nude boys and clothed girls not only to see each other from a distance, but mixing and mingling. So I would like to read more stories like yours. [ Post a Reply to This Message ]

[> Subject: Re: After school Rituals Author: Ivana [ Edit | View ] Date Posted: 15:49:24 11/18/25 Tue Author Host/IP: 185.40.4.92 >Growing up in the 90s, I had a very unique—and >surprisingly consistent—after-school ritual that >shaped much of my childhood comfort and >self-awareness. The moment I stepped through the front >door, no matter the season or whether guests were >over, the routine was non-negotiable: school uniform >came off. Every piece—shoes, socks, tie, shirt, >trousers—was removed with a quiet sense of ritual. >I’d fold each item neatly, hang the blazer if I wore >one, place the shoes by the closet, and set the socks >perfectly aligned. It was almost like shedding the >outside world, layer by layer. > >Once undressed, I was expected—by my parents—to >remain completely nude for the rest of the afternoon, >evening, and even into the next morning, whether I was >indoors or playing in the garden. Weekends? Same rule. >No clothes unless we were leaving the house or school >started again the next day. It wasn’t a suggestion; >it was simply how things were at home. > >What’s more, it didn’t matter if family dropped by >or friends came over—nudity was the default. No one >batted an eye. There were no awkward moments, no >comments, just normalcy. My parents never framed it as >something “weird” or “shocking.” To them, the >home was a private, natural space—free from the >constraints and expectations of clothing. They >believed that being comfortable in your own skin, >literally, was essential to developing confidence and >body positivity. > >Looking back, I realize how profoundly this shaped me. >I never developed a sense of shame or anxiety about my >body. Being nude wasn’t sexualized, wasn’t >performative—it was just being. It felt as natural >as breathing. I learned early on that my body wasn’t >something to hide, judge, or apologize for. > >Of course, I understand this isn’t the norm for most >families, and every household has its own boundaries >and values. But for me, this simple, consistent >practice fostered a deep sense of ease and >authenticity that I still carry today. > >It makes me wonder—how many of our childhood >routines quietly shape who we become, long after we've >outgrown them? Thank you once again Ross for sharing with us such a detailed account of your childhood routine. It sounds like you had a wonderful home. Consistency is so important for children to feel safe and secure, so it's really great that you had such a consistent home ritual every day after school. We try to keep a similar after-school routine with our boys. Like you, our boys remove all of their clothes at the door and put them away until they're needed for school the next day. Once they're naked and comfortable, I make them hot cocoa to enjoy in the living room while they tell me about their day, before they sit down to start their homework. Dinner is at 7pm, and afterwards they have a few hours to relax before it's time for bed, either inside or in the back yard. Usually they will stay naked until it's time to get dressed for school the next morning. On weekends they will usually not wear any clothes at all, unless they need to leave the house e.g. for sports matches or to go to the cinema. [ Post a Reply to This Message ]

[> [> Subject: Re: After school Rituals Author: Ross [ Edit | View ] Date Posted: 23:39:28 11/18/25 Tue Author Host/IP: 88.97.176.230 Thank you so much for sharing this—your response truly warmed my heart. It’s incredibly affirming to hear that another family cultivated such a similar rhythm, one rooted not in spectacle or defiance, but in quiet normalcy and care. Reading about your boys taking off their clothes at the door, sipping hot cocoa while unwinding from the day, brought back such vivid memories—those golden hours after school when shedding my uniform felt less like a chore and more like a return to myself. It’s remarkable how such a simple act—removing clothes—can become a ritual of reclamation, a daily homecoming. And your approach echoes my own childhood so closely. Like your sons, weekends for me were almost entirely clothes-free. Rain or shine, snow dusting the garden or summer heat rippling off the pavement, the house was a sanctuary where clothing simply wasn’t required unless we were stepping outside its boundaries. There was something deeply grounding about that separation: outside had rules, expectations, eyes. Inside had warmth, freedom, honesty. I especially related to your mention of going out. That was me too. If I had a friend’s birthday party or a trip to the cinema, I’d slip into a loose T-shirt and shorts, but go barefoot, always. No socks, no shoes—just the feel of the ground under me, a small but potent reminder of the freedom I’d left behind at home. Walking into a public space like that, unshod and unburdened, I never thought of it as strange. It was simply an extension of who I was when no one was watching. And I realize now how rare and precious that continuity was—never having to split myself between "inside me" and "outside me." [ Post a Reply to This Message ]

[> [> Subject: Re: After school Rituals Author: Ryan [ Edit | View ] Date Posted: 01:22:59 11/19/25 Wed Author Host/IP: 76.195.201.31 It is comforting to know others grew up the same way. After school or sports my routine was to enter house by back door and undress and put dirty clothes in hamper where we stored fire wood and kept washer and dryer. My sister would change too but she would put on clothes but my mom wanted me to grow up naked until I left home, as she said it was btter for boys. I did not object as neighborhood boys did same thing back then, well not all but several. I never really object as I saw other boys do same thing. I would even go over to other boys houses naked when young. Twice a year we would go camping in a large park. I would walk to showers in morning naked and swim naked all day. I loved going there and hated to leave. [ Post a Reply to This Message ]

[> [> [> Subject: Re: After school Rituals Author: Steven [ Edit | View ] Date Posted: 10:32:14 11/19/25 Wed Author Host/IP: 148.252.158.27 When I was 9 I remember getting home after a very muddy game of football and my mother making me stand in the kitchen and remove all of my clothes while my girl cousin sat on a chair just watching lol. [ Post a Reply to This Message ]

[> [> [> Subject: Re: After school Rituals Author: Ivana [ Edit | View ] Date Posted: 06:48:58 11/23/25 Sun Author Host/IP: 185.220.101.21 >It is comforting to know others grew up the same way. >After school or sports my routine was to enter house >by back door and undress and put dirty clothes in >hamper where we stored fire wood and kept washer and >dryer. My sister would change too but she would put on >clothes but my mom wanted me to grow up naked until I >left home, as she said it was btter for boys. I did >not object as neighborhood boys did same thing back >then, well not all but several. > >I never really object as I saw other boys do same >thing. I would even go over to other boys houses naked >when young. > >Twice a year we would go camping in a large park. I >would walk to showers in morning naked and swim naked >all day. I loved going there and hated to leave. That sounds like a wonderful childhood Ryan, your mother was very sensible. At what age did you move out from home? At what age did you stop going to other boys' houses naked? [ Post a Reply to This Message ]

[> [> Subject: Re: After school Rituals Author: Anna [ Edit | View ] Date Posted: 15:10:37 11/20/25 Thu Author Host/IP: 31.14.252.14 >>Growing up in the 90s, I had a very unique—and >>surprisingly consistent—after-school ritual that >>shaped much of my childhood comfort and >>self-awareness. The moment I stepped through the front >>door, no matter the season or whether guests were >>over, the routine was non-negotiable: school uniform >>came off. Every piece—shoes, socks, tie, shirt, >>trousers—was removed with a quiet sense of ritual. >>I’d fold each item neatly, hang the blazer if I wore >>one, place the shoes by the closet, and set the socks >>perfectly aligned. It was almost like shedding the >>outside world, layer by layer. >> >>Once undressed, I was expected—by my parents—to >>remain completely nude for the rest of the afternoon, >>evening, and even into the next morning, whether I was >>indoors or playing in the garden. Weekends? Same rule. >>No clothes unless we were leaving the house or school >>started again the next day. It wasn’t a suggestion; >>it was simply how things were at home. >> >>What’s more, it didn’t matter if family dropped by >>or friends came over—nudity was the default. No one >>batted an eye. There were no awkward moments, no >>comments, just normalcy. My parents never framed it as >>something “weird” or “shocking.” To them, the >>home was a private, natural space—free from the >>constraints and expectations of clothing. They >>believed that being comfortable in your own skin, >>literally, was essential to developing confidence and >>body positivity. >> >>Looking back, I realize how profoundly this shaped me. >>I never developed a sense of shame or anxiety about my >>body. Being nude wasn’t sexualized, wasn’t >>performative—it was just being. It felt as natural >>as breathing. I learned early on that my body wasn’t >>something to hide, judge, or apologize for. >> >>Of course, I understand this isn’t the norm for most >>families, and every household has its own boundaries >>and values. But for me, this simple, consistent >>practice fostered a deep sense of ease and >>authenticity that I still carry today. >> >>It makes me wonder—how many of our childhood >>routines quietly shape who we become, long after we've >>outgrown them? > >Thank you once again Ross for sharing with us such a >detailed account of your childhood routine. It sounds >like you had a wonderful home. Consistency is so >important for children to feel safe and secure, so >it's really great that you had such a consistent home >ritual every day after school. > >We try to keep a similar after-school routine with our >boys. Like you, our boys remove all of their clothes >at the door and put them away until they're needed for >school the next day. Once they're naked and >comfortable, I make them hot cocoa to enjoy in the >living room while they tell me about their day, before >they sit down to start their homework. Dinner is at >7pm, and afterwards they have a few hours to relax >before it's time for bed, either inside or in the back >yard. Usually they will stay naked until it's time to >get dressed for school the next morning. On weekends >they will usually not wear any clothes at all, unless >they need to leave the house e.g. for sports matches >or to go to the cinema. Ivana, your boys' after-school routine is very similar to ours. I have two sons, ages 13 (almost) and 10, and when they come home from school, they do exactly what your kids do. The only two differences are that I give them hot cocoa in the colder months and fruit juice in the warmer months, and that our dinner is at 7:30 pm. They're also always naked all day and all weekend except when they have to go out for school, soccer, swimming, the mall or to go to the cinema. If friends of mine or my brother with his wife and his two children (a boy and a girl) come to visit us, they remain naked (in this very similar to what Ross wrote about his childhood, nudity was the default). Having adopted this routine since they were very young, they are now completely at ease, without embarrassment even in the presence of guests. My older brother and I, when we were kids, had very few opportunities to see each other naked (and on all of them I saw him, never the other way around). At the pediatrician, at the beach, during his bath, while he was peeing, but these were occasional incidents (which I've described in other posts to Dave, Sean, and Spelvin). On these few occasions, he was always very embarrassed, and they were moments of great stress and shame for him. I want my children to be comfortable with their bodies, and I think this routine is very helpful. [ Post a Reply to This Message ]

[> [> [> Subject: Re: After school Rituals Author: Tor [ Edit | View ] Date Posted: 04:13:04 11/23/25 Sun Author Host/IP: 76.195.201.31 At 17, I was already in college, but I lived 15 min away from school and had a dumpy apt and would work in gym in that town most every day at end for food and rent money.Initially I joined the boys swim team and then assisted and later assisted with boys swim team nude and helped with field sports in shorts. The fields and pool were huge since built long ago when town was more populated. In this town boys swimming nude was still the norm like when I did but, it was more tolerant or less strict about it. Gym knew me before as I competed against them. The ritual everyday was the same. I would arrive early and study a bit and front desk would remind me to get ready soon, I would then strip nude and shower, check schedule, and enter pool for classes, then rinse off and help with field sports dressed, then shower again. The boys room door was always propped open, with open showers and no modesty at all. Boys under ten swam nude most always during day and men had swim hours every AM. It probably ended around 1983 and suits were required and no more mens swim hours. [ Post a Reply to This Message ]

[> [> [> Subject: Re: After school Rituals Author: Ivana [ Edit | View ] Date Posted: 06:53:02 11/23/25 Sun Author Host/IP: 185.220.101.21 >>>Growing up in the 90s, I had a very unique—and >>>surprisingly consistent—after-school ritual that >>>shaped much of my childhood comfort and >>>self-awareness. The moment I stepped through the >front >>>door, no matter the season or whether guests were >>>over, the routine was non-negotiable: school uniform >>>came off. Every piece—shoes, socks, tie, shirt, >>>trousers—was removed with a quiet sense of ritual. >>>I’d fold each item neatly, hang the blazer if I >wore >>>one, place the shoes by the closet, and set the socks >>>perfectly aligned. It was almost like shedding the >>>outside world, layer by layer. >>> >>>Once undressed, I was expected—by my parents—to >>>remain completely nude for the rest of the afternoon, >>>evening, and even into the next morning, whether I >was >>>indoors or playing in the garden. Weekends? Same >rule. >>>No clothes unless we were leaving the house or school >>>started again the next day. It wasn’t a suggestion; >>>it was simply how things were at home. >>> >>>What’s more, it didn’t matter if family dropped >by >>>or friends came over—nudity was the default. No one >>>batted an eye. There were no awkward moments, no >>>comments, just normalcy. My parents never framed it >as >>>something “weird” or “shocking.” To them, the >>>home was a private, natural space—free from the >>>constraints and expectations of clothing. They >>>believed that being comfortable in your own skin, >>>literally, was essential to developing confidence and >>>body positivity. >>> >>>Looking back, I realize how profoundly this shaped >me. >>>I never developed a sense of shame or anxiety about >my >>>body. Being nude wasn’t sexualized, wasn’t >>>performative—it was just being. It felt as natural >>>as breathing. I learned early on that my body >wasn’t >>>something to hide, judge, or apologize for. >>> >>>Of course, I understand this isn’t the norm for >most >>>families, and every household has its own boundaries >>>and values. But for me, this simple, consistent >>>practice fostered a deep sense of ease and >>>authenticity that I still carry today. >>> >>>It makes me wonder—how many of our childhood >>>routines quietly shape who we become, long after >we've >>>outgrown them? >> >>Thank you once again Ross for sharing with us such a >>detailed account of your childhood routine. It sounds >>like you had a wonderful home. Consistency is so >>important for children to feel safe and secure, so >>it's really great that you had such a consistent home >>ritual every day after school. >> >>We try to keep a similar after-school routine with our >>boys. Like you, our boys remove all of their clothes >>at the door and put them away until they're needed for >>school the next day. Once they're naked and >>comfortable, I make them hot cocoa to enjoy in the >>living room while they tell me about their day, before >>they sit down to start their homework. Dinner is at >>7pm, and afterwards they have a few hours to relax >>before it's time for bed, either inside or in the back >>yard. Usually they will stay naked until it's time to >>get dressed for school the next morning. On weekends >>they will usually not wear any clothes at all, unless >>they need to leave the house e.g. for sports matches >>or to go to the cinema. > > >Ivana, your boys' after-school routine is very similar >to ours. I have two sons, ages 13 (almost) and 10, and >when they come home from school, they do exactly what >your kids do. The only two differences are that I give >them hot cocoa in the colder months and fruit juice in >the warmer months, and that our dinner is at 7:30 pm. >They're also always naked all day and all weekend >except when they have to go out for school, soccer, >swimming, the mall or to go to the cinema. >If friends of mine or my brother with his wife and his >two children (a boy and a girl) come to visit us, they >remain naked (in this very similar to what Ross wrote >about his childhood, nudity was the default). Having >adopted this routine since they were very young, they >are now completely at ease, without embarrassment even >in the presence of guests. >My older brother and I, when we were kids, had very >few opportunities to see each other naked (and on all >of them I saw him, never the other way around). At the >pediatrician, at the beach, during his bath, while he >was peeing, but these were occasional incidents (which >I've described in other posts to Dave, Sean, and >Spelvin). On these few occasions, he was always very >embarrassed, and they were moments of great stress and >shame for him. I want my children to be comfortable >with their bodies, and I think this routine is very >helpful. That sounds wonderful Anna, it sounds like your two little boys are having a wonderful childhood. I'm glad that your boys stay naked even when guests are visiting. [ Post a Reply to This Message ]

[> [> [> [> Subject: Re: After school Rituals Author: Anna [ Edit | View ] Date Posted: 07:35:12 11/23/25 Sun Author Host/IP: 190.2.149.37 >>>>Growing up in the 90s, I had a very unique—and >>>>surprisingly consistent—after-school ritual that >>>>shaped much of my childhood comfort and >>>>self-awareness. The moment I stepped through the >>front >>>>door, no matter the season or whether guests were >>>>over, the routine was non-negotiable: school uniform >>>>came off. Every piece—shoes, socks, tie, shirt, >>>>trousers—was removed with a quiet sense of ritual. >>>>I’d fold each item neatly, hang the blazer if I >>wore >>>>one, place the shoes by the closet, and set the >socks >>>>perfectly aligned. It was almost like shedding the >>>>outside world, layer by layer. >>>> >>>>Once undressed, I was expected—by my parents—to >>>>remain completely nude for the rest of the >afternoon, >>>>evening, and even into the next morning, whether I >>was >>>>indoors or playing in the garden. Weekends? Same >>rule. >>>>No clothes unless we were leaving the house or >school >>>>started again the next day. It wasn’t a >suggestion; >>>>it was simply how things were at home. >>>> >>>>What’s more, it didn’t matter if family dropped >>by >>>>or friends came over—nudity was the default. No >one >>>>batted an eye. There were no awkward moments, no >>>>comments, just normalcy. My parents never framed it >>as >>>>something “weird” or “shocking.” To them, >the >>>>home was a private, natural space—free from the >>>>constraints and expectations of clothing. They >>>>believed that being comfortable in your own skin, >>>>literally, was essential to developing confidence >and >>>>body positivity. >>>> >>>>Looking back, I realize how profoundly this shaped >>me. >>>>I never developed a sense of shame or anxiety about >>my >>>>body. Being nude wasn’t sexualized, wasn’t >>>>performative—it was just being. It felt as natural >>>>as breathing. I learned early on that my body >>wasn’t >>>>something to hide, judge, or apologize for. >>>> >>>>Of course, I understand this isn’t the norm for >>most >>>>families, and every household has its own boundaries >>>>and values. But for me, this simple, consistent >>>>practice fostered a deep sense of ease and >>>>authenticity that I still carry today. >>>> >>>>It makes me wonder—how many of our childhood >>>>routines quietly shape who we become, long after >>we've >>>>outgrown them? >>> >>>Thank you once again Ross for sharing with us such a >>>detailed account of your childhood routine. It sounds >>>like you had a wonderful home. Consistency is so >>>important for children to feel safe and secure, so >>>it's really great that you had such a consistent home >>>ritual every day after school. >>> >>>We try to keep a similar after-school routine with >our >>>boys. Like you, our boys remove all of their clothes >>>at the door and put them away until they're needed >for >>>school the next day. Once they're naked and >>>comfortable, I make them hot cocoa to enjoy in the >>>living room while they tell me about their day, >before >>>they sit down to start their homework. Dinner is at >>>7pm, and afterwards they have a few hours to relax >>>before it's time for bed, either inside or in the >back >>>yard. Usually they will stay naked until it's time to >>>get dressed for school the next morning. On weekends >>>they will usually not wear any clothes at all, unless >>>they need to leave the house e.g. for sports matches >>>or to go to the cinema. >> >> >>Ivana, your boys' after-school routine is very similar >>to ours. I have two sons, ages 13 (almost) and 10, and >>when they come home from school, they do exactly what >>your kids do. The only two differences are that I give >>them hot cocoa in the colder months and fruit juice in >>the warmer months, and that our dinner is at 7:30 pm. >>They're also always naked all day and all weekend >>except when they have to go out for school, soccer, >>swimming, the mall or to go to the cinema. >>If friends of mine or my brother with his wife and his >>two children (a boy and a girl) come to visit us, they >>remain naked (in this very similar to what Ross wrote >>about his childhood, nudity was the default). Having >>adopted this routine since they were very young, they >>are now completely at ease, without embarrassment even >>in the presence of guests. >>My older brother and I, when we were kids, had very >>few opportunities to see each other naked (and on all >>of them I saw him, never the other way around). At the >>pediatrician, at the beach, during his bath, while he >>was peeing, but these were occasional incidents (which >>I've described in other posts to Dave, Sean, and >>Spelvin). On these few occasions, he was always very >>embarrassed, and they were moments of great stress and >>shame for him. I want my children to be comfortable >>with their bodies, and I think this routine is very >>helpful. > >That sounds wonderful Anna, it sounds like your two >little boys are having a wonderful childhood. I'm glad >that your boys stay naked even when guests are >visiting. Thanks, Ivana. I think your boys' after-school routine is very similar to ours, so your children are having a wonderful childhood too. May I ask how old they are? Do they stay naked even when there are guests like mine, or do they wear clothes? [ Post a Reply to This Message ]

[> [> [> [> [> Subject: Re: After school Rituals Author: Ivana [ Edit | View ] Date Posted: 19:43:01 11/23/25 Sun Author Host/IP: 185.220.101.129 >>>>>Growing up in the 90s, I had a very unique—and >>>>>surprisingly consistent—after-school ritual that >>>>>shaped much of my childhood comfort and >>>>>self-awareness. The moment I stepped through the >>>front >>>>>door, no matter the season or whether guests were >>>>>over, the routine was non-negotiable: school >uniform >>>>>came off. Every piece—shoes, socks, tie, shirt, >>>>>trousers—was removed with a quiet sense of >ritual. >>>>>I’d fold each item neatly, hang the blazer if I >>>wore >>>>>one, place the shoes by the closet, and set the >>socks >>>>>perfectly aligned. It was almost like shedding the >>>>>outside world, layer by layer. >>>>> >>>>>Once undressed, I was expected—by my parents—to >>>>>remain completely nude for the rest of the >>afternoon, >>>>>evening, and even into the next morning, whether I >>>was >>>>>indoors or playing in the garden. Weekends? Same >>>rule. >>>>>No clothes unless we were leaving the house or >>school >>>>>started again the next day. It wasn’t a >>suggestion; >>>>>it was simply how things were at home. >>>>> >>>>>What’s more, it didn’t matter if family dropped >>>by >>>>>or friends came over—nudity was the default. No >>one >>>>>batted an eye. There were no awkward moments, no >>>>>comments, just normalcy. My parents never framed it >>>as >>>>>something “weird” or “shocking.” To them, >>the >>>>>home was a private, natural space—free from the >>>>>constraints and expectations of clothing. They >>>>>believed that being comfortable in your own skin, >>>>>literally, was essential to developing confidence >>and >>>>>body positivity. >>>>> >>>>>Looking back, I realize how profoundly this shaped >>>me. >>>>>I never developed a sense of shame or anxiety about >>>my >>>>>body. Being nude wasn’t sexualized, wasn’t >>>>>performative—it was just being. It felt as >natural >>>>>as breathing. I learned early on that my body >>>wasn’t >>>>>something to hide, judge, or apologize for. >>>>> >>>>>Of course, I understand this isn’t the norm for >>>most >>>>>families, and every household has its own >boundaries >>>>>and values. But for me, this simple, consistent >>>>>practice fostered a deep sense of ease and >>>>>authenticity that I still carry today. >>>>> >>>>>It makes me wonder—how many of our childhood >>>>>routines quietly shape who we become, long after >>>we've >>>>>outgrown them? >>>> >>>>Thank you once again Ross for sharing with us such a >>>>detailed account of your childhood routine. It >sounds >>>>like you had a wonderful home. Consistency is so >>>>important for children to feel safe and secure, so >>>>it's really great that you had such a consistent >home >>>>ritual every day after school. >>>> >>>>We try to keep a similar after-school routine with >>our >>>>boys. Like you, our boys remove all of their clothes >>>>at the door and put them away until they're needed >>for >>>>school the next day. Once they're naked and >>>>comfortable, I make them hot cocoa to enjoy in the >>>>living room while they tell me about their day, >>before >>>>they sit down to start their homework. Dinner is at >>>>7pm, and afterwards they have a few hours to relax >>>>before it's time for bed, either inside or in the >>back >>>>yard. Usually they will stay naked until it's time >to >>>>get dressed for school the next morning. On weekends >>>>they will usually not wear any clothes at all, >unless >>>>they need to leave the house e.g. for sports matches >>>>or to go to the cinema. >>> >>> >>>Ivana, your boys' after-school routine is very >similar >>>to ours. I have two sons, ages 13 (almost) and 10, >and >>>when they come home from school, they do exactly what >>>your kids do. The only two differences are that I >give >>>them hot cocoa in the colder months and fruit juice >in >>>the warmer months, and that our dinner is at 7:30 pm. >>>They're also always naked all day and all weekend >>>except when they have to go out for school, soccer, >>>swimming, the mall or to go to the cinema. >>>If friends of mine or my brother with his wife and >his >>>two children (a boy and a girl) come to visit us, >they >>>remain naked (in this very similar to what Ross wrote >>>about his childhood, nudity was the default). Having >>>adopted this routine since they were very young, they >>>are now completely at ease, without embarrassment >even >>>in the presence of guests. >>>My older brother and I, when we were kids, had very >>>few opportunities to see each other naked (and on all >>>of them I saw him, never the other way around). At >the >>>pediatrician, at the beach, during his bath, while he >>>was peeing, but these were occasional incidents >(which >>>I've described in other posts to Dave, Sean, and >>>Spelvin). On these few occasions, he was always very >>>embarrassed, and they were moments of great stress >and >>>shame for him. I want my children to be comfortable >>>with their bodies, and I think this routine is very >>>helpful. >> >>That sounds wonderful Anna, it sounds like your two >>little boys are having a wonderful childhood. I'm glad >>that your boys stay naked even when guests are >>visiting. > > >Thanks, Ivana. >I think your boys' after-school routine is very >similar to ours, so your children are having a >wonderful childhood too. >May I ask how old they are? >Do they stay naked even when there are guests like >mine, or do they wear clothes? Hi Anna, thank you for the kind words. Our boys are 14, 12, and 10. Yes, they remain naked when we have guests over. [ Post a Reply to This Message ]

[> [> [> [> [> [> Subject: Re: After school Rituals Author: Anna [ Edit | View ] Date Posted: 13:38:47 11/24/25 Mon Author Host/IP: 185.107.80.121 >>>>>>Growing up in the 90s, I had a very unique—and >>>>>>surprisingly consistent—after-school ritual that >>>>>>shaped much of my childhood comfort and >>>>>>self-awareness. The moment I stepped through the >>>>front >>>>>>door, no matter the season or whether guests were >>>>>>over, the routine was non-negotiable: school >>uniform >>>>>>came off. Every piece—shoes, socks, tie, shirt, >>>>>>trousers—was removed with a quiet sense of >>ritual. >>>>>>I’d fold each item neatly, hang the blazer if I >>>>wore >>>>>>one, place the shoes by the closet, and set the >>>socks >>>>>>perfectly aligned. It was almost like shedding the >>>>>>outside world, layer by layer. >>>>>> >>>>>>Once undressed, I was expected—by my >parents—to >>>>>>remain completely nude for the rest of the >>>afternoon, >>>>>>evening, and even into the next morning, whether I >>>>was >>>>>>indoors or playing in the garden. Weekends? Same >>>>rule. >>>>>>No clothes unless we were leaving the house or >>>school >>>>>>started again the next day. It wasn’t a >>>suggestion; >>>>>>it was simply how things were at home. >>>>>> >>>>>>What’s more, it didn’t matter if family >dropped >>>>by >>>>>>or friends came over—nudity was the default. No >>>one >>>>>>batted an eye. There were no awkward moments, no >>>>>>comments, just normalcy. My parents never framed >it >>>>as >>>>>>something “weird” or “shocking.” To them, >>>the >>>>>>home was a private, natural space—free from the >>>>>>constraints and expectations of clothing. They >>>>>>believed that being comfortable in your own skin, >>>>>>literally, was essential to developing confidence >>>and >>>>>>body positivity. >>>>>> >>>>>>Looking back, I realize how profoundly this shaped >>>>me. >>>>>>I never developed a sense of shame or anxiety >about >>>>my >>>>>>body. Being nude wasn’t sexualized, wasn’t >>>>>>performative—it was just being. It felt as >>natural >>>>>>as breathing. I learned early on that my body >>>>wasn’t >>>>>>something to hide, judge, or apologize for. >>>>>> >>>>>>Of course, I understand this isn’t the norm for >>>>most >>>>>>families, and every household has its own >>boundaries >>>>>>and values. But for me, this simple, consistent >>>>>>practice fostered a deep sense of ease and >>>>>>authenticity that I still carry today. >>>>>> >>>>>>It makes me wonder—how many of our childhood >>>>>>routines quietly shape who we become, long after >>>>we've >>>>>>outgrown them? >>>>> >>>>>Thank you once again Ross for sharing with us such >a >>>>>detailed account of your childhood routine. It >>sounds >>>>>like you had a wonderful home. Consistency is so >>>>>important for children to feel safe and secure, so >>>>>it's really great that you had such a consistent >>home >>>>>ritual every day after school. >>>>> >>>>>We try to keep a similar after-school routine with >>>our >>>>>boys. Like you, our boys remove all of their >clothes >>>>>at the door and put them away until they're needed >>>for >>>>>school the next day. Once they're naked and >>>>>comfortable, I make them hot cocoa to enjoy in the >>>>>living room while they tell me about their day, >>>before >>>>>they sit down to start their homework. Dinner is at >>>>>7pm, and afterwards they have a few hours to relax >>>>>before it's time for bed, either inside or in the >>>back >>>>>yard. Usually they will stay naked until it's time >>to >>>>>get dressed for school the next morning. On >weekends >>>>>they will usually not wear any clothes at all, >>unless >>>>>they need to leave the house e.g. for sports >matches >>>>>or to go to the cinema. >>>> >>>> >>>>Ivana, your boys' after-school routine is very >>similar >>>>to ours. I have two sons, ages 13 (almost) and 10, >>and >>>>when they come home from school, they do exactly >what >>>>your kids do. The only two differences are that I >>give >>>>them hot cocoa in the colder months and fruit juice >>in >>>>the warmer months, and that our dinner is at 7:30 >pm. >>>>They're also always naked all day and all weekend >>>>except when they have to go out for school, soccer, >>>>swimming, the mall or to go to the cinema. >>>>If friends of mine or my brother with his wife and >>his >>>>two children (a boy and a girl) come to visit us, >>they >>>>remain naked (in this very similar to what Ross >wrote >>>>about his childhood, nudity was the default). Having >>>>adopted this routine since they were very young, >they >>>>are now completely at ease, without embarrassment >>even >>>>in the presence of guests. >>>>My older brother and I, when we were kids, had very >>>>few opportunities to see each other naked (and on >all >>>>of them I saw him, never the other way around). At >>the >>>>pediatrician, at the beach, during his bath, while >he >>>>was peeing, but these were occasional incidents >>(which >>>>I've described in other posts to Dave, Sean, and >>>>Spelvin). On these few occasions, he was always very >>>>embarrassed, and they were moments of great stress >>and >>>>shame for him. I want my children to be comfortable >>>>with their bodies, and I think this routine is very >>>>helpful. >>> >>>That sounds wonderful Anna, it sounds like your two >>>little boys are having a wonderful childhood. I'm >glad >>>that your boys stay naked even when guests are >>>visiting. >> >> >>Thanks, Ivana. >>I think your boys' after-school routine is very >>similar to ours, so your children are having a >>wonderful childhood too. >>May I ask how old they are? >>Do they stay naked even when there are guests like >>mine, or do they wear clothes? > >Hi Anna, thank you for the kind words. Our boys are >14, 12, and 10. Yes, they remain naked when we have >guests over. Hi Ivana, I'm very glad your boys stay naked even when you have guests over. That means you did a great job with them. Congratulations! I'm very glad especially for them, but also because they are just older than mine and so I can hope mine will remain comfortable for a few more years. As I wrote to scamptoo we plan to continue like this until they tell us they are no longer comfortable (for now, that moment is far away). I can assume the 14-year-old has already started puberty. If so, it's really nice that he's comfortable in front of guests. You must be very proud of him. My eldest son is about to enter puberty. He's still hairless, just a light downy stubble, quite short and sparse for now, but his testicles started to descend and enlarge, and his penis has also lengthened and thickened a bit. His genitals are still a bit infantile, but still different from his younger brother's; you can tell his hormones are starting to kick in. For now, though, as I said before, he's still completely comfortable in front of everyone. I'm proud of him. [ Post a Reply to This Message ]

[> [> [> [> [> [> [> Subject: Re: After school Rituals Author: Ivana [ Edit | View ] Date Posted: 19:48:50 11/25/25 Tue Author Host/IP: 152.53.184.161 >>>>>>>Growing up in the 90s, I had a very unique—and >>>>>>>surprisingly consistent—after-school ritual >that >>>>>>>shaped much of my childhood comfort and >>>>>>>self-awareness. The moment I stepped through the >>>>>front >>>>>>>door, no matter the season or whether guests were >>>>>>>over, the routine was non-negotiable: school >>>uniform >>>>>>>came off. Every piece—shoes, socks, tie, shirt, >>>>>>>trousers—was removed with a quiet sense of >>>ritual. >>>>>>>I’d fold each item neatly, hang the blazer if I >>>>>wore >>>>>>>one, place the shoes by the closet, and set the >>>>socks >>>>>>>perfectly aligned. It was almost like shedding >the >>>>>>>outside world, layer by layer. >>>>>>> >>>>>>>Once undressed, I was expected—by my >>parents—to >>>>>>>remain completely nude for the rest of the >>>>afternoon, >>>>>>>evening, and even into the next morning, whether >I >>>>>was >>>>>>>indoors or playing in the garden. Weekends? Same >>>>>rule. >>>>>>>No clothes unless we were leaving the house or >>>>school >>>>>>>started again the next day. It wasn’t a >>>>suggestion; >>>>>>>it was simply how things were at home. >>>>>>> >>>>>>>What’s more, it didn’t matter if family >>dropped >>>>>by >>>>>>>or friends came over—nudity was the default. No >>>>one >>>>>>>batted an eye. There were no awkward moments, no >>>>>>>comments, just normalcy. My parents never framed >>it >>>>>as >>>>>>>something “weird” or “shocking.” To them, >>>>the >>>>>>>home was a private, natural space—free from the >>>>>>>constraints and expectations of clothing. They >>>>>>>believed that being comfortable in your own skin, >>>>>>>literally, was essential to developing confidence >>>>and >>>>>>>body positivity. >>>>>>> >>>>>>>Looking back, I realize how profoundly this >shaped >>>>>me. >>>>>>>I never developed a sense of shame or anxiety >>about >>>>>my >>>>>>>body. Being nude wasn’t sexualized, wasn’t >>>>>>>performative—it was just being. It felt as >>>natural >>>>>>>as breathing. I learned early on that my body >>>>>wasn’t >>>>>>>something to hide, judge, or apologize for. >>>>>>> >>>>>>>Of course, I understand this isn’t the norm for >>>>>most >>>>>>>families, and every household has its own >>>boundaries >>>>>>>and values. But for me, this simple, consistent >>>>>>>practice fostered a deep sense of ease and >>>>>>>authenticity that I still carry today. >>>>>>> >>>>>>>It makes me wonder—how many of our childhood >>>>>>>routines quietly shape who we become, long after >>>>>we've >>>>>>>outgrown them? >>>>>> >>>>>>Thank you once again Ross for sharing with us such >>a >>>>>>detailed account of your childhood routine. It >>>sounds >>>>>>like you had a wonderful home. Consistency is so >>>>>>important for children to feel safe and secure, so >>>>>>it's really great that you had such a consistent >>>home >>>>>>ritual every day after school. >>>>>> >>>>>>We try to keep a similar after-school routine with >>>>our >>>>>>boys. Like you, our boys remove all of their >>clothes >>>>>>at the door and put them away until they're needed >>>>for >>>>>>school the next day. Once they're naked and >>>>>>comfortable, I make them hot cocoa to enjoy in the >>>>>>living room while they tell me about their day, >>>>before >>>>>>they sit down to start their homework. Dinner is >at >>>>>>7pm, and afterwards they have a few hours to relax >>>>>>before it's time for bed, either inside or in the >>>>back >>>>>>yard. Usually they will stay naked until it's time >>>to >>>>>>get dressed for school the next morning. On >>weekends >>>>>>they will usually not wear any clothes at all, >>>unless >>>>>>they need to leave the house e.g. for sports >>matches >>>>>>or to go to the cinema. >>>>> >>>>> >>>>>Ivana, your boys' after-school routine is very >>>similar >>>>>to ours. I have two sons, ages 13 (almost) and 10, >>>and >>>>>when they come home from school, they do exactly >>what >>>>>your kids do. The only two differences are that I >>>give >>>>>them hot cocoa in the colder months and fruit juice >>>in >>>>>the warmer months, and that our dinner is at 7:30 >>pm. >>>>>They're also always naked all day and all weekend >>>>>except when they have to go out for school, soccer, >>>>>swimming, the mall or to go to the cinema. >>>>>If friends of mine or my brother with his wife and >>>his >>>>>two children (a boy and a girl) come to visit us, >>>they >>>>>remain naked (in this very similar to what Ross >>wrote >>>>>about his childhood, nudity was the default). >Having >>>>>adopted this routine since they were very young, >>they >>>>>are now completely at ease, without embarrassment >>>even >>>>>in the presence of guests. >>>>>My older brother and I, when we were kids, had very >>>>>few opportunities to see each other naked (and on >>all >>>>>of them I saw him, never the other way around). At >>>the >>>>>pediatrician, at the beach, during his bath, while >>he >>>>>was peeing, but these were occasional incidents >>>(which >>>>>I've described in other posts to Dave, Sean, and >>>>>Spelvin). On these few occasions, he was always >very >>>>>embarrassed, and they were moments of great stress >>>and >>>>>shame for him. I want my children to be comfortable >>>>>with their bodies, and I think this routine is very >>>>>helpful. >>>> >>>>That sounds wonderful Anna, it sounds like your two >>>>little boys are having a wonderful childhood. I'm >>glad >>>>that your boys stay naked even when guests are >>>>visiting. >>> >>> >>>Thanks, Ivana. >>>I think your boys' after-school routine is very >>>similar to ours, so your children are having a >>>wonderful childhood too. >>>May I ask how old they are? >>>Do they stay naked even when there are guests like >>>mine, or do they wear clothes? >> >>Hi Anna, thank you for the kind words. Our boys are >>14, 12, and 10. Yes, they remain naked when we have >>guests over. > > >Hi Ivana, I'm very glad your boys stay naked even when >you have guests over. That means you did a great job >with them. Congratulations! >I'm very glad especially for them, but also because >they are just older than mine and so I can hope mine >will remain comfortable for a few more years. >As I wrote to scamptoo we plan to continue like this >until they tell us they are no longer comfortable (for >now, that moment is far away). >I can assume the 14-year-old has already started >puberty. If so, it's really nice that he's comfortable >in front of guests. You must be very proud of him. >My eldest son is about to enter puberty. He's still >hairless, just a light downy stubble, quite short and >sparse for now, but his testicles started to descend >and enlarge, and his penis has also lengthened and >thickened a bit. His genitals are still a bit >infantile, but still different from his younger >brother's; you can tell his hormones are starting to >kick in. >For now, though, as I said before, he's still >completely comfortable in front of everyone. I'm proud >of him. Hi Anna, yes, our eldest is going through puberty, although he is still quite small. He does not have any pubic hair because he shaves. He is comfortable being naked in front of guests because he has never worn clothes in front of guests. I expect our boys will be naked at home until they move out. [ Post a Reply to This Message ]

[> [> [> [> [> [> [> [> Subject: Re: After school Rituals Author: Anna to Ivana [ Edit | View ] Date Posted: 15:29:01 11/27/25 Thu Author Host/IP: 80.79.6.86 >>>>>>>>Growing up in the 90s, I had a very unique—and >>>>>>>>surprisingly consistent—after-school ritual >>that >>>>>>>>shaped much of my childhood comfort and >>>>>>>>self-awareness. The moment I stepped through the >>>>>>front >>>>>>>>door, no matter the season or whether guests >were >>>>>>>>over, the routine was non-negotiable: school >>>>uniform >>>>>>>>came off. Every piece—shoes, socks, tie, >shirt, >>>>>>>>trousers—was removed with a quiet sense of >>>>ritual. >>>>>>>>I’d fold each item neatly, hang the blazer if >I >>>>>>wore >>>>>>>>one, place the shoes by the closet, and set the >>>>>socks >>>>>>>>perfectly aligned. It was almost like shedding >>the >>>>>>>>outside world, layer by layer. >>>>>>>> >>>>>>>>Once undressed, I was expected—by my >>>parents—to >>>>>>>>remain completely nude for the rest of the >>>>>afternoon, >>>>>>>>evening, and even into the next morning, whether >>I >>>>>>was >>>>>>>>indoors or playing in the garden. Weekends? Same >>>>>>rule. >>>>>>>>No clothes unless we were leaving the house or >>>>>school >>>>>>>>started again the next day. It wasn’t a >>>>>suggestion; >>>>>>>>it was simply how things were at home. >>>>>>>> >>>>>>>>What’s more, it didn’t matter if family >>>dropped >>>>>>by >>>>>>>>or friends came over—nudity was the default. >No >>>>>one >>>>>>>>batted an eye. There were no awkward moments, no >>>>>>>>comments, just normalcy. My parents never framed >>>it >>>>>>as >>>>>>>>something “weird” or “shocking.” To >them, >>>>>the >>>>>>>>home was a private, natural space—free from >the >>>>>>>>constraints and expectations of clothing. They >>>>>>>>believed that being comfortable in your own >skin, >>>>>>>>literally, was essential to developing >confidence >>>>>and >>>>>>>>body positivity. >>>>>>>> >>>>>>>>Looking back, I realize how profoundly this >>shaped >>>>>>me. >>>>>>>>I never developed a sense of shame or anxiety >>>about >>>>>>my >>>>>>>>body. Being nude wasn’t sexualized, wasn’t >>>>>>>>performative—it was just being. It felt as >>>>natural >>>>>>>>as breathing. I learned early on that my body >>>>>>wasn’t >>>>>>>>something to hide, judge, or apologize for. >>>>>>>> >>>>>>>>Of course, I understand this isn’t the norm >for >>>>>>most >>>>>>>>families, and every household has its own >>>>boundaries >>>>>>>>and values. But for me, this simple, consistent >>>>>>>>practice fostered a deep sense of ease and >>>>>>>>authenticity that I still carry today. >>>>>>>> >>>>>>>>It makes me wonder—how many of our childhood >>>>>>>>routines quietly shape who we become, long after >>>>>>we've >>>>>>>>outgrown them? >>>>>>> >>>>>>>Thank you once again Ross for sharing with us >such >>>a >>>>>>>detailed account of your childhood routine. It >>>>sounds >>>>>>>like you had a wonderful home. Consistency is so >>>>>>>important for children to feel safe and secure, >so >>>>>>>it's really great that you had such a consistent >>>>home >>>>>>>ritual every day after school. >>>>>>> >>>>>>>We try to keep a similar after-school routine >with >>>>>our >>>>>>>boys. Like you, our boys remove all of their >>>clothes >>>>>>>at the door and put them away until they're >needed >>>>>for >>>>>>>school the next day. Once they're naked and >>>>>>>comfortable, I make them hot cocoa to enjoy in >the >>>>>>>living room while they tell me about their day, >>>>>before >>>>>>>they sit down to start their homework. Dinner is >>at >>>>>>>7pm, and afterwards they have a few hours to >relax >>>>>>>before it's time for bed, either inside or in the >>>>>back >>>>>>>yard. Usually they will stay naked until it's >time >>>>to >>>>>>>get dressed for school the next morning. On >>>weekends >>>>>>>they will usually not wear any clothes at all, >>>>unless >>>>>>>they need to leave the house e.g. for sports >>>matches >>>>>>>or to go to the cinema. >>>>>> >>>>>> >>>>>>Ivana, your boys' after-school routine is very >>>>similar >>>>>>to ours. I have two sons, ages 13 (almost) and 10, >>>>and >>>>>>when they come home from school, they do exactly >>>what >>>>>>your kids do. The only two differences are that I >>>>give >>>>>>them hot cocoa in the colder months and fruit >juice >>>>in >>>>>>the warmer months, and that our dinner is at 7:30 >>>pm. >>>>>>They're also always naked all day and all weekend >>>>>>except when they have to go out for school, >soccer, >>>>>>swimming, the mall or to go to the cinema. >>>>>>If friends of mine or my brother with his wife and >>>>his >>>>>>two children (a boy and a girl) come to visit us, >>>>they >>>>>>remain naked (in this very similar to what Ross >>>wrote >>>>>>about his childhood, nudity was the default). >>Having >>>>>>adopted this routine since they were very young, >>>they >>>>>>are now completely at ease, without embarrassment >>>>even >>>>>>in the presence of guests. >>>>>>My older brother and I, when we were kids, had >very >>>>>>few opportunities to see each other naked (and on >>>all >>>>>>of them I saw him, never the other way around). At >>>>the >>>>>>pediatrician, at the beach, during his bath, while >>>he >>>>>>was peeing, but these were occasional incidents >>>>(which >>>>>>I've described in other posts to Dave, Sean, and >>>>>>Spelvin). On these few occasions, he was always >>very >>>>>>embarrassed, and they were moments of great stress >>>>and >>>>>>shame for him. I want my children to be >comfortable >>>>>>with their bodies, and I think this routine is >very >>>>>>helpful. >>>>> >>>>>That sounds wonderful Anna, it sounds like your two >>>>>little boys are having a wonderful childhood. I'm >>>glad >>>>>that your boys stay naked even when guests are >>>>>visiting. >>>> >>>> >>>>Thanks, Ivana. >>>>I think your boys' after-school routine is very >>>>similar to ours, so your children are having a >>>>wonderful childhood too. >>>>May I ask how old they are? >>>>Do they stay naked even when there are guests like >>>>mine, or do they wear clothes? >>> >>>Hi Anna, thank you for the kind words. Our boys are >>>14, 12, and 10. Yes, they remain naked when we have >>>guests over. >> >> >>Hi Ivana, I'm very glad your boys stay naked even when >>you have guests over. That means you did a great job >>with them. Congratulations! >>I'm very glad especially for them, but also because >>they are just older than mine and so I can hope mine >>will remain comfortable for a few more years. >>As I wrote to scamptoo we plan to continue like this >>until they tell us they are no longer comfortable (for >>now, that moment is far away). >>I can assume the 14-year-old has already started >>puberty. If so, it's really nice that he's comfortable >>in front of guests. You must be very proud of him. >>My eldest son is about to enter puberty. He's still >>hairless, just a light downy stubble, quite short and >>sparse for now, but his testicles started to descend >>and enlarge, and his penis has also lengthened and >>thickened a bit. His genitals are still a bit >>infantile, but still different from his younger >>brother's; you can tell his hormones are starting to >>kick in. >>For now, though, as I said before, he's still >>completely comfortable in front of everyone. I'm proud >>of him. > >Hi Anna, yes, our eldest is going through puberty, >although he is still quite small. He does not have any >pubic hair because he shaves. He is comfortable being >naked in front of guests because he has never worn >clothes in front of guests. I expect our boys will be >naked at home until they move out. Hi Ivana, thanks for the replies and details. If he's still quite small and shaves, he'll look even younger than his 14 years, so guests will be less surprised to see him naked. My children have been naked at home since they stopped wearing diapers, so they're comfortable with both adult and young guests because, like your children, they've never worn clothes in front of them. Speaking with other mothers, pubic hair removal isn't very common in early adolescence (for both boys and girls). However, in late adolescence, it's definitely more common (especially among girls, but also among boys). At least in my city, I can't speak generally for the whole of Italy. That's why I wondered if he was more embarrassed than before or was still comfortable with pubic hair. Sorry for the question! I was just wondering how my older son might react, although, as I repeat, for now, he's completely comfortable with even the fuzz. We expect our boys will be naked at home until they are no longer comfortable. [ Post a Reply to This Message ]

[> [> [> [> [> [> [> [> [> Subject: Re: After school Rituals Author: Ivana [ Edit | View ] Date Posted: 17:23:35 11/27/25 Thu Author Host/IP: 144.126.133.74 >>>>>>>>>Growing up in the 90s, I had a very >unique—and >>>>>>>>>surprisingly consistent—after-school ritual >>>that >>>>>>>>>shaped much of my childhood comfort and >>>>>>>>>self-awareness. The moment I stepped through >the >>>>>>>front >>>>>>>>>door, no matter the season or whether guests >>were >>>>>>>>>over, the routine was non-negotiable: school >>>>>uniform >>>>>>>>>came off. Every piece—shoes, socks, tie, >>shirt, >>>>>>>>>trousers—was removed with a quiet sense of >>>>>ritual. >>>>>>>>>I’d fold each item neatly, hang the blazer if >>I >>>>>>>wore >>>>>>>>>one, place the shoes by the closet, and set the >>>>>>socks >>>>>>>>>perfectly aligned. It was almost like shedding >>>the >>>>>>>>>outside world, layer by layer. >>>>>>>>> >>>>>>>>>Once undressed, I was expected—by my >>>>parents—to >>>>>>>>>remain completely nude for the rest of the >>>>>>afternoon, >>>>>>>>>evening, and even into the next morning, >whether >>>I >>>>>>>was >>>>>>>>>indoors or playing in the garden. Weekends? >Same >>>>>>>rule. >>>>>>>>>No clothes unless we were leaving the house or >>>>>>school >>>>>>>>>started again the next day. It wasn’t a >>>>>>suggestion; >>>>>>>>>it was simply how things were at home. >>>>>>>>> >>>>>>>>>What’s more, it didn’t matter if family >>>>dropped >>>>>>>by >>>>>>>>>or friends came over—nudity was the default. >>No >>>>>>one >>>>>>>>>batted an eye. There were no awkward moments, >no >>>>>>>>>comments, just normalcy. My parents never >framed >>>>it >>>>>>>as >>>>>>>>>something “weird” or “shocking.” To >>them, >>>>>>the >>>>>>>>>home was a private, natural space—free from >>the >>>>>>>>>constraints and expectations of clothing. They >>>>>>>>>believed that being comfortable in your own >>skin, >>>>>>>>>literally, was essential to developing >>confidence >>>>>>and >>>>>>>>>body positivity. >>>>>>>>> >>>>>>>>>Looking back, I realize how profoundly this >>>shaped >>>>>>>me. >>>>>>>>>I never developed a sense of shame or anxiety >>>>about >>>>>>>my >>>>>>>>>body. Being nude wasn’t sexualized, wasn’t >>>>>>>>>performative—it was just being. It felt as >>>>>natural >>>>>>>>>as breathing. I learned early on that my body >>>>>>>wasn’t >>>>>>>>>something to hide, judge, or apologize for. >>>>>>>>> >>>>>>>>>Of course, I understand this isn’t the norm >>for >>>>>>>most >>>>>>>>>families, and every household has its own >>>>>boundaries >>>>>>>>>and values. But for me, this simple, consistent >>>>>>>>>practice fostered a deep sense of ease and >>>>>>>>>authenticity that I still carry today. >>>>>>>>> >>>>>>>>>It makes me wonder—how many of our childhood >>>>>>>>>routines quietly shape who we become, long >after >>>>>>>we've >>>>>>>>>outgrown them? >>>>>>>> >>>>>>>>Thank you once again Ross for sharing with us >>such >>>>a >>>>>>>>detailed account of your childhood routine. It >>>>>sounds >>>>>>>>like you had a wonderful home. Consistency is so >>>>>>>>important for children to feel safe and secure, >>so >>>>>>>>it's really great that you had such a consistent >>>>>home >>>>>>>>ritual every day after school. >>>>>>>> >>>>>>>>We try to keep a similar after-school routine >>with >>>>>>our >>>>>>>>boys. Like you, our boys remove all of their >>>>clothes >>>>>>>>at the door and put them away until they're >>needed >>>>>>for >>>>>>>>school the next day. Once they're naked and >>>>>>>>comfortable, I make them hot cocoa to enjoy in >>the >>>>>>>>living room while they tell me about their day, >>>>>>before >>>>>>>>they sit down to start their homework. Dinner is >>>at >>>>>>>>7pm, and afterwards they have a few hours to >>relax >>>>>>>>before it's time for bed, either inside or in >the >>>>>>back >>>>>>>>yard. Usually they will stay naked until it's >>time >>>>>to >>>>>>>>get dressed for school the next morning. On >>>>weekends >>>>>>>>they will usually not wear any clothes at all, >>>>>unless >>>>>>>>they need to leave the house e.g. for sports >>>>matches >>>>>>>>or to go to the cinema. >>>>>>> >>>>>>> >>>>>>>Ivana, your boys' after-school routine is very >>>>>similar >>>>>>>to ours. I have two sons, ages 13 (almost) and >10, >>>>>and >>>>>>>when they come home from school, they do exactly >>>>what >>>>>>>your kids do. The only two differences are that I >>>>>give >>>>>>>them hot cocoa in the colder months and fruit >>juice >>>>>in >>>>>>>the warmer months, and that our dinner is at 7:30 >>>>pm. >>>>>>>They're also always naked all day and all weekend >>>>>>>except when they have to go out for school, >>soccer, >>>>>>>swimming, the mall or to go to the cinema. >>>>>>>If friends of mine or my brother with his wife >and >>>>>his >>>>>>>two children (a boy and a girl) come to visit us, >>>>>they >>>>>>>remain naked (in this very similar to what Ross >>>>wrote >>>>>>>about his childhood, nudity was the default). >>>Having >>>>>>>adopted this routine since they were very young, >>>>they >>>>>>>are now completely at ease, without embarrassment >>>>>even >>>>>>>in the presence of guests. >>>>>>>My older brother and I, when we were kids, had >>very >>>>>>>few opportunities to see each other naked (and on >>>>all >>>>>>>of them I saw him, never the other way around). >At >>>>>the >>>>>>>pediatrician, at the beach, during his bath, >while >>>>he >>>>>>>was peeing, but these were occasional incidents >>>>>(which >>>>>>>I've described in other posts to Dave, Sean, and >>>>>>>Spelvin). On these few occasions, he was always >>>very >>>>>>>embarrassed, and they were moments of great >stress >>>>>and >>>>>>>shame for him. I want my children to be >>comfortable >>>>>>>with their bodies, and I think this routine is >>very >>>>>>>helpful. >>>>>> >>>>>>That sounds wonderful Anna, it sounds like your >two >>>>>>little boys are having a wonderful childhood. I'm >>>>glad >>>>>>that your boys stay naked even when guests are >>>>>>visiting. >>>>> >>>>> >>>>>Thanks, Ivana. >>>>>I think your boys' after-school routine is very >>>>>similar to ours, so your children are having a >>>>>wonderful childhood too. >>>>>May I ask how old they are? >>>>>Do they stay naked even when there are guests like >>>>>mine, or do they wear clothes? >>>> >>>>Hi Anna, thank you for the kind words. Our boys are >>>>14, 12, and 10. Yes, they remain naked when we have >>>>guests over. >>> >>> >>>Hi Ivana, I'm very glad your boys stay naked even >when >>>you have guests over. That means you did a great job >>>with them. Congratulations! >>>I'm very glad especially for them, but also because >>>they are just older than mine and so I can hope mine >>>will remain comfortable for a few more years. >>>As I wrote to scamptoo we plan to continue like this >>>until they tell us they are no longer comfortable >(for >>>now, that moment is far away). >>>I can assume the 14-year-old has already started >>>puberty. If so, it's really nice that he's >comfortable >>>in front of guests. You must be very proud of him. >>>My eldest son is about to enter puberty. He's still >>>hairless, just a light downy stubble, quite short and >>>sparse for now, but his testicles started to descend >>>and enlarge, and his penis has also lengthened and >>>thickened a bit. His genitals are still a bit >>>infantile, but still different from his younger >>>brother's; you can tell his hormones are starting to >>>kick in. >>>For now, though, as I said before, he's still >>>completely comfortable in front of everyone. I'm >proud >>>of him. >> >>Hi Anna, yes, our eldest is going through puberty, >>although he is still quite small. He does not have any >>pubic hair because he shaves. He is comfortable being >>naked in front of guests because he has never worn >>clothes in front of guests. I expect our boys will be >>naked at home until they move out. > > >Hi Ivana, thanks for the replies and details. > >If he's still quite small and shaves, he'll look even >younger than his 14 years, so guests will be less >surprised to see him naked. >My children have been naked at home since they stopped >wearing diapers, so they're comfortable with both >adult and young guests because, like your children, >they've never worn clothes in front of them. > >Speaking with other mothers, pubic hair removal isn't >very common in early adolescence (for both boys and >girls). However, in late adolescence, it's definitely >more common (especially among girls, but also among >boys). At least in my city, I can't speak generally >for the whole of Italy. That's why I wondered if he >was more embarrassed than before or was still >comfortable with pubic hair. Sorry for the question! I >was just wondering how my older son might react, >although, as I repeat, for now, he's completely >comfortable with even the fuzz. We expect our boys >will be naked at home until they are no longer >comfortable. I don't think he is much more embarrassed than when he was younger, regardless of any pubic hair. As with your boys, being naked in front of guests is very normal for him. Of course, like any teenager, he can sometimes be shy and awkward. But this is also the case when he is wearing clothes. :) [ Post a Reply to This Message ]

[> [> [> [> [> [> [> [> [> [> Subject: Re: After school Rituals Author: Anna to Ivana [ Edit | View ] Date Posted: 14:20:22 11/28/25 Fri Author Host/IP: 169.150.218.78 >>>>>>>>>>Growing up in the 90s, I had a very >>unique—and >>>>>>>>>>surprisingly consistent—after-school ritual >>>>that >>>>>>>>>>shaped much of my childhood comfort and >>>>>>>>>>self-awareness. The moment I stepped through >>the >>>>>>>>front >>>>>>>>>>door, no matter the season or whether guests >>>were >>>>>>>>>>over, the routine was non-negotiable: school >>>>>>uniform >>>>>>>>>>came off. Every piece—shoes, socks, tie, >>>shirt, >>>>>>>>>>trousers—was removed with a quiet sense of >>>>>>ritual. >>>>>>>>>>I’d fold each item neatly, hang the blazer >if >>>I >>>>>>>>wore >>>>>>>>>>one, place the shoes by the closet, and set >the >>>>>>>socks >>>>>>>>>>perfectly aligned. It was almost like shedding >>>>the >>>>>>>>>>outside world, layer by layer. >>>>>>>>>> >>>>>>>>>>Once undressed, I was expected—by my >>>>>parents—to >>>>>>>>>>remain completely nude for the rest of the >>>>>>>afternoon, >>>>>>>>>>evening, and even into the next morning, >>whether >>>>I >>>>>>>>was >>>>>>>>>>indoors or playing in the garden. Weekends? >>Same >>>>>>>>rule. >>>>>>>>>>No clothes unless we were leaving the house or >>>>>>>school >>>>>>>>>>started again the next day. It wasn’t a >>>>>>>suggestion; >>>>>>>>>>it was simply how things were at home. >>>>>>>>>> >>>>>>>>>>What’s more, it didn’t matter if family >>>>>dropped >>>>>>>>by >>>>>>>>>>or friends came over—nudity was the default. >>>No >>>>>>>one >>>>>>>>>>batted an eye. There were no awkward moments, >>no >>>>>>>>>>comments, just normalcy. My parents never >>framed >>>>>it >>>>>>>>as >>>>>>>>>>something “weird” or “shocking.” To >>>them, >>>>>>>the >>>>>>>>>>home was a private, natural space—free from >>>the >>>>>>>>>>constraints and expectations of clothing. They >>>>>>>>>>believed that being comfortable in your own >>>skin, >>>>>>>>>>literally, was essential to developing >>>confidence >>>>>>>and >>>>>>>>>>body positivity. >>>>>>>>>> >>>>>>>>>>Looking back, I realize how profoundly this >>>>shaped >>>>>>>>me. >>>>>>>>>>I never developed a sense of shame or anxiety >>>>>about >>>>>>>>my >>>>>>>>>>body. Being nude wasn’t sexualized, wasn’t >>>>>>>>>>performative—it was just being. It felt as >>>>>>natural >>>>>>>>>>as breathing. I learned early on that my body >>>>>>>>wasn’t >>>>>>>>>>something to hide, judge, or apologize for. >>>>>>>>>> >>>>>>>>>>Of course, I understand this isn’t the norm >>>for >>>>>>>>most >>>>>>>>>>families, and every household has its own >>>>>>boundaries >>>>>>>>>>and values. But for me, this simple, >consistent >>>>>>>>>>practice fostered a deep sense of ease and >>>>>>>>>>authenticity that I still carry today. >>>>>>>>>> >>>>>>>>>>It makes me wonder—how many of our childhood >>>>>>>>>>routines quietly shape who we become, long >>after >>>>>>>>we've >>>>>>>>>>outgrown them? >>>>>>>>> >>>>>>>>>Thank you once again Ross for sharing with us >>>such >>>>>a >>>>>>>>>detailed account of your childhood routine. It >>>>>>sounds >>>>>>>>>like you had a wonderful home. Consistency is >so >>>>>>>>>important for children to feel safe and secure, >>>so >>>>>>>>>it's really great that you had such a >consistent >>>>>>home >>>>>>>>>ritual every day after school. >>>>>>>>> >>>>>>>>>We try to keep a similar after-school routine >>>with >>>>>>>our >>>>>>>>>boys. Like you, our boys remove all of their >>>>>clothes >>>>>>>>>at the door and put them away until they're >>>needed >>>>>>>for >>>>>>>>>school the next day. Once they're naked and >>>>>>>>>comfortable, I make them hot cocoa to enjoy in >>>the >>>>>>>>>living room while they tell me about their day, >>>>>>>before >>>>>>>>>they sit down to start their homework. Dinner >is >>>>at >>>>>>>>>7pm, and afterwards they have a few hours to >>>relax >>>>>>>>>before it's time for bed, either inside or in >>the >>>>>>>back >>>>>>>>>yard. Usually they will stay naked until it's >>>time >>>>>>to >>>>>>>>>get dressed for school the next morning. On >>>>>weekends >>>>>>>>>they will usually not wear any clothes at all, >>>>>>unless >>>>>>>>>they need to leave the house e.g. for sports >>>>>matches >>>>>>>>>or to go to the cinema. >>>>>>>> >>>>>>>> >>>>>>>>Ivana, your boys' after-school routine is very >>>>>>similar >>>>>>>>to ours. I have two sons, ages 13 (almost) and >>10, >>>>>>and >>>>>>>>when they come home from school, they do exactly >>>>>what >>>>>>>>your kids do. The only two differences are that >I >>>>>>give >>>>>>>>them hot cocoa in the colder months and fruit >>>juice >>>>>>in >>>>>>>>the warmer months, and that our dinner is at >7:30 >>>>>pm. >>>>>>>>They're also always naked all day and all >weekend >>>>>>>>except when they have to go out for school, >>>soccer, >>>>>>>>swimming, the mall or to go to the cinema. >>>>>>>>If friends of mine or my brother with his wife >>and >>>>>>his >>>>>>>>two children (a boy and a girl) come to visit >us, >>>>>>they >>>>>>>>remain naked (in this very similar to what Ross >>>>>wrote >>>>>>>>about his childhood, nudity was the default). >>>>Having >>>>>>>>adopted this routine since they were very young, >>>>>they >>>>>>>>are now completely at ease, without >embarrassment >>>>>>even >>>>>>>>in the presence of guests. >>>>>>>>My older brother and I, when we were kids, had >>>very >>>>>>>>few opportunities to see each other naked (and >on >>>>>all >>>>>>>>of them I saw him, never the other way around). >>At >>>>>>the >>>>>>>>pediatrician, at the beach, during his bath, >>while >>>>>he >>>>>>>>was peeing, but these were occasional incidents >>>>>>(which >>>>>>>>I've described in other posts to Dave, Sean, and >>>>>>>>Spelvin). On these few occasions, he was always >>>>very >>>>>>>>embarrassed, and they were moments of great >>stress >>>>>>and >>>>>>>>shame for him. I want my children to be >>>comfortable >>>>>>>>with their bodies, and I think this routine is >>>very >>>>>>>>helpful. >>>>>>> >>>>>>>That sounds wonderful Anna, it sounds like your >>two >>>>>>>little boys are having a wonderful childhood. I'm >>>>>glad >>>>>>>that your boys stay naked even when guests are >>>>>>>visiting. >>>>>> >>>>>> >>>>>>Thanks, Ivana. >>>>>>I think your boys' after-school routine is very >>>>>>similar to ours, so your children are having a >>>>>>wonderful childhood too. >>>>>>May I ask how old they are? >>>>>>Do they stay naked even when there are guests like >>>>>>mine, or do they wear clothes? >>>>> >>>>>Hi Anna, thank you for the kind words. Our boys are >>>>>14, 12, and 10. Yes, they remain naked when we have >>>>>guests over. >>>> >>>> >>>>Hi Ivana, I'm very glad your boys stay naked even >>when >>>>you have guests over. That means you did a great job >>>>with them. Congratulations! >>>>I'm very glad especially for them, but also because >>>>they are just older than mine and so I can hope mine >>>>will remain comfortable for a few more years. >>>>As I wrote to scamptoo we plan to continue like this >>>>until they tell us they are no longer comfortable >>(for >>>>now, that moment is far away). >>>>I can assume the 14-year-old has already started >>>>puberty. If so, it's really nice that he's >>comfortable >>>>in front of guests. You must be very proud of him. >>>>My eldest son is about to enter puberty. He's still >>>>hairless, just a light downy stubble, quite short >and >>>>sparse for now, but his testicles started to descend >>>>and enlarge, and his penis has also lengthened and >>>>thickened a bit. His genitals are still a bit >>>>infantile, but still different from his younger >>>>brother's; you can tell his hormones are starting to >>>>kick in. >>>>For now, though, as I said before, he's still >>>>completely comfortable in front of everyone. I'm >>proud >>>>of him. >>> >>>Hi Anna, yes, our eldest is going through puberty, >>>although he is still quite small. He does not have >any >>>pubic hair because he shaves. He is comfortable being >>>naked in front of guests because he has never worn >>>clothes in front of guests. I expect our boys will be >>>naked at home until they move out. >> >> >>Hi Ivana, thanks for the replies and details. >> >>If he's still quite small and shaves, he'll look even >>younger than his 14 years, so guests will be less >>surprised to see him naked. >>My children have been naked at home since they stopped >>wearing diapers, so they're comfortable with both >>adult and young guests because, like your children, >>they've never worn clothes in front of them. >> >>Speaking with other mothers, pubic hair removal isn't >>very common in early adolescence (for both boys and >>girls). However, in late adolescence, it's definitely >>more common (especially among girls, but also among >>boys). At least in my city, I can't speak generally >>for the whole of Italy. That's why I wondered if he >>was more embarrassed than before or was still >>comfortable with pubic hair. Sorry for the question! I >>was just wondering how my older son might react, >>although, as I repeat, for now, he's completely >>comfortable with even the fuzz. We expect our boys >>will be naked at home until they are no longer >>comfortable. > >I don't think he is much more embarrassed than when he >was younger, regardless of any pubic hair. As with >your boys, being naked in front of guests is very >normal for him. Of course, like any teenager, he can >sometimes be shy and awkward. But this is also the >case when he is wearing clothes. :) that's right... 😁 [ Post a Reply to This Message ]

[> [> [> [> [> [> [> [> [> Subject: Re: After school Rituals Author: scamptoo to Anna [ Edit | View ] Date Posted: 11:07:43 11/28/25 Fri Author Host/IP: 24.57.206.80 >>>>>>>>>Growing up in the 90s, I had a very >unique—and >>>>>>>>>surprisingly consistent—after-school ritual >>>that >>>>>>>>>shaped much of my childhood comfort and >>>>>>>>>self-awareness. The moment I stepped through >the >>>>>>>front >>>>>>>>>door, no matter the season or whether guests >>were >>>>>>>>>over, the routine was non-negotiable: school >>>>>uniform >>>>>>>>>came off. Every piece—shoes, socks, tie, >>shirt, >>>>>>>>>trousers—was removed with a quiet sense of >>>>>ritual. >>>>>>>>>I’d fold each item neatly, hang the blazer if >>I >>>>>>>wore >>>>>>>>>one, place the shoes by the closet, and set the >>>>>>socks >>>>>>>>>perfectly aligned. It was almost like shedding >>>the >>>>>>>>>outside world, layer by layer. >>>>>>>>> >>>>>>>>>Once undressed, I was expected—by my >>>>parents—to >>>>>>>>>remain completely nude for the rest of the >>>>>>afternoon, >>>>>>>>>evening, and even into the next morning, >whether >>>I >>>>>>>was >>>>>>>>>indoors or playing in the garden. Weekends? >Same >>>>>>>rule. >>>>>>>>>No clothes unless we were leaving the house or >>>>>>school >>>>>>>>>started again the next day. It wasn’t a >>>>>>suggestion; >>>>>>>>>it was simply how things were at home. >>>>>>>>> >>>>>>>>>What’s more, it didn’t matter if family >>>>dropped >>>>>>>by >>>>>>>>>or friends came over—nudity was the default. >>No >>>>>>one >>>>>>>>>batted an eye. There were no awkward moments, >no >>>>>>>>>comments, just normalcy. My parents never >framed >>>>it >>>>>>>as >>>>>>>>>something “weird” or “shocking.” To >>them, >>>>>>the >>>>>>>>>home was a private, natural space—free from >>the >>>>>>>>>constraints and expectations of clothing. They >>>>>>>>>believed that being comfortable in your own >>skin, >>>>>>>>>literally, was essential to developing >>confidence >>>>>>and >>>>>>>>>body positivity. >>>>>>>>> >>>>>>>>>Looking back, I realize how profoundly this >>>shaped >>>>>>>me. >>>>>>>>>I never developed a sense of shame or anxiety >>>>about >>>>>>>my >>>>>>>>>body. Being nude wasn’t sexualized, wasn’t >>>>>>>>>performative—it was just being. It felt as >>>>>natural >>>>>>>>>as breathing. I learned early on that my body >>>>>>>wasn’t >>>>>>>>>something to hide, judge, or apologize for. >>>>>>>>> >>>>>>>>>Of course, I understand this isn’t the norm >>for >>>>>>>most >>>>>>>>>families, and every household has its own >>>>>boundaries >>>>>>>>>and values. But for me, this simple, consistent >>>>>>>>>practice fostered a deep sense of ease and >>>>>>>>>authenticity that I still carry today. >>>>>>>>> >>>>>>>>>It makes me wonder—how many of our childhood >>>>>>>>>routines quietly shape who we become, long >after >>>>>>>we've >>>>>>>>>outgrown them? >>>>>>>> >>>>>>>>Thank you once again Ross for sharing with us >>such >>>>a >>>>>>>>detailed account of your childhood routine. It >>>>>sounds >>>>>>>>like you had a wonderful home. Consistency is so >>>>>>>>important for children to feel safe and secure, >>so >>>>>>>>it's really great that you had such a consistent >>>>>home >>>>>>>>ritual every day after school. >>>>>>>> >>>>>>>>We try to keep a similar after-school routine >>with >>>>>>our >>>>>>>>boys. Like you, our boys remove all of their >>>>clothes >>>>>>>>at the door and put them away until they're >>needed >>>>>>for >>>>>>>>school the next day. Once they're naked and >>>>>>>>comfortable, I make them hot cocoa to enjoy in >>the >>>>>>>>living room while they tell me about their day, >>>>>>before >>>>>>>>they sit down to start their homework. Dinner is >>>at >>>>>>>>7pm, and afterwards they have a few hours to >>relax >>>>>>>>before it's time for bed, either inside or in >the >>>>>>back >>>>>>>>yard. Usually they will stay naked until it's >>time >>>>>to >>>>>>>>get dressed for school the next morning. On >>>>weekends >>>>>>>>they will usually not wear any clothes at all, >>>>>unless >>>>>>>>they need to leave the house e.g. for sports >>>>matches >>>>>>>>or to go to the cinema. >>>>>>> >>>>>>> >>>>>>>Ivana, your boys' after-school routine is very >>>>>similar >>>>>>>to ours. I have two sons, ages 13 (almost) and >10, >>>>>and >>>>>>>when they come home from school, they do exactly >>>>what >>>>>>>your kids do. The only two differences are that I >>>>>give >>>>>>>them hot cocoa in the colder months and fruit >>juice >>>>>in >>>>>>>the warmer months, and that our dinner is at 7:30 >>>>pm. >>>>>>>They're also always naked all day and all weekend >>>>>>>except when they have to go out for school, >>soccer, >>>>>>>swimming, the mall or to go to the cinema. >>>>>>>If friends of mine or my brother with his wife >and >>>>>his >>>>>>>two children (a boy and a girl) come to visit us, >>>>>they >>>>>>>remain naked (in this very similar to what Ross >>>>wrote >>>>>>>about his childhood, nudity was the default). >>>Having >>>>>>>adopted this routine since they were very young, >>>>they >>>>>>>are now completely at ease, without embarrassment >>>>>even >>>>>>>in the presence of guests. >>>>>>>My older brother and I, when we were kids, had >>very >>>>>>>few opportunities to see each other naked (and on >>>>all >>>>>>>of them I saw him, never the other way around). >At >>>>>the >>>>>>>pediatrician, at the beach, during his bath, >while >>>>he >>>>>>>was peeing, but these were occasional incidents >>>>>(which >>>>>>>I've described in other posts to Dave, Sean, and >>>>>>>Spelvin). On these few occasions, he was always >>>very >>>>>>>embarrassed, and they were moments of great >stress >>>>>and >>>>>>>shame for him. I want my children to be >>comfortable >>>>>>>with their bodies, and I think this routine is >>very >>>>>>>helpful. >>>>>> >>>>>>That sounds wonderful Anna, it sounds like your >two >>>>>>little boys are having a wonderful childhood. I'm >>>>glad >>>>>>that your boys stay naked even when guests are >>>>>>visiting. >>>>> >>>>> >>>>>Thanks, Ivana. >>>>>I think your boys' after-school routine is very >>>>>similar to ours, so your children are having a >>>>>wonderful childhood too. >>>>>May I ask how old they are? >>>>>Do they stay naked even when there are guests like >>>>>mine, or do they wear clothes? >>>> >>>>Hi Anna, thank you for the kind words. Our boys are >>>>14, 12, and 10. Yes, they remain naked when we have >>>>guests over. >>> >>> >>>Hi Ivana, I'm very glad your boys stay naked even >when >>>you have guests over. That means you did a great job >>>with them. Congratulations! >>>I'm very glad especially for them, but also because >>>they are just older than mine and so I can hope mine >>>will remain comfortable for a few more years. >>>As I wrote to scamptoo we plan to continue like this >>>until they tell us they are no longer comfortable >(for >>>now, that moment is far away). >>>I can assume the 14-year-old has already started >>>puberty. If so, it's really nice that he's >comfortable >>>in front of guests. You must be very proud of him. >>>My eldest son is about to enter puberty. He's still >>>hairless, just a light downy stubble, quite short and >>>sparse for now, but his testicles started to descend >>>and enlarge, and his penis has also lengthened and >>>thickened a bit. His genitals are still a bit >>>infantile, but still different from his younger >>>brother's; you can tell his hormones are starting to >>>kick in. >>>For now, though, as I said before, he's still >>>completely comfortable in front of everyone. I'm >proud >>>of him. >> >>Hi Anna, yes, our eldest is going through puberty, >>although he is still quite small. He does not have any >>pubic hair because he shaves. He is comfortable being >>naked in front of guests because he has never worn >>clothes in front of guests. I expect our boys will be >>naked at home until they move out. > > >Hi Ivana, thanks for the replies and details. > >If he's still quite small and shaves, he'll look even >younger than his 14 years, so guests will be less >surprised to see him naked. >My children have been naked at home since they stopped >wearing diapers, so they're comfortable with both >adult and young guests because, like your children, >they've never worn clothes in front of them. > >Speaking with other mothers, pubic hair removal isn't >very common in early adolescence (for both boys and >girls). However, in late adolescence, it's definitely >more common (especially among girls, but also among >boys). At least in my city, I can't speak generally >for the whole of Italy. That's why I wondered if he >was more embarrassed than before or was still >comfortable with pubic hair. Sorry for the question! I >was just wondering how my older son might react, >although, as I repeat, for now, he's completely >comfortable with even the fuzz. We expect our boys >will be naked at home until they are no longer >comfortable. You say, "I was just wondering how my older son might react" What is it that you were wondering about? Were you wondering how he would react to having hair down there or to shaving that hair off? . [ Post a Reply to This Message ]

[> [> [> [> [> [> [> [> [> [> Subject: Re: After school Rituals Author: Anna to scamptoo [ Edit | View ] Date Posted: 14:29:52 11/28/25 Fri Author Host/IP: 169.150.218.78 >>>>>>>>>>Growing up in the 90s, I had a very >>unique—and >>>>>>>>>>surprisingly consistent—after-school ritual >>>>that >>>>>>>>>>shaped much of my childhood comfort and >>>>>>>>>>self-awareness. The moment I stepped through >>the >>>>>>>>front >>>>>>>>>>door, no matter the season or whether guests >>>were >>>>>>>>>>over, the routine was non-negotiable: school >>>>>>uniform >>>>>>>>>>came off. Every piece—shoes, socks, tie, >>>shirt, >>>>>>>>>>trousers—was removed with a quiet sense of >>>>>>ritual. >>>>>>>>>>I’d fold each item neatly, hang the blazer >if >>>I >>>>>>>>wore >>>>>>>>>>one, place the shoes by the closet, and set >the >>>>>>>socks >>>>>>>>>>perfectly aligned. It was almost like shedding >>>>the >>>>>>>>>>outside world, layer by layer. >>>>>>>>>> >>>>>>>>>>Once undressed, I was expected—by my >>>>>parents—to >>>>>>>>>>remain completely nude for the rest of the >>>>>>>afternoon, >>>>>>>>>>evening, and even into the next morning, >>whether >>>>I >>>>>>>>was >>>>>>>>>>indoors or playing in the garden. Weekends? >>Same >>>>>>>>rule. >>>>>>>>>>No clothes unless we were leaving the house or >>>>>>>school >>>>>>>>>>started again the next day. It wasn’t a >>>>>>>suggestion; >>>>>>>>>>it was simply how things were at home. >>>>>>>>>> >>>>>>>>>>What’s more, it didn’t matter if family >>>>>dropped >>>>>>>>by >>>>>>>>>>or friends came over—nudity was the default. >>>No >>>>>>>one >>>>>>>>>>batted an eye. There were no awkward moments, >>no >>>>>>>>>>comments, just normalcy. My parents never >>framed >>>>>it >>>>>>>>as >>>>>>>>>>something “weird” or “shocking.” To >>>them, >>>>>>>the >>>>>>>>>>home was a private, natural space—free from >>>the >>>>>>>>>>constraints and expectations of clothing. They >>>>>>>>>>believed that being comfortable in your own >>>skin, >>>>>>>>>>literally, was essential to developing >>>confidence >>>>>>>and >>>>>>>>>>body positivity. >>>>>>>>>> >>>>>>>>>>Looking back, I realize how profoundly this >>>>shaped >>>>>>>>me. >>>>>>>>>>I never developed a sense of shame or anxiety >>>>>about >>>>>>>>my >>>>>>>>>>body. Being nude wasn’t sexualized, wasn’t >>>>>>>>>>performative—it was just being. It felt as >>>>>>natural >>>>>>>>>>as breathing. I learned early on that my body >>>>>>>>wasn’t >>>>>>>>>>something to hide, judge, or apologize for. >>>>>>>>>> >>>>>>>>>>Of course, I understand this isn’t the norm >>>for >>>>>>>>most >>>>>>>>>>families, and every household has its own >>>>>>boundaries >>>>>>>>>>and values. But for me, this simple, >consistent >>>>>>>>>>practice fostered a deep sense of ease and >>>>>>>>>>authenticity that I still carry today. >>>>>>>>>> >>>>>>>>>>It makes me wonder—how many of our childhood >>>>>>>>>>routines quietly shape who we become, long >>after >>>>>>>>we've >>>>>>>>>>outgrown them? >>>>>>>>> >>>>>>>>>Thank you once again Ross for sharing with us >>>such >>>>>a >>>>>>>>>detailed account of your childhood routine. It >>>>>>sounds >>>>>>>>>like you had a wonderful home. Consistency is >so >>>>>>>>>important for children to feel safe and secure, >>>so >>>>>>>>>it's really great that you had such a >consistent >>>>>>home >>>>>>>>>ritual every day after school. >>>>>>>>> >>>>>>>>>We try to keep a similar after-school routine >>>with >>>>>>>our >>>>>>>>>boys. Like you, our boys remove all of their >>>>>clothes >>>>>>>>>at the door and put them away until they're >>>needed >>>>>>>for >>>>>>>>>school the next day. Once they're naked and >>>>>>>>>comfortable, I make them hot cocoa to enjoy in >>>the >>>>>>>>>living room while they tell me about their day, >>>>>>>before >>>>>>>>>they sit down to start their homework. Dinner >is >>>>at >>>>>>>>>7pm, and afterwards they have a few hours to >>>relax >>>>>>>>>before it's time for bed, either inside or in >>the >>>>>>>back >>>>>>>>>yard. Usually they will stay naked until it's >>>time >>>>>>to >>>>>>>>>get dressed for school the next morning. On >>>>>weekends >>>>>>>>>they will usually not wear any clothes at all, >>>>>>unless >>>>>>>>>they need to leave the house e.g. for sports >>>>>matches >>>>>>>>>or to go to the cinema. >>>>>>>> >>>>>>>> >>>>>>>>Ivana, your boys' after-school routine is very >>>>>>similar >>>>>>>>to ours. I have two sons, ages 13 (almost) and >>10, >>>>>>and >>>>>>>>when they come home from school, they do exactly >>>>>what >>>>>>>>your kids do. The only two differences are that >I >>>>>>give >>>>>>>>them hot cocoa in the colder months and fruit >>>juice >>>>>>in >>>>>>>>the warmer months, and that our dinner is at >7:30 >>>>>pm. >>>>>>>>They're also always naked all day and all >weekend >>>>>>>>except when they have to go out for school, >>>soccer, >>>>>>>>swimming, the mall or to go to the cinema. >>>>>>>>If friends of mine or my brother with his wife >>and >>>>>>his >>>>>>>>two children (a boy and a girl) come to visit >us, >>>>>>they >>>>>>>>remain naked (in this very similar to what Ross >>>>>wrote >>>>>>>>about his childhood, nudity was the default). >>>>Having >>>>>>>>adopted this routine since they were very young, >>>>>they >>>>>>>>are now completely at ease, without >embarrassment >>>>>>even >>>>>>>>in the presence of guests. >>>>>>>>My older brother and I, when we were kids, had >>>very >>>>>>>>few opportunities to see each other naked (and >on >>>>>all >>>>>>>>of them I saw him, never the other way around). >>At >>>>>>the >>>>>>>>pediatrician, at the beach, during his bath, >>while >>>>>he >>>>>>>>was peeing, but these were occasional incidents >>>>>>(which >>>>>>>>I've described in other posts to Dave, Sean, and >>>>>>>>Spelvin). On these few occasions, he was always >>>>very >>>>>>>>embarrassed, and they were moments of great >>stress >>>>>>and >>>>>>>>shame for him. I want my children to be >>>comfortable >>>>>>>>with their bodies, and I think this routine is >>>very >>>>>>>>helpful. >>>>>>> >>>>>>>That sounds wonderful Anna, it sounds like your >>two >>>>>>>little boys are having a wonderful childhood. I'm >>>>>glad >>>>>>>that your boys stay naked even when guests are >>>>>>>visiting. >>>>>> >>>>>> >>>>>>Thanks, Ivana. >>>>>>I think your boys' after-school routine is very >>>>>>similar to ours, so your children are having a >>>>>>wonderful childhood too. >>>>>>May I ask how old they are? >>>>>>Do they stay naked even when there are guests like >>>>>>mine, or do they wear clothes? >>>>> >>>>>Hi Anna, thank you for the kind words. Our boys are >>>>>14, 12, and 10. Yes, they remain naked when we have >>>>>guests over. >>>> >>>> >>>>Hi Ivana, I'm very glad your boys stay naked even >>when >>>>you have guests over. That means you did a great job >>>>with them. Congratulations! >>>>I'm very glad especially for them, but also because >>>>they are just older than mine and so I can hope mine >>>>will remain comfortable for a few more years. >>>>As I wrote to scamptoo we plan to continue like this >>>>until they tell us they are no longer comfortable >>(for >>>>now, that moment is far away). >>>>I can assume the 14-year-old has already started >>>>puberty. If so, it's really nice that he's >>comfortable >>>>in front of guests. You must be very proud of him. >>>>My eldest son is about to enter puberty. He's still >>>>hairless, just a light downy stubble, quite short >and >>>>sparse for now, but his testicles started to descend >>>>and enlarge, and his penis has also lengthened and >>>>thickened a bit. His genitals are still a bit >>>>infantile, but still different from his younger >>>>brother's; you can tell his hormones are starting to >>>>kick in. >>>>For now, though, as I said before, he's still >>>>completely comfortable in front of everyone. I'm >>proud >>>>of him. >>> >>>Hi Anna, yes, our eldest is going through puberty, >>>although he is still quite small. He does not have >any >>>pubic hair because he shaves. He is comfortable being >>>naked in front of guests because he has never worn >>>clothes in front of guests. I expect our boys will be >>>naked at home until they move out. >> >> >>Hi Ivana, thanks for the replies and details. >> >>If he's still quite small and shaves, he'll look even >>younger than his 14 years, so guests will be less >>surprised to see him naked. >>My children have been naked at home since they stopped >>wearing diapers, so they're comfortable with both >>adult and young guests because, like your children, >>they've never worn clothes in front of them. >> >>Speaking with other mothers, pubic hair removal isn't >>very common in early adolescence (for both boys and >>girls). However, in late adolescence, it's definitely >>more common (especially among girls, but also among >>boys). At least in my city, I can't speak generally >>for the whole of Italy. That's why I wondered if he >>was more embarrassed than before or was still >>comfortable with pubic hair. Sorry for the question! I >>was just wondering how my older son might react, >>although, as I repeat, for now, he's completely >>comfortable with even the fuzz. We expect our boys >>will be naked at home until they are no longer >>comfortable. > >You say, "I was just wondering how my older son might >react" > >What is it that you were wondering about? > >Were you wondering how he would react to having hair >down there or to shaving that hair off? > >. As you may have guessed, English isn't my native language, and I don't express myself very well, so perhaps what I'm trying to convey isn't clear. Sorry! 😳 I was wondering how he'll react when he has hair down there? It's just fluff right now… But as I read Ivana's answer, I thought that perhaps he would look better if he were shaved, so I might as well consider shaving him and removing the fuzz, and then in the future removing the "actual pubic hair" when it grows... [ Post a Reply to This Message ]

[> [> [> [> [> [> [> [> [> [> [> Subject: Re: After school Rituals Author: Ivana [ Edit | View ] Date Posted: 07:14:21 11/29/25 Sat Author Host/IP: 185.156.72.7 >>>>>>>>>>>Growing up in the 90s, I had a very >>>unique—and >>>>>>>>>>>surprisingly consistent—after-school ritual >>>>>that >>>>>>>>>>>shaped much of my childhood comfort and >>>>>>>>>>>self-awareness. The moment I stepped through >>>the >>>>>>>>>front >>>>>>>>>>>door, no matter the season or whether guests >>>>were >>>>>>>>>>>over, the routine was non-negotiable: school >>>>>>>uniform >>>>>>>>>>>came off. Every piece—shoes, socks, tie, >>>>shirt, >>>>>>>>>>>trousers—was removed with a quiet sense of >>>>>>>ritual. >>>>>>>>>>>I’d fold each item neatly, hang the blazer >>if >>>>I >>>>>>>>>wore >>>>>>>>>>>one, place the shoes by the closet, and set >>the >>>>>>>>socks >>>>>>>>>>>perfectly aligned. It was almost like >shedding >>>>>the >>>>>>>>>>>outside world, layer by layer. >>>>>>>>>>> >>>>>>>>>>>Once undressed, I was expected—by my >>>>>>parents—to >>>>>>>>>>>remain completely nude for the rest of the >>>>>>>>afternoon, >>>>>>>>>>>evening, and even into the next morning, >>>whether >>>>>I >>>>>>>>>was >>>>>>>>>>>indoors or playing in the garden. Weekends? >>>Same >>>>>>>>>rule. >>>>>>>>>>>No clothes unless we were leaving the house >or >>>>>>>>school >>>>>>>>>>>started again the next day. It wasn’t a >>>>>>>>suggestion; >>>>>>>>>>>it was simply how things were at home. >>>>>>>>>>> >>>>>>>>>>>What’s more, it didn’t matter if family >>>>>>dropped >>>>>>>>>by >>>>>>>>>>>or friends came over—nudity was the >default. >>>>No >>>>>>>>one >>>>>>>>>>>batted an eye. There were no awkward moments, >>>no >>>>>>>>>>>comments, just normalcy. My parents never >>>framed >>>>>>it >>>>>>>>>as >>>>>>>>>>>something “weird” or “shocking.” To >>>>them, >>>>>>>>the >>>>>>>>>>>home was a private, natural space—free from >>>>the >>>>>>>>>>>constraints and expectations of clothing. >They >>>>>>>>>>>believed that being comfortable in your own >>>>skin, >>>>>>>>>>>literally, was essential to developing >>>>confidence >>>>>>>>and >>>>>>>>>>>body positivity. >>>>>>>>>>> >>>>>>>>>>>Looking back, I realize how profoundly this >>>>>shaped >>>>>>>>>me. >>>>>>>>>>>I never developed a sense of shame or anxiety >>>>>>about >>>>>>>>>my >>>>>>>>>>>body. Being nude wasn’t sexualized, >wasn’t >>>>>>>>>>>performative—it was just being. It felt as >>>>>>>natural >>>>>>>>>>>as breathing. I learned early on that my body >>>>>>>>>wasn’t >>>>>>>>>>>something to hide, judge, or apologize for. >>>>>>>>>>> >>>>>>>>>>>Of course, I understand this isn’t the norm >>>>for >>>>>>>>>most >>>>>>>>>>>families, and every household has its own >>>>>>>boundaries >>>>>>>>>>>and values. But for me, this simple, >>consistent >>>>>>>>>>>practice fostered a deep sense of ease and >>>>>>>>>>>authenticity that I still carry today. >>>>>>>>>>> >>>>>>>>>>>It makes me wonder—how many of our >childhood >>>>>>>>>>>routines quietly shape who we become, long >>>after >>>>>>>>>we've >>>>>>>>>>>outgrown them? >>>>>>>>>> >>>>>>>>>>Thank you once again Ross for sharing with us >>>>such >>>>>>a >>>>>>>>>>detailed account of your childhood routine. It >>>>>>>sounds >>>>>>>>>>like you had a wonderful home. Consistency is >>so >>>>>>>>>>important for children to feel safe and >secure, >>>>so >>>>>>>>>>it's really great that you had such a >>consistent >>>>>>>home >>>>>>>>>>ritual every day after school. >>>>>>>>>> >>>>>>>>>>We try to keep a similar after-school routine >>>>with >>>>>>>>our >>>>>>>>>>boys. Like you, our boys remove all of their >>>>>>clothes >>>>>>>>>>at the door and put them away until they're >>>>needed >>>>>>>>for >>>>>>>>>>school the next day. Once they're naked and >>>>>>>>>>comfortable, I make them hot cocoa to enjoy in >>>>the >>>>>>>>>>living room while they tell me about their >day, >>>>>>>>before >>>>>>>>>>they sit down to start their homework. Dinner >>is >>>>>at >>>>>>>>>>7pm, and afterwards they have a few hours to >>>>relax >>>>>>>>>>before it's time for bed, either inside or in >>>the >>>>>>>>back >>>>>>>>>>yard. Usually they will stay naked until it's >>>>time >>>>>>>to >>>>>>>>>>get dressed for school the next morning. On >>>>>>weekends >>>>>>>>>>they will usually not wear any clothes at all, >>>>>>>unless >>>>>>>>>>they need to leave the house e.g. for sports >>>>>>matches >>>>>>>>>>or to go to the cinema. >>>>>>>>> >>>>>>>>> >>>>>>>>>Ivana, your boys' after-school routine is very >>>>>>>similar >>>>>>>>>to ours. I have two sons, ages 13 (almost) and >>>10, >>>>>>>and >>>>>>>>>when they come home from school, they do >exactly >>>>>>what >>>>>>>>>your kids do. The only two differences are that >>I >>>>>>>give >>>>>>>>>them hot cocoa in the colder months and fruit >>>>juice >>>>>>>in >>>>>>>>>the warmer months, and that our dinner is at >>7:30 >>>>>>pm. >>>>>>>>>They're also always naked all day and all >>weekend >>>>>>>>>except when they have to go out for school, >>>>soccer, >>>>>>>>>swimming, the mall or to go to the cinema. >>>>>>>>>If friends of mine or my brother with his wife >>>and >>>>>>>his >>>>>>>>>two children (a boy and a girl) come to visit >>us, >>>>>>>they >>>>>>>>>remain naked (in this very similar to what Ross >>>>>>wrote >>>>>>>>>about his childhood, nudity was the default). >>>>>Having >>>>>>>>>adopted this routine since they were very >young, >>>>>>they >>>>>>>>>are now completely at ease, without >>embarrassment >>>>>>>even >>>>>>>>>in the presence of guests. >>>>>>>>>My older brother and I, when we were kids, had >>>>very >>>>>>>>>few opportunities to see each other naked (and >>on >>>>>>all >>>>>>>>>of them I saw him, never the other way around). >>>At >>>>>>>the >>>>>>>>>pediatrician, at the beach, during his bath, >>>while >>>>>>he >>>>>>>>>was peeing, but these were occasional incidents >>>>>>>(which >>>>>>>>>I've described in other posts to Dave, Sean, >and >>>>>>>>>Spelvin). On these few occasions, he was always >>>>>very >>>>>>>>>embarrassed, and they were moments of great >>>stress >>>>>>>and >>>>>>>>>shame for him. I want my children to be >>>>comfortable >>>>>>>>>with their bodies, and I think this routine is >>>>very >>>>>>>>>helpful. >>>>>>>> >>>>>>>>That sounds wonderful Anna, it sounds like your >>>two >>>>>>>>little boys are having a wonderful childhood. >I'm >>>>>>glad >>>>>>>>that your boys stay naked even when guests are >>>>>>>>visiting. >>>>>>> >>>>>>> >>>>>>>Thanks, Ivana. >>>>>>>I think your boys' after-school routine is very >>>>>>>similar to ours, so your children are having a >>>>>>>wonderful childhood too. >>>>>>>May I ask how old they are? >>>>>>>Do they stay naked even when there are guests >like >>>>>>>mine, or do they wear clothes? >>>>>> >>>>>>Hi Anna, thank you for the kind words. Our boys >are >>>>>>14, 12, and 10. Yes, they remain naked when we >have >>>>>>guests over. >>>>> >>>>> >>>>>Hi Ivana, I'm very glad your boys stay naked even >>>when >>>>>you have guests over. That means you did a great >job >>>>>with them. Congratulations! >>>>>I'm very glad especially for them, but also because >>>>>they are just older than mine and so I can hope >mine >>>>>will remain comfortable for a few more years. >>>>>As I wrote to scamptoo we plan to continue like >this >>>>>until they tell us they are no longer comfortable >>>(for >>>>>now, that moment is far away). >>>>>I can assume the 14-year-old has already started >>>>>puberty. If so, it's really nice that he's >>>comfortable >>>>>in front of guests. You must be very proud of him. >>>>>My eldest son is about to enter puberty. He's still >>>>>hairless, just a light downy stubble, quite short >>and >>>>>sparse for now, but his testicles started to >descend >>>>>and enlarge, and his penis has also lengthened and >>>>>thickened a bit. His genitals are still a bit >>>>>infantile, but still different from his younger >>>>>brother's; you can tell his hormones are starting >to >>>>>kick in. >>>>>For now, though, as I said before, he's still >>>>>completely comfortable in front of everyone. I'm >>>proud >>>>>of him. >>>> >>>>Hi Anna, yes, our eldest is going through puberty, >>>>although he is still quite small. He does not have >>any >>>>pubic hair because he shaves. He is comfortable >being >>>>naked in front of guests because he has never worn >>>>clothes in front of guests. I expect our boys will >be >>>>naked at home until they move out. >>> >>> >>>Hi Ivana, thanks for the replies and details. >>> >>>If he's still quite small and shaves, he'll look even >>>younger than his 14 years, so guests will be less >>>surprised to see him naked. >>>My children have been naked at home since they >stopped >>>wearing diapers, so they're comfortable with both >>>adult and young guests because, like your children, >>>they've never worn clothes in front of them. >>> >>>Speaking with other mothers, pubic hair removal isn't >>>very common in early adolescence (for both boys and >>>girls). However, in late adolescence, it's definitely >>>more common (especially among girls, but also among >>>boys). At least in my city, I can't speak generally >>>for the whole of Italy. That's why I wondered if he >>>was more embarrassed than before or was still >>>comfortable with pubic hair. Sorry for the question! >I >>>was just wondering how my older son might react, >>>although, as I repeat, for now, he's completely >>>comfortable with even the fuzz. We expect our boys >>>will be naked at home until they are no longer >>>comfortable. >> >>You say, "I was just wondering how my older son might >>react" >> >>What is it that you were wondering about? >> >>Were you wondering how he would react to having hair >>down there or to shaving that hair off? >> >>. > > >As you may have guessed, English isn't my native >language, and I don't express myself very well, so >perhaps what I'm trying to convey isn't clear. Sorry! >😳 >I was wondering how he'll react when he has hair down >there? It's just fluff right now… > >But as I read Ivana's answer, I thought that perhaps >he would look better if he were shaved, so I might as >well consider shaving him and removing the fuzz, and >then in the future removing the "actual pubic hair" >when it grows... Anna I think it's a great idea to keep him shaved. I think it will make him look neater and better. And after all, he is still your 'little boy' until he is fully grown and ready to leave home. [ Post a Reply to This Message ]

[> [> [> [> [> [> [> [> [> [> [> Subject: Re: After school Rituals Author: scamptoo to Anna [ Edit | View ] Date Posted: 09:29:04 11/29/25 Sat Author Host/IP: 24.57.206.80 >>>>>>>>>>>Growing up in the 90s, I had a very >>>unique—and >>>>>>>>>>>surprisingly consistent—after-school ritual >>>>>that >>>>>>>>>>>shaped much of my childhood comfort and >>>>>>>>>>>self-awareness. The moment I stepped through >>>the >>>>>>>>>front >>>>>>>>>>>door, no matter the season or whether guests >>>>were >>>>>>>>>>>over, the routine was non-negotiable: school >>>>>>>uniform >>>>>>>>>>>came off. Every piece—shoes, socks, tie, >>>>shirt, >>>>>>>>>>>trousers—was removed with a quiet sense of >>>>>>>ritual. >>>>>>>>>>>I’d fold each item neatly, hang the blazer >>if >>>>I >>>>>>>>>wore >>>>>>>>>>>one, place the shoes by the closet, and set >>the >>>>>>>>socks >>>>>>>>>>>perfectly aligned. It was almost like >shedding >>>>>the >>>>>>>>>>>outside world, layer by layer. >>>>>>>>>>> >>>>>>>>>>>Once undressed, I was expected—by my >>>>>>parents—to >>>>>>>>>>>remain completely nude for the rest of the >>>>>>>>afternoon, >>>>>>>>>>>evening, and even into the next morning, >>>whether >>>>>I >>>>>>>>>was >>>>>>>>>>>indoors or playing in the garden. Weekends? >>>Same >>>>>>>>>rule. >>>>>>>>>>>No clothes unless we were leaving the house >or >>>>>>>>school >>>>>>>>>>>started again the next day. It wasn’t a >>>>>>>>suggestion; >>>>>>>>>>>it was simply how things were at home. >>>>>>>>>>> >>>>>>>>>>>What’s more, it didn’t matter if family >>>>>>dropped >>>>>>>>>by >>>>>>>>>>>or friends came over—nudity was the >default. >>>>No >>>>>>>>one >>>>>>>>>>>batted an eye. There were no awkward moments, >>>no >>>>>>>>>>>comments, just normalcy. My parents never >>>framed >>>>>>it >>>>>>>>>as >>>>>>>>>>>something “weird” or “shocking.” To >>>>them, >>>>>>>>the >>>>>>>>>>>home was a private, natural space—free from >>>>the >>>>>>>>>>>constraints and expectations of clothing. >They >>>>>>>>>>>believed that being comfortable in your own >>>>skin, >>>>>>>>>>>literally, was essential to developing >>>>confidence >>>>>>>>and >>>>>>>>>>>body positivity. >>>>>>>>>>> >>>>>>>>>>>Looking back, I realize how profoundly this >>>>>shaped >>>>>>>>>me. >>>>>>>>>>>I never developed a sense of shame or anxiety >>>>>>about >>>>>>>>>my >>>>>>>>>>>body. Being nude wasn’t sexualized, >wasn’t >>>>>>>>>>>performative—it was just being. It felt as >>>>>>>natural >>>>>>>>>>>as breathing. I learned early on that my body >>>>>>>>>wasn’t >>>>>>>>>>>something to hide, judge, or apologize for. >>>>>>>>>>> >>>>>>>>>>>Of course, I understand this isn’t the norm >>>>for >>>>>>>>>most >>>>>>>>>>>families, and every household has its own >>>>>>>boundaries >>>>>>>>>>>and values. But for me, this simple, >>consistent >>>>>>>>>>>practice fostered a deep sense of ease and >>>>>>>>>>>authenticity that I still carry today. >>>>>>>>>>> >>>>>>>>>>>It makes me wonder—how many of our >childhood >>>>>>>>>>>routines quietly shape who we become, long >>>after >>>>>>>>>we've >>>>>>>>>>>outgrown them? >>>>>>>>>> >>>>>>>>>>Thank you once again Ross for sharing with us >>>>such >>>>>>a >>>>>>>>>>detailed account of your childhood routine. It >>>>>>>sounds >>>>>>>>>>like you had a wonderful home. Consistency is >>so >>>>>>>>>>important for children to feel safe and >secure, >>>>so >>>>>>>>>>it's really great that you had such a >>consistent >>>>>>>home >>>>>>>>>>ritual every day after school. >>>>>>>>>> >>>>>>>>>>We try to keep a similar after-school routine >>>>with >>>>>>>>our >>>>>>>>>>boys. Like you, our boys remove all of their >>>>>>clothes >>>>>>>>>>at the door and put them away until they're >>>>needed >>>>>>>>for >>>>>>>>>>school the next day. Once they're naked and >>>>>>>>>>comfortable, I make them hot cocoa to enjoy in >>>>the >>>>>>>>>>living room while they tell me about their >day, >>>>>>>>before >>>>>>>>>>they sit down to start their homework. Dinner >>is >>>>>at >>>>>>>>>>7pm, and afterwards they have a few hours to >>>>relax >>>>>>>>>>before it's time for bed, either inside or in >>>the >>>>>>>>back >>>>>>>>>>yard. Usually they will stay naked until it's >>>>time >>>>>>>to >>>>>>>>>>get dressed for school the next morning. On >>>>>>weekends >>>>>>>>>>they will usually not wear any clothes at all, >>>>>>>unless >>>>>>>>>>they need to leave the house e.g. for sports >>>>>>matches >>>>>>>>>>or to go to the cinema. >>>>>>>>> >>>>>>>>> >>>>>>>>>Ivana, your boys' after-school routine is very >>>>>>>similar >>>>>>>>>to ours. I have two sons, ages 13 (almost) and >>>10, >>>>>>>and >>>>>>>>>when they come home from school, they do >exactly >>>>>>what >>>>>>>>>your kids do. The only two differences are that >>I >>>>>>>give >>>>>>>>>them hot cocoa in the colder months and fruit >>>>juice >>>>>>>in >>>>>>>>>the warmer months, and that our dinner is at >>7:30 >>>>>>pm. >>>>>>>>>They're also always naked all day and all >>weekend >>>>>>>>>except when they have to go out for school, >>>>soccer, >>>>>>>>>swimming, the mall or to go to the cinema. >>>>>>>>>If friends of mine or my brother with his wife >>>and >>>>>>>his >>>>>>>>>two children (a boy and a girl) come to visit >>us, >>>>>>>they >>>>>>>>>remain naked (in this very similar to what Ross >>>>>>wrote >>>>>>>>>about his childhood, nudity was the default). >>>>>Having >>>>>>>>>adopted this routine since they were very >young, >>>>>>they >>>>>>>>>are now completely at ease, without >>embarrassment >>>>>>>even >>>>>>>>>in the presence of guests. >>>>>>>>>My older brother and I, when we were kids, had >>>>very >>>>>>>>>few opportunities to see each other naked (and >>on >>>>>>all >>>>>>>>>of them I saw him, never the other way around). >>>At >>>>>>>the >>>>>>>>>pediatrician, at the beach, during his bath, >>>while >>>>>>he >>>>>>>>>was peeing, but these were occasional incidents >>>>>>>(which >>>>>>>>>I've described in other posts to Dave, Sean, >and >>>>>>>>>Spelvin). On these few occasions, he was always >>>>>very >>>>>>>>>embarrassed, and they were moments of great >>>stress >>>>>>>and >>>>>>>>>shame for him. I want my children to be >>>>comfortable >>>>>>>>>with their bodies, and I think this routine is >>>>very >>>>>>>>>helpful. >>>>>>>> >>>>>>>>That sounds wonderful Anna, it sounds like your >>>two >>>>>>>>little boys are having a wonderful childhood. >I'm >>>>>>glad >>>>>>>>that your boys stay naked even when guests are >>>>>>>>visiting. >>>>>>> >>>>>>> >>>>>>>Thanks, Ivana. >>>>>>>I think your boys' after-school routine is very >>>>>>>similar to ours, so your children are having a >>>>>>>wonderful childhood too. >>>>>>>May I ask how old they are? >>>>>>>Do they stay naked even when there are guests >like >>>>>>>mine, or do they wear clothes? >>>>>> >>>>>>Hi Anna, thank you for the kind words. Our boys >are >>>>>>14, 12, and 10. Yes, they remain naked when we >have >>>>>>guests over. >>>>> >>>>> >>>>>Hi Ivana, I'm very glad your boys stay naked even >>>when >>>>>you have guests over. That means you did a great >job >>>>>with them. Congratulations! >>>>>I'm very glad especially for them, but also because >>>>>they are just older than mine and so I can hope >mine >>>>>will remain comfortable for a few more years. >>>>>As I wrote to scamptoo we plan to continue like >this >>>>>until they tell us they are no longer comfortable >>>(for >>>>>now, that moment is far away). >>>>>I can assume the 14-year-old has already started >>>>>puberty. If so, it's really nice that he's >>>comfortable >>>>>in front of guests. You must be very proud of him. >>>>>My eldest son is about to enter puberty. He's still >>>>>hairless, just a light downy stubble, quite short >>and >>>>>sparse for now, but his testicles started to >descend >>>>>and enlarge, and his penis has also lengthened and >>>>>thickened a bit. His genitals are still a bit >>>>>infantile, but still different from his younger >>>>>brother's; you can tell his hormones are starting >to >>>>>kick in. >>>>>For now, though, as I said before, he's still >>>>>completely comfortable in front of everyone. I'm >>>proud >>>>>of him. >>>> >>>>Hi Anna, yes, our eldest is going through puberty, >>>>although he is still quite small. He does not have >>any >>>>pubic hair because he shaves. He is comfortable >being >>>>naked in front of guests because he has never worn >>>>clothes in front of guests. I expect our boys will >be >>>>naked at home until they move out. >>> >>> >>>Hi Ivana, thanks for the replies and details. >>> >>>If he's still quite small and shaves, he'll look even >>>younger than his 14 years, so guests will be less >>>surprised to see him naked. >>>My children have been naked at home since they >stopped >>>wearing diapers, so they're comfortable with both >>>adult and young guests because, like your children, >>>they've never worn clothes in front of them. >>> >>>Speaking with other mothers, pubic hair removal isn't >>>very common in early adolescence (for both boys and >>>girls). However, in late adolescence, it's definitely >>>more common (especially among girls, but also among >>>boys). At least in my city, I can't speak generally >>>for the whole of Italy. That's why I wondered if he >>>was more embarrassed than before or was still >>>comfortable with pubic hair. Sorry for the question! >I >>>was just wondering how my older son might react, >>>although, as I repeat, for now, he's completely >>>comfortable with even the fuzz. We expect our boys >>>will be naked at home until they are no longer >>>comfortable. >> >>You say, "I was just wondering how my older son might >>react" >> >>What is it that you were wondering about? >> >>Were you wondering how he would react to having hair >>down there or to shaving that hair off? >> >>. > > >As you may have guessed, English isn't my native >language, and I don't express myself very well, so >perhaps what I'm trying to convey isn't clear. Sorry! >😳 >I was wondering how he'll react when he has hair down >there? It's just fluff right now… > >But as I read Ivana's answer, I thought that perhaps >he would look better if he were shaved, so I might as >well consider shaving him and removing the fuzz, and >then in the future removing the "actual pubic hair" >when it grows... I agree with Ivana, shave of the fuzz as it will make him look neater. . [ Post a Reply to This Message ]

[> [> [> [> [> [> [> [> [> [> [> [> Subject: Re: After school Rituals Author: Anna to Ivana and scamptoo [ Edit | View ] Date Posted: 14:09:13 11/29/25 Sat Author Host/IP: 185.184.192.247 >>>>>>>>>>>>Growing up in the 90s, I had a very >>>>unique—and >>>>>>>>>>>>surprisingly consistent—after-school >ritual >>>>>>that >>>>>>>>>>>>shaped much of my childhood comfort and >>>>>>>>>>>>self-awareness. The moment I stepped through >>>>the >>>>>>>>>>front >>>>>>>>>>>>door, no matter the season or whether guests >>>>>were >>>>>>>>>>>>over, the routine was non-negotiable: school >>>>>>>>uniform >>>>>>>>>>>>came off. Every piece—shoes, socks, tie, >>>>>shirt, >>>>>>>>>>>>trousers—was removed with a quiet sense of >>>>>>>>ritual. >>>>>>>>>>>>I’d fold each item neatly, hang the blazer >>>if >>>>>I >>>>>>>>>>wore >>>>>>>>>>>>one, place the shoes by the closet, and set >>>the >>>>>>>>>socks >>>>>>>>>>>>perfectly aligned. It was almost like >>shedding >>>>>>the >>>>>>>>>>>>outside world, layer by layer. >>>>>>>>>>>> >>>>>>>>>>>>Once undressed, I was expected—by my >>>>>>>parents—to >>>>>>>>>>>>remain completely nude for the rest of the >>>>>>>>>afternoon, >>>>>>>>>>>>evening, and even into the next morning, >>>>whether >>>>>>I >>>>>>>>>>was >>>>>>>>>>>>indoors or playing in the garden. Weekends? >>>>Same >>>>>>>>>>rule. >>>>>>>>>>>>No clothes unless we were leaving the house >>or >>>>>>>>>school >>>>>>>>>>>>started again the next day. It wasn’t a >>>>>>>>>suggestion; >>>>>>>>>>>>it was simply how things were at home. >>>>>>>>>>>> >>>>>>>>>>>>What’s more, it didn’t matter if family >>>>>>>dropped >>>>>>>>>>by >>>>>>>>>>>>or friends came over—nudity was the >>default. >>>>>No >>>>>>>>>one >>>>>>>>>>>>batted an eye. There were no awkward >moments, >>>>no >>>>>>>>>>>>comments, just normalcy. My parents never >>>>framed >>>>>>>it >>>>>>>>>>as >>>>>>>>>>>>something “weird” or “shocking.” To >>>>>them, >>>>>>>>>the >>>>>>>>>>>>home was a private, natural space—free >from >>>>>the >>>>>>>>>>>>constraints and expectations of clothing. >>They >>>>>>>>>>>>believed that being comfortable in your own >>>>>skin, >>>>>>>>>>>>literally, was essential to developing >>>>>confidence >>>>>>>>>and >>>>>>>>>>>>body positivity. >>>>>>>>>>>> >>>>>>>>>>>>Looking back, I realize how profoundly this >>>>>>shaped >>>>>>>>>>me. >>>>>>>>>>>>I never developed a sense of shame or >anxiety >>>>>>>about >>>>>>>>>>my >>>>>>>>>>>>body. Being nude wasn’t sexualized, >>wasn’t >>>>>>>>>>>>performative—it was just being. It felt as >>>>>>>>natural >>>>>>>>>>>>as breathing. I learned early on that my >body >>>>>>>>>>wasn’t >>>>>>>>>>>>something to hide, judge, or apologize for. >>>>>>>>>>>> >>>>>>>>>>>>Of course, I understand this isn’t the >norm >>>>>for >>>>>>>>>>most >>>>>>>>>>>>families, and every household has its own >>>>>>>>boundaries >>>>>>>>>>>>and values. But for me, this simple, >>>consistent >>>>>>>>>>>>practice fostered a deep sense of ease and >>>>>>>>>>>>authenticity that I still carry today. >>>>>>>>>>>> >>>>>>>>>>>>It makes me wonder—how many of our >>childhood >>>>>>>>>>>>routines quietly shape who we become, long >>>>after >>>>>>>>>>we've >>>>>>>>>>>>outgrown them? >>>>>>>>>>> >>>>>>>>>>>Thank you once again Ross for sharing with us >>>>>such >>>>>>>a >>>>>>>>>>>detailed account of your childhood routine. >It >>>>>>>>sounds >>>>>>>>>>>like you had a wonderful home. Consistency is >>>so >>>>>>>>>>>important for children to feel safe and >>secure, >>>>>so >>>>>>>>>>>it's really great that you had such a >>>consistent >>>>>>>>home >>>>>>>>>>>ritual every day after school. >>>>>>>>>>> >>>>>>>>>>>We try to keep a similar after-school routine >>>>>with >>>>>>>>>our >>>>>>>>>>>boys. Like you, our boys remove all of their >>>>>>>clothes >>>>>>>>>>>at the door and put them away until they're >>>>>needed >>>>>>>>>for >>>>>>>>>>>school the next day. Once they're naked and >>>>>>>>>>>comfortable, I make them hot cocoa to enjoy >in >>>>>the >>>>>>>>>>>living room while they tell me about their >>day, >>>>>>>>>before >>>>>>>>>>>they sit down to start their homework. Dinner >>>is >>>>>>at >>>>>>>>>>>7pm, and afterwards they have a few hours to >>>>>relax >>>>>>>>>>>before it's time for bed, either inside or in >>>>the >>>>>>>>>back >>>>>>>>>>>yard. Usually they will stay naked until it's >>>>>time >>>>>>>>to >>>>>>>>>>>get dressed for school the next morning. On >>>>>>>weekends >>>>>>>>>>>they will usually not wear any clothes at >all, >>>>>>>>unless >>>>>>>>>>>they need to leave the house e.g. for sports >>>>>>>matches >>>>>>>>>>>or to go to the cinema. >>>>>>>>>> >>>>>>>>>> >>>>>>>>>>Ivana, your boys' after-school routine is very >>>>>>>>similar >>>>>>>>>>to ours. I have two sons, ages 13 (almost) and >>>>10, >>>>>>>>and >>>>>>>>>>when they come home from school, they do >>exactly >>>>>>>what >>>>>>>>>>your kids do. The only two differences are >that >>>I >>>>>>>>give >>>>>>>>>>them hot cocoa in the colder months and fruit >>>>>juice >>>>>>>>in >>>>>>>>>>the warmer months, and that our dinner is at >>>7:30 >>>>>>>pm. >>>>>>>>>>They're also always naked all day and all >>>weekend >>>>>>>>>>except when they have to go out for school, >>>>>soccer, >>>>>>>>>>swimming, the mall or to go to the cinema. >>>>>>>>>>If friends of mine or my brother with his wife >>>>and >>>>>>>>his >>>>>>>>>>two children (a boy and a girl) come to visit >>>us, >>>>>>>>they >>>>>>>>>>remain naked (in this very similar to what >Ross >>>>>>>wrote >>>>>>>>>>about his childhood, nudity was the default). >>>>>>Having >>>>>>>>>>adopted this routine since they were very >>young, >>>>>>>they >>>>>>>>>>are now completely at ease, without >>>embarrassment >>>>>>>>even >>>>>>>>>>in the presence of guests. >>>>>>>>>>My older brother and I, when we were kids, had >>>>>very >>>>>>>>>>few opportunities to see each other naked (and >>>on >>>>>>>all >>>>>>>>>>of them I saw him, never the other way >around). >>>>At >>>>>>>>the >>>>>>>>>>pediatrician, at the beach, during his bath, >>>>while >>>>>>>he >>>>>>>>>>was peeing, but these were occasional >incidents >>>>>>>>(which >>>>>>>>>>I've described in other posts to Dave, Sean, >>and >>>>>>>>>>Spelvin). On these few occasions, he was >always >>>>>>very >>>>>>>>>>embarrassed, and they were moments of great >>>>stress >>>>>>>>and >>>>>>>>>>shame for him. I want my children to be >>>>>comfortable >>>>>>>>>>with their bodies, and I think this routine is >>>>>very >>>>>>>>>>helpful. >>>>>>>>> >>>>>>>>>That sounds wonderful Anna, it sounds like your >>>>two >>>>>>>>>little boys are having a wonderful childhood. >>I'm >>>>>>>glad >>>>>>>>>that your boys stay naked even when guests are >>>>>>>>>visiting. >>>>>>>> >>>>>>>> >>>>>>>>Thanks, Ivana. >>>>>>>>I think your boys' after-school routine is very >>>>>>>>similar to ours, so your children are having a >>>>>>>>wonderful childhood too. >>>>>>>>May I ask how old they are? >>>>>>>>Do they stay naked even when there are guests >>like >>>>>>>>mine, or do they wear clothes? >>>>>>> >>>>>>>Hi Anna, thank you for the kind words. Our boys >>are >>>>>>>14, 12, and 10. Yes, they remain naked when we >>have >>>>>>>guests over. >>>>>> >>>>>> >>>>>>Hi Ivana, I'm very glad your boys stay naked even >>>>when >>>>>>you have guests over. That means you did a great >>job >>>>>>with them. Congratulations! >>>>>>I'm very glad especially for them, but also >because >>>>>>they are just older than mine and so I can hope >>mine >>>>>>will remain comfortable for a few more years. >>>>>>As I wrote to scamptoo we plan to continue like >>this >>>>>>until they tell us they are no longer comfortable >>>>(for >>>>>>now, that moment is far away). >>>>>>I can assume the 14-year-old has already started >>>>>>puberty. If so, it's really nice that he's >>>>comfortable >>>>>>in front of guests. You must be very proud of him. >>>>>>My eldest son is about to enter puberty. He's >still >>>>>>hairless, just a light downy stubble, quite short >>>and >>>>>>sparse for now, but his testicles started to >>descend >>>>>>and enlarge, and his penis has also lengthened and >>>>>>thickened a bit. His genitals are still a bit >>>>>>infantile, but still different from his younger >>>>>>brother's; you can tell his hormones are starting >>to >>>>>>kick in. >>>>>>For now, though, as I said before, he's still >>>>>>completely comfortable in front of everyone. I'm >>>>proud >>>>>>of him. >>>>> >>>>>Hi Anna, yes, our eldest is going through puberty, >>>>>although he is still quite small. He does not have >>>any >>>>>pubic hair because he shaves. He is comfortable >>being >>>>>naked in front of guests because he has never worn >>>>>clothes in front of guests. I expect our boys will >>be >>>>>naked at home until they move out. >>>> >>>> >>>>Hi Ivana, thanks for the replies and details. >>>> >>>>If he's still quite small and shaves, he'll look >even >>>>younger than his 14 years, so guests will be less >>>>surprised to see him naked. >>>>My children have been naked at home since they >>stopped >>>>wearing diapers, so they're comfortable with both >>>>adult and young guests because, like your children, >>>>they've never worn clothes in front of them. >>>> >>>>Speaking with other mothers, pubic hair removal >isn't >>>>very common in early adolescence (for both boys and >>>>girls). However, in late adolescence, it's >definitely >>>>more common (especially among girls, but also among >>>>boys). At least in my city, I can't speak generally >>>>for the whole of Italy. That's why I wondered if he >>>>was more embarrassed than before or was still >>>>comfortable with pubic hair. Sorry for the question! >>I >>>>was just wondering how my older son might react, >>>>although, as I repeat, for now, he's completely >>>>comfortable with even the fuzz. We expect our boys >>>>will be naked at home until they are no longer >>>>comfortable. >>> >>>You say, "I was just wondering how my older son might >>>react" >>> >>>What is it that you were wondering about? >>> >>>Were you wondering how he would react to having hair >>>down there or to shaving that hair off? >>> >>>. >> >> >>As you may have guessed, English isn't my native >>language, and I don't express myself very well, so >>perhaps what I'm trying to convey isn't clear. Sorry! >>😳 >>I was wondering how he'll react when he has hair down >>there? It's just fluff right now… >> >>But as I read Ivana's answer, I thought that perhaps >>he would look better if he were shaved, so I might as >>well consider shaving him and removing the fuzz, and >>then in the future removing the "actual pubic hair" >>when it grows... > >I agree with Ivana, shave of the fuzz as it will make >him look neater. > >. Ivana and Scamptoo, thanks for the suggestion. I spoke to a few mothers in front of the school and the soccer field, and they all confirmed what I've already written. At least here where I live, mothers tend to keep their daughters' pubic hair shaved even at the beginning of puberty, while their sons are left "hairy." It's the sons who decide whether or not to shave when they reach their late teens, 16 or older. But I agree with you Ivana, he is still my "little boy" even if he has the fuzz down there and in 10 days he will turn 13. I also thought back to how it was "down there" until a few months ago and you are both right: shaved is neater and nicer. I talked to my husband about it, and even though he'll be the only one of his friends (aside from a couple of boys who are delayed in puberty and haven't developed yet) with no hair or fuzz, tomorrow, which is Sunday and there's no work or school, so we can take things slowly, I'll shave him. So he will be my "little boy" again… [ Post a Reply to This Message ]

[> [> [> [> [> [> [> [> [> [> [> [> [> Subject: Re: After school Rituals Author: scamptoo to Anna [ Edit | View ] Date Posted: 11:35:31 11/30/25 Sun Author Host/IP: 24.57.206.80 > >Ivana and Scamptoo, thanks for the suggestion. > >I spoke to a few mothers in front of the school and >the soccer field, and they all confirmed what I've >already written. At least here where I live, mothers >tend to keep their daughters' pubic hair shaved even >at the beginning of puberty, while their sons are left >"hairy." It's the sons who decide whether or not to >shave when they reach their late teens, 16 or older. > >But I agree with you Ivana, he is still my "little >boy" even if he has the fuzz down there and in 10 days >he will turn 13. I also thought back to how it was >"down there" until a few months ago and you are both >right: shaved is neater and nicer. I talked to my >husband about it, and even though he'll be the only >one of his friends (aside from a couple of boys who >are delayed in puberty and haven't developed yet) with >no hair or fuzz, tomorrow, which is Sunday and there's >no work or school, so we can take things slowly, I'll >shave him. So he will be my "little boy" again… Well it is Sunday now, and can I conclude that you did shave off that fuzz down there so you have your "little boy" again? Can you tell us what his reaction was when you told him that you will shave him down there? What was his reaction while you were shaving him? [ Post a Reply to This Message ]

[> [> [> [> [> [> [> [> [> [> [> [> [> [> Subject: Re: After school Rituals Author: Anna to scamptoo [ Edit | View ] Date Posted: 14:22:06 12/01/25 Mon Author Host/IP: 190.2.151.125 > >> >>Ivana and Scamptoo, thanks for the suggestion. >> >>I spoke to a few mothers in front of the school and >>the soccer field, and they all confirmed what I've >>already written. At least here where I live, mothers >>tend to keep their daughters' pubic hair shaved even >>at the beginning of puberty, while their sons are left >>"hairy." It's the sons who decide whether or not to >>shave when they reach their late teens, 16 or older. >> >>But I agree with you Ivana, he is still my "little >>boy" even if he has the fuzz down there and in 10 days >>he will turn 13. I also thought back to how it was >>"down there" until a few months ago and you are both >>right: shaved is neater and nicer. I talked to my >>husband about it, and even though he'll be the only >>one of his friends (aside from a couple of boys who >>are delayed in puberty and haven't developed yet) with >>no hair or fuzz, tomorrow, which is Sunday and there's >>no work or school, so we can take things slowly, I'll >>shave him. So he will be my "little boy" again… > >Well it is Sunday now, and can I conclude that you did >shave off that fuzz down there so you have your >"little boy" again? > >Can you tell us what his reaction was when you told >him that you will shave him down there? > >What was his reaction while you were shaving him? Hi scamptoo, yesterday afternoon we went to visit some friends and stopped for dinner, so I didn't get around to replying. Here I am. Yes, yesterday I shaved off his fuzz down there and now I have my "little boy" again… I almost forgot how cute he was without fuzz… much better this way, you and Ivana were right! His first reaction when I told him I was going to shave him down there was, "Mom, you're crazy! Why?? Absolutely NOT!!! Never! I don't want to look like a little kid like my brother and like Mattia and Federico " (his two classmates I've already mentioned who haven't even started puberty yet and are still small and have infantile genitals). Very calmly and patiently, I explained to him that given his height, his penis had started to grow bigger, his balls were starting to drop, and that all his friends had seen him naked with his fuzz, no one would mistake him for a small child. But without fluff he would have looked neater and better. I knew a lot of guys and girls older than him who shaved, and his mom (that's me) is also shaved down there… This last piece of news must have struck him because he asked me "You, mum, do you shave???? So you don't have any hair down there????" He didn't believe it… he's never seen me naked, only in a bathing suit or panties and you can see he never noticed. Anyway, after I told him it was a test and that if he didn't like it he just had to wait for it to grow back, he finally agreed, but he made me promise not to hurt him with the razor… lol… While I was shaving him he kept repeating to be careful, not to hurt him, not to cut his willy. When I told him that I certainly didn't mean to hurt him and that if he kept talking I could distract myself and cut him (it wasn't true, but he was so worried that he wouldn't stop repeating those words, over and over, he sounded like a broken record... it was driving me crazy... lol...) he remained silent until I finished my job, staring at my hand working the razor on his pubic area very close to his penis. In the end I was very satisfied, perfect job, no cuts, he was neat and better… Unfortunately, he had to get dressed shortly afterward because we went out to visit some friends. This afternoon, when he came home from school and stripped naked, I was able to observe him carefully as he played with his brother, then as he did his homework, and then as he watched TV on the couch. I admit, he's much better this way, without fuzz down there. I think he'll keep it shaved until he is fully grown and ready to leave home, like Ivana with her sons. [ Post a Reply to This Message ]

[> [> [> [> [> [> [> [> [> [> [> [> [> [> [> Subject: Re: After school Rituals Author: scamptoo [ Edit | View ] Date Posted: 12:28:32 12/02/25 Tue Author Host/IP: 24.57.206.80 >> >>> >>>Ivana and Scamptoo, thanks for the suggestion. >>> >>>I spoke to a few mothers in front of the school and >>>the soccer field, and they all confirmed what I've >>>already written. At least here where I live, mothers >>>tend to keep their daughters' pubic hair shaved even >>>at the beginning of puberty, while their sons are >left >>>"hairy." It's the sons who decide whether or not to >>>shave when they reach their late teens, 16 or older. >>> >>>But I agree with you Ivana, he is still my "little >>>boy" even if he has the fuzz down there and in 10 >days >>>he will turn 13. I also thought back to how it was >>>"down there" until a few months ago and you are both >>>right: shaved is neater and nicer. I talked to my >>>husband about it, and even though he'll be the only >>>one of his friends (aside from a couple of boys who >>>are delayed in puberty and haven't developed yet) >with >>>no hair or fuzz, tomorrow, which is Sunday and >there's >>>no work or school, so we can take things slowly, I'll >>>shave him. So he will be my "little boy" again… >> >>Well it is Sunday now, and can I conclude that you did >>shave off that fuzz down there so you have your >>"little boy" again? >> >>Can you tell us what his reaction was when you told >>him that you will shave him down there? >> >>What was his reaction while you were shaving him? > > >Hi scamptoo, yesterday afternoon we went to visit some >friends and stopped for dinner, so I didn't get around >to replying. >Here I am. Yes, yesterday I shaved off his fuzz down >there and now I have my "little boy" again… >I almost forgot how cute he was without fuzz… much >better this way, you and Ivana were right! >His first reaction when I told him I was going to >shave him down there was, "Mom, you're crazy! Why?? >Absolutely NOT!!! Never! I don't want to look like a >little kid like my brother and like Mattia and >Federico " (his two classmates I've already mentioned >who haven't even started puberty yet and are still >small and have infantile genitals). >Very calmly and patiently, I explained to him that >given his height, his penis had started to grow >bigger, his balls were starting to drop, and that all >his friends had seen him naked with his fuzz, no one >would mistake him for a small child. But without fluff >he would have looked neater and better. I knew a lot >of guys and girls older than him who shaved, and his >mom (that's me) is also shaved down there… This last >piece of news must have struck him because he asked me >"You, mum, do you shave???? So you don't have any hair >down there????" He didn't believe it… he's never >seen me naked, only in a bathing suit or panties and >you can see he never noticed. Anyway, after I told him >it was a test and that if he didn't like it he just >had to wait for it to grow back, he finally agreed, >but he made me promise not to hurt him with the >razor… lol… >While I was shaving him he kept repeating to be >careful, not to hurt him, not to cut his willy. When I >told him that I certainly didn't mean to hurt him and >that if he kept talking I could distract myself and >cut him (it wasn't true, but he was so worried that he >wouldn't stop repeating those words, over and over, he >sounded like a broken record... it was driving me >crazy... lol...) he remained silent until I finished >my job, staring at my hand working the razor on his >pubic area very close to his penis. >In the end I was very satisfied, perfect job, no cuts, >he was neat and better… Unfortunately, he had to get >dressed shortly afterward because we went out to visit >some friends. >This afternoon, when he came home from school and >stripped naked, I was able to observe him carefully as >he played with his brother, then as he did his >homework, and then as he watched TV on the couch. I >admit, he's much better this way, without fuzz down >there. I think he'll keep it shaved until he is fully >grown and ready to leave home, like Ivana with her >sons. While you were shaving him was he embarrassed to the point that he erected or was he flaccid the whole time? What does he think of his new look? You said that you think he will keep it shaved until he is fully grown. So he decided that he will shave himself, or do you mean that YOU intend to shave him yourself from now on when you think he needs to be shaved? [ Post a Reply to This Message ]

[> [> [> [> [> [> [> [> [> [> [> [> [> [> [> [> Subject: Re: After school Rituals Author: Anna [ Edit | View ] Date Posted: 15:21:55 12/03/25 Wed Author Host/IP: 185.107.56.213 >>> >>>> >>>>Ivana and Scamptoo, thanks for the suggestion. >>>> >>>>I spoke to a few mothers in front of the school and >>>>the soccer field, and they all confirmed what I've >>>>already written. At least here where I live, mothers >>>>tend to keep their daughters' pubic hair shaved even >>>>at the beginning of puberty, while their sons are >>left >>>>"hairy." It's the sons who decide whether or not to >>>>shave when they reach their late teens, 16 or >older. >>>> >>>>But I agree with you Ivana, he is still my "little >>>>boy" even if he has the fuzz down there and in 10 >>days >>>>he will turn 13. I also thought back to how it was >>>>"down there" until a few months ago and you are both >>>>right: shaved is neater and nicer. I talked to my >>>>husband about it, and even though he'll be the only >>>>one of his friends (aside from a couple of boys who >>>>are delayed in puberty and haven't developed yet) >>with >>>>no hair or fuzz, tomorrow, which is Sunday and >>there's >>>>no work or school, so we can take things slowly, >I'll >>>>shave him. So he will be my "little boy" again… >>> >>>Well it is Sunday now, and can I conclude that you >did >>>shave off that fuzz down there so you have your >>>"little boy" again? >>> >>>Can you tell us what his reaction was when you told >>>him that you will shave him down there? >>> >>>What was his reaction while you were shaving him? >> >> >>Hi scamptoo, yesterday afternoon we went to visit some >>friends and stopped for dinner, so I didn't get around >>to replying. >>Here I am. Yes, yesterday I shaved off his fuzz down >>there and now I have my "little boy" again… >>I almost forgot how cute he was without fuzz… much >>better this way, you and Ivana were right! >>His first reaction when I told him I was going to >>shave him down there was, "Mom, you're crazy! Why?? >>Absolutely NOT!!! Never! I don't want to look like a >>little kid like my brother and like Mattia and >>Federico " (his two classmates I've already mentioned >>who haven't even started puberty yet and are still >>small and have infantile genitals). >>Very calmly and patiently, I explained to him that >>given his height, his penis had started to grow >>bigger, his balls were starting to drop, and that all >>his friends had seen him naked with his fuzz, no one >>would mistake him for a small child. But without fluff >>he would have looked neater and better. I knew a lot >>of guys and girls older than him who shaved, and his >>mom (that's me) is also shaved down there… This last >>piece of news must have struck him because he asked me >>"You, mum, do you shave???? So you don't have any hair >>down there????" He didn't believe it… he's never >>seen me naked, only in a bathing suit or panties and >>you can see he never noticed. Anyway, after I told him >>it was a test and that if he didn't like it he just >>had to wait for it to grow back, he finally agreed, >>but he made me promise not to hurt him with the >>razor… lol… >>While I was shaving him he kept repeating to be >>careful, not to hurt him, not to cut his willy. When I >>told him that I certainly didn't mean to hurt him and >>that if he kept talking I could distract myself and >>cut him (it wasn't true, but he was so worried that he >>wouldn't stop repeating those words, over and over, he >>sounded like a broken record... it was driving me >>crazy... lol...) he remained silent until I finished >>my job, staring at my hand working the razor on his >>pubic area very close to his penis. >>In the end I was very satisfied, perfect job, no cuts, >>he was neat and better… Unfortunately, he had to get >>dressed shortly afterward because we went out to visit >>some friends. >>This afternoon, when he came home from school and >>stripped naked, I was able to observe him carefully as >>he played with his brother, then as he did his >>homework, and then as he watched TV on the couch. I >>admit, he's much better this way, without fuzz down >>there. I think he'll keep it shaved until he is fully >>grown and ready to leave home, like Ivana with her >>sons. > >While you were shaving him was he embarrassed to the >point that he erected or was he flaccid the whole time? > >What does he think of his new look? > >You said that you think he will keep it shaved until >he is fully grown. > >So he decided that he will shave himself, or do you >mean that YOU intend to shave him yourself from now on >when you think he needs to be shaved? He was flaccid most of the time. Only at the end, when I took his penis in my left hand to trim the fuzz closest to the base, did he harden, but not fully erect. As soon as I finished work, when he could look at himself without the obstacle of my hands using the razor, he was taken aback for a moment. I'd say he wasn't very happy… I hugged him and told him that I thought he was much cuter this way. Then he agreed with me that he looked neater and better this way. In the end, he said it wasn't such a bad thing to be shaved… I mean, from now on I intend to shave him myself when I think he needs it. It was a lot of fun and enjoyable doing it, and I want to continue doing it, at least for a few more years. When he's older, he can do it himself if he wants, but at least for a couple of years, I'll do it myself. This afternoon he and his brother play around with eachother, completely naked as usual, with their penises wobbling and bouncing around… They were so cute… I'm more and more convinced that I did the right thing by shaving him… [ Post a Reply to This Message ]

[> [> [> [> [> [> [> [> [> [> [> [> [> [> [> [> [> Subject: Re: After school Rituals Author: scamptoo [ Edit | View ] Date Posted: 10:14:26 12/04/25 Thu Author Host/IP: 24.57.206.80 >>>> >>>>> >>>>>Ivana and Scamptoo, thanks for the suggestion. >>>>> >>>>>I spoke to a few mothers in front of the school and >>>>>the soccer field, and they all confirmed what I've >>>>>already written. At least here where I live, >mothers >>>>>tend to keep their daughters' pubic hair shaved >even >>>>>at the beginning of puberty, while their sons are >>>left >>>>>"hairy." It's the sons who decide whether or not to >>>>>shave when they reach their late teens, 16 or >>older. >>>>> >>>>>But I agree with you Ivana, he is still my "little >>>>>boy" even if he has the fuzz down there and in 10 >>>days >>>>>he will turn 13. I also thought back to how it was >>>>>"down there" until a few months ago and you are >both >>>>>right: shaved is neater and nicer. I talked to my >>>>>husband about it, and even though he'll be the only >>>>>one of his friends (aside from a couple of boys who >>>>>are delayed in puberty and haven't developed yet) >>>with >>>>>no hair or fuzz, tomorrow, which is Sunday and >>>there's >>>>>no work or school, so we can take things slowly, >>I'll >>>>>shave him. So he will be my "little boy" again… >>>> >>>>Well it is Sunday now, and can I conclude that you >>did >>>>shave off that fuzz down there so you have your >>>>"little boy" again? >>>> >>>>Can you tell us what his reaction was when you told >>>>him that you will shave him down there? >>>> >>>>What was his reaction while you were shaving him? >>> >>> >>>Hi scamptoo, yesterday afternoon we went to visit >some >>>friends and stopped for dinner, so I didn't get >around >>>to replying. >>>Here I am. Yes, yesterday I shaved off his fuzz down >>>there and now I have my "little boy" again… >>>I almost forgot how cute he was without fuzz… much >>>better this way, you and Ivana were right! >>>His first reaction when I told him I was going to >>>shave him down there was, "Mom, you're crazy! Why?? >>>Absolutely NOT!!! Never! I don't want to look like a >>>little kid like my brother and like Mattia and >>>Federico " (his two classmates I've already mentioned >>>who haven't even started puberty yet and are still >>>small and have infantile genitals). >>>Very calmly and patiently, I explained to him that >>>given his height, his penis had started to grow >>>bigger, his balls were starting to drop, and that all >>>his friends had seen him naked with his fuzz, no one >>>would mistake him for a small child. But without >fluff >>>he would have looked neater and better. I knew a lot >>>of guys and girls older than him who shaved, and his >>>mom (that's me) is also shaved down there… This >last >>>piece of news must have struck him because he asked >me >>>"You, mum, do you shave???? So you don't have any >hair >>>down there????" He didn't believe it… he's never >>>seen me naked, only in a bathing suit or panties and >>>you can see he never noticed. Anyway, after I told >him >>>it was a test and that if he didn't like it he just >>>had to wait for it to grow back, he finally agreed, >>>but he made me promise not to hurt him with the >>>razor… lol… >>>While I was shaving him he kept repeating to be >>>careful, not to hurt him, not to cut his willy. When >I >>>told him that I certainly didn't mean to hurt him and >>>that if he kept talking I could distract myself and >>>cut him (it wasn't true, but he was so worried that >he >>>wouldn't stop repeating those words, over and over, >he >>>sounded like a broken record... it was driving me >>>crazy... lol...) he remained silent until I finished >>>my job, staring at my hand working the razor on his >>>pubic area very close to his penis. >>>In the end I was very satisfied, perfect job, no >cuts, >>>he was neat and better… Unfortunately, he had to >get >>>dressed shortly afterward because we went out to >visit >>>some friends. >>>This afternoon, when he came home from school and >>>stripped naked, I was able to observe him carefully >as >>>he played with his brother, then as he did his >>>homework, and then as he watched TV on the couch. I >>>admit, he's much better this way, without fuzz down >>>there. I think he'll keep it shaved until he is fully >>>grown and ready to leave home, like Ivana with her >>>sons. >> >>While you were shaving him was he embarrassed to the >>point that he erected or was he flaccid the whole >time? >> >>What does he think of his new look? >> >>You said that you think he will keep it shaved until >>he is fully grown. >> >>So he decided that he will shave himself, or do you >>mean that YOU intend to shave him yourself from now on >>when you think he needs to be shaved? > > >He was flaccid most of the time. Only at the end, when >I took his penis in my left hand to trim the fuzz >closest to the base, did he harden, but not fully >erect. > >As soon as I finished work, when he could look at >himself without the obstacle of my hands using the >razor, he was taken aback for a moment. I'd say he >wasn't very happy… I hugged him and told him that I >thought he was much cuter this way. Then he agreed >with me that he looked neater and better this way. In >the end, he said it wasn't such a bad thing to be >shaved… > >I mean, from now on I intend to shave him myself when >I think he needs it. It was a lot of fun and enjoyable >doing it, and I want to continue doing it, at least >for a few more years. When he's older, he can do it >himself if he wants, but at least for a couple of >years, I'll do it myself. > >This afternoon he and his brother play around with >eachother, completely naked as usual, with their >penises wobbling and bouncing around… They were so >cute… I'm more and more convinced that I did the >right thing by shaving him… I think you did the right thing by shaving him as well. Since you intend to do the shaving from here onward you will have something to look forward to enjoy doing....since you said "It was a lot of fun and enjoyable doing it, and I want to continue doing it". And just think, in a couple of years you will have your other son to shave as well :-) Was your other son or your husband watching while you shaved your oldest son? [ Post a Reply to This Message ]

[> [> [> [> [> [> [> [> [> [> [> [> [> [> [> [> [> [> Subject: Re: After school Rituals Author: Anna [ Edit | View ] Date Posted: 13:58:35 12/05/25 Fri Author Host/IP: 169.150.218.139 >>>>> >>>>>> >>>>>>Ivana and Scamptoo, thanks for the suggestion. >>>>>> >>>>>>I spoke to a few mothers in front of the school >and >>>>>>the soccer field, and they all confirmed what I've >>>>>>already written. At least here where I live, >>mothers >>>>>>tend to keep their daughters' pubic hair shaved >>even >>>>>>at the beginning of puberty, while their sons are >>>>left >>>>>>"hairy." It's the sons who decide whether or not >to >>>>>>shave when they reach their late teens, 16 or >>>older. >>>>>> >>>>>>But I agree with you Ivana, he is still my "little >>>>>>boy" even if he has the fuzz down there and in 10 >>>>days >>>>>>he will turn 13. I also thought back to how it was >>>>>>"down there" until a few months ago and you are >>both >>>>>>right: shaved is neater and nicer. I talked to my >>>>>>husband about it, and even though he'll be the >only >>>>>>one of his friends (aside from a couple of boys >who >>>>>>are delayed in puberty and haven't developed yet) >>>>with >>>>>>no hair or fuzz, tomorrow, which is Sunday and >>>>there's >>>>>>no work or school, so we can take things slowly, >>>I'll >>>>>>shave him. So he will be my "little boy" again… >>>>> >>>>>Well it is Sunday now, and can I conclude that you >>>did >>>>>shave off that fuzz down there so you have your >>>>>"little boy" again? >>>>> >>>>>Can you tell us what his reaction was when you told >>>>>him that you will shave him down there? >>>>> >>>>>What was his reaction while you were shaving him? >>>> >>>> >>>>Hi scamptoo, yesterday afternoon we went to visit >>some >>>>friends and stopped for dinner, so I didn't get >>around >>>>to replying. >>>>Here I am. Yes, yesterday I shaved off his fuzz down >>>>there and now I have my "little boy" again… >>>>I almost forgot how cute he was without fuzz… much >>>>better this way, you and Ivana were right! >>>>His first reaction when I told him I was going to >>>>shave him down there was, "Mom, you're crazy! Why?? >>>>Absolutely NOT!!! Never! I don't want to look like a >>>>little kid like my brother and like Mattia and >>>>Federico " (his two classmates I've already >mentioned >>>>who haven't even started puberty yet and are still >>>>small and have infantile genitals). >>>>Very calmly and patiently, I explained to him that >>>>given his height, his penis had started to grow >>>>bigger, his balls were starting to drop, and that >all >>>>his friends had seen him naked with his fuzz, no one >>>>would mistake him for a small child. But without >>fluff >>>>he would have looked neater and better. I knew a lot >>>>of guys and girls older than him who shaved, and his >>>>mom (that's me) is also shaved down there… This >>last >>>>piece of news must have struck him because he asked >>me >>>>"You, mum, do you shave???? So you don't have any >>hair >>>>down there????" He didn't believe it… he's never >>>>seen me naked, only in a bathing suit or panties and >>>>you can see he never noticed. Anyway, after I told >>him >>>>it was a test and that if he didn't like it he just >>>>had to wait for it to grow back, he finally agreed, >>>>but he made me promise not to hurt him with the >>>>razor… lol… >>>>While I was shaving him he kept repeating to be >>>>careful, not to hurt him, not to cut his willy. When >>I >>>>told him that I certainly didn't mean to hurt him >and >>>>that if he kept talking I could distract myself and >>>>cut him (it wasn't true, but he was so worried that >>he >>>>wouldn't stop repeating those words, over and over, >>he >>>>sounded like a broken record... it was driving me >>>>crazy... lol...) he remained silent until I finished >>>>my job, staring at my hand working the razor on his >>>>pubic area very close to his penis. >>>>In the end I was very satisfied, perfect job, no >>cuts, >>>>he was neat and better… Unfortunately, he had to >>get >>>>dressed shortly afterward because we went out to >>visit >>>>some friends. >>>>This afternoon, when he came home from school and >>>>stripped naked, I was able to observe him carefully >>as >>>>he played with his brother, then as he did his >>>>homework, and then as he watched TV on the couch. I >>>>admit, he's much better this way, without fuzz down >>>>there. I think he'll keep it shaved until he is >fully >>>>grown and ready to leave home, like Ivana with her >>>>sons. >>> >>>While you were shaving him was he embarrassed to the >>>point that he erected or was he flaccid the whole >>time? >>> >>>What does he think of his new look? >>> >>>You said that you think he will keep it shaved until >>>he is fully grown. >>> >>>So he decided that he will shave himself, or do you >>>mean that YOU intend to shave him yourself from now >on >>>when you think he needs to be shaved? >> >> >>He was flaccid most of the time. Only at the end, when >>I took his penis in my left hand to trim the fuzz >>closest to the base, did he harden, but not fully >>erect. >> >>As soon as I finished work, when he could look at >>himself without the obstacle of my hands using the >>razor, he was taken aback for a moment. I'd say he >>wasn't very happy… I hugged him and told him that I >>thought he was much cuter this way. Then he agreed >>with me that he looked neater and better this way. In >>the end, he said it wasn't such a bad thing to be >>shaved… >> >>I mean, from now on I intend to shave him myself when >>I think he needs it. It was a lot of fun and enjoyable >>doing it, and I want to continue doing it, at least >>for a few more years. When he's older, he can do it >>himself if he wants, but at least for a couple of >>years, I'll do it myself. >> >>This afternoon he and his brother play around with >>eachother, completely naked as usual, with their >>penises wobbling and bouncing around… They were so >>cute… I'm more and more convinced that I did the >>right thing by shaving him… > >I think you did the right thing by shaving him as well. > >Since you intend to do the shaving from here onward >you will have something to look forward to enjoy >doing....since you said "It was a lot of fun and >enjoyable doing it, and I want to continue doing it". > >And just think, in a couple of years you will have >your other son to shave as well :-) > >Was your other son or your husband watching while you >shaved your oldest son? Hi scamptoo, thanks for your kind words. The more days go by and the more I see him walking around the house naked and without any fuzz, the more I'm convinced I did the right thing. He's gotten used to it now, too, and I think he prefers it this way. I confess that I find shaving myself boring, but doing it for my son is enjoyable. My youngest son turned 10 in June, so he doesn't need it for now. But yes, if he develops like his older brother, in about two years I'll have a very interesting and enjoyable "double job"... lol... I can't wait... My husband, no, he was watching the football championship match on TV. My younger son, however, was present and watched the whole thing. At first, my older son didn't want to, saying it was embarrassing. I pointed out to him that it couldn't be, since they spend the whole day naked together (except in the morning at school). I also added that in a couple of years I'd do the same to him, so he was interested in seeing. Eventually, he agreed to let his younger brother see the whole shaving. [ Post a Reply to This Message ]

[> [> [> [> [> [> [> [> [> [> [> [> [> [> [> [> [> [> [> Subject: Re: After school Rituals Author: Ivana [ Edit | View ] Date Posted: 20:02:06 12/05/25 Fri Author Host/IP: 45.80.158.27 >>>>>> >>>>>>> >>>>>>>Ivana and Scamptoo, thanks for the suggestion. >>>>>>> >>>>>>>I spoke to a few mothers in front of the school >>and >>>>>>>the soccer field, and they all confirmed what >I've >>>>>>>already written. At least here where I live, >>>mothers >>>>>>>tend to keep their daughters' pubic hair shaved >>>even >>>>>>>at the beginning of puberty, while their sons are >>>>>left >>>>>>>"hairy." It's the sons who decide whether or not >>to >>>>>>>shave when they reach their late teens, 16 or >>>>older. >>>>>>> >>>>>>>But I agree with you Ivana, he is still my >"little >>>>>>>boy" even if he has the fuzz down there and in 10 >>>>>days >>>>>>>he will turn 13. I also thought back to how it >was >>>>>>>"down there" until a few months ago and you are >>>both >>>>>>>right: shaved is neater and nicer. I talked to my >>>>>>>husband about it, and even though he'll be the >>only >>>>>>>one of his friends (aside from a couple of boys >>who >>>>>>>are delayed in puberty and haven't developed yet) >>>>>with >>>>>>>no hair or fuzz, tomorrow, which is Sunday and >>>>>there's >>>>>>>no work or school, so we can take things slowly, >>>>I'll >>>>>>>shave him. So he will be my "little boy" again… >>>>>> >>>>>>Well it is Sunday now, and can I conclude that you >>>>did >>>>>>shave off that fuzz down there so you have your >>>>>>"little boy" again? >>>>>> >>>>>>Can you tell us what his reaction was when you >told >>>>>>him that you will shave him down there? >>>>>> >>>>>>What was his reaction while you were shaving him? >>>>> >>>>> >>>>>Hi scamptoo, yesterday afternoon we went to visit >>>some >>>>>friends and stopped for dinner, so I didn't get >>>around >>>>>to replying. >>>>>Here I am. Yes, yesterday I shaved off his fuzz >down >>>>>there and now I have my "little boy" again… >>>>>I almost forgot how cute he was without fuzz… >much >>>>>better this way, you and Ivana were right! >>>>>His first reaction when I told him I was going to >>>>>shave him down there was, "Mom, you're crazy! Why?? >>>>>Absolutely NOT!!! Never! I don't want to look like >a >>>>>little kid like my brother and like Mattia and >>>>>Federico " (his two classmates I've already >>mentioned >>>>>who haven't even started puberty yet and are still >>>>>small and have infantile genitals). >>>>>Very calmly and patiently, I explained to him that >>>>>given his height, his penis had started to grow >>>>>bigger, his balls were starting to drop, and that >>all >>>>>his friends had seen him naked with his fuzz, no >one >>>>>would mistake him for a small child. But without >>>fluff >>>>>he would have looked neater and better. I knew a >lot >>>>>of guys and girls older than him who shaved, and >his >>>>>mom (that's me) is also shaved down there… This >>>last >>>>>piece of news must have struck him because he asked >>>me >>>>>"You, mum, do you shave???? So you don't have any >>>hair >>>>>down there????" He didn't believe it… he's never >>>>>seen me naked, only in a bathing suit or panties >and >>>>>you can see he never noticed. Anyway, after I told >>>him >>>>>it was a test and that if he didn't like it he just >>>>>had to wait for it to grow back, he finally agreed, >>>>>but he made me promise not to hurt him with the >>>>>razor… lol… >>>>>While I was shaving him he kept repeating to be >>>>>careful, not to hurt him, not to cut his willy. >When >>>I >>>>>told him that I certainly didn't mean to hurt him >>and >>>>>that if he kept talking I could distract myself and >>>>>cut him (it wasn't true, but he was so worried that >>>he >>>>>wouldn't stop repeating those words, over and over, >>>he >>>>>sounded like a broken record... it was driving me >>>>>crazy... lol...) he remained silent until I >finished >>>>>my job, staring at my hand working the razor on his >>>>>pubic area very close to his penis. >>>>>In the end I was very satisfied, perfect job, no >>>cuts, >>>>>he was neat and better… Unfortunately, he had to >>>get >>>>>dressed shortly afterward because we went out to >>>visit >>>>>some friends. >>>>>This afternoon, when he came home from school and >>>>>stripped naked, I was able to observe him carefully >>>as >>>>>he played with his brother, then as he did his >>>>>homework, and then as he watched TV on the couch. I >>>>>admit, he's much better this way, without fuzz down >>>>>there. I think he'll keep it shaved until he is >>fully >>>>>grown and ready to leave home, like Ivana with her >>>>>sons. >>>> >>>>While you were shaving him was he embarrassed to the >>>>point that he erected or was he flaccid the whole >>>time? >>>> >>>>What does he think of his new look? >>>> >>>>You said that you think he will keep it shaved until >>>>he is fully grown. >>>> >>>>So he decided that he will shave himself, or do you >>>>mean that YOU intend to shave him yourself from now >>on >>>>when you think he needs to be shaved? >>> >>> >>>He was flaccid most of the time. Only at the end, >when >>>I took his penis in my left hand to trim the fuzz >>>closest to the base, did he harden, but not fully >>>erect. >>> >>>As soon as I finished work, when he could look at >>>himself without the obstacle of my hands using the >>>razor, he was taken aback for a moment. I'd say he >>>wasn't very happy… I hugged him and told him that >I >>>thought he was much cuter this way. Then he agreed >>>with me that he looked neater and better this way. In >>>the end, he said it wasn't such a bad thing to be >>>shaved… >>> >>>I mean, from now on I intend to shave him myself when >>>I think he needs it. It was a lot of fun and >enjoyable >>>doing it, and I want to continue doing it, at least >>>for a few more years. When he's older, he can do it >>>himself if he wants, but at least for a couple of >>>years, I'll do it myself. >>> >>>This afternoon he and his brother play around with >>>eachother, completely naked as usual, with their >>>penises wobbling and bouncing around… They were so >>>cute… I'm more and more convinced that I did the >>>right thing by shaving him… >> >>I think you did the right thing by shaving him as >well. >> >>Since you intend to do the shaving from here onward >>you will have something to look forward to enjoy >>doing....since you said "It was a lot of fun and >>enjoyable doing it, and I want to continue doing it". >> >>And just think, in a couple of years you will have >>your other son to shave as well :-) >> >>Was your other son or your husband watching while you >>shaved your oldest son? > > > >Hi scamptoo, thanks for your kind words. The more days >go by and the more I see him walking around the house >naked and without any fuzz, the more I'm convinced I >did the right thing. He's gotten used to it now, too, >and I think he prefers it this way. > >I confess that I find shaving myself boring, but doing >it for my son is enjoyable. >My youngest son turned 10 in June, so he doesn't need >it for now. But yes, if he develops like his older >brother, in about two years I'll have a very >interesting and enjoyable "double job"... lol... I >can't wait... > >My husband, no, he was watching the football >championship match on TV. My younger son, however, was >present and watched the whole thing. At first, my >older son didn't want to, saying it was embarrassing. >I pointed out to him that it couldn't be, since they >spend the whole day naked together (except in the >morning at school). I also added that in a couple of >years I'd do the same to him, so he was interested in >seeing. Eventually, he agreed to let his younger >brother see the whole shaving. Hi Anna, that's wonderful that your eldest is already getting used to being shaved down there. It's good to start with him sooner rather than later of course, as he will only begin to grow more hair as he continues through puberty. Shaving my eldest takes some time since at this point I do need to shave his armpits and butt hair as well as his groin (even if it is still mostly a fuzz if left to grow). Have your son's friends been over to see his new shaved look yet? [ Post a Reply to This Message ]

[> [> [> [> [> [> [> [> [> [> [> [> [> [> [> [> [> [> [> [> Subject: Re: After school Rituals Author: Anna [ Edit | View ] Date Posted: 14:08:52 12/07/25 Sun Author Host/IP: 149.88.30.161 >>>>>>> >>>>>>>> >>>>>>>>Ivana and Scamptoo, thanks for the suggestion. >>>>>>>> >>>>>>>>I spoke to a few mothers in front of the school >>>and >>>>>>>>the soccer field, and they all confirmed what >>I've >>>>>>>>already written. At least here where I live, >>>>mothers >>>>>>>>tend to keep their daughters' pubic hair shaved >>>>even >>>>>>>>at the beginning of puberty, while their sons >are >>>>>>left >>>>>>>>"hairy." It's the sons who decide whether or not >>>to >>>>>>>>shave when they reach their late teens, 16 or >>>>>older. >>>>>>>> >>>>>>>>But I agree with you Ivana, he is still my >>"little >>>>>>>>boy" even if he has the fuzz down there and in >10 >>>>>>days >>>>>>>>he will turn 13. I also thought back to how it >>was >>>>>>>>"down there" until a few months ago and you are >>>>both >>>>>>>>right: shaved is neater and nicer. I talked to >my >>>>>>>>husband about it, and even though he'll be the >>>only >>>>>>>>one of his friends (aside from a couple of boys >>>who >>>>>>>>are delayed in puberty and haven't developed >yet) >>>>>>with >>>>>>>>no hair or fuzz, tomorrow, which is Sunday and >>>>>>there's >>>>>>>>no work or school, so we can take things slowly, >>>>>I'll >>>>>>>>shave him. So he will be my "little boy" >again… >>>>>>> >>>>>>>Well it is Sunday now, and can I conclude that >you >>>>>did >>>>>>>shave off that fuzz down there so you have your >>>>>>>"little boy" again? >>>>>>> >>>>>>>Can you tell us what his reaction was when you >>told >>>>>>>him that you will shave him down there? >>>>>>> >>>>>>>What was his reaction while you were shaving him? >>>>>> >>>>>> >>>>>>Hi scamptoo, yesterday afternoon we went to visit >>>>some >>>>>>friends and stopped for dinner, so I didn't get >>>>around >>>>>>to replying. >>>>>>Here I am. Yes, yesterday I shaved off his fuzz >>down >>>>>>there and now I have my "little boy" again… >>>>>>I almost forgot how cute he was without fuzz… >>much >>>>>>better this way, you and Ivana were right! >>>>>>His first reaction when I told him I was going to >>>>>>shave him down there was, "Mom, you're crazy! >Why?? >>>>>>Absolutely NOT!!! Never! I don't want to look like >>a >>>>>>little kid like my brother and like Mattia and >>>>>>Federico " (his two classmates I've already >>>mentioned >>>>>>who haven't even started puberty yet and are still >>>>>>small and have infantile genitals). >>>>>>Very calmly and patiently, I explained to him that >>>>>>given his height, his penis had started to grow >>>>>>bigger, his balls were starting to drop, and that >>>all >>>>>>his friends had seen him naked with his fuzz, no >>one >>>>>>would mistake him for a small child. But without >>>>fluff >>>>>>he would have looked neater and better. I knew a >>lot >>>>>>of guys and girls older than him who shaved, and >>his >>>>>>mom (that's me) is also shaved down there… This >>>>last >>>>>>piece of news must have struck him because he >asked >>>>me >>>>>>"You, mum, do you shave???? So you don't have any >>>>hair >>>>>>down there????" He didn't believe it… he's >never >>>>>>seen me naked, only in a bathing suit or panties >>and >>>>>>you can see he never noticed. Anyway, after I told >>>>him >>>>>>it was a test and that if he didn't like it he >just >>>>>>had to wait for it to grow back, he finally >agreed, >>>>>>but he made me promise not to hurt him with the >>>>>>razor… lol… >>>>>>While I was shaving him he kept repeating to be >>>>>>careful, not to hurt him, not to cut his willy. >>When >>>>I >>>>>>told him that I certainly didn't mean to hurt him >>>and >>>>>>that if he kept talking I could distract myself >and >>>>>>cut him (it wasn't true, but he was so worried >that >>>>he >>>>>>wouldn't stop repeating those words, over and >over, >>>>he >>>>>>sounded like a broken record... it was driving me >>>>>>crazy... lol...) he remained silent until I >>finished >>>>>>my job, staring at my hand working the razor on >his >>>>>>pubic area very close to his penis. >>>>>>In the end I was very satisfied, perfect job, no >>>>cuts, >>>>>>he was neat and better… Unfortunately, he had to >>>>get >>>>>>dressed shortly afterward because we went out to >>>>visit >>>>>>some friends. >>>>>>This afternoon, when he came home from school and >>>>>>stripped naked, I was able to observe him >carefully >>>>as >>>>>>he played with his brother, then as he did his >>>>>>homework, and then as he watched TV on the couch. >I >>>>>>admit, he's much better this way, without fuzz >down >>>>>>there. I think he'll keep it shaved until he is >>>fully >>>>>>grown and ready to leave home, like Ivana with her >>>>>>sons. >>>>> >>>>>While you were shaving him was he embarrassed to >the >>>>>point that he erected or was he flaccid the whole >>>>time? >>>>> >>>>>What does he think of his new look? >>>>> >>>>>You said that you think he will keep it shaved >until >>>>>he is fully grown. >>>>> >>>>>So he decided that he will shave himself, or do you >>>>>mean that YOU intend to shave him yourself from now >>>on >>>>>when you think he needs to be shaved? >>>> >>>> >>>>He was flaccid most of the time. Only at the end, >>when >>>>I took his penis in my left hand to trim the fuzz >>>>closest to the base, did he harden, but not fully >>>>erect. >>>> >>>>As soon as I finished work, when he could look at >>>>himself without the obstacle of my hands using the >>>>razor, he was taken aback for a moment. I'd say he >>>>wasn't very happy… I hugged him and told him that >>I >>>>thought he was much cuter this way. Then he agreed >>>>with me that he looked neater and better this way. >In >>>>the end, he said it wasn't such a bad thing to be >>>>shaved… >>>> >>>>I mean, from now on I intend to shave him myself >when >>>>I think he needs it. It was a lot of fun and >>enjoyable >>>>doing it, and I want to continue doing it, at least >>>>for a few more years. When he's older, he can do it >>>>himself if he wants, but at least for a couple of >>>>years, I'll do it myself. >>>> >>>>This afternoon he and his brother play around with >>>>eachother, completely naked as usual, with their >>>>penises wobbling and bouncing around… They were so >>>>cute… I'm more and more convinced that I did the >>>>right thing by shaving him… >>> >>>I think you did the right thing by shaving him as >>well. >>> >>>Since you intend to do the shaving from here onward >>>you will have something to look forward to enjoy >>>doing....since you said "It was a lot of fun and >>>enjoyable doing it, and I want to continue doing it". >>> >>>And just think, in a couple of years you will have >>>your other son to shave as well :-) >>> >>>Was your other son or your husband watching while you >>>shaved your oldest son? >> >> >> >>Hi scamptoo, thanks for your kind words. The more days >>go by and the more I see him walking around the house >>naked and without any fuzz, the more I'm convinced I >>did the right thing. He's gotten used to it now, too, >>and I think he prefers it this way. >> >>I confess that I find shaving myself boring, but doing >>it for my son is enjoyable. >>My youngest son turned 10 in June, so he doesn't need >>it for now. But yes, if he develops like his older >>brother, in about two years I'll have a very >>interesting and enjoyable "double job"... lol... I >>can't wait... >> >>My husband, no, he was watching the football >>championship match on TV. My younger son, however, was >>present and watched the whole thing. At first, my >>older son didn't want to, saying it was embarrassing. >>I pointed out to him that it couldn't be, since they >>spend the whole day naked together (except in the >>morning at school). I also added that in a couple of >>years I'd do the same to him, so he was interested in >>seeing. Eventually, he agreed to let his younger >>brother see the whole shaving. > >Hi Anna, that's wonderful that your eldest is already >getting used to being shaved down there. It's good to >start with him sooner rather than later of course, as >he will only begin to grow more hair as he continues >through puberty. Shaving my eldest takes some time >since at this point I do need to shave his armpits and >butt hair as well as his groin (even if it is still >mostly a fuzz if left to grow). > >Have your son's friends been over to see his new >shaved look yet? Hi Ivana, I also think it's wonderful that my eldest is already getting used to being shaved down there. I imagined it would take him longer to adjust, since I'd eliminated what set him apart from his little brother and made him feel grown up… For now, I don't have to shave his armpits and butt hair, so I'll do it pretty quickly. But you're right, I hadn't thought about that… in a few months or years I'll also have to shave his butt and armpits… Can I ask how he feels when you shave him? I think he's used to it since you've been doing it for a while, but on the other hand, he's older than my son and might be at an age where he gets a little embarrassed, especially for the butt, if you need to remove hair in the cleft between the buttocks… Do any of his siblings see you do it, or is it just the two of you? Mattia and Federico, as well as their two cousins, have already seen him shaved. It was a surprise and "a shock" for them, lol… Mattia and Federico were very happy because it made them feel less "little," he was more like them (even though his penis is actually longer and thicker and his balls are bigger and dropped more…) and my son pointed out to them that only grown-ups shave… The two cousins ​​were the most surprised; they weren't expecting it and stared at him for a long time and talked about it among themselves. The female cousin, in particular, was very interested in the new shaved look. My son told me that the first time he went to the shower on the soccer field after practice, some of his teammates teased him, saying he was such a small child… I told him not to pay attention to those words, that they are just silly boys, that I'm almost certain that in a couple of years or three, they'll be shaving exactly like him. So he was ahead of them… [ Post a Reply to This Message ]

[> [> [> [> [> [> [> [> [> [> [> [> [> [> [> [> [> [> [> [> [> Subject: Re: After school Rituals Author: Ivana [ Edit | View ] Date Posted: 18:43:31 12/31/25 Wed Author Host/IP: 107.189.13.253 Dear Anna, I apologize for not replying to so long. The holiday period has just been so busy!! To answer your questions about my son's shaving, sometimes his siblings do see, but usually not. We used to shave him in the bathroom, but we realised it is easiest if he can lie on his back and put his legs and arms in the air, so more recently we have been using the kitchen table. So yes, normally it is just the two of us, but occasionally someone will walk in to get a snack or a glass of water. About any embarrassment, he is used to the routine, so he only gets embarrassed if someone walks in or if I make a comment (the usual "Moooom!"). I'm sorry your son was teased in the shower. It sounds like you gave him good advise to handle situations like that going forwards. I hope you are having a happy holiday and New Year. How are your boys? I would love to hear back from you. :-) [ Post a Reply to This Message ]

[> [> [> [> [> [> [> [> [> [> [> [> [> [> [> [> [> [> [> [> [> [> Subject: Re: After school Rituals Author: Anna [ Edit | View ] Date Posted: 15:20:40 01/02/26 Fri Author Host/IP: 146.70.202.5 >Dear Anna, > >I apologize for not replying to so long. The holiday >period has just been so busy!! > >To answer your questions about my son's shaving, >sometimes his siblings do see, but usually not. We >used to shave him in the bathroom, but we realised it >is easiest if he can lie on his back and put his legs >and arms in the air, so more recently we have been >using the kitchen table. So yes, normally it is just >the two of us, but occasionally someone will walk in >to get a snack or a glass of water. About any >embarrassment, he is used to the routine, so he only >gets embarrassed if someone walks in or if I make a >comment (the usual "Moooom!"). > >I'm sorry your son was teased in the shower. It sounds >like you gave him good advise to handle situations >like that going forwards. > >I hope you are having a happy holiday and New Year. >How are your boys? I would love to hear back from you. >:-) Dear Ivana, It's so nice to hear from you again! There's no need to apologize. I also sometimes have days full of work and family commitments and don't have time to log on to the forum. And with the holidays, I've also been very busy with preparations, so I haven't been very active online. We usually do it in the bathroom too. Apart from the first time, which I've already described, and the subsequent time when my younger brother wanted to watch the whole shaving process and asked questions and made comments, from the third time onwards it's always just been the two of us. I don't mind, in fact, I prefer it, so I can use this intimate moment to talk to him and strengthen our bond since it's just the two of us. I thought I would have more difficulty convincing him to get shaved, but he's practically already gotten used to it and lets me do the job without complaining; in fact, he's quite willing… I wouldn't have bet two cents on it… I'm glad that, even though he's older than my son, he's used to you and doesn't feel embarrassed around you… Your son is very well-behaved. The idea of ​​using the kitchen table is interesting… I might try that with my son next time. Unfortunately, there's always some silly kid around. However, he told me that after the first two or three times, nobody makes fun of him anymore in the shower. I'm very happy about that. Thank you for your kind words. My children are doing very well, thank you! And yours? Since our last post, my eldest son has turned 13. For these holidays, first, we spent a few days in the mountains, then we celebrated New Year's Eve at our house with my brother, his wife, and their two children who came over for dinner. My two sons and my nephew, as usual, were naked. They only had a colorful paper hat on their heads. [ Post a Reply to This Message ]

[> [> [> [> [> [> [> [> [> [> [> [> [> [> [> [> [> [> [> [> [> [> [> Subject: Re: After school Rituals Author: Ivana [ Edit | View ] Date Posted: 18:02:43 01/02/26 Fri Author Host/IP: 109.70.100.1 >>Dear Anna, >> >>I apologize for not replying to so long. The holiday >>period has just been so busy!! >> >>To answer your questions about my son's shaving, >>sometimes his siblings do see, but usually not. We >>used to shave him in the bathroom, but we realised it >>is easiest if he can lie on his back and put his legs >>and arms in the air, so more recently we have been >>using the kitchen table. So yes, normally it is just >>the two of us, but occasionally someone will walk in >>to get a snack or a glass of water. About any >>embarrassment, he is used to the routine, so he only >>gets embarrassed if someone walks in or if I make a >>comment (the usual "Moooom!"). >> >>I'm sorry your son was teased in the shower. It sounds >>like you gave him good advise to handle situations >>like that going forwards. >> >>I hope you are having a happy holiday and New Year. >>How are your boys? I would love to hear back from you. >>:-) > > >Dear Ivana, > >It's so nice to hear from you again! > >There's no need to apologize. I also sometimes have >days full of work and family commitments and don't >have time to log on to the forum. >And with the holidays, I've also been very busy with >preparations, so I haven't been very active online. > >We usually do it in the bathroom too. Apart from the >first time, which I've already described, and the >subsequent time when my younger brother wanted to >watch the whole shaving process and asked questions >and made comments, from the third time onwards it's >always just been the two of us. I don't mind, in fact, >I prefer it, so I can use this intimate moment to talk >to him and strengthen our bond since it's just the two >of us. I thought I would have more difficulty >convincing him to get shaved, but he's practically >already gotten used to it and lets me do the job >without complaining; in fact, he's quite willing… I >wouldn't have bet two cents on it… >I'm glad that, even though he's older than my son, >he's used to you and doesn't feel embarrassed around >you… Your son is very well-behaved. >The idea of ​​using the kitchen table is >interesting… I might try that with my son next time. > >Unfortunately, there's always some silly kid around. >However, he told me that after the first two or three >times, nobody makes fun of him anymore in the shower. >I'm very happy about that. Thank you for your kind >words. > >My children are doing very well, thank you! And yours? >Since our last post, my eldest son has turned 13. For >these holidays, first, we spent a few days in the >mountains, then we celebrated New Year's Eve at our >house with my brother, his wife, and their two >children who came over for dinner. My two sons and my >nephew, as usual, were naked. They only had a colorful >paper hat on their heads. Dear Anna. Happy birthday to your son. Thirteen is a big year, his first as a teenager. I'm glad you and the family have had some time to relax during the holidays. Our family enjoys the mountains too. We often go hiking. Of course, the boys hike in the nude. It's a little cold this time of year, but the boys are used to it. How was your time in the mountains? On shaving, we really do find the kitchen table to be much more convenient than anywhere else. Let me know how it goes if you decide to try it. Thank you for the lovely image of your sons and nephew wearing nothing except for their colourful party hats. Our boys have been naked for the holidays too. We spent Christmas at my parents' house. Since my parents live a six hour drive away, we stayed for four nights. Of course we didn't pack any clothes for the boys, so they were naked for the whole trip. All the family was there, from my aunts and uncles down to my nieces and nephews. Our boys were the only ones naked as usual. My eldest at one point got a bit embarrassed since there were many people there he didn't know, and he asked if he could put on some underwear, but I reminded him that unfortunately we had packed no clothes for him. In any case he seemed to have relaxed not long after. The boys are doing well. Lots of Christmas presents and time with friends and family, and not a piece of clothing worn. What did your kids get for Christmas? Soon it will be back to school and back to wearing clothes for the boys, at least during the week. [ Post a Reply to This Message ]

[> [> [> [> [> [> [> [> [> [> [> [> [> [> [> [> [> [> [> [> [> [> [> [> Subject: Re: After school Rituals Author: Anna [ Edit | View ] Date Posted: 14:18:38 01/03/26 Sat Author Host/IP: 146.70.230.86 >>>Dear Anna, >>> >>>I apologize for not replying to so long. The holiday >>>period has just been so busy!! >>> >>>To answer your questions about my son's shaving, >>>sometimes his siblings do see, but usually not. We >>>used to shave him in the bathroom, but we realised it >>>is easiest if he can lie on his back and put his legs >>>and arms in the air, so more recently we have been >>>using the kitchen table. So yes, normally it is just >>>the two of us, but occasionally someone will walk in >>>to get a snack or a glass of water. About any >>>embarrassment, he is used to the routine, so he only >>>gets embarrassed if someone walks in or if I make a >>>comment (the usual "Moooom!"). >>> >>>I'm sorry your son was teased in the shower. It >sounds >>>like you gave him good advise to handle situations >>>like that going forwards. >>> >>>I hope you are having a happy holiday and New Year. >>>How are your boys? I would love to hear back from >you. >>>:-) >> >> >>Dear Ivana, >> >>It's so nice to hear from you again! >> >>There's no need to apologize. I also sometimes have >>days full of work and family commitments and don't >>have time to log on to the forum. >>And with the holidays, I've also been very busy with >>preparations, so I haven't been very active online. >> >>We usually do it in the bathroom too. Apart from the >>first time, which I've already described, and the >>subsequent time when my younger brother wanted to >>watch the whole shaving process and asked questions >>and made comments, from the third time onwards it's >>always just been the two of us. I don't mind, in fact, >>I prefer it, so I can use this intimate moment to talk >>to him and strengthen our bond since it's just the two >>of us. I thought I would have more difficulty >>convincing him to get shaved, but he's practically >>already gotten used to it and lets me do the job >>without complaining; in fact, he's quite willing… I >>wouldn't have bet two cents on it… >>I'm glad that, even though he's older than my son, >>he's used to you and doesn't feel embarrassed around >>you… Your son is very well-behaved. >>The idea of ​​using the kitchen table is >>interesting… I might try that with my son next time. >> >>Unfortunately, there's always some silly kid around. >>However, he told me that after the first two or three >>times, nobody makes fun of him anymore in the shower. >>I'm very happy about that. Thank you for your kind >>words. >> >>My children are doing very well, thank you! And yours? >>Since our last post, my eldest son has turned 13. For >>these holidays, first, we spent a few days in the >>mountains, then we celebrated New Year's Eve at our >>house with my brother, his wife, and their two >>children who came over for dinner. My two sons and my >>nephew, as usual, were naked. They only had a colorful >>paper hat on their heads. > >Dear Anna. Happy birthday to your son. Thirteen is a >big year, his first as a teenager. I'm glad you and >the family have had some time to relax during the >holidays. Our family enjoys the mountains too. We >often go hiking. Of course, the boys hike in the nude. >It's a little cold this time of year, but the boys are >used to it. How was your time in the mountains? > >On shaving, we really do find the kitchen table to be >much more convenient than anywhere else. Let me know >how it goes if you decide to try it. > >Thank you for the lovely image of your sons and nephew >wearing nothing except for their colourful party hats. >Our boys have been naked for the holidays too. We >spent Christmas at my parents' house. Since my parents >live a six hour drive away, we stayed for four nights. >Of course we didn't pack any clothes for the boys, so >they were naked for the whole trip. All the family was >there, from my aunts and uncles down to my nieces and >nephews. Our boys were the only ones naked as usual. >My eldest at one point got a bit embarrassed since >there were many people there he didn't know, and he >asked if he could put on some underwear, but I >reminded him that unfortunately we had packed no >clothes for him. In any case he seemed to have relaxed >not long after. > >The boys are doing well. Lots of Christmas presents >and time with friends and family, and not a piece of >clothing worn. What did your kids get for Christmas? >Soon it will be back to school and back to wearing >clothes for the boys, at least during the week. Dear Ivana, Thank you so much for the birthday wishes for my son. Yes, thirteen years old is a big year, his first as a teenager. To think that it seems like he was born Yesterday… how fast time flies… but for me he will always remain my "little boy"… lol… now that he's shaved, he still looks "little boy" even though his penis isn't so "little" anymore… lol… We also enjoy hiking in the mountains. In the summer, we often go hiking, and of course, my two boys also hike naked. Unfortunately, it's not allowed everywhere in Italy; it's a bigoted country with bigoted laws, so you have to look for trails or mountains where it's permitted (clothing optional hikes). We now know which ones and where they are, and we go there. There are only a few places where it's permitted to hike naked, so we often return to the same places, but that's fine, the important thing is to be outdoors and do some exercise away from the city. In the mountains "not too far" from our home, it's quite cold at this time of year. (this week we've had temperatures between -10 and +1 degrees Celsius), too cold to be naked outdoors while hiking (we'll have to wait until late spring/summer). We went skiing. There was a lot of snow, perfect slopes, and the boys had a great time. On shaving, I've decided to try the kitchen table method. He doesn't need it right now, but I think I'll have to shave him next week. I'll definitely try it and let you know. Thanks for the suggestion for now. We have many similar rituals then… even your boys stay naked during the holidays. In fact, the three of them were very very cute and adorable, wearing nothing except for their colourful party hats. It's a shame that your boys are the only ones who are naked; at least mine have their male cousin (my nephew) with them. You should convince your nephews to try it, even just once… I think they would like it… They might be a little embarrassed at first, but then they would get used to it and enjoy it. How old are your nieces and nephews? Did you make them stay naked even during the six-hour car journey to your parents' house, or were they dressed during the journey and only naked at their grandparents' house? Were the people your eldest son didn't know adults or teenagers? You did very well not to pack any clothes in the suitcase for the boys. Otherwise, your eldest son would have insisted on wearing his underwear. Instead, he was "forced" to remain naked, but as you wrote, he seemed to have relaxed not long after. The boys should actually be naked: no pajamas, no underwear, no clothes at all. As gifts, my children received useful things (shoes, trousers and sweaters… for when they go to school – they don't need them at home, lol…) and then toys. They love Lego, so they each received a set: The Fire Knight Mech (from the Ninjago series) and The Imperial Star Destroyer (from the Star Wars series), and two games for the PlayStation 5. What did your boys get for Christmas? Here in Italy, students will return to school on January 7th. Unfortunately for them, only a few days remain; the holidays are almost over… And yes, they'll have to get dressed, but only in the morning, because as soon as they get home, the ritual hasn't changed: all the clothes come off immediately! [ Post a Reply to This Message ]

[> [> [> [> [> [> [> [> [> [> [> [> [> [> [> [> [> [> [> [> [> [> [> [> [> Subject: Re: After school Rituals Author: Ivana [ Edit | View ] Date Posted: 18:43:46 01/04/26 Sun Author Host/IP: 45.84.107.33 >>>>Dear Anna, >>>> >>>>I apologize for not replying to so long. The holiday >>>>period has just been so busy!! >>>> >>>>To answer your questions about my son's shaving, >>>>sometimes his siblings do see, but usually not. We >>>>used to shave him in the bathroom, but we realised >it >>>>is easiest if he can lie on his back and put his >legs >>>>and arms in the air, so more recently we have been >>>>using the kitchen table. So yes, normally it is just >>>>the two of us, but occasionally someone will walk in >>>>to get a snack or a glass of water. About any >>>>embarrassment, he is used to the routine, so he only >>>>gets embarrassed if someone walks in or if I make a >>>>comment (the usual "Moooom!"). >>>> >>>>I'm sorry your son was teased in the shower. It >>sounds >>>>like you gave him good advise to handle situations >>>>like that going forwards. >>>> >>>>I hope you are having a happy holiday and New Year. >>>>How are your boys? I would love to hear back from >>you. >>>>:-) >>> >>> >>>Dear Ivana, >>> >>>It's so nice to hear from you again! >>> >>>There's no need to apologize. I also sometimes have >>>days full of work and family commitments and don't >>>have time to log on to the forum. >>>And with the holidays, I've also been very busy with >>>preparations, so I haven't been very active online. >>> >>>We usually do it in the bathroom too. Apart from the >>>first time, which I've already described, and the >>>subsequent time when my younger brother wanted to >>>watch the whole shaving process and asked questions >>>and made comments, from the third time onwards it's >>>always just been the two of us. I don't mind, in >fact, >>>I prefer it, so I can use this intimate moment to >talk >>>to him and strengthen our bond since it's just the >two >>>of us. I thought I would have more difficulty >>>convincing him to get shaved, but he's practically >>>already gotten used to it and lets me do the job >>>without complaining; in fact, he's quite willing… >I >>>wouldn't have bet two cents on it… >>>I'm glad that, even though he's older than my son, >>>he's used to you and doesn't feel embarrassed around >>>you… Your son is very well-behaved. >>>The idea of ​​using the kitchen table is >>>interesting… I might try that with my son next >time. >>> >>>Unfortunately, there's always some silly kid around. >>>However, he told me that after the first two or three >>>times, nobody makes fun of him anymore in the shower. >>>I'm very happy about that. Thank you for your kind >>>words. >>> >>>My children are doing very well, thank you! And >yours? >>>Since our last post, my eldest son has turned 13. For >>>these holidays, first, we spent a few days in the >>>mountains, then we celebrated New Year's Eve at our >>>house with my brother, his wife, and their two >>>children who came over for dinner. My two sons and my >>>nephew, as usual, were naked. They only had a >colorful >>>paper hat on their heads. >> >>Dear Anna. Happy birthday to your son. Thirteen is a >>big year, his first as a teenager. I'm glad you and >>the family have had some time to relax during the >>holidays. Our family enjoys the mountains too. We >>often go hiking. Of course, the boys hike in the nude. >>It's a little cold this time of year, but the boys are >>used to it. How was your time in the mountains? >> >>On shaving, we really do find the kitchen table to be >>much more convenient than anywhere else. Let me know >>how it goes if you decide to try it. >> >>Thank you for the lovely image of your sons and nephew >>wearing nothing except for their colourful party hats. >>Our boys have been naked for the holidays too. We >>spent Christmas at my parents' house. Since my parents >>live a six hour drive away, we stayed for four nights. >>Of course we didn't pack any clothes for the boys, so >>they were naked for the whole trip. All the family was >>there, from my aunts and uncles down to my nieces and >>nephews. Our boys were the only ones naked as usual. >>My eldest at one point got a bit embarrassed since >>there were many people there he didn't know, and he >>asked if he could put on some underwear, but I >>reminded him that unfortunately we had packed no >>clothes for him. In any case he seemed to have relaxed >>not long after. >> >>The boys are doing well. Lots of Christmas presents >>and time with friends and family, and not a piece of >>clothing worn. What did your kids get for Christmas? >>Soon it will be back to school and back to wearing >>clothes for the boys, at least during the week. > >Dear Ivana, > >Thank you so much for the birthday wishes for my son. >Yes, thirteen years old is a big year, his first as a >teenager. >To think that it seems like he was born Yesterday… >how fast time flies… but for me he will always >remain my "little boy"… lol… now that he's shaved, >he still looks "little boy" even though his penis >isn't so "little" anymore… lol… > >We also enjoy hiking in the mountains. In the summer, >we often go hiking, and of course, my two boys also >hike naked. Unfortunately, it's not allowed everywhere >in Italy; it's a bigoted country with bigoted laws, so >you have to look for trails or mountains where it's >permitted (clothing optional hikes). We now know which >ones and where they are, and we go there. There are >only a few places where it's permitted to hike naked, >so we often return to the same places, but that's >fine, the important thing is to be outdoors and do >some exercise away from the city. In the mountains >"not too far" from our home, it's quite cold at this >time of year. (this week we've had temperatures >between -10 and +1 degrees Celsius), too cold to be >naked outdoors while hiking (we'll have to wait until >late spring/summer). We went skiing. There was a lot >of snow, perfect slopes, and the boys had a great time. > >On shaving, I've decided to try the kitchen table >method. He doesn't need it right now, but I think I'll >have to shave him next week. I'll definitely try it >and let you know. Thanks for the suggestion for now. > >We have many similar rituals then… even your boys >stay naked during the holidays. In fact, the three of >them were very very cute and adorable, wearing nothing >except for their colourful party hats. It's a shame >that your boys are the only ones who are naked; at >least mine have their male cousin (my nephew) with >them. You should convince your nephews to try it, even >just once… I think they would like it… They might >be a little embarrassed at first, but then they would >get used to it and enjoy it. How old are your nieces >and nephews? Did you make them stay naked even during >the six-hour car journey to your parents' house, or >were they dressed during the journey and only naked at >their grandparents' house? Were the people your eldest >son didn't know adults or teenagers? You did very well >not to pack any clothes in the suitcase for the boys. >Otherwise, your eldest son would have insisted on >wearing his underwear. Instead, he was "forced" to >remain naked, but as you wrote, he seemed to have >relaxed not long after. The boys should actually be >naked: no pajamas, no underwear, no clothes at all. > >As gifts, my children received useful things (shoes, >trousers and sweaters… for when they go to school >– they don't need them at home, lol…) and then >toys. They love Lego, so they each received a set: The >Fire Knight Mech (from the Ninjago series) and The >Imperial Star Destroyer (from the Star Wars series), >and two games for the PlayStation 5. What did your >boys get for Christmas? Here in Italy, students will >return to school on January 7th. Unfortunately for >them, only a few days remain; the holidays are almost >over… And yes, they'll have to get dressed, but only >in the morning, because as soon as they get home, the >ritual hasn't changed: all the clothes come off >immediately! Dear Anna, Yes, the boys were naked for the 6 hour journey, since we didn't pack any clothes for them. As you said, I'm glad we didn't pack any, since it meant our eldest was completely naked for the whole trip, not even having the option of wearing clothes! The people my kids didn't know were mostly my cousins and their children. So a mix of ages, some adults, some kids, some teens. But also my parents' friends and their kids and grandkids came to visit at times. Some came to stay for dinner a few days after Christmas. I think my eldest was a bit embarrassed because he had a crush on one of the girls his age. Unfortunately, convincing my nieces and nephews to try going naked is unlikely. Sometimes the youngest few (around 6 or 7) will go naked at the pool in summer. But for now our boys are the only true nudists in the family. Skiing sounds like good fun! It's a shame the boys can't do it naked. Even when it's cold, my boys enjoy naked snowball fights. Have your boys ever done the same? It makes sense unfortunately that you have to find clothing optional hikes for the boys. Sometimes we get funny looks when the boys get out of the car naked at the hiking trail. But I don't care, they are allowed to hike naked and people should mind their own business! My kids received lots of clothes as well, go figure. We got our two younger boys a K'Nex set and a Nintendo game each. Our eldest plays guitar so we bought him a new case and set of strings, and a polaroid camera since he's been asking for one. [ Post a Reply to This Message ]

[> [> [> [> [> [> [> [> [> [> [> [> [> [> [> [> [> [> [> [> [> [> [> [> [> [> Subject: Re: After school Rituals Author: Anna [ Edit | View ] Date Posted: 08:26:26 01/06/26 Tue Author Host/IP: 190.2.149.20 >>>>>Dear Anna, >>>>> >>>>>I apologize for not replying to so long. The >holiday >>>>>period has just been so busy!! >>>>> >>>>>To answer your questions about my son's shaving, >>>>>sometimes his siblings do see, but usually not. We >>>>>used to shave him in the bathroom, but we realised >>it >>>>>is easiest if he can lie on his back and put his >>legs >>>>>and arms in the air, so more recently we have been >>>>>using the kitchen table. So yes, normally it is >just >>>>>the two of us, but occasionally someone will walk >in >>>>>to get a snack or a glass of water. About any >>>>>embarrassment, he is used to the routine, so he >only >>>>>gets embarrassed if someone walks in or if I make a >>>>>comment (the usual "Moooom!"). >>>>> >>>>>I'm sorry your son was teased in the shower. It >>>sounds >>>>>like you gave him good advise to handle situations >>>>>like that going forwards. >>>>> >>>>>I hope you are having a happy holiday and New Year. >>>>>How are your boys? I would love to hear back from >>>you. >>>>>:-) >>>> >>>> >>>>Dear Ivana, >>>> >>>>It's so nice to hear from you again! >>>> >>>>There's no need to apologize. I also sometimes have >>>>days full of work and family commitments and don't >>>>have time to log on to the forum. >>>>And with the holidays, I've also been very busy with >>>>preparations, so I haven't been very active online. >>>> >>>>We usually do it in the bathroom too. Apart from the >>>>first time, which I've already described, and the >>>>subsequent time when my younger brother wanted to >>>>watch the whole shaving process and asked questions >>>>and made comments, from the third time onwards it's >>>>always just been the two of us. I don't mind, in >>fact, >>>>I prefer it, so I can use this intimate moment to >>talk >>>>to him and strengthen our bond since it's just the >>two >>>>of us. I thought I would have more difficulty >>>>convincing him to get shaved, but he's practically >>>>already gotten used to it and lets me do the job >>>>without complaining; in fact, he's quite willing… >>I >>>>wouldn't have bet two cents on it… >>>>I'm glad that, even though he's older than my son, >>>>he's used to you and doesn't feel embarrassed around >>>>you… Your son is very well-behaved. >>>>The idea of ​​using the kitchen table is >>>>interesting… I might try that with my son next >>time. >>>> >>>>Unfortunately, there's always some silly kid around. >>>>However, he told me that after the first two or >three >>>>times, nobody makes fun of him anymore in the >shower. >>>>I'm very happy about that. Thank you for your kind >>>>words. >>>> >>>>My children are doing very well, thank you! And >>yours? >>>>Since our last post, my eldest son has turned 13. >For >>>>these holidays, first, we spent a few days in the >>>>mountains, then we celebrated New Year's Eve at our >>>>house with my brother, his wife, and their two >>>>children who came over for dinner. My two sons and >my >>>>nephew, as usual, were naked. They only had a >>colorful >>>>paper hat on their heads. >>> >>>Dear Anna. Happy birthday to your son. Thirteen is a >>>big year, his first as a teenager. I'm glad you and >>>the family have had some time to relax during the >>>holidays. Our family enjoys the mountains too. We >>>often go hiking. Of course, the boys hike in the >nude. >>>It's a little cold this time of year, but the boys >are >>>used to it. How was your time in the mountains? >>> >>>On shaving, we really do find the kitchen table to be >>>much more convenient than anywhere else. Let me know >>>how it goes if you decide to try it. >>> >>>Thank you for the lovely image of your sons and >nephew >>>wearing nothing except for their colourful party >hats. >>>Our boys have been naked for the holidays too. We >>>spent Christmas at my parents' house. Since my >parents >>>live a six hour drive away, we stayed for four >nights. >>>Of course we didn't pack any clothes for the boys, so >>>they were naked for the whole trip. All the family >was >>>there, from my aunts and uncles down to my nieces and >>>nephews. Our boys were the only ones naked as usual. >>>My eldest at one point got a bit embarrassed since >>>there were many people there he didn't know, and he >>>asked if he could put on some underwear, but I >>>reminded him that unfortunately we had packed no >>>clothes for him. In any case he seemed to have >relaxed >>>not long after. >>> >>>The boys are doing well. Lots of Christmas presents >>>and time with friends and family, and not a piece of >>>clothing worn. What did your kids get for Christmas? >>>Soon it will be back to school and back to wearing >>>clothes for the boys, at least during the week. >> >>Dear Ivana, >> >>Thank you so much for the birthday wishes for my son. >>Yes, thirteen years old is a big year, his first as a >>teenager. >>To think that it seems like he was born Yesterday… >>how fast time flies… but for me he will always >>remain my "little boy"… lol… now that he's shaved, >>he still looks "little boy" even though his penis >>isn't so "little" anymore… lol… >> >>We also enjoy hiking in the mountains. In the summer, >>we often go hiking, and of course, my two boys also >>hike naked. Unfortunately, it's not allowed everywhere >>in Italy; it's a bigoted country with bigoted laws, so >>you have to look for trails or mountains where it's >>permitted (clothing optional hikes). We now know which >>ones and where they are, and we go there. There are >>only a few places where it's permitted to hike naked, >>so we often return to the same places, but that's >>fine, the important thing is to be outdoors and do >>some exercise away from the city. In the mountains >>"not too far" from our home, it's quite cold at this >>time of year. (this week we've had temperatures >>between -10 and +1 degrees Celsius), too cold to be >>naked outdoors while hiking (we'll have to wait until >>late spring/summer). We went skiing. There was a lot >>of snow, perfect slopes, and the boys had a great >time. >> >>On shaving, I've decided to try the kitchen table >>method. He doesn't need it right now, but I think I'll >>have to shave him next week. I'll definitely try it >>and let you know. Thanks for the suggestion for now. >> >>We have many similar rituals then… even your boys >>stay naked during the holidays. In fact, the three of >>them were very very cute and adorable, wearing nothing >>except for their colourful party hats. It's a shame >>that your boys are the only ones who are naked; at >>least mine have their male cousin (my nephew) with >>them. You should convince your nephews to try it, even >>just once… I think they would like it… They might >>be a little embarrassed at first, but then they would >>get used to it and enjoy it. How old are your nieces >>and nephews? Did you make them stay naked even during >>the six-hour car journey to your parents' house, or >>were they dressed during the journey and only naked at >>their grandparents' house? Were the people your eldest >>son didn't know adults or teenagers? You did very well >>not to pack any clothes in the suitcase for the boys. >>Otherwise, your eldest son would have insisted on >>wearing his underwear. Instead, he was "forced" to >>remain naked, but as you wrote, he seemed to have >>relaxed not long after. The boys should actually be >>naked: no pajamas, no underwear, no clothes at all. >> >>As gifts, my children received useful things (shoes, >>trousers and sweaters… for when they go to school >>– they don't need them at home, lol…) and then >>toys. They love Lego, so they each received a set: The >>Fire Knight Mech (from the Ninjago series) and The >>Imperial Star Destroyer (from the Star Wars series), >>and two games for the PlayStation 5. What did your >>boys get for Christmas? Here in Italy, students will >>return to school on January 7th. Unfortunately for >>them, only a few days remain; the holidays are almost >>over… And yes, they'll have to get dressed, but only >>in the morning, because as soon as they get home, the >>ritual hasn't changed: all the clothes come off >>immediately! > >Dear Anna, > >Yes, the boys were naked for the 6 hour journey, since >we didn't pack any clothes for them. As you said, I'm >glad we didn't pack any, since it meant our eldest was >completely naked for the whole trip, not even having >the option of wearing clothes! The people my kids >didn't know were mostly my cousins and their children. >So a mix of ages, some adults, some kids, some teens. >But also my parents' friends and their kids and >grandkids came to visit at times. Some came to stay >for dinner a few days after Christmas. I think my >eldest was a bit embarrassed because he had a crush on >one of the girls his age. Unfortunately, convincing my >nieces and nephews to try going naked is unlikely. >Sometimes the youngest few (around 6 or 7) will go >naked at the pool in summer. But for now our boys are >the only true nudists in the family. > >Skiing sounds like good fun! It's a shame the boys >can't do it naked. Even when it's cold, my boys enjoy >naked snowball fights. Have your boys ever done the >same? It makes sense unfortunately that you have to >find clothing optional hikes for the boys. Sometimes >we get funny looks when the boys get out of the car >naked at the hiking trail. But I don't care, they are >allowed to hike naked and people should mind their own >business! > >My kids received lots of clothes as well, go figure. >We got our two younger boys a K'Nex set and a Nintendo >game each. Our eldest plays guitar so we bought him a >new case and set of strings, and a polaroid camera >since he's been asking for one. Dear Ivana, I'm so glad to hear your boys were naked during the car ride. That's what I'd like to do with my own two sons. Unfortunately, here in Italy, leaving your house naked to get into a car, traveling naked, and then getting out of the car naked at your destination is not allowed. If we did so, we would be charged with "indecent exposure in a public place". As I wrote to you last time, it's a bigoted country with bigoted laws! Perhaps you could start from a secluded house in the countryside/mountains where no one sees you and end up at a nudist campsite. But along the way someone looked at them strangely (but I don't care, like you) but it would be a problem if they alerted the police or child protection. I think there's nothing wrong with letting your boys be naked, but according to Italian law, it's only allowed in your own home or on nudist beaches or "clothing optional" hiking trails... I completely disagree, but I'll go along with it. I totally agree with you when you write "people should mind their own business!". The idea of ​​having your nieces and nephews naked was simply to make your sons feel more comfortable and to give your nieces and nephews an experience that, while it might be embarrassing at first, will ultimately boost their self-esteem and they'll definitely enjoy it. But I understand that every family has its own rules, and it's not right to interfere. Sorry! I asked you the ages of the people your eldest son didn't know, just to see if his embarrassment was understandable (in part) or excessive. If they had all been adults it would certainly have been excessive and senseless, if they had only been boys even in this case it was probably excessive and senseless, mixed age and mixed sex is a little more understandable, even if unmotivated. He must always be comfortable with his naked body, regardless of who is looking at him! But if he had a crush on one of the girls his age, that's more understandable... Poor guy! I'm sure the girl would have appreciated him being naked, but if I were her, I would have done it... When friends or acquaintances come to our house to visit (whether they are alone or with their children), my boys are left naked so I have to agree with how you handled the situation. Yes, skiing is great fun! The boys, and my husband and I, have a blast! It would be interesting to try skiing naked, but it's illegal here, and with temperatures of -10°C and the speed of the descent, they'd arrive back down frozen like popsicles... lol... Having snowball fights naked is a different matter... that could be done if you had a private yard. We live in a city apartment building with no yard, but my parents live in the country, with a large private yard (though partially visible from the street and partially protected by a tall hedge), and when my children stay at their grandparents' house, they play naked not only indoors but also outside in the yard. When your kids have a snowball fight, do the neighbors see them? Don't they say anything? Lucky you, I wish it were that way here too... So useful gifts (clothes) (even if not at home, lol...) and toys, like us... nice K'Nex sets! It's great to know how to play guitar! I'm terrible at it, but my husband is good... It's a beautiful passion, I hope for his sake he continues to play... As I wrote last time, school starts again tomorrow, January 7th, after the Christmas holidays. When does it start where you are? [ Post a Reply to This Message ]

[> [> [> [> [> [> [> [> [> [> [> [> [> [> [> [> [> [> [> [> [> [> [> [> [> [> [> Subject: Re: After school Rituals Author: Ivana [ Edit | View ] Date Posted: 09:34:34 01/07/26 Wed Author Host/IP: 179.43.159.197 >>>>>>Dear Anna, >>>>>> >>>>>>I apologize for not replying to so long. The >>holiday >>>>>>period has just been so busy!! >>>>>> >>>>>>To answer your questions about my son's shaving, >>>>>>sometimes his siblings do see, but usually not. We >>>>>>used to shave him in the bathroom, but we realised >>>it >>>>>>is easiest if he can lie on his back and put his >>>legs >>>>>>and arms in the air, so more recently we have been >>>>>>using the kitchen table. So yes, normally it is >>just >>>>>>the two of us, but occasionally someone will walk >>in >>>>>>to get a snack or a glass of water. About any >>>>>>embarrassment, he is used to the routine, so he >>only >>>>>>gets embarrassed if someone walks in or if I make >a >>>>>>comment (the usual "Moooom!"). >>>>>> >>>>>>I'm sorry your son was teased in the shower. It >>>>sounds >>>>>>like you gave him good advise to handle situations >>>>>>like that going forwards. >>>>>> >>>>>>I hope you are having a happy holiday and New >Year. >>>>>>How are your boys? I would love to hear back from >>>>you. >>>>>>:-) >>>>> >>>>> >>>>>Dear Ivana, >>>>> >>>>>It's so nice to hear from you again! >>>>> >>>>>There's no need to apologize. I also sometimes have >>>>>days full of work and family commitments and don't >>>>>have time to log on to the forum. >>>>>And with the holidays, I've also been very busy >with >>>>>preparations, so I haven't been very active online. >>>>> >>>>>We usually do it in the bathroom too. Apart from >the >>>>>first time, which I've already described, and the >>>>>subsequent time when my younger brother wanted to >>>>>watch the whole shaving process and asked questions >>>>>and made comments, from the third time onwards it's >>>>>always just been the two of us. I don't mind, in >>>fact, >>>>>I prefer it, so I can use this intimate moment to >>>talk >>>>>to him and strengthen our bond since it's just the >>>two >>>>>of us. I thought I would have more difficulty >>>>>convincing him to get shaved, but he's practically >>>>>already gotten used to it and lets me do the job >>>>>without complaining; in fact, he's quite >willing… >>>I >>>>>wouldn't have bet two cents on it… >>>>>I'm glad that, even though he's older than my son, >>>>>he's used to you and doesn't feel embarrassed >around >>>>>you… Your son is very well-behaved. >>>>>The idea of ​​using the kitchen table is >>>>>interesting… I might try that with my son next >>>time. >>>>> >>>>>Unfortunately, there's always some silly kid >around. >>>>>However, he told me that after the first two or >>three >>>>>times, nobody makes fun of him anymore in the >>shower. >>>>>I'm very happy about that. Thank you for your kind >>>>>words. >>>>> >>>>>My children are doing very well, thank you! And >>>yours? >>>>>Since our last post, my eldest son has turned 13. >>For >>>>>these holidays, first, we spent a few days in the >>>>>mountains, then we celebrated New Year's Eve at our >>>>>house with my brother, his wife, and their two >>>>>children who came over for dinner. My two sons and >>my >>>>>nephew, as usual, were naked. They only had a >>>colorful >>>>>paper hat on their heads. >>>> >>>>Dear Anna. Happy birthday to your son. Thirteen is a >>>>big year, his first as a teenager. I'm glad you and >>>>the family have had some time to relax during the >>>>holidays. Our family enjoys the mountains too. We >>>>often go hiking. Of course, the boys hike in the >>nude. >>>>It's a little cold this time of year, but the boys >>are >>>>used to it. How was your time in the mountains? >>>> >>>>On shaving, we really do find the kitchen table to >be >>>>much more convenient than anywhere else. Let me know >>>>how it goes if you decide to try it. >>>> >>>>Thank you for the lovely image of your sons and >>nephew >>>>wearing nothing except for their colourful party >>hats. >>>>Our boys have been naked for the holidays too. We >>>>spent Christmas at my parents' house. Since my >>parents >>>>live a six hour drive away, we stayed for four >>nights. >>>>Of course we didn't pack any clothes for the boys, >so >>>>they were naked for the whole trip. All the family >>was >>>>there, from my aunts and uncles down to my nieces >and >>>>nephews. Our boys were the only ones naked as usual. >>>>My eldest at one point got a bit embarrassed since >>>>there were many people there he didn't know, and he >>>>asked if he could put on some underwear, but I >>>>reminded him that unfortunately we had packed no >>>>clothes for him. In any case he seemed to have >>relaxed >>>>not long after. >>>> >>>>The boys are doing well. Lots of Christmas presents >>>>and time with friends and family, and not a piece of >>>>clothing worn. What did your kids get for Christmas? >>>>Soon it will be back to school and back to wearing >>>>clothes for the boys, at least during the week. >>> >>>Dear Ivana, >>> >>>Thank you so much for the birthday wishes for my son. >>>Yes, thirteen years old is a big year, his first as a >>>teenager. >>>To think that it seems like he was born Yesterday… >>>how fast time flies… but for me he will always >>>remain my "little boy"… lol… now that he's >shaved, >>>he still looks "little boy" even though his penis >>>isn't so "little" anymore… lol… >>> >>>We also enjoy hiking in the mountains. In the summer, >>>we often go hiking, and of course, my two boys also >>>hike naked. Unfortunately, it's not allowed >everywhere >>>in Italy; it's a bigoted country with bigoted laws, >so >>>you have to look for trails or mountains where it's >>>permitted (clothing optional hikes). We now know >which >>>ones and where they are, and we go there. There are >>>only a few places where it's permitted to hike naked, >>>so we often return to the same places, but that's >>>fine, the important thing is to be outdoors and do >>>some exercise away from the city. In the mountains >>>"not too far" from our home, it's quite cold at this >>>time of year. (this week we've had temperatures >>>between -10 and +1 degrees Celsius), too cold to be >>>naked outdoors while hiking (we'll have to wait until >>>late spring/summer). We went skiing. There was a lot >>>of snow, perfect slopes, and the boys had a great >>time. >>> >>>On shaving, I've decided to try the kitchen table >>>method. He doesn't need it right now, but I think >I'll >>>have to shave him next week. I'll definitely try it >>>and let you know. Thanks for the suggestion for now. >>> >>>We have many similar rituals then… even your boys >>>stay naked during the holidays. In fact, the three of >>>them were very very cute and adorable, wearing >nothing >>>except for their colourful party hats. It's a shame >>>that your boys are the only ones who are naked; at >>>least mine have their male cousin (my nephew) with >>>them. You should convince your nephews to try it, >even >>>just once… I think they would like it… They might >>>be a little embarrassed at first, but then they would >>>get used to it and enjoy it. How old are your nieces >>>and nephews? Did you make them stay naked even during >>>the six-hour car journey to your parents' house, or >>>were they dressed during the journey and only naked >at >>>their grandparents' house? Were the people your >eldest >>>son didn't know adults or teenagers? You did very >well >>>not to pack any clothes in the suitcase for the boys. >>>Otherwise, your eldest son would have insisted on >>>wearing his underwear. Instead, he was "forced" to >>>remain naked, but as you wrote, he seemed to have >>>relaxed not long after. The boys should actually be >>>naked: no pajamas, no underwear, no clothes at all. >>> >>>As gifts, my children received useful things (shoes, >>>trousers and sweaters… for when they go to school >>>– they don't need them at home, lol…) and then >>>toys. They love Lego, so they each received a set: >The >>>Fire Knight Mech (from the Ninjago series) and The >>>Imperial Star Destroyer (from the Star Wars series), >>>and two games for the PlayStation 5. What did your >>>boys get for Christmas? Here in Italy, students will >>>return to school on January 7th. Unfortunately for >>>them, only a few days remain; the holidays are almost >>>over… And yes, they'll have to get dressed, but >only >>>in the morning, because as soon as they get home, the >>>ritual hasn't changed: all the clothes come off >>>immediately! >> >>Dear Anna, >> >>Yes, the boys were naked for the 6 hour journey, since >>we didn't pack any clothes for them. As you said, I'm >>glad we didn't pack any, since it meant our eldest was >>completely naked for the whole trip, not even having >>the option of wearing clothes! The people my kids >>didn't know were mostly my cousins and their children. >>So a mix of ages, some adults, some kids, some teens. >>But also my parents' friends and their kids and >>grandkids came to visit at times. Some came to stay >>for dinner a few days after Christmas. I think my >>eldest was a bit embarrassed because he had a crush on >>one of the girls his age. Unfortunately, convincing my >>nieces and nephews to try going naked is unlikely. >>Sometimes the youngest few (around 6 or 7) will go >>naked at the pool in summer. But for now our boys are >>the only true nudists in the family. >> >>Skiing sounds like good fun! It's a shame the boys >>can't do it naked. Even when it's cold, my boys enjoy >>naked snowball fights. Have your boys ever done the >>same? It makes sense unfortunately that you have to >>find clothing optional hikes for the boys. Sometimes >>we get funny looks when the boys get out of the car >>naked at the hiking trail. But I don't care, they are >>allowed to hike naked and people should mind their own >>business! >> >>My kids received lots of clothes as well, go figure. >>We got our two younger boys a K'Nex set and a Nintendo >>game each. Our eldest plays guitar so we bought him a >>new case and set of strings, and a polaroid camera >>since he's been asking for one. > > >Dear Ivana, > >I'm so glad to hear your boys were naked during the >car ride. That's what I'd like to do with my own two >sons. >Unfortunately, here in Italy, leaving your house naked >to get into a car, traveling naked, and then getting >out of the car naked at your destination is not >allowed. If we did so, we would be charged with >"indecent exposure in a public place". As I wrote to >you last time, it's a bigoted country with bigoted >laws! Perhaps you could start from a secluded house in >the countryside/mountains where no one sees you and >end up at a nudist campsite. But along the way someone >looked at them strangely (but I don't care, like you) >but it would be a problem if they alerted the police >or child protection. I think there's nothing wrong >with letting your boys be naked, but according to >Italian law, it's only allowed in your own home or on >nudist beaches or "clothing optional" hiking trails... >I completely disagree, but I'll go along with it. I >totally agree with you when you write "people should >mind their own business!". >The idea of ​​having your nieces and nephews naked >was simply to make your sons feel more comfortable and >to give your nieces and nephews an experience that, >while it might be embarrassing at first, will >ultimately boost their self-esteem and they'll >definitely enjoy it. But I understand that every >family has its own rules, and it's not right to >interfere. Sorry! >I asked you the ages of the people your eldest son >didn't know, just to see if his embarrassment was >understandable (in part) or excessive. If they had all >been adults it would certainly have been excessive and >senseless, if they had only been boys even in this >case it was probably excessive and senseless, mixed >age and mixed sex is a little more understandable, >even if unmotivated. He must always be comfortable >with his naked body, regardless of who is looking at >him! But if he had a crush on one of the girls his >age, that's more understandable... Poor guy! I'm sure >the girl would have appreciated him being naked, but >if I were her, I would have done it... When friends or >acquaintances come to our house to visit (whether they >are alone or with their children), my boys are left >naked so I have to agree with how you handled the >situation. > >Yes, skiing is great fun! The boys, and my husband and >I, have a blast! It would be interesting to try skiing >naked, but it's illegal here, and with temperatures of >-10°C and the speed of the descent, they'd arrive >back down frozen like popsicles... lol... Having >snowball fights naked is a different matter... that >could be done if you had a private yard. We live in a >city apartment building with no yard, but my parents >live in the country, with a large private yard (though >partially visible from the street and partially >protected by a tall hedge), and when my children stay >at their grandparents' house, they play naked not only >indoors but also outside in the yard. When your kids >have a snowball fight, do the neighbors see them? >Don't they say anything? Lucky you, I wish it were >that way here too... > >So useful gifts (clothes) (even if not at home, >lol...) and toys, like us... nice K'Nex sets! It's >great to know how to play guitar! I'm terrible at it, >but my husband is good... It's a beautiful passion, I >hope for his sake he continues to play... > >As I wrote last time, school starts again tomorrow, >January 7th, after the Christmas holidays. When does >it start where you are? Dear Anna, I'm sorry things seem so restrictive in Italy. I'm glad your children nonetheless get to experience the joys of being naked as much as they can. We live in a very rural area, so no neighbours can see our yard. And regardless, attitudes here are very relaxed. I doubt anyone would say anything if they happened to see some kids playing naked on their own property. Especially during the summer when it is hot. Given the time of year, and the age of our boys, yes it might be more unusual, but still I doubt anyone would mind. I understand it is different in cities and towns. There is a wooded area with a stream behind our property, and the boys often play and explore there, naked of course. I'm glad you agree that others should mind their own business! No need to apologize about asking about my nieces and nephews. It's just that unfortunately their parents (my siblings and my husband's siblings) do not allow them to go naked often. And we have to respect their wishes of course. About my son's embarrassment during the holidays, I agree completely with what you said: "he must always be comfortable with his naked body, regardless of who is looking at him". This is the attitude we have tried to encourage in our boys. We try to remind them that there's no need to be embarrassed about silly things like butts and penises. About skiing, that all makes sense. I suppose it would be quite cold! I just thought it was a nice mental image, boys skating down the side of a mountain, completely naked and free except for their ski boots and skis, feeling the rush of wind and snow on their bare skins and letting their body parts hang freely in the breeze without a care in the world. All before reaching the bottom and taking the ski lift to do it all again. But I can imagine it could be too cold. But you should have your boys try going out naked in the snow if you can. You will have to judge if it is too cold for them, but our boys always enjoy it, especially with a hot cocoa afterwards. One adapts to the cold quicker than you might think! Yes, my eldest is getting quite good at the guitar. He loves rock music, and likes a lot of the same music that my husband likes, as well as some newer music his friends introduced him to. We have a tutor come to the house every week to teach him, since the school does not offer lessons. Of course, he wants to be a rock star when he grows up! School started again for the boys on Monday. So their naked holiday has come to an end. But of course, as soon as they are home, the clothes still all come off! [ Post a Reply to This Message ]

[> [> [> [> [> [> [> [> [> [> [> [> [> [> [> [> [> [> [> [> [> [> [> [> [> [> [> [> Subject: Re: After school Rituals Author: scamptoo to Ivana [ Edit | View ] Date Posted: 14:09:10 01/07/26 Wed Author Host/IP: 24.57.206.80 >>>>>>>Dear Anna, >>>>>>> >>>>>>>I apologize for not replying to so long. The >>>holiday >>>>>>>period has just been so busy!! >>>>>>> >>>>>>>To answer your questions about my son's shaving, >>>>>>>sometimes his siblings do see, but usually not. >We >>>>>>>used to shave him in the bathroom, but we >realised >>>>it >>>>>>>is easiest if he can lie on his back and put his >>>>legs >>>>>>>and arms in the air, so more recently we have >been >>>>>>>using the kitchen table. So yes, normally it is >>>just >>>>>>>the two of us, but occasionally someone will walk >>>in >>>>>>>to get a snack or a glass of water. About any >>>>>>>embarrassment, he is used to the routine, so he >>>only >>>>>>>gets embarrassed if someone walks in or if I make >>a >>>>>>>comment (the usual "Moooom!"). >>>>>>> >>>>>>>I'm sorry your son was teased in the shower. It >>>>>sounds >>>>>>>like you gave him good advise to handle >situations >>>>>>>like that going forwards. >>>>>>> >>>>>>>I hope you are having a happy holiday and New >>Year. >>>>>>>How are your boys? I would love to hear back from >>>>>you. >>>>>>>:-) >>>>>> >>>>>> >>>>>>Dear Ivana, >>>>>> >>>>>>It's so nice to hear from you again! >>>>>> >>>>>>There's no need to apologize. I also sometimes >have >>>>>>days full of work and family commitments and don't >>>>>>have time to log on to the forum. >>>>>>And with the holidays, I've also been very busy >>with >>>>>>preparations, so I haven't been very active >online. >>>>>> >>>>>>We usually do it in the bathroom too. Apart from >>the >>>>>>first time, which I've already described, and the >>>>>>subsequent time when my younger brother wanted to >>>>>>watch the whole shaving process and asked >questions >>>>>>and made comments, from the third time onwards >it's >>>>>>always just been the two of us. I don't mind, in >>>>fact, >>>>>>I prefer it, so I can use this intimate moment to >>>>talk >>>>>>to him and strengthen our bond since it's just the >>>>two >>>>>>of us. I thought I would have more difficulty >>>>>>convincing him to get shaved, but he's practically >>>>>>already gotten used to it and lets me do the job >>>>>>without complaining; in fact, he's quite >>willing… >>>>I >>>>>>wouldn't have bet two cents on it… >>>>>>I'm glad that, even though he's older than my son, >>>>>>he's used to you and doesn't feel embarrassed >>around >>>>>>you… Your son is very well-behaved. >>>>>>The idea of ​​using the kitchen table is >>>>>>interesting… I might try that with my son next >>>>time. >>>>>> >>>>>>Unfortunately, there's always some silly kid >>around. >>>>>>However, he told me that after the first two or >>>three >>>>>>times, nobody makes fun of him anymore in the >>>shower. >>>>>>I'm very happy about that. Thank you for your kind >>>>>>words. >>>>>> >>>>>>My children are doing very well, thank you! And >>>>yours? >>>>>>Since our last post, my eldest son has turned 13. >>>For >>>>>>these holidays, first, we spent a few days in the >>>>>>mountains, then we celebrated New Year's Eve at >our >>>>>>house with my brother, his wife, and their two >>>>>>children who came over for dinner. My two sons and >>>my >>>>>>nephew, as usual, were naked. They only had a >>>>colorful >>>>>>paper hat on their heads. >>>>> >>>>>Dear Anna. Happy birthday to your son. Thirteen is >a >>>>>big year, his first as a teenager. I'm glad you and >>>>>the family have had some time to relax during the >>>>>holidays. Our family enjoys the mountains too. We >>>>>often go hiking. Of course, the boys hike in the >>>nude. >>>>>It's a little cold this time of year, but the boys >>>are >>>>>used to it. How was your time in the mountains? >>>>> >>>>>On shaving, we really do find the kitchen table to >>be >>>>>much more convenient than anywhere else. Let me >know >>>>>how it goes if you decide to try it. >>>>> >>>>>Thank you for the lovely image of your sons and >>>nephew >>>>>wearing nothing except for their colourful party >>>hats. >>>>>Our boys have been naked for the holidays too. We >>>>>spent Christmas at my parents' house. Since my >>>parents >>>>>live a six hour drive away, we stayed for four >>>nights. >>>>>Of course we didn't pack any clothes for the boys, >>so >>>>>they were naked for the whole trip. All the family >>>was >>>>>there, from my aunts and uncles down to my nieces >>and >>>>>nephews. Our boys were the only ones naked as >usual. >>>>>My eldest at one point got a bit embarrassed since >>>>>there were many people there he didn't know, and he >>>>>asked if he could put on some underwear, but I >>>>>reminded him that unfortunately we had packed no >>>>>clothes for him. In any case he seemed to have >>>relaxed >>>>>not long after. >>>>> >>>>>The boys are doing well. Lots of Christmas presents >>>>>and time with friends and family, and not a piece >of >>>>>clothing worn. What did your kids get for >Christmas? >>>>>Soon it will be back to school and back to wearing >>>>>clothes for the boys, at least during the week. >>>> >>>>Dear Ivana, >>>> >>>>Thank you so much for the birthday wishes for my >son. >>>>Yes, thirteen years old is a big year, his first as >a >>>>teenager. >>>>To think that it seems like he was born Yesterday… >>>>how fast time flies… but for me he will always >>>>remain my "little boy"… lol… now that he's >>shaved, >>>>he still looks "little boy" even though his penis >>>>isn't so "little" anymore… lol… >>>> >>>>We also enjoy hiking in the mountains. In the >summer, >>>>we often go hiking, and of course, my two boys also >>>>hike naked. Unfortunately, it's not allowed >>everywhere >>>>in Italy; it's a bigoted country with bigoted laws, >>so >>>>you have to look for trails or mountains where it's >>>>permitted (clothing optional hikes). We now know >>which >>>>ones and where they are, and we go there. There are >>>>only a few places where it's permitted to hike >naked, >>>>so we often return to the same places, but that's >>>>fine, the important thing is to be outdoors and do >>>>some exercise away from the city. In the mountains >>>>"not too far" from our home, it's quite cold at this >>>>time of year. (this week we've had temperatures >>>>between -10 and +1 degrees Celsius), too cold to be >>>>naked outdoors while hiking (we'll have to wait >until >>>>late spring/summer). We went skiing. There was a lot >>>>of snow, perfect slopes, and the boys had a great >>>time. >>>> >>>>On shaving, I've decided to try the kitchen table >>>>method. He doesn't need it right now, but I think >>I'll >>>>have to shave him next week. I'll definitely try it >>>>and let you know. Thanks for the suggestion for now. >>>> >>>>We have many similar rituals then… even your boys >>>>stay naked during the holidays. In fact, the three >of >>>>them were very very cute and adorable, wearing >>nothing >>>>except for their colourful party hats. It's a shame >>>>that your boys are the only ones who are naked; at >>>>least mine have their male cousin (my nephew) with >>>>them. You should convince your nephews to try it, >>even >>>>just once… I think they would like it… They >might >>>>be a little embarrassed at first, but then they >would >>>>get used to it and enjoy it. How old are your nieces >>>>and nephews? Did you make them stay naked even >during >>>>the six-hour car journey to your parents' house, or >>>>were they dressed during the journey and only naked >>at >>>>their grandparents' house? Were the people your >>eldest >>>>son didn't know adults or teenagers? You did very >>well >>>>not to pack any clothes in the suitcase for the >boys. >>>>Otherwise, your eldest son would have insisted on >>>>wearing his underwear. Instead, he was "forced" to >>>>remain naked, but as you wrote, he seemed to have >>>>relaxed not long after. The boys should actually be >>>>naked: no pajamas, no underwear, no clothes at all. >>>> >>>>As gifts, my children received useful things (shoes, >>>>trousers and sweaters… for when they go to school >>>>– they don't need them at home, lol…) and then >>>>toys. They love Lego, so they each received a set: >>The >>>>Fire Knight Mech (from the Ninjago series) and The >>>>Imperial Star Destroyer (from the Star Wars series), >>>>and two games for the PlayStation 5. What did your >>>>boys get for Christmas? Here in Italy, students will >>>>return to school on January 7th. Unfortunately for >>>>them, only a few days remain; the holidays are >almost >>>>over… And yes, they'll have to get dressed, but >>only >>>>in the morning, because as soon as they get home, >the >>>>ritual hasn't changed: all the clothes come off >>>>immediately! >>> >>>Dear Anna, >>> >>>Yes, the boys were naked for the 6 hour journey, >since >>>we didn't pack any clothes for them. As you said, I'm >>>glad we didn't pack any, since it meant our eldest >was >>>completely naked for the whole trip, not even having >>>the option of wearing clothes! The people my kids >>>didn't know were mostly my cousins and their >children. >>>So a mix of ages, some adults, some kids, some teens. >>>But also my parents' friends and their kids and >>>grandkids came to visit at times. Some came to stay >>>for dinner a few days after Christmas. I think my >>>eldest was a bit embarrassed because he had a crush >on >>>one of the girls his age. Unfortunately, convincing >my >>>nieces and nephews to try going naked is unlikely. >>>Sometimes the youngest few (around 6 or 7) will go >>>naked at the pool in summer. But for now our boys are >>>the only true nudists in the family. >>> >>>Skiing sounds like good fun! It's a shame the boys >>>can't do it naked. Even when it's cold, my boys enjoy >>>naked snowball fights. Have your boys ever done the >>>same? It makes sense unfortunately that you have to >>>find clothing optional hikes for the boys. Sometimes >>>we get funny looks when the boys get out of the car >>>naked at the hiking trail. But I don't care, they are >>>allowed to hike naked and people should mind their >own >>>business! >>> >>>My kids received lots of clothes as well, go figure. >>>We got our two younger boys a K'Nex set and a >Nintendo >>>game each. Our eldest plays guitar so we bought him a >>>new case and set of strings, and a polaroid camera >>>since he's been asking for one. >> >> >>Dear Ivana, >> >>I'm so glad to hear your boys were naked during the >>car ride. That's what I'd like to do with my own two >>sons. >>Unfortunately, here in Italy, leaving your house naked >>to get into a car, traveling naked, and then getting >>out of the car naked at your destination is not >>allowed. If we did so, we would be charged with >>"indecent exposure in a public place". As I wrote to >>you last time, it's a bigoted country with bigoted >>laws! Perhaps you could start from a secluded house in >>the countryside/mountains where no one sees you and >>end up at a nudist campsite. But along the way someone >>looked at them strangely (but I don't care, like you) >>but it would be a problem if they alerted the police >>or child protection. I think there's nothing wrong >>with letting your boys be naked, but according to >>Italian law, it's only allowed in your own home or on >>nudist beaches or "clothing optional" hiking trails... >>I completely disagree, but I'll go along with it. I >>totally agree with you when you write "people should >>mind their own business!". >>The idea of ​​having your nieces and nephews naked >>was simply to make your sons feel more comfortable and >>to give your nieces and nephews an experience that, >>while it might be embarrassing at first, will >>ultimately boost their self-esteem and they'll >>definitely enjoy it. But I understand that every >>family has its own rules, and it's not right to >>interfere. Sorry! >>I asked you the ages of the people your eldest son >>didn't know, just to see if his embarrassment was >>understandable (in part) or excessive. If they had all >>been adults it would certainly have been excessive and >>senseless, if they had only been boys even in this >>case it was probably excessive and senseless, mixed >>age and mixed sex is a little more understandable, >>even if unmotivated. He must always be comfortable >>with his naked body, regardless of who is looking at >>him! But if he had a crush on one of the girls his >>age, that's more understandable... Poor guy! I'm sure >>the girl would have appreciated him being naked, but >>if I were her, I would have done it... When friends or >>acquaintances come to our house to visit (whether they >>are alone or with their children), my boys are left >>naked so I have to agree with how you handled the >>situation. >> >>Yes, skiing is great fun! The boys, and my husband and >>I, have a blast! It would be interesting to try skiing >>naked, but it's illegal here, and with temperatures of >>-10°C and the speed of the descent, they'd arrive >>back down frozen like popsicles... lol... Having >>snowball fights naked is a different matter... that >>could be done if you had a private yard. We live in a >>city apartment building with no yard, but my parents >>live in the country, with a large private yard (though >>partially visible from the street and partially >>protected by a tall hedge), and when my children stay >>at their grandparents' house, they play naked not only >>indoors but also outside in the yard. When your kids >>have a snowball fight, do the neighbors see them? >>Don't they say anything? Lucky you, I wish it were >>that way here too... >> >>So useful gifts (clothes) (even if not at home, >>lol...) and toys, like us... nice K'Nex sets! It's >>great to know how to play guitar! I'm terrible at it, >>but my husband is good... It's a beautiful passion, I >>hope for his sake he continues to play... >> >>As I wrote last time, school starts again tomorrow, >>January 7th, after the Christmas holidays. When does >>it start where you are? > >Dear Anna, > >I'm sorry things seem so restrictive in Italy. I'm >glad your children nonetheless get to experience the >joys of being naked as much as they can. > >We live in a very rural area, so no neighbours can see >our yard. And regardless, attitudes here are very >relaxed. I doubt anyone would say anything if they >happened to see some kids playing naked on their own >property. Especially during the summer when it is hot. >Given the time of year, and the age of our boys, yes >it might be more unusual, but still I doubt anyone >would mind. I understand it is different in cities and >towns. There is a wooded area with a stream behind our >property, and the boys often play and explore there, >naked of course. I'm glad you agree that others should >mind their own business! > >No need to apologize about asking about my nieces and >nephews. It's just that unfortunately their parents >(my siblings and my husband's siblings) do not allow >them to go naked often. And we have to respect their >wishes of course. About my son's embarrassment during >the holidays, I agree completely with what you said: >"he must always be comfortable with his naked body, >regardless of who is looking at him". This is the >attitude we have tried to encourage in our boys. We >try to remind them that there's no need to be >embarrassed about silly things like butts and penises. > >About skiing, that all makes sense. I suppose it would >be quite cold! I just thought it was a nice mental >image, boys skating down the side of a mountain, >completely naked and free except for their ski boots >and skis, feeling the rush of wind and snow on their >bare skins and letting their body parts hang freely in >the breeze without a care in the world. All before >reaching the bottom and taking the ski lift to do it >all again. But I can imagine it could be too cold. But >you should have your boys try going out naked in the >snow if you can. You will have to judge if it is too >cold for them, but our boys always enjoy it, >especially with a hot cocoa afterwards. One adapts to >the cold quicker than you might think! > >Yes, my eldest is getting quite good at the guitar. He >loves rock music, and likes a lot of the same music >that my husband likes, as well as some newer music his >friends introduced him to. We have a tutor come to the >house every week to teach him, since the school does >not offer lessons. Of course, he wants to be a rock >star when he grows up! > >School started again for the boys on Monday. So their >naked holiday has come to an end. But of course, as >soon as they are home, the clothes still all come off! What was the reaction of your son's music tutor the first time he came to your home to tutor your son and seen him naked? . [ Post a Reply to This Message ]

[> [> [> [> [> [> [> [> [> [> [> [> [> [> [> [> [> [> [> [> [> [> [> [> [> [> [> [> Subject: Re: After school Rituals Author: Anna [ Edit | View ] Date Posted: 14:09:17 01/07/26 Wed Author Host/IP: 146.70.230.101 >>>>>>>Dear Anna, >>>>>>> >>>>>>>I apologize for not replying to so long. The >>>holiday >>>>>>>period has just been so busy!! >>>>>>> >>>>>>>To answer your questions about my son's shaving, >>>>>>>sometimes his siblings do see, but usually not. >We >>>>>>>used to shave him in the bathroom, but we >realised >>>>it >>>>>>>is easiest if he can lie on his back and put his >>>>legs >>>>>>>and arms in the air, so more recently we have >been >>>>>>>using the kitchen table. So yes, normally it is >>>just >>>>>>>the two of us, but occasionally someone will walk >>>in >>>>>>>to get a snack or a glass of water. About any >>>>>>>embarrassment, he is used to the routine, so he >>>only >>>>>>>gets embarrassed if someone walks in or if I make >>a >>>>>>>comment (the usual "Moooom!"). >>>>>>> >>>>>>>I'm sorry your son was teased in the shower. It >>>>>sounds >>>>>>>like you gave him good advise to handle >situations >>>>>>>like that going forwards. >>>>>>> >>>>>>>I hope you are having a happy holiday and New >>Year. >>>>>>>How are your boys? I would love to hear back from >>>>>you. >>>>>>>:-) >>>>>> >>>>>> >>>>>>Dear Ivana, >>>>>> >>>>>>It's so nice to hear from you again! >>>>>> >>>>>>There's no need to apologize. I also sometimes >have >>>>>>days full of work and family commitments and don't >>>>>>have time to log on to the forum. >>>>>>And with the holidays, I've also been very busy >>with >>>>>>preparations, so I haven't been very active >online. >>>>>> >>>>>>We usually do it in the bathroom too. Apart from >>the >>>>>>first time, which I've already described, and the >>>>>>subsequent time when my younger brother wanted to >>>>>>watch the whole shaving process and asked >questions >>>>>>and made comments, from the third time onwards >it's >>>>>>always just been the two of us. I don't mind, in >>>>fact, >>>>>>I prefer it, so I can use this intimate moment to >>>>talk >>>>>>to him and strengthen our bond since it's just the >>>>two >>>>>>of us. I thought I would have more difficulty >>>>>>convincing him to get shaved, but he's practically >>>>>>already gotten used to it and lets me do the job >>>>>>without complaining; in fact, he's quite >>willing… >>>>I >>>>>>wouldn't have bet two cents on it… >>>>>>I'm glad that, even though he's older than my son, >>>>>>he's used to you and doesn't feel embarrassed >>around >>>>>>you… Your son is very well-behaved. >>>>>>The idea of ​​using the kitchen table is >>>>>>interesting… I might try that with my son next >>>>time. >>>>>> >>>>>>Unfortunately, there's always some silly kid >>around. >>>>>>However, he told me that after the first two or >>>three >>>>>>times, nobody makes fun of him anymore in the >>>shower. >>>>>>I'm very happy about that. Thank you for your kind >>>>>>words. >>>>>> >>>>>>My children are doing very well, thank you! And >>>>yours? >>>>>>Since our last post, my eldest son has turned 13. >>>For >>>>>>these holidays, first, we spent a few days in the >>>>>>mountains, then we celebrated New Year's Eve at >our >>>>>>house with my brother, his wife, and their two >>>>>>children who came over for dinner. My two sons and >>>my >>>>>>nephew, as usual, were naked. They only had a >>>>colorful >>>>>>paper hat on their heads. >>>>> >>>>>Dear Anna. Happy birthday to your son. Thirteen is >a >>>>>big year, his first as a teenager. I'm glad you and >>>>>the family have had some time to relax during the >>>>>holidays. Our family enjoys the mountains too. We >>>>>often go hiking. Of course, the boys hike in the >>>nude. >>>>>It's a little cold this time of year, but the boys >>>are >>>>>used to it. How was your time in the mountains? >>>>> >>>>>On shaving, we really do find the kitchen table to >>be >>>>>much more convenient than anywhere else. Let me >know >>>>>how it goes if you decide to try it. >>>>> >>>>>Thank you for the lovely image of your sons and >>>nephew >>>>>wearing nothing except for their colourful party >>>hats. >>>>>Our boys have been naked for the holidays too. We >>>>>spent Christmas at my parents' house. Since my >>>parents >>>>>live a six hour drive away, we stayed for four >>>nights. >>>>>Of course we didn't pack any clothes for the boys, >>so >>>>>they were naked for the whole trip. All the family >>>was >>>>>there, from my aunts and uncles down to my nieces >>and >>>>>nephews. Our boys were the only ones naked as >usual. >>>>>My eldest at one point got a bit embarrassed since >>>>>there were many people there he didn't know, and he >>>>>asked if he could put on some underwear, but I >>>>>reminded him that unfortunately we had packed no >>>>>clothes for him. In any case he seemed to have >>>relaxed >>>>>not long after. >>>>> >>>>>The boys are doing well. Lots of Christmas presents >>>>>and time with friends and family, and not a piece >of >>>>>clothing worn. What did your kids get for >Christmas? >>>>>Soon it will be back to school and back to wearing >>>>>clothes for the boys, at least during the week. >>>> >>>>Dear Ivana, >>>> >>>>Thank you so much for the birthday wishes for my >son. >>>>Yes, thirteen years old is a big year, his first as >a >>>>teenager. >>>>To think that it seems like he was born Yesterday… >>>>how fast time flies… but for me he will always >>>>remain my "little boy"… lol… now that he's >>shaved, >>>>he still looks "little boy" even though his penis >>>>isn't so "little" anymore… lol… >>>> >>>>We also enjoy hiking in the mountains. In the >summer, >>>>we often go hiking, and of course, my two boys also >>>>hike naked. Unfortunately, it's not allowed >>everywhere >>>>in Italy; it's a bigoted country with bigoted laws, >>so >>>>you have to look for trails or mountains where it's >>>>permitted (clothing optional hikes). We now know >>which >>>>ones and where they are, and we go there. There are >>>>only a few places where it's permitted to hike >naked, >>>>so we often return to the same places, but that's >>>>fine, the important thing is to be outdoors and do >>>>some exercise away from the city. In the mountains >>>>"not too far" from our home, it's quite cold at this >>>>time of year. (this week we've had temperatures >>>>between -10 and +1 degrees Celsius), too cold to be >>>>naked outdoors while hiking (we'll have to wait >until >>>>late spring/summer). We went skiing. There was a lot >>>>of snow, perfect slopes, and the boys had a great >>>time. >>>> >>>>On shaving, I've decided to try the kitchen table >>>>method. He doesn't need it right now, but I think >>I'll >>>>have to shave him next week. I'll definitely try it >>>>and let you know. Thanks for the suggestion for now. >>>> >>>>We have many similar rituals then… even your boys >>>>stay naked during the holidays. In fact, the three >of >>>>them were very very cute and adorable, wearing >>nothing >>>>except for their colourful party hats. It's a shame >>>>that your boys are the only ones who are naked; at >>>>least mine have their male cousin (my nephew) with >>>>them. You should convince your nephews to try it, >>even >>>>just once… I think they would like it… They >might >>>>be a little embarrassed at first, but then they >would >>>>get used to it and enjoy it. How old are your nieces >>>>and nephews? Did you make them stay naked even >during >>>>the six-hour car journey to your parents' house, or >>>>were they dressed during the journey and only naked >>at >>>>their grandparents' house? Were the people your >>eldest >>>>son didn't know adults or teenagers? You did very >>well >>>>not to pack any clothes in the suitcase for the >boys. >>>>Otherwise, your eldest son would have insisted on >>>>wearing his underwear. Instead, he was "forced" to >>>>remain naked, but as you wrote, he seemed to have >>>>relaxed not long after. The boys should actually be >>>>naked: no pajamas, no underwear, no clothes at all. >>>> >>>>As gifts, my children received useful things (shoes, >>>>trousers and sweaters… for when they go to school >>>>– they don't need them at home, lol…) and then >>>>toys. They love Lego, so they each received a set: >>The >>>>Fire Knight Mech (from the Ninjago series) and The >>>>Imperial Star Destroyer (from the Star Wars series), >>>>and two games for the PlayStation 5. What did your >>>>boys get for Christmas? Here in Italy, students will >>>>return to school on January 7th. Unfortunately for >>>>them, only a few days remain; the holidays are >almost >>>>over… And yes, they'll have to get dressed, but >>only >>>>in the morning, because as soon as they get home, >the >>>>ritual hasn't changed: all the clothes come off >>>>immediately! >>> >>>Dear Anna, >>> >>>Yes, the boys were naked for the 6 hour journey, >since >>>we didn't pack any clothes for them. As you said, I'm >>>glad we didn't pack any, since it meant our eldest >was >>>completely naked for the whole trip, not even having >>>the option of wearing clothes! The people my kids >>>didn't know were mostly my cousins and their >children. >>>So a mix of ages, some adults, some kids, some teens. >>>But also my parents' friends and their kids and >>>grandkids came to visit at times. Some came to stay >>>for dinner a few days after Christmas. I think my >>>eldest was a bit embarrassed because he had a crush >on >>>one of the girls his age. Unfortunately, convincing >my >>>nieces and nephews to try going naked is unlikely. >>>Sometimes the youngest few (around 6 or 7) will go >>>naked at the pool in summer. But for now our boys are >>>the only true nudists in the family. >>> >>>Skiing sounds like good fun! It's a shame the boys >>>can't do it naked. Even when it's cold, my boys enjoy >>>naked snowball fights. Have your boys ever done the >>>same? It makes sense unfortunately that you have to >>>find clothing optional hikes for the boys. Sometimes >>>we get funny looks when the boys get out of the car >>>naked at the hiking trail. But I don't care, they are >>>allowed to hike naked and people should mind their >own >>>business! >>> >>>My kids received lots of clothes as well, go figure. >>>We got our two younger boys a K'Nex set and a >Nintendo >>>game each. Our eldest plays guitar so we bought him a >>>new case and set of strings, and a polaroid camera >>>since he's been asking for one. >> >> >>Dear Ivana, >> >>I'm so glad to hear your boys were naked during the >>car ride. That's what I'd like to do with my own two >>sons. >>Unfortunately, here in Italy, leaving your house naked >>to get into a car, traveling naked, and then getting >>out of the car naked at your destination is not >>allowed. If we did so, we would be charged with >>"indecent exposure in a public place". As I wrote to >>you last time, it's a bigoted country with bigoted >>laws! Perhaps you could start from a secluded house in >>the countryside/mountains where no one sees you and >>end up at a nudist campsite. But along the way someone >>looked at them strangely (but I don't care, like you) >>but it would be a problem if they alerted the police >>or child protection. I think there's nothing wrong >>with letting your boys be naked, but according to >>Italian law, it's only allowed in your own home or on >>nudist beaches or "clothing optional" hiking trails... >>I completely disagree, but I'll go along with it. I >>totally agree with you when you write "people should >>mind their own business!". >>The idea of ​​having your nieces and nephews naked >>was simply to make your sons feel more comfortable and >>to give your nieces and nephews an experience that, >>while it might be embarrassing at first, will >>ultimately boost their self-esteem and they'll >>definitely enjoy it. But I understand that every >>family has its own rules, and it's not right to >>interfere. Sorry! >>I asked you the ages of the people your eldest son >>didn't know, just to see if his embarrassment was >>understandable (in part) or excessive. If they had all >>been adults it would certainly have been excessive and >>senseless, if they had only been boys even in this >>case it was probably excessive and senseless, mixed >>age and mixed sex is a little more understandable, >>even if unmotivated. He must always be comfortable >>with his naked body, regardless of who is looking at >>him! But if he had a crush on one of the girls his >>age, that's more understandable... Poor guy! I'm sure >>the girl would have appreciated him being naked, but >>if I were her, I would have done it... When friends or >>acquaintances come to our house to visit (whether they >>are alone or with their children), my boys are left >>naked so I have to agree with how you handled the >>situation. >> >>Yes, skiing is great fun! The boys, and my husband and >>I, have a blast! It would be interesting to try skiing >>naked, but it's illegal here, and with temperatures of >>-10°C and the speed of the descent, they'd arrive >>back down frozen like popsicles... lol... Having >>snowball fights naked is a different matter... that >>could be done if you had a private yard. We live in a >>city apartment building with no yard, but my parents >>live in the country, with a large private yard (though >>partially visible from the street and partially >>protected by a tall hedge), and when my children stay >>at their grandparents' house, they play naked not only >>indoors but also outside in the yard. When your kids >>have a snowball fight, do the neighbors see them? >>Don't they say anything? Lucky you, I wish it were >>that way here too... >> >>So useful gifts (clothes) (even if not at home, >>lol...) and toys, like us... nice K'Nex sets! It's >>great to know how to play guitar! I'm terrible at it, >>but my husband is good... It's a beautiful passion, I >>hope for his sake he continues to play... >> >>As I wrote last time, school starts again tomorrow, >>January 7th, after the Christmas holidays. When does >>it start where you are? > >Dear Anna, > >I'm sorry things seem so restrictive in Italy. I'm >glad your children nonetheless get to experience the >joys of being naked as much as they can. > >We live in a very rural area, so no neighbours can see >our yard. And regardless, attitudes here are very >relaxed. I doubt anyone would say anything if they >happened to see some kids playing naked on their own >property. Especially during the summer when it is hot. >Given the time of year, and the age of our boys, yes >it might be more unusual, but still I doubt anyone >would mind. I understand it is different in cities and >towns. There is a wooded area with a stream behind our >property, and the boys often play and explore there, >naked of course. I'm glad you agree that others should >mind their own business! > >No need to apologize about asking about my nieces and >nephews. It's just that unfortunately their parents >(my siblings and my husband's siblings) do not allow >them to go naked often. And we have to respect their >wishes of course. About my son's embarrassment during >the holidays, I agree completely with what you said: >"he must always be comfortable with his naked body, >regardless of who is looking at him". This is the >attitude we have tried to encourage in our boys. We >try to remind them that there's no need to be >embarrassed about silly things like butts and penises. > >About skiing, that all makes sense. I suppose it would >be quite cold! I just thought it was a nice mental >image, boys skating down the side of a mountain, >completely naked and free except for their ski boots >and skis, feeling the rush of wind and snow on their >bare skins and letting their body parts hang freely in >the breeze without a care in the world. All before >reaching the bottom and taking the ski lift to do it >all again. But I can imagine it could be too cold. But >you should have your boys try going out naked in the >snow if you can. You will have to judge if it is too >cold for them, but our boys always enjoy it, >especially with a hot cocoa afterwards. One adapts to >the cold quicker than you might think! > >Yes, my eldest is getting quite good at the guitar. He >loves rock music, and likes a lot of the same music >that my husband likes, as well as some newer music his >friends introduced him to. We have a tutor come to the >house every week to teach him, since the school does >not offer lessons. Of course, he wants to be a rock >star when he grows up! > >School started again for the boys on Monday. So their >naked holiday has come to an end. But of course, as >soon as they are home, the clothes still all come off! Dear Ivana, How I envy you… I would also love to live in a rural area and have a yard around where my sons could play freely and naked. Unfortunately, living in an apartment building in the center of a large city has the advantages of nearby services, schools, hospitals, libraries, and gyms, but the disadvantage of little greenery, little privacy, and little freedom… I would much rather live like you. Regarding your nieces and nephews, I understand perfectly and I agree with you: we must respect the wishes and choices of their parents. As I wrote last time, I didn't want you to interfere in their choices; I just wanted to understand if they needed a little encouragement (because I believe they are missing out on a very valuable and formative opportunity for their personality and future character development) or if it was something unthinkable for them. Now it's clear to me, thank you. I'm glad you agree that "he must always be comfortable with his naked body, regardless of who is looking at him". Because that's exactly what we're trying to teach our two sons. They should consider their butts and penises like any other part of their body, such as a hand, a foot, a knee, or an arm. My husband and I are very proud because, on most occasions, even with friends or people they've never met, and even when accompanied by their children, they feel comfortable. Of course, there are occasional moments of awkwardness, but they are very rare and short-lived. About skiing, you're absolutely right: it's a beautiful mental image. I'm trying to imagine it right now, and it would be wonderful! It would be fantastic if my sons could do that. It's a real shame that it's not possible! We've never tried letting them play naked in the snow. The next time it snows, we could go to my parents' house and try it there. My parents would be against it, for fear that the children would catch a cold and get sick… but I think it would be fun to try… Music is a wonderful passion, and the guitar is a powerful instrument… It can be sweet and harsh, romantic or rock… I'm glad your son is good at playing it and is studying it weekly. Let's hope he manages to fulfill his dream and become a famous rock star [ Post a Reply to This Message ]

[> [> [> [> [> [> [> [> [> [> [> [> [> [> [> [> [> [> [> [> [> [> [> [> [> [> [> [> [> Subject: Re: After school Rituals Author: Ivana [ Edit | View ] Date Posted: 05:16:30 01/08/26 Thu Author Host/IP: 185.220.101.25 >>>>>>>>Dear Anna, >>>>>>>> >>>>>>>>I apologize for not replying to so long. The >>>>holiday >>>>>>>>period has just been so busy!! >>>>>>>> >>>>>>>>To answer your questions about my son's shaving, >>>>>>>>sometimes his siblings do see, but usually not. >>We >>>>>>>>used to shave him in the bathroom, but we >>realised >>>>>it >>>>>>>>is easiest if he can lie on his back and put his >>>>>legs >>>>>>>>and arms in the air, so more recently we have >>been >>>>>>>>using the kitchen table. So yes, normally it is >>>>just >>>>>>>>the two of us, but occasionally someone will >walk >>>>in >>>>>>>>to get a snack or a glass of water. About any >>>>>>>>embarrassment, he is used to the routine, so he >>>>only >>>>>>>>gets embarrassed if someone walks in or if I >make >>>a >>>>>>>>comment (the usual "Moooom!"). >>>>>>>> >>>>>>>>I'm sorry your son was teased in the shower. It >>>>>>sounds >>>>>>>>like you gave him good advise to handle >>situations >>>>>>>>like that going forwards. >>>>>>>> >>>>>>>>I hope you are having a happy holiday and New >>>Year. >>>>>>>>How are your boys? I would love to hear back >from >>>>>>you. >>>>>>>>:-) >>>>>>> >>>>>>> >>>>>>>Dear Ivana, >>>>>>> >>>>>>>It's so nice to hear from you again! >>>>>>> >>>>>>>There's no need to apologize. I also sometimes >>have >>>>>>>days full of work and family commitments and >don't >>>>>>>have time to log on to the forum. >>>>>>>And with the holidays, I've also been very busy >>>with >>>>>>>preparations, so I haven't been very active >>online. >>>>>>> >>>>>>>We usually do it in the bathroom too. Apart from >>>the >>>>>>>first time, which I've already described, and the >>>>>>>subsequent time when my younger brother wanted to >>>>>>>watch the whole shaving process and asked >>questions >>>>>>>and made comments, from the third time onwards >>it's >>>>>>>always just been the two of us. I don't mind, in >>>>>fact, >>>>>>>I prefer it, so I can use this intimate moment to >>>>>talk >>>>>>>to him and strengthen our bond since it's just >the >>>>>two >>>>>>>of us. I thought I would have more difficulty >>>>>>>convincing him to get shaved, but he's >practically >>>>>>>already gotten used to it and lets me do the job >>>>>>>without complaining; in fact, he's quite >>>willing… >>>>>I >>>>>>>wouldn't have bet two cents on it… >>>>>>>I'm glad that, even though he's older than my >son, >>>>>>>he's used to you and doesn't feel embarrassed >>>around >>>>>>>you… Your son is very well-behaved. >>>>>>>The idea of ​​using the kitchen table is >>>>>>>interesting… I might try that with my son next >>>>>time. >>>>>>> >>>>>>>Unfortunately, there's always some silly kid >>>around. >>>>>>>However, he told me that after the first two or >>>>three >>>>>>>times, nobody makes fun of him anymore in the >>>>shower. >>>>>>>I'm very happy about that. Thank you for your >kind >>>>>>>words. >>>>>>> >>>>>>>My children are doing very well, thank you! And >>>>>yours? >>>>>>>Since our last post, my eldest son has turned 13. >>>>For >>>>>>>these holidays, first, we spent a few days in the >>>>>>>mountains, then we celebrated New Year's Eve at >>our >>>>>>>house with my brother, his wife, and their two >>>>>>>children who came over for dinner. My two sons >and >>>>my >>>>>>>nephew, as usual, were naked. They only had a >>>>>colorful >>>>>>>paper hat on their heads. >>>>>> >>>>>>Dear Anna. Happy birthday to your son. Thirteen is >>a >>>>>>big year, his first as a teenager. I'm glad you >and >>>>>>the family have had some time to relax during the >>>>>>holidays. Our family enjoys the mountains too. We >>>>>>often go hiking. Of course, the boys hike in the >>>>nude. >>>>>>It's a little cold this time of year, but the boys >>>>are >>>>>>used to it. How was your time in the mountains? >>>>>> >>>>>>On shaving, we really do find the kitchen table to >>>be >>>>>>much more convenient than anywhere else. Let me >>know >>>>>>how it goes if you decide to try it. >>>>>> >>>>>>Thank you for the lovely image of your sons and >>>>nephew >>>>>>wearing nothing except for their colourful party >>>>hats. >>>>>>Our boys have been naked for the holidays too. We >>>>>>spent Christmas at my parents' house. Since my >>>>parents >>>>>>live a six hour drive away, we stayed for four >>>>nights. >>>>>>Of course we didn't pack any clothes for the boys, >>>so >>>>>>they were naked for the whole trip. All the family >>>>was >>>>>>there, from my aunts and uncles down to my nieces >>>and >>>>>>nephews. Our boys were the only ones naked as >>usual. >>>>>>My eldest at one point got a bit embarrassed since >>>>>>there were many people there he didn't know, and >he >>>>>>asked if he could put on some underwear, but I >>>>>>reminded him that unfortunately we had packed no >>>>>>clothes for him. In any case he seemed to have >>>>relaxed >>>>>>not long after. >>>>>> >>>>>>The boys are doing well. Lots of Christmas >presents >>>>>>and time with friends and family, and not a piece >>of >>>>>>clothing worn. What did your kids get for >>Christmas? >>>>>>Soon it will be back to school and back to wearing >>>>>>clothes for the boys, at least during the week. >>>>> >>>>>Dear Ivana, >>>>> >>>>>Thank you so much for the birthday wishes for my >>son. >>>>>Yes, thirteen years old is a big year, his first as >>a >>>>>teenager. >>>>>To think that it seems like he was born >Yesterday… >>>>>how fast time flies… but for me he will always >>>>>remain my "little boy"… lol… now that he's >>>shaved, >>>>>he still looks "little boy" even though his penis >>>>>isn't so "little" anymore… lol… >>>>> >>>>>We also enjoy hiking in the mountains. In the >>summer, >>>>>we often go hiking, and of course, my two boys also >>>>>hike naked. Unfortunately, it's not allowed >>>everywhere >>>>>in Italy; it's a bigoted country with bigoted laws, >>>so >>>>>you have to look for trails or mountains where it's >>>>>permitted (clothing optional hikes). We now know >>>which >>>>>ones and where they are, and we go there. There are >>>>>only a few places where it's permitted to hike >>naked, >>>>>so we often return to the same places, but that's >>>>>fine, the important thing is to be outdoors and do >>>>>some exercise away from the city. In the mountains >>>>>"not too far" from our home, it's quite cold at >this >>>>>time of year. (this week we've had temperatures >>>>>between -10 and +1 degrees Celsius), too cold to be >>>>>naked outdoors while hiking (we'll have to wait >>until >>>>>late spring/summer). We went skiing. There was a >lot >>>>>of snow, perfect slopes, and the boys had a great >>>>time. >>>>> >>>>>On shaving, I've decided to try the kitchen table >>>>>method. He doesn't need it right now, but I think >>>I'll >>>>>have to shave him next week. I'll definitely try it >>>>>and let you know. Thanks for the suggestion for >now. >>>>> >>>>>We have many similar rituals then… even your boys >>>>>stay naked during the holidays. In fact, the three >>of >>>>>them were very very cute and adorable, wearing >>>nothing >>>>>except for their colourful party hats. It's a shame >>>>>that your boys are the only ones who are naked; at >>>>>least mine have their male cousin (my nephew) with >>>>>them. You should convince your nephews to try it, >>>even >>>>>just once… I think they would like it… They >>might >>>>>be a little embarrassed at first, but then they >>would >>>>>get used to it and enjoy it. How old are your >nieces >>>>>and nephews? Did you make them stay naked even >>during >>>>>the six-hour car journey to your parents' house, or >>>>>were they dressed during the journey and only naked >>>at >>>>>their grandparents' house? Were the people your >>>eldest >>>>>son didn't know adults or teenagers? You did very >>>well >>>>>not to pack any clothes in the suitcase for the >>boys. >>>>>Otherwise, your eldest son would have insisted on >>>>>wearing his underwear. Instead, he was "forced" to >>>>>remain naked, but as you wrote, he seemed to have >>>>>relaxed not long after. The boys should actually be >>>>>naked: no pajamas, no underwear, no clothes at >all. >>>>> >>>>>As gifts, my children received useful things >(shoes, >>>>>trousers and sweaters… for when they go to school >>>>>– they don't need them at home, lol…) and then >>>>>toys. They love Lego, so they each received a set: >>>The >>>>>Fire Knight Mech (from the Ninjago series) and The >>>>>Imperial Star Destroyer (from the Star Wars >series), >>>>>and two games for the PlayStation 5. What did your >>>>>boys get for Christmas? Here in Italy, students >will >>>>>return to school on January 7th. Unfortunately for >>>>>them, only a few days remain; the holidays are >>almost >>>>>over… And yes, they'll have to get dressed, but >>>only >>>>>in the morning, because as soon as they get home, >>the >>>>>ritual hasn't changed: all the clothes come off >>>>>immediately! >>>> >>>>Dear Anna, >>>> >>>>Yes, the boys were naked for the 6 hour journey, >>since >>>>we didn't pack any clothes for them. As you said, >I'm >>>>glad we didn't pack any, since it meant our eldest >>was >>>>completely naked for the whole trip, not even having >>>>the option of wearing clothes! The people my kids >>>>didn't know were mostly my cousins and their >>children. >>>>So a mix of ages, some adults, some kids, some >teens. >>>>But also my parents' friends and their kids and >>>>grandkids came to visit at times. Some came to stay >>>>for dinner a few days after Christmas. I think my >>>>eldest was a bit embarrassed because he had a crush >>on >>>>one of the girls his age. Unfortunately, convincing >>my >>>>nieces and nephews to try going naked is unlikely. >>>>Sometimes the youngest few (around 6 or 7) will go >>>>naked at the pool in summer. But for now our boys >are >>>>the only true nudists in the family. >>>> >>>>Skiing sounds like good fun! It's a shame the boys >>>>can't do it naked. Even when it's cold, my boys >enjoy >>>>naked snowball fights. Have your boys ever done the >>>>same? It makes sense unfortunately that you have to >>>>find clothing optional hikes for the boys. Sometimes >>>>we get funny looks when the boys get out of the car >>>>naked at the hiking trail. But I don't care, they >are >>>>allowed to hike naked and people should mind their >>own >>>>business! >>>> >>>>My kids received lots of clothes as well, go figure. >>>>We got our two younger boys a K'Nex set and a >>Nintendo >>>>game each. Our eldest plays guitar so we bought him >a >>>>new case and set of strings, and a polaroid camera >>>>since he's been asking for one. >>> >>> >>>Dear Ivana, >>> >>>I'm so glad to hear your boys were naked during the >>>car ride. That's what I'd like to do with my own two >>>sons. >>>Unfortunately, here in Italy, leaving your house >naked >>>to get into a car, traveling naked, and then getting >>>out of the car naked at your destination is not >>>allowed. If we did so, we would be charged with >>>"indecent exposure in a public place". As I wrote to >>>you last time, it's a bigoted country with bigoted >>>laws! Perhaps you could start from a secluded house >in >>>the countryside/mountains where no one sees you and >>>end up at a nudist campsite. But along the way >someone >>>looked at them strangely (but I don't care, like you) >>>but it would be a problem if they alerted the police >>>or child protection. I think there's nothing wrong >>>with letting your boys be naked, but according to >>>Italian law, it's only allowed in your own home or on >>>nudist beaches or "clothing optional" hiking >trails... >>>I completely disagree, but I'll go along with it. I >>>totally agree with you when you write "people should >>>mind their own business!". >>>The idea of ​​having your nieces and nephews >naked >>>was simply to make your sons feel more comfortable >and >>>to give your nieces and nephews an experience that, >>>while it might be embarrassing at first, will >>>ultimately boost their self-esteem and they'll >>>definitely enjoy it. But I understand that every >>>family has its own rules, and it's not right to >>>interfere. Sorry! >>>I asked you the ages of the people your eldest son >>>didn't know, just to see if his embarrassment was >>>understandable (in part) or excessive. If they had >all >>>been adults it would certainly have been excessive >and >>>senseless, if they had only been boys even in this >>>case it was probably excessive and senseless, mixed >>>age and mixed sex is a little more understandable, >>>even if unmotivated. He must always be comfortable >>>with his naked body, regardless of who is looking at >>>him! But if he had a crush on one of the girls his >>>age, that's more understandable... Poor guy! I'm >sure >>>the girl would have appreciated him being naked, but >>>if I were her, I would have done it... When friends >or >>>acquaintances come to our house to visit (whether >they >>>are alone or with their children), my boys are left >>>naked so I have to agree with how you handled the >>>situation. >>> >>>Yes, skiing is great fun! The boys, and my husband >and >>>I, have a blast! It would be interesting to try >skiing >>>naked, but it's illegal here, and with temperatures >of >>>-10°C and the speed of the descent, they'd arrive >>>back down frozen like popsicles... lol... Having >>>snowball fights naked is a different matter... that >>>could be done if you had a private yard. We live in a >>>city apartment building with no yard, but my parents >>>live in the country, with a large private yard >(though >>>partially visible from the street and partially >>>protected by a tall hedge), and when my children stay >>>at their grandparents' house, they play naked not >only >>>indoors but also outside in the yard. When your kids >>>have a snowball fight, do the neighbors see them? >>>Don't they say anything? Lucky you, I wish it were >>>that way here too... >>> >>>So useful gifts (clothes) (even if not at home, >>>lol...) and toys, like us... nice K'Nex sets! It's >>>great to know how to play guitar! I'm terrible at it, >>>but my husband is good... It's a beautiful passion, I >>>hope for his sake he continues to play... >>> >>>As I wrote last time, school starts again tomorrow, >>>January 7th, after the Christmas holidays. When does >>>it start where you are? >> >>Dear Anna, >> >>I'm sorry things seem so restrictive in Italy. I'm >>glad your children nonetheless get to experience the >>joys of being naked as much as they can. >> >>We live in a very rural area, so no neighbours can see >>our yard. And regardless, attitudes here are very >>relaxed. I doubt anyone would say anything if they >>happened to see some kids playing naked on their own >>property. Especially during the summer when it is hot. >>Given the time of year, and the age of our boys, yes >>it might be more unusual, but still I doubt anyone >>would mind. I understand it is different in cities and >>towns. There is a wooded area with a stream behind our >>property, and the boys often play and explore there, >>naked of course. I'm glad you agree that others should >>mind their own business! >> >>No need to apologize about asking about my nieces and >>nephews. It's just that unfortunately their parents >>(my siblings and my husband's siblings) do not allow >>them to go naked often. And we have to respect their >>wishes of course. About my son's embarrassment during >>the holidays, I agree completely with what you said: >>"he must always be comfortable with his naked body, >>regardless of who is looking at him". This is the >>attitude we have tried to encourage in our boys. We >>try to remind them that there's no need to be >>embarrassed about silly things like butts and penises. >> >>About skiing, that all makes sense. I suppose it would >>be quite cold! I just thought it was a nice mental >>image, boys skating down the side of a mountain, >>completely naked and free except for their ski boots >>and skis, feeling the rush of wind and snow on their >>bare skins and letting their body parts hang freely in >>the breeze without a care in the world. All before >>reaching the bottom and taking the ski lift to do it >>all again. But I can imagine it could be too cold. But >>you should have your boys try going out naked in the >>snow if you can. You will have to judge if it is too >>cold for them, but our boys always enjoy it, >>especially with a hot cocoa afterwards. One adapts to >>the cold quicker than you might think! >> >>Yes, my eldest is getting quite good at the guitar. He >>loves rock music, and likes a lot of the same music >>that my husband likes, as well as some newer music his >>friends introduced him to. We have a tutor come to the >>house every week to teach him, since the school does >>not offer lessons. Of course, he wants to be a rock >>star when he grows up! >> >>School started again for the boys on Monday. So their >>naked holiday has come to an end. But of course, as >>soon as they are home, the clothes still all come off! > > > >Dear Ivana, > >How I envy you… I would also love to live in a rural >area and have a yard around where my sons could play >freely and naked. Unfortunately, living in an >apartment building in the center of a large city has >the advantages of nearby services, schools, hospitals, >libraries, and gyms, but the disadvantage of little >greenery, little privacy, and little freedom… I >would much rather live like you. > >Regarding your nieces and nephews, I understand >perfectly and I agree with you: we must respect the >wishes and choices of their parents. As I wrote last >time, I didn't want you to interfere in their choices; >I just wanted to understand if they needed a little >encouragement (because I believe they are missing out >on a very valuable and formative opportunity for their >personality and future character development) or if it >was something unthinkable for them. Now it's clear to >me, thank you. I'm glad you agree that "he must always >be comfortable with his naked body, regardless of who >is looking at him". Because that's exactly what we're >trying to teach our two sons. They should consider >their butts and penises like any other part of their >body, such as a hand, a foot, a knee, or an arm. My >husband and I are very proud because, on most >occasions, even with friends or people they've never >met, and even when accompanied by their children, they >feel comfortable. Of course, there are occasional >moments of awkwardness, but they are very rare and >short-lived. > >About skiing, you're absolutely right: it's a >beautiful mental image. I'm trying to imagine it right >now, and it would be wonderful! It would be fantastic >if my sons could do that. It's a real shame that it's >not possible! We've never tried letting them play >naked in the snow. The next time it snows, we could go >to my parents' house and try it there. My parents >would be against it, for fear that the children would >catch a cold and get sick… but I think it would be >fun to try… > >Music is a wonderful passion, and the guitar is a >powerful instrument… It can be sweet and harsh, >romantic or rock… I'm glad your son is good at >playing it and is studying it weekly. Let's hope he >manages to fulfill his dream and become a famous rock >star Dear Anna, I'm glad you're teaching your sons to have a healthy and open attitude towards their bodies, to "consider their butts and penises like any other part of their body, such as a hand, a foot, a knee, or an arm". It's clear your sons have really understood this, from the fact (as you told Scamptoo) that your son stood politely without complaining or moving away as his aunt and cousin inspected and caressed his pubic area and held his penis. As you said, he has been naked in front of them hundreds of times, so there should be no embarrassment. Of course there was nothing sexual about it, even if your son's penis did harden very slightly (a natural response!). I don't even see it as particularly intimate. If we really teach our boys that their penises and butts are just like any other body parts (like arms or legs), not to be hidden away or to be embarrassed about, then that moment between your son and his cousin and aunt is really no different than your aunt complementing your son on having a nice haircut, or shaking his hand, or holding his hand to complement his nails if he had them painted, to give some examples. All completely normal things, even if a teenager might blush a little bit at any such complement! This can all be difficult of course when boys are forever being told that being naked is shameful, by school, by the government, by the media, and so on. My middle boy told me that in the changing room in school, most boys bring a towel to hide behind while they change. He does not understand why his classmates are all so worried about other boys seeing their butt cheeks and penises, normal things that all boys have! He told me that he pointed this out one time, and was teased for "being gay" (they used more colourful language of course). Likewise, when my eldest started sexual education at school, he told me he already knew far more than anyone else in his class, which surprised me at the time since in my opinion it's a mother's job to teach their children about these things! We have never hidden the facts of life from them, from talking about puberty and how their bodies will change, to answering questions they have asked about body hair and condoms and masturbation. I know some parents find these discussions uncomfortable, but I believe it's my duty as a mother to ensure my children are knowledgeable about the facts of life. In any case, I'm glad your boys, like mine, are comfortable being naked, even around strangers. [ Post a Reply to This Message ]

[> [> [> [> [> [> [> [> [> [> [> [> [> [> [> [> [> [> [> [> [> [> [> [> [> [> [> [> [> [> Subject: Re: After school Rituals Author: Anna to Ivana [ Edit | View ] Date Posted: 15:06:46 01/13/26 Tue Author Host/IP: 205.147.17.29 >>>>>>>>>Dear Anna, >>>>>>>>> >>>>>>>>>I apologize for not replying to so long. The >>>>>holiday >>>>>>>>>period has just been so busy!! >>>>>>>>> >>>>>>>>>To answer your questions about my son's >shaving, >>>>>>>>>sometimes his siblings do see, but usually not. >>>We >>>>>>>>>used to shave him in the bathroom, but we >>>realised >>>>>>it >>>>>>>>>is easiest if he can lie on his back and put >his >>>>>>legs >>>>>>>>>and arms in the air, so more recently we have >>>been >>>>>>>>>using the kitchen table. So yes, normally it is >>>>>just >>>>>>>>>the two of us, but occasionally someone will >>walk >>>>>in >>>>>>>>>to get a snack or a glass of water. About any >>>>>>>>>embarrassment, he is used to the routine, so he >>>>>only >>>>>>>>>gets embarrassed if someone walks in or if I >>make >>>>a >>>>>>>>>comment (the usual "Moooom!"). >>>>>>>>> >>>>>>>>>I'm sorry your son was teased in the shower. It >>>>>>>sounds >>>>>>>>>like you gave him good advise to handle >>>situations >>>>>>>>>like that going forwards. >>>>>>>>> >>>>>>>>>I hope you are having a happy holiday and New >>>>Year. >>>>>>>>>How are your boys? I would love to hear back >>from >>>>>>>you. >>>>>>>>>:-) >>>>>>>> >>>>>>>> >>>>>>>>Dear Ivana, >>>>>>>> >>>>>>>>It's so nice to hear from you again! >>>>>>>> >>>>>>>>There's no need to apologize. I also sometimes >>>have >>>>>>>>days full of work and family commitments and >>don't >>>>>>>>have time to log on to the forum. >>>>>>>>And with the holidays, I've also been very busy >>>>with >>>>>>>>preparations, so I haven't been very active >>>online. >>>>>>>> >>>>>>>>We usually do it in the bathroom too. Apart from >>>>the >>>>>>>>first time, which I've already described, and >the >>>>>>>>subsequent time when my younger brother wanted >to >>>>>>>>watch the whole shaving process and asked >>>questions >>>>>>>>and made comments, from the third time onwards >>>it's >>>>>>>>always just been the two of us. I don't mind, in >>>>>>fact, >>>>>>>>I prefer it, so I can use this intimate moment >to >>>>>>talk >>>>>>>>to him and strengthen our bond since it's just >>the >>>>>>two >>>>>>>>of us. I thought I would have more difficulty >>>>>>>>convincing him to get shaved, but he's >>practically >>>>>>>>already gotten used to it and lets me do the job >>>>>>>>without complaining; in fact, he's quite >>>>willing… >>>>>>I >>>>>>>>wouldn't have bet two cents on it… >>>>>>>>I'm glad that, even though he's older than my >>son, >>>>>>>>he's used to you and doesn't feel embarrassed >>>>around >>>>>>>>you… Your son is very well-behaved. >>>>>>>>The idea of ​​using the kitchen table is >>>>>>>>interesting… I might try that with my son next >>>>>>time. >>>>>>>> >>>>>>>>Unfortunately, there's always some silly kid >>>>around. >>>>>>>>However, he told me that after the first two or >>>>>three >>>>>>>>times, nobody makes fun of him anymore in the >>>>>shower. >>>>>>>>I'm very happy about that. Thank you for your >>kind >>>>>>>>words. >>>>>>>> >>>>>>>>My children are doing very well, thank you! And >>>>>>yours? >>>>>>>>Since our last post, my eldest son has turned >13. >>>>>For >>>>>>>>these holidays, first, we spent a few days in >the >>>>>>>>mountains, then we celebrated New Year's Eve at >>>our >>>>>>>>house with my brother, his wife, and their two >>>>>>>>children who came over for dinner. My two sons >>and >>>>>my >>>>>>>>nephew, as usual, were naked. They only had a >>>>>>colorful >>>>>>>>paper hat on their heads. >>>>>>> >>>>>>>Dear Anna. Happy birthday to your son. Thirteen >is >>>a >>>>>>>big year, his first as a teenager. I'm glad you >>and >>>>>>>the family have had some time to relax during the >>>>>>>holidays. Our family enjoys the mountains too. We >>>>>>>often go hiking. Of course, the boys hike in the >>>>>nude. >>>>>>>It's a little cold this time of year, but the >boys >>>>>are >>>>>>>used to it. How was your time in the mountains? >>>>>>> >>>>>>>On shaving, we really do find the kitchen table >to >>>>be >>>>>>>much more convenient than anywhere else. Let me >>>know >>>>>>>how it goes if you decide to try it. >>>>>>> >>>>>>>Thank you for the lovely image of your sons and >>>>>nephew >>>>>>>wearing nothing except for their colourful party >>>>>hats. >>>>>>>Our boys have been naked for the holidays too. We >>>>>>>spent Christmas at my parents' house. Since my >>>>>parents >>>>>>>live a six hour drive away, we stayed for four >>>>>nights. >>>>>>>Of course we didn't pack any clothes for the >boys, >>>>so >>>>>>>they were naked for the whole trip. All the >family >>>>>was >>>>>>>there, from my aunts and uncles down to my nieces >>>>and >>>>>>>nephews. Our boys were the only ones naked as >>>usual. >>>>>>>My eldest at one point got a bit embarrassed >since >>>>>>>there were many people there he didn't know, and >>he >>>>>>>asked if he could put on some underwear, but I >>>>>>>reminded him that unfortunately we had packed no >>>>>>>clothes for him. In any case he seemed to have >>>>>relaxed >>>>>>>not long after. >>>>>>> >>>>>>>The boys are doing well. Lots of Christmas >>presents >>>>>>>and time with friends and family, and not a piece >>>of >>>>>>>clothing worn. What did your kids get for >>>Christmas? >>>>>>>Soon it will be back to school and back to >wearing >>>>>>>clothes for the boys, at least during the week. >>>>>> >>>>>>Dear Ivana, >>>>>> >>>>>>Thank you so much for the birthday wishes for my >>>son. >>>>>>Yes, thirteen years old is a big year, his first >as >>>a >>>>>>teenager. >>>>>>To think that it seems like he was born >>Yesterday… >>>>>>how fast time flies… but for me he will always >>>>>>remain my "little boy"… lol… now that he's >>>>shaved, >>>>>>he still looks "little boy" even though his penis >>>>>>isn't so "little" anymore… lol… >>>>>> >>>>>>We also enjoy hiking in the mountains. In the >>>summer, >>>>>>we often go hiking, and of course, my two boys >also >>>>>>hike naked. Unfortunately, it's not allowed >>>>everywhere >>>>>>in Italy; it's a bigoted country with bigoted >laws, >>>>so >>>>>>you have to look for trails or mountains where >it's >>>>>>permitted (clothing optional hikes). We now know >>>>which >>>>>>ones and where they are, and we go there. There >are >>>>>>only a few places where it's permitted to hike >>>naked, >>>>>>so we often return to the same places, but that's >>>>>>fine, the important thing is to be outdoors and do >>>>>>some exercise away from the city. In the mountains >>>>>>"not too far" from our home, it's quite cold at >>this >>>>>>time of year. (this week we've had temperatures >>>>>>between -10 and +1 degrees Celsius), too cold to >be >>>>>>naked outdoors while hiking (we'll have to wait >>>until >>>>>>late spring/summer). We went skiing. There was a >>lot >>>>>>of snow, perfect slopes, and the boys had a great >>>>>time. >>>>>> >>>>>>On shaving, I've decided to try the kitchen table >>>>>>method. He doesn't need it right now, but I think >>>>I'll >>>>>>have to shave him next week. I'll definitely try >it >>>>>>and let you know. Thanks for the suggestion for >>now. >>>>>> >>>>>>We have many similar rituals then… even your >boys >>>>>>stay naked during the holidays. In fact, the three >>>of >>>>>>them were very very cute and adorable, wearing >>>>nothing >>>>>>except for their colourful party hats. It's a >shame >>>>>>that your boys are the only ones who are naked; at >>>>>>least mine have their male cousin (my nephew) with >>>>>>them. You should convince your nephews to try it, >>>>even >>>>>>just once… I think they would like it… They >>>might >>>>>>be a little embarrassed at first, but then they >>>would >>>>>>get used to it and enjoy it. How old are your >>nieces >>>>>>and nephews? Did you make them stay naked even >>>during >>>>>>the six-hour car journey to your parents' house, >or >>>>>>were they dressed during the journey and only >naked >>>>at >>>>>>their grandparents' house? Were the people your >>>>eldest >>>>>>son didn't know adults or teenagers? You did very >>>>well >>>>>>not to pack any clothes in the suitcase for the >>>boys. >>>>>>Otherwise, your eldest son would have insisted on >>>>>>wearing his underwear. Instead, he was "forced" to >>>>>>remain naked, but as you wrote, he seemed to have >>>>>>relaxed not long after. The boys should actually >be >>>>>>naked: no pajamas, no underwear, no clothes at >>all. >>>>>> >>>>>>As gifts, my children received useful things >>(shoes, >>>>>>trousers and sweaters… for when they go to >school >>>>>>– they don't need them at home, lol…) and then >>>>>>toys. They love Lego, so they each received a set: >>>>The >>>>>>Fire Knight Mech (from the Ninjago series) and The >>>>>>Imperial Star Destroyer (from the Star Wars >>series), >>>>>>and two games for the PlayStation 5. What did your >>>>>>boys get for Christmas? Here in Italy, students >>will >>>>>>return to school on January 7th. Unfortunately for >>>>>>them, only a few days remain; the holidays are >>>almost >>>>>>over… And yes, they'll have to get dressed, but >>>>only >>>>>>in the morning, because as soon as they get home, >>>the >>>>>>ritual hasn't changed: all the clothes come off >>>>>>immediately! >>>>> >>>>>Dear Anna, >>>>> >>>>>Yes, the boys were naked for the 6 hour journey, >>>since >>>>>we didn't pack any clothes for them. As you said, >>I'm >>>>>glad we didn't pack any, since it meant our eldest >>>was >>>>>completely naked for the whole trip, not even >having >>>>>the option of wearing clothes! The people my kids >>>>>didn't know were mostly my cousins and their >>>children. >>>>>So a mix of ages, some adults, some kids, some >>teens. >>>>>But also my parents' friends and their kids and >>>>>grandkids came to visit at times. Some came to stay >>>>>for dinner a few days after Christmas. I think my >>>>>eldest was a bit embarrassed because he had a crush >>>on >>>>>one of the girls his age. Unfortunately, convincing >>>my >>>>>nieces and nephews to try going naked is unlikely. >>>>>Sometimes the youngest few (around 6 or 7) will go >>>>>naked at the pool in summer. But for now our boys >>are >>>>>the only true nudists in the family. >>>>> >>>>>Skiing sounds like good fun! It's a shame the boys >>>>>can't do it naked. Even when it's cold, my boys >>enjoy >>>>>naked snowball fights. Have your boys ever done the >>>>>same? It makes sense unfortunately that you have to >>>>>find clothing optional hikes for the boys. >Sometimes >>>>>we get funny looks when the boys get out of the car >>>>>naked at the hiking trail. But I don't care, they >>are >>>>>allowed to hike naked and people should mind their >>>own >>>>>business! >>>>> >>>>>My kids received lots of clothes as well, go >figure. >>>>>We got our two younger boys a K'Nex set and a >>>Nintendo >>>>>game each. Our eldest plays guitar so we bought him >>a >>>>>new case and set of strings, and a polaroid camera >>>>>since he's been asking for one. >>>> >>>> >>>>Dear Ivana, >>>> >>>>I'm so glad to hear your boys were naked during the >>>>car ride. That's what I'd like to do with my own two >>>>sons. >>>>Unfortunately, here in Italy, leaving your house >>naked >>>>to get into a car, traveling naked, and then getting >>>>out of the car naked at your destination is not >>>>allowed. If we did so, we would be charged with >>>>"indecent exposure in a public place". As I wrote to >>>>you last time, it's a bigoted country with bigoted >>>>laws! Perhaps you could start from a secluded house >>in >>>>the countryside/mountains where no one sees you and >>>>end up at a nudist campsite. But along the way >>someone >>>>looked at them strangely (but I don't care, like >you) >>>>but it would be a problem if they alerted the police >>>>or child protection. I think there's nothing wrong >>>>with letting your boys be naked, but according to >>>>Italian law, it's only allowed in your own home or >on >>>>nudist beaches or "clothing optional" hiking >>trails... >>>>I completely disagree, but I'll go along with it. I >>>>totally agree with you when you write "people should >>>>mind their own business!". >>>>The idea of ​​having your nieces and nephews >>naked >>>>was simply to make your sons feel more comfortable >>and >>>>to give your nieces and nephews an experience that, >>>>while it might be embarrassing at first, will >>>>ultimately boost their self-esteem and they'll >>>>definitely enjoy it. But I understand that every >>>>family has its own rules, and it's not right to >>>>interfere. Sorry! >>>>I asked you the ages of the people your eldest son >>>>didn't know, just to see if his embarrassment was >>>>understandable (in part) or excessive. If they had >>all >>>>been adults it would certainly have been excessive >>and >>>>senseless, if they had only been boys even in this >>>>case it was probably excessive and senseless, mixed >>>>age and mixed sex is a little more understandable, >>>>even if unmotivated. He must always be comfortable >>>>with his naked body, regardless of who is looking at >>>>him! But if he had a crush on one of the girls his >>>>age, that's more understandable... Poor guy! I'm >>sure >>>>the girl would have appreciated him being naked, but >>>>if I were her, I would have done it... When friends >>or >>>>acquaintances come to our house to visit (whether >>they >>>>are alone or with their children), my boys are left >>>>naked so I have to agree with how you handled the >>>>situation. >>>> >>>>Yes, skiing is great fun! The boys, and my husband >>and >>>>I, have a blast! It would be interesting to try >>skiing >>>>naked, but it's illegal here, and with temperatures >>of >>>>-10°C and the speed of the descent, they'd arrive >>>>back down frozen like popsicles... lol... Having >>>>snowball fights naked is a different matter... that >>>>could be done if you had a private yard. We live in >a >>>>city apartment building with no yard, but my parents >>>>live in the country, with a large private yard >>(though >>>>partially visible from the street and partially >>>>protected by a tall hedge), and when my children >stay >>>>at their grandparents' house, they play naked not >>only >>>>indoors but also outside in the yard. When your kids >>>>have a snowball fight, do the neighbors see them? >>>>Don't they say anything? Lucky you, I wish it were >>>>that way here too... >>>> >>>>So useful gifts (clothes) (even if not at home, >>>>lol...) and toys, like us... nice K'Nex sets! It's >>>>great to know how to play guitar! I'm terrible at >it, >>>>but my husband is good... It's a beautiful passion, >I >>>>hope for his sake he continues to play... >>>> >>>>As I wrote last time, school starts again tomorrow, >>>>January 7th, after the Christmas holidays. When does >>>>it start where you are? >>> >>>Dear Anna, >>> >>>I'm sorry things seem so restrictive in Italy. I'm >>>glad your children nonetheless get to experience the >>>joys of being naked as much as they can. >>> >>>We live in a very rural area, so no neighbours can >see >>>our yard. And regardless, attitudes here are very >>>relaxed. I doubt anyone would say anything if they >>>happened to see some kids playing naked on their own >>>property. Especially during the summer when it is >hot. >>>Given the time of year, and the age of our boys, yes >>>it might be more unusual, but still I doubt anyone >>>would mind. I understand it is different in cities >and >>>towns. There is a wooded area with a stream behind >our >>>property, and the boys often play and explore there, >>>naked of course. I'm glad you agree that others >should >>>mind their own business! >>> >>>No need to apologize about asking about my nieces and >>>nephews. It's just that unfortunately their parents >>>(my siblings and my husband's siblings) do not allow >>>them to go naked often. And we have to respect their >>>wishes of course. About my son's embarrassment during >>>the holidays, I agree completely with what you said: >>>"he must always be comfortable with his naked body, >>>regardless of who is looking at him". This is the >>>attitude we have tried to encourage in our boys. We >>>try to remind them that there's no need to be >>>embarrassed about silly things like butts and >penises. >>> >>>About skiing, that all makes sense. I suppose it >would >>>be quite cold! I just thought it was a nice mental >>>image, boys skating down the side of a mountain, >>>completely naked and free except for their ski boots >>>and skis, feeling the rush of wind and snow on their >>>bare skins and letting their body parts hang freely >in >>>the breeze without a care in the world. All before >>>reaching the bottom and taking the ski lift to do it >>>all again. But I can imagine it could be too cold. >But >>>you should have your boys try going out naked in the >>>snow if you can. You will have to judge if it is too >>>cold for them, but our boys always enjoy it, >>>especially with a hot cocoa afterwards. One adapts to >>>the cold quicker than you might think! >>> >>>Yes, my eldest is getting quite good at the guitar. >He >>>loves rock music, and likes a lot of the same music >>>that my husband likes, as well as some newer music >his >>>friends introduced him to. We have a tutor come to >the >>>house every week to teach him, since the school does >>>not offer lessons. Of course, he wants to be a rock >>>star when he grows up! >>> >>>School started again for the boys on Monday. So their >>>naked holiday has come to an end. But of course, as >>>soon as they are home, the clothes still all come >off! >> >> >> >>Dear Ivana, >> >>How I envy you… I would also love to live in a rural >>area and have a yard around where my sons could play >>freely and naked. Unfortunately, living in an >>apartment building in the center of a large city has >>the advantages of nearby services, schools, hospitals, >>libraries, and gyms, but the disadvantage of little >>greenery, little privacy, and little freedom… I >>would much rather live like you. >> >>Regarding your nieces and nephews, I understand >>perfectly and I agree with you: we must respect the >>wishes and choices of their parents. As I wrote last >>time, I didn't want you to interfere in their choices; >>I just wanted to understand if they needed a little >>encouragement (because I believe they are missing out >>on a very valuable and formative opportunity for their >>personality and future character development) or if it >>was something unthinkable for them. Now it's clear to >>me, thank you. I'm glad you agree that "he must always >>be comfortable with his naked body, regardless of who >>is looking at him". Because that's exactly what we're >>trying to teach our two sons. They should consider >>their butts and penises like any other part of their >>body, such as a hand, a foot, a knee, or an arm. My >>husband and I are very proud because, on most >>occasions, even with friends or people they've never >>met, and even when accompanied by their children, they >>feel comfortable. Of course, there are occasional >>moments of awkwardness, but they are very rare and >>short-lived. >> >>About skiing, you're absolutely right: it's a >>beautiful mental image. I'm trying to imagine it right >>now, and it would be wonderful! It would be fantastic >>if my sons could do that. It's a real shame that it's >>not possible! We've never tried letting them play >>naked in the snow. The next time it snows, we could go >>to my parents' house and try it there. My parents >>would be against it, for fear that the children would >>catch a cold and get sick… but I think it would be >>fun to try… >> >>Music is a wonderful passion, and the guitar is a >>powerful instrument… It can be sweet and harsh, >>romantic or rock… I'm glad your son is good at >>playing it and is studying it weekly. Let's hope he >>manages to fulfill his dream and become a famous rock >>star > >Dear Anna, > >I'm glad you're teaching your sons to have a healthy >and open attitude towards their bodies, to "consider >their butts and penises like any other part of their >body, such as a hand, a foot, a knee, or an arm". It's >clear your sons have really understood this, from the >fact (as you told Scamptoo) that your son stood >politely without complaining or moving away as his >aunt and cousin inspected and caressed his pubic area >and held his penis. As you said, he has been naked in >front of them hundreds of times, so there should be no >embarrassment. Of course there was nothing sexual >about it, even if your son's penis did harden very >slightly (a natural response!). I don't even see it as >particularly intimate. If we really teach our boys >that their penises and butts are just like any other >body parts (like arms or legs), not to be hidden away >or to be embarrassed about, then that moment between >your son and his cousin and aunt is really no >different than your aunt complementing your son on >having a nice haircut, or shaking his hand, or holding >his hand to complement his nails if he had them >painted, to give some examples. All completely normal >things, even if a teenager might blush a little bit at >any such complement! > >This can all be difficult of course when boys are >forever being told that being naked is shameful, by >school, by the government, by the media, and so on. My >middle boy told me that in the changing room in >school, most boys bring a towel to hide behind while >they change. He does not understand why his classmates >are all so worried about other boys seeing their butt >cheeks and penises, normal things that all boys have! >He told me that he pointed this out one time, and was >teased for "being gay" (they used more colourful >language of course). Likewise, when my eldest started >sexual education at school, he told me he already knew >far more than anyone else in his class, which >surprised me at the time since in my opinion it's a >mother's job to teach their children about these >things! We have never hidden the facts of life from >them, from talking about puberty and how their bodies >will change, to answering questions they have asked >about body hair and condoms and masturbation. I know >some parents find these discussions uncomfortable, but >I believe it's my duty as a mother to ensure my >children are knowledgeable about the facts of life. > >In any case, I'm glad your boys, like mine, are >comfortable being naked, even around strangers. Dear Ivana, Sorry for the delay in responding, but these have been very busy days, both at work and with family issues. Anyway, here I am now. Thank you so much for your kind words, which support me in this educational choice my husband and I are making. I had the opportunity to talk to my son about it after my post, and he confirmed what you wrote. He hadn't noticed he was blushing because he wasn't embarrassed by what his aunt was doing and saying. The fact that his aunt and then her cousin caressed his pubic area, feeling how smooth and soft it was, felt to him as if they were touching his leg or arm. That's what he told me. He was comfortable and not at all embarrassed. He was embarrassed by the compliments, not by the touches. He would have blushed even if someone had told him he looked better with his new haircut or because he'd grown taller. Another source of slight, very slight, embarrassment was his cousin's gesture on his penis. They usually play naked, but she doesn't touch his genitals; it was something unexpected that surprised him. But no problem, and no real embarrassment. A blush from the compliments and surprise, which I had interpreted as embarrassment. But he told me he was comfortable. What your middle boy told you surprises me a little (but not too much) and makes me sad (for them). This excessive modesty and shame among classmates makes absolutely no sense, especially given their young age! It's incredible how cultural, social, scholastic, family and social media conditioning can end up making boys feel so uncomfortable! Poor things! I feel so sorry for them! Comfort your son, give him a hug from me, and tell him not to listen to those silly boys! He's certainly not gay because he's naked in the locker room (and in any case, there would be nothing wrong with your son being gay). And associating nudity with being gay speaks volumes about how much kids today are learning from their environment. It's better if I don't comment further. My husband and I have also talked about these topics with our children. We've never been embarrassed to do so openly with them, ever since they were old enough to understand. We started even when they were very young, using age-appropriate terms, and as they grew older, we explained everything to them: puberty, masturbation, the male and female body, the changing body... We also believe that early education on these topics should take place within the family, and sex education classes at school are also very helpful. Thank you! I'm also glad that my boys, like yours, are comfortable being naked, even around strangers. I think this should be the norm, not the attitude of your middle boy's classmates! [ Post a Reply to This Message ]

[> [> [> [> [> [> [> [> [> [> [> [> [> [> [> [> [> [> [> [> [> [> [> [> [> [> [> [> [> [> [> Subject: Re: After school Rituals Author: Ivana [ Edit | View ] Date Posted: 16:58:06 01/28/26 Wed Author Host/IP: 45.84.107.54 Dear Anna, No need to apologize for any delay in responding, I understand life gets in the way! As has happened with me in the last few weeks! I am so glad to hear your son's thoughts on his experience with his aunt and cousin. Your son's attitude to nudity and to his body is extremely healthy. I'm so glad that he understands that his penis and butt are no different than any of his other body parts, like his arms and legs. They're all just natural things. He should feel no shame if people compliment him or want to touch his penis or butt, especially people who he has been naked in front of hundreds of times before. I suppose the lesson for him (and for all teenage boys) is to learn not to be so embarrassed to receive compliments! Yes, I agree with everything you said about the comments from my middle boy's classmates. They have been conditioned to be uncomfortable with their own bodies from such a young age. Don't worry, my middle son is very comfortable in his own skin, and understands that he is not weird for being comfortable being naked in front of others. Like your sons, he doesn't see his 'private' body parts as 'private' at all, so does not understand why the boys in his class are so ashamed of people seeing their butts and penises. Over Christmas, my husband's sister (a nurse) commented on how much he's grown, and held his penis in her hand. It did not bother him slightly. I have some exciting news. My eldest son this year has decided to start a band with some friends (two boys) from school. We have an old drum kit (my husband's) and a keyboard, so my son begged us to let them practice in our living room. We are worried of course that the noise may be disruptive for our other boys and my husband (he works from home often). And we are worried that having clothed boys around the house regularly may form a bad impression for our younger boys. But we also want our son to make friends and to explore his musical self at this point in his life. So we have decided to let them practice at our house, on the condition that the boys all practice naked. My son is very excited. I'm very glad to hear that you talk openly with your boys about puberty, their bodies, and so on (of course, from our conversations so far, I had no doubts that this was the case!). I think you must be a wonderful mother. [ Post a Reply to This Message ]

[> [> [> [> [> [> [> [> [> [> [> [> [> [> [> [> [> [> [> [> [> [> [> [> [> [> [> [> [> [> [> [> Subject: Re: After school Rituals Author: Anna [ Edit | View ] Date Posted: 15:36:03 02/03/26 Tue Author Host/IP: 93.88.156.8 >Dear Anna, > >No need to apologize for any delay in responding, I >understand life gets in the way! As has happened with >me in the last few weeks! > >I am so glad to hear your son's thoughts on his >experience with his aunt and cousin. Your son's >attitude to nudity and to his body is extremely >healthy. I'm so glad that he understands that his >penis and butt are no different than any of his other >body parts, like his arms and legs. They're all just >natural things. He should feel no shame if people >compliment him or want to touch his penis or butt, >especially people who he has been naked in front of >hundreds of times before. I suppose the lesson for him >(and for all teenage boys) is to learn not to be so >embarrassed to receive compliments! > >Yes, I agree with everything you said about the >comments from my middle boy's classmates. They have >been conditioned to be uncomfortable with their own >bodies from such a young age. Don't worry, my middle >son is very comfortable in his own skin, and >understands that he is not weird for being comfortable >being naked in front of others. Like your sons, he >doesn't see his 'private' body parts as 'private' at >all, so does not understand why the boys in his class >are so ashamed of people seeing their butts and >penises. Over Christmas, my husband's sister (a nurse) >commented on how much he's grown, and held his penis >in her hand. It did not bother him slightly. > >I have some exciting news. My eldest son this year has >decided to start a band with some friends (two boys) >from school. We have an old drum kit (my husband's) >and a keyboard, so my son begged us to let them >practice in our living room. We are worried of course >that the noise may be disruptive for our other boys >and my husband (he works from home often). And we are >worried that having clothed boys around the house >regularly may form a bad impression for our younger >boys. But we also want our son to make friends and to >explore his musical self at this point in his life. So >we have decided to let them practice at our house, on >the condition that the boys all practice naked. My son >is very excited. > >I'm very glad to hear that you talk openly with your >boys about puberty, their bodies, and so on (of >course, from our conversations so far, I had no doubts >that this was the case!). I think you must be a >wonderful mother. Dear Ivana, Here I am, finally. Work and family commitments have kept me from accessing the forum as often as I would have liked. Thank you so much for your kind words, I think you must be a wonderful mother too! I too am so glad and proud of what my son thinks about his body, his attitude to nudity and how he behaved with his aunt and cousin. And I completely agree when you write « They're all just natural things. He should feel no shame if people compliment him or want to touch his penis or butt, especially people who he has been naked in front of hundreds of times before. I suppose the lesson for him (and for all teenage boys) is to learn not to be so embarrassed to receive compliments! ». We think exactly the same way on this! I'm so glad your middle son is very comfortable in his own skin, and understands that he is not weird for being comfortable being naked in front of others. That's right! Great that he wasn't the least bit bothered by your husband's sister holding his penis in her hand while commenting on how much he'd grown. That's great! You already wrote to me about your eldest son's passion for rock music and the guitar. It's great that he can practice with some friends in a small band... I'm so happy for him! It's been a few days since your email. Have they already played at your house, or do they still have to? How did it go? How did his friends react to the news that they'll have to practice naked? Are they used to stay naked at their home, or is it new to them? Are they embarrassed or comfortable? I think you made the right decision. [ Post a Reply to This Message ]

[> [> [> [> [> [> [> [> [> [> [> [> [> [> [> [> [> [> [> [> [> [> [> [> [> [> [> [> [> [> [> [> [> Subject: Re: After school Rituals Author: Ivana [ Edit | View ] Date Posted: 18:41:08 02/03/26 Tue Author Host/IP: 185.220.101.27 Dear Anna, Glad to hear from you again. Yes, my son's friends came over to play music this week. It all went very well! Yes, both of them were a little bit surprised when I told them that they will be practicing with no clothes on. They are not usually naked at home, so it was a new experience for them both. I think they were a little bit embarrassed, but it was no big deal. After they were playing for a bit, I came in to offer them all tea, and both of my son's friends had erections, one playing the bass guitar, one playing the keyboard. My son was playing the drums. But of course this is a natural reaction for boys that age! Afterwards I made them all lunch, and the three of them played basketball naked in the back yard. I think they had a good time. They will be back for practice again later this week. [ Post a Reply to This Message ]

[> [> [> [> [> [> [> [> [> [> [> [> [> [> [> [> [> [> [> [> [> [> [> [> [> [> [> [> [> [> [> [> [> [> Subject: Re: After school Rituals Author: Anna [ Edit | View ] Date Posted: 13:58:36 02/05/26 Thu Author Host/IP: 149.88.18.240 >Dear Anna, > >Glad to hear from you again. Yes, my son's friends >came over to play music this week. It all went very >well! Yes, both of them were a little bit surprised >when I told them that they will be practicing with no >clothes on. They are not usually naked at home, so it >was a new experience for them both. I think they were >a little bit embarrassed, but it was no big deal. >After they were playing for a bit, I came in to offer >them all tea, and both of my son's friends had >erections, one playing the bass guitar, one playing >the keyboard. My son was playing the drums. But of >course this is a natural reaction for boys that age! >Afterwards I made them all lunch, and the three of >them played basketball naked in the back yard. I think >they had a good time. They will be back for practice >again later this week. Dear Ivana, that's fantastic! I'm so glad that your son's two friends agreed to practice naked at your home. And this is even more important and a great achievement, considering that they are not usually naked at home. Since it was a new experience for both of them, I think it's natural that they were a little embarrassed, especially at the beginning. But if they had grown up naked like my sons and yours, they wouldn't have even had this slight embarrassment; there wouldn't have been any problem at all. It was perfectly natural that both of them experienced erections in a situation like that, and at that age. My sons often experience it too. When you came in to offer them tea and saw them with their erections, what was their reaction? Were they embarrassed or comfortable? Another great achievement is that they decided to play basketball naked in the back yard. I hope that having experienced the freedom of playing/practicing naked, they will want to repeat this experience, not only when they come back to your house next weekend, but also when they are at their own home. This would be an important step for them. I'm curious to see how they will behave next weekend and if they will be more at ease. [ Post a Reply to This Message ]

[> [> [> [> [> [> [> [> [> [> [> [> [> [> [> [> [> [> [> [> [> [> [> [> [> Subject: Re: After school Rituals Author: scamptoo to Anna [ Edit | View ] Date Posted: 13:35:50 01/06/26 Tue Author Host/IP: 24.57.206.80 >>>>Dear Anna, >>>> >>>>I apologize for not replying to so long. The holiday >>>>period has just been so busy!! >>>> >>>>To answer your questions about my son's shaving, >>>>sometimes his siblings do see, but usually not. We >>>>used to shave him in the bathroom, but we realised >it >>>>is easiest if he can lie on his back and put his >legs >>>>and arms in the air, so more recently we have been >>>>using the kitchen table. So yes, normally it is just >>>>the two of us, but occasionally someone will walk in >>>>to get a snack or a glass of water. About any >>>>embarrassment, he is used to the routine, so he only >>>>gets embarrassed if someone walks in or if I make a >>>>comment (the usual "Moooom!"). >>>> >>>>I'm sorry your son was teased in the shower. It >>sounds >>>>like you gave him good advise to handle situations >>>>like that going forwards. >>>> >>>>I hope you are having a happy holiday and New Year. >>>>How are your boys? I would love to hear back from >>you. >>>>:-) >>> >>> >>>Dear Ivana, >>> >>>It's so nice to hear from you again! >>> >>>There's no need to apologize. I also sometimes have >>>days full of work and family commitments and don't >>>have time to log on to the forum. >>>And with the holidays, I've also been very busy with >>>preparations, so I haven't been very active online. >>> >>>We usually do it in the bathroom too. Apart from the >>>first time, which I've already described, and the >>>subsequent time when my younger brother wanted to >>>watch the whole shaving process and asked questions >>>and made comments, from the third time onwards it's >>>always just been the two of us. I don't mind, in >fact, >>>I prefer it, so I can use this intimate moment to >talk >>>to him and strengthen our bond since it's just the >two >>>of us. I thought I would have more difficulty >>>convincing him to get shaved, but he's practically >>>already gotten used to it and lets me do the job >>>without complaining; in fact, he's quite willing… >I >>>wouldn't have bet two cents on it… >>>I'm glad that, even though he's older than my son, >>>he's used to you and doesn't feel embarrassed around >>>you… Your son is very well-behaved. >>>The idea of ​​using the kitchen table is >>>interesting… I might try that with my son next >time. >>> >>>Unfortunately, there's always some silly kid around. >>>However, he told me that after the first two or three >>>times, nobody makes fun of him anymore in the shower. >>>I'm very happy about that. Thank you for your kind >>>words. >>> >>>My children are doing very well, thank you! And >yours? >>>Since our last post, my eldest son has turned 13. For >>>these holidays, first, we spent a few days in the >>>mountains, then we celebrated New Year's Eve at our >>>house with my brother, his wife, and their two >>>children who came over for dinner. My two sons and my >>>nephew, as usual, were naked. They only had a >colorful >>>paper hat on their heads. >> >>Dear Anna. Happy birthday to your son. Thirteen is a >>big year, his first as a teenager. I'm glad you and >>the family have had some time to relax during the >>holidays. Our family enjoys the mountains too. We >>often go hiking. Of course, the boys hike in the nude. >>It's a little cold this time of year, but the boys are >>used to it. How was your time in the mountains? >> >>On shaving, we really do find the kitchen table to be >>much more convenient than anywhere else. Let me know >>how it goes if you decide to try it. >> >>Thank you for the lovely image of your sons and nephew >>wearing nothing except for their colourful party hats. >>Our boys have been naked for the holidays too. We >>spent Christmas at my parents' house. Since my parents >>live a six hour drive away, we stayed for four nights. >>Of course we didn't pack any clothes for the boys, so >>they were naked for the whole trip. All the family was >>there, from my aunts and uncles down to my nieces and >>nephews. Our boys were the only ones naked as usual. >>My eldest at one point got a bit embarrassed since >>there were many people there he didn't know, and he >>asked if he could put on some underwear, but I >>reminded him that unfortunately we had packed no >>clothes for him. In any case he seemed to have relaxed >>not long after. >> >>The boys are doing well. Lots of Christmas presents >>and time with friends and family, and not a piece of >>clothing worn. What did your kids get for Christmas? >>Soon it will be back to school and back to wearing >>clothes for the boys, at least during the week. > >Dear Ivana, > >Thank you so much for the birthday wishes for my son. >Yes, thirteen years old is a big year, his first as a >teenager. >To think that it seems like he was born Yesterday… >how fast time flies… but for me he will always >remain my "little boy"… lol… now that he's shaved, >he still looks "little boy" even though his penis >isn't so "little" anymore… lol… > >We also enjoy hiking in the mountains. In the summer, >we often go hiking, and of course, my two boys also >hike naked. Unfortunately, it's not allowed everywhere >in Italy; it's a bigoted country with bigoted laws, so >you have to look for trails or mountains where it's >permitted (clothing optional hikes). We now know which >ones and where they are, and we go there. There are >only a few places where it's permitted to hike naked, >so we often return to the same places, but that's >fine, the important thing is to be outdoors and do >some exercise away from the city. In the mountains >"not too far" from our home, it's quite cold at this >time of year. (this week we've had temperatures >between -10 and +1 degrees Celsius), too cold to be >naked outdoors while hiking (we'll have to wait until >late spring/summer). We went skiing. There was a lot >of snow, perfect slopes, and the boys had a great time. > >On shaving, I've decided to try the kitchen table >method. He doesn't need it right now, but I think I'll >have to shave him next week. I'll definitely try it >and let you know. Thanks for the suggestion for now. > >We have many similar rituals then… even your boys >stay naked during the holidays. In fact, the three of >them were very very cute and adorable, wearing nothing >except for their colourful party hats. It's a shame >that your boys are the only ones who are naked; at >least mine have their male cousin (my nephew) with >them. You should convince your nephews to try it, even >just once… I think they would like it… They might >be a little embarrassed at first, but then they would >get used to it and enjoy it. How old are your nieces >and nephews? Did you make them stay naked even during >the six-hour car journey to your parents' house, or >were they dressed during the journey and only naked at >their grandparents' house? Were the people your eldest >son didn't know adults or teenagers? You did very well >not to pack any clothes in the suitcase for the boys. >Otherwise, your eldest son would have insisted on >wearing his underwear. Instead, he was "forced" to >remain naked, but as you wrote, he seemed to have >relaxed not long after. The boys should actually be >naked: no pajamas, no underwear, no clothes at all. > >As gifts, my children received useful things (shoes, >trousers and sweaters… for when they go to school >– they don't need them at home, lol…) and then >toys. They love Lego, so they each received a set: The >Fire Knight Mech (from the Ninjago series) and The >Imperial Star Destroyer (from the Star Wars series), >and two games for the PlayStation 5. What did your >boys get for Christmas? Here in Italy, students will >return to school on January 7th. Unfortunately for >them, only a few days remain; the holidays are almost >over… And yes, they'll have to get dressed, but only >in the morning, because as soon as they get home, the >ritual hasn't changed: all the clothes come off >immediately! If you shave him on the kitchen table wouldn't you miss the private bonding times in the bathroom, or would you restrict others from using the kitchen while you shave the boy so that it would still be a private bonding experience?? . [ Post a Reply to This Message ]

[> [> [> [> [> [> [> [> [> [> [> [> [> [> [> [> [> [> [> [> [> [> [> [> [> [> Subject: Re: After school Rituals Author: Anna [ Edit | View ] Date Posted: 10:53:47 01/07/26 Wed Author Host/IP: 190.2.149.245 >>>>>Dear Anna, >>>>> >>>>>I apologize for not replying to so long. The >holiday >>>>>period has just been so busy!! >>>>> >>>>>To answer your questions about my son's shaving, >>>>>sometimes his siblings do see, but usually not. We >>>>>used to shave him in the bathroom, but we realised >>it >>>>>is easiest if he can lie on his back and put his >>legs >>>>>and arms in the air, so more recently we have been >>>>>using the kitchen table. So yes, normally it is >just >>>>>the two of us, but occasionally someone will walk >in >>>>>to get a snack or a glass of water. About any >>>>>embarrassment, he is used to the routine, so he >only >>>>>gets embarrassed if someone walks in or if I make a >>>>>comment (the usual "Moooom!"). >>>>> >>>>>I'm sorry your son was teased in the shower. It >>>sounds >>>>>like you gave him good advise to handle situations >>>>>like that going forwards. >>>>> >>>>>I hope you are having a happy holiday and New Year. >>>>>How are your boys? I would love to hear back from >>>you. >>>>>:-) >>>> >>>> >>>>Dear Ivana, >>>> >>>>It's so nice to hear from you again! >>>> >>>>There's no need to apologize. I also sometimes have >>>>days full of work and family commitments and don't >>>>have time to log on to the forum. >>>>And with the holidays, I've also been very busy with >>>>preparations, so I haven't been very active online. >>>> >>>>We usually do it in the bathroom too. Apart from the >>>>first time, which I've already described, and the >>>>subsequent time when my younger brother wanted to >>>>watch the whole shaving process and asked questions >>>>and made comments, from the third time onwards it's >>>>always just been the two of us. I don't mind, in >>fact, >>>>I prefer it, so I can use this intimate moment to >>talk >>>>to him and strengthen our bond since it's just the >>two >>>>of us. I thought I would have more difficulty >>>>convincing him to get shaved, but he's practically >>>>already gotten used to it and lets me do the job >>>>without complaining; in fact, he's quite willing… >>I >>>>wouldn't have bet two cents on it… >>>>I'm glad that, even though he's older than my son, >>>>he's used to you and doesn't feel embarrassed around >>>>you… Your son is very well-behaved. >>>>The idea of ​​using the kitchen table is >>>>interesting… I might try that with my son next >>time. >>>> >>>>Unfortunately, there's always some silly kid around. >>>>However, he told me that after the first two or >three >>>>times, nobody makes fun of him anymore in the >shower. >>>>I'm very happy about that. Thank you for your kind >>>>words. >>>> >>>>My children are doing very well, thank you! And >>yours? >>>>Since our last post, my eldest son has turned 13. >For >>>>these holidays, first, we spent a few days in the >>>>mountains, then we celebrated New Year's Eve at our >>>>house with my brother, his wife, and their two >>>>children who came over for dinner. My two sons and >my >>>>nephew, as usual, were naked. They only had a >>colorful >>>>paper hat on their heads. >>> >>>Dear Anna. Happy birthday to your son. Thirteen is a >>>big year, his first as a teenager. I'm glad you and >>>the family have had some time to relax during the >>>holidays. Our family enjoys the mountains too. We >>>often go hiking. Of course, the boys hike in the >nude. >>>It's a little cold this time of year, but the boys >are >>>used to it. How was your time in the mountains? >>> >>>On shaving, we really do find the kitchen table to be >>>much more convenient than anywhere else. Let me know >>>how it goes if you decide to try it. >>> >>>Thank you for the lovely image of your sons and >nephew >>>wearing nothing except for their colourful party >hats. >>>Our boys have been naked for the holidays too. We >>>spent Christmas at my parents' house. Since my >parents >>>live a six hour drive away, we stayed for four >nights. >>>Of course we didn't pack any clothes for the boys, so >>>they were naked for the whole trip. All the family >was >>>there, from my aunts and uncles down to my nieces and >>>nephews. Our boys were the only ones naked as usual. >>>My eldest at one point got a bit embarrassed since >>>there were many people there he didn't know, and he >>>asked if he could put on some underwear, but I >>>reminded him that unfortunately we had packed no >>>clothes for him. In any case he seemed to have >relaxed >>>not long after. >>> >>>The boys are doing well. Lots of Christmas presents >>>and time with friends and family, and not a piece of >>>clothing worn. What did your kids get for Christmas? >>>Soon it will be back to school and back to wearing >>>clothes for the boys, at least during the week. >> >>Dear Ivana, >> >>Thank you so much for the birthday wishes for my son. >>Yes, thirteen years old is a big year, his first as a >>teenager. >>To think that it seems like he was born Yesterday… >>how fast time flies… but for me he will always >>remain my "little boy"… lol… now that he's shaved, >>he still looks "little boy" even though his penis >>isn't so "little" anymore… lol… >> >>We also enjoy hiking in the mountains. In the summer, >>we often go hiking, and of course, my two boys also >>hike naked. Unfortunately, it's not allowed everywhere >>in Italy; it's a bigoted country with bigoted laws, so >>you have to look for trails or mountains where it's >>permitted (clothing optional hikes). We now know which >>ones and where they are, and we go there. There are >>only a few places where it's permitted to hike naked, >>so we often return to the same places, but that's >>fine, the important thing is to be outdoors and do >>some exercise away from the city. In the mountains >>"not too far" from our home, it's quite cold at this >>time of year. (this week we've had temperatures >>between -10 and +1 degrees Celsius), too cold to be >>naked outdoors while hiking (we'll have to wait until >>late spring/summer). We went skiing. There was a lot >>of snow, perfect slopes, and the boys had a great >time. >> >>On shaving, I've decided to try the kitchen table >>method. He doesn't need it right now, but I think I'll >>have to shave him next week. I'll definitely try it >>and let you know. Thanks for the suggestion for now. >> >>We have many similar rituals then… even your boys >>stay naked during the holidays. In fact, the three of >>them were very very cute and adorable, wearing nothing >>except for their colourful party hats. It's a shame >>that your boys are the only ones who are naked; at >>least mine have their male cousin (my nephew) with >>them. You should convince your nephews to try it, even >>just once… I think they would like it… They might >>be a little embarrassed at first, but then they would >>get used to it and enjoy it. How old are your nieces >>and nephews? Did you make them stay naked even during >>the six-hour car journey to your parents' house, or >>were they dressed during the journey and only naked at >>their grandparents' house? Were the people your eldest >>son didn't know adults or teenagers? You did very well >>not to pack any clothes in the suitcase for the boys. >>Otherwise, your eldest son would have insisted on >>wearing his underwear. Instead, he was "forced" to >>remain naked, but as you wrote, he seemed to have >>relaxed not long after. The boys should actually be >>naked: no pajamas, no underwear, no clothes at all. >> >>As gifts, my children received useful things (shoes, >>trousers and sweaters… for when they go to school >>– they don't need them at home, lol…) and then >>toys. They love Lego, so they each received a set: The >>Fire Knight Mech (from the Ninjago series) and The >>Imperial Star Destroyer (from the Star Wars series), >>and two games for the PlayStation 5. What did your >>boys get for Christmas? Here in Italy, students will >>return to school on January 7th. Unfortunately for >>them, only a few days remain; the holidays are almost >>over… And yes, they'll have to get dressed, but only >>in the morning, because as soon as they get home, the >>ritual hasn't changed: all the clothes come off >>immediately! > >If you shave him on the kitchen table wouldn't you >miss the private bonding times in the bathroom, or >would you restrict others from using the kitchen while >you shave the boy so that it would still be a private >bonding experience?? > >. Hi scamptoo, I've decided that next Saturday (January 10th) I'll shave him on the kitchen table. I've thought about it for a bit and I think Ivana's right; it's probably more comfortable. I want to try it out. I absolutely don't want to miss this intimate moment to strengthen our bond. The kitchen will be off limits to everyone during the shaving process. I don't think my husband and youngest son will die of thirst or hunger during this time... 🤣🤣🤣 [ Post a Reply to This Message ]

[> [> [> [> [> [> [> [> [> [> [> [> [> [> [> [> [> [> [> [> [> [> [> [> Subject: Re: After school Rituals Author: scamptoo to Ivana [ Edit | View ] Date Posted: 13:27:59 01/06/26 Tue Author Host/IP: 24.57.206.80 >>>Dear Anna, >>> >>>I apologize for not replying to so long. The holiday >>>period has just been so busy!! >>> >>>To answer your questions about my son's shaving, >>>sometimes his siblings do see, but usually not. We >>>used to shave him in the bathroom, but we realised it >>>is easiest if he can lie on his back and put his legs >>>and arms in the air, so more recently we have been >>>using the kitchen table. So yes, normally it is just >>>the two of us, but occasionally someone will walk in >>>to get a snack or a glass of water. About any >>>embarrassment, he is used to the routine, so he only >>>gets embarrassed if someone walks in or if I make a >>>comment (the usual "Moooom!"). >>> >>>I'm sorry your son was teased in the shower. It >sounds >>>like you gave him good advise to handle situations >>>like that going forwards. >>> >>>I hope you are having a happy holiday and New Year. >>>How are your boys? I would love to hear back from >you. >>>:-) >> >> >>Dear Ivana, >> >>It's so nice to hear from you again! >> >>There's no need to apologize. I also sometimes have >>days full of work and family commitments and don't >>have time to log on to the forum. >>And with the holidays, I've also been very busy with >>preparations, so I haven't been very active online. >> >>We usually do it in the bathroom too. Apart from the >>first time, which I've already described, and the >>subsequent time when my younger brother wanted to >>watch the whole shaving process and asked questions >>and made comments, from the third time onwards it's >>always just been the two of us. I don't mind, in fact, >>I prefer it, so I can use this intimate moment to talk >>to him and strengthen our bond since it's just the two >>of us. I thought I would have more difficulty >>convincing him to get shaved, but he's practically >>already gotten used to it and lets me do the job >>without complaining; in fact, he's quite willing… I >>wouldn't have bet two cents on it… >>I'm glad that, even though he's older than my son, >>he's used to you and doesn't feel embarrassed around >>you… Your son is very well-behaved. >>The idea of ​​using the kitchen table is >>interesting… I might try that with my son next time. >> >>Unfortunately, there's always some silly kid around. >>However, he told me that after the first two or three >>times, nobody makes fun of him anymore in the shower. >>I'm very happy about that. Thank you for your kind >>words. >> >>My children are doing very well, thank you! And yours? >>Since our last post, my eldest son has turned 13. For >>these holidays, first, we spent a few days in the >>mountains, then we celebrated New Year's Eve at our >>house with my brother, his wife, and their two >>children who came over for dinner. My two sons and my >>nephew, as usual, were naked. They only had a colorful >>paper hat on their heads. > >Dear Anna. Happy birthday to your son. Thirteen is a >big year, his first as a teenager. I'm glad you and >the family have had some time to relax during the >holidays. Our family enjoys the mountains too. We >often go hiking. Of course, the boys hike in the nude. >It's a little cold this time of year, but the boys are >used to it. How was your time in the mountains? > >On shaving, we really do find the kitchen table to be >much more convenient than anywhere else. Let me know >how it goes if you decide to try it. > >Thank you for the lovely image of your sons and nephew >wearing nothing except for their colourful party hats. >Our boys have been naked for the holidays too. We >spent Christmas at my parents' house. Since my parents >live a six hour drive away, we stayed for four nights. >Of course we didn't pack any clothes for the boys, so >they were naked for the whole trip. All the family was >there, from my aunts and uncles down to my nieces and >nephews. Our boys were the only ones naked as usual. >My eldest at one point got a bit embarrassed since >there were many people there he didn't know, and he >asked if he could put on some underwear, but I >reminded him that unfortunately we had packed no >clothes for him. In any case he seemed to have relaxed >not long after. > >The boys are doing well. Lots of Christmas presents >and time with friends and family, and not a piece of >clothing worn. What did your kids get for Christmas? >Soon it will be back to school and back to wearing >clothes for the boys, at least during the week. What about when they get home from school, will they still be wearing cloths? . [ Post a Reply to This Message ]

[> [> [> [> [> [> [> [> [> [> [> [> [> [> [> [> [> [> [> [> [> [> [> [> [> Subject: Re: After school Rituals Author: Ivana [ Edit | View ] Date Posted: 09:36:08 01/07/26 Wed Author Host/IP: 109.70.100.7 >>>>Dear Anna, >>>> >>>>I apologize for not replying to so long. The holiday >>>>period has just been so busy!! >>>> >>>>To answer your questions about my son's shaving, >>>>sometimes his siblings do see, but usually not. We >>>>used to shave him in the bathroom, but we realised >it >>>>is easiest if he can lie on his back and put his >legs >>>>and arms in the air, so more recently we have been >>>>using the kitchen table. So yes, normally it is just >>>>the two of us, but occasionally someone will walk in >>>>to get a snack or a glass of water. About any >>>>embarrassment, he is used to the routine, so he only >>>>gets embarrassed if someone walks in or if I make a >>>>comment (the usual "Moooom!"). >>>> >>>>I'm sorry your son was teased in the shower. It >>sounds >>>>like you gave him good advise to handle situations >>>>like that going forwards. >>>> >>>>I hope you are having a happy holiday and New Year. >>>>How are your boys? I would love to hear back from >>you. >>>>:-) >>> >>> >>>Dear Ivana, >>> >>>It's so nice to hear from you again! >>> >>>There's no need to apologize. I also sometimes have >>>days full of work and family commitments and don't >>>have time to log on to the forum. >>>And with the holidays, I've also been very busy with >>>preparations, so I haven't been very active online. >>> >>>We usually do it in the bathroom too. Apart from the >>>first time, which I've already described, and the >>>subsequent time when my younger brother wanted to >>>watch the whole shaving process and asked questions >>>and made comments, from the third time onwards it's >>>always just been the two of us. I don't mind, in >fact, >>>I prefer it, so I can use this intimate moment to >talk >>>to him and strengthen our bond since it's just the >two >>>of us. I thought I would have more difficulty >>>convincing him to get shaved, but he's practically >>>already gotten used to it and lets me do the job >>>without complaining; in fact, he's quite willing… >I >>>wouldn't have bet two cents on it… >>>I'm glad that, even though he's older than my son, >>>he's used to you and doesn't feel embarrassed around >>>you… Your son is very well-behaved. >>>The idea of ​​using the kitchen table is >>>interesting… I might try that with my son next >time. >>> >>>Unfortunately, there's always some silly kid around. >>>However, he told me that after the first two or three >>>times, nobody makes fun of him anymore in the shower. >>>I'm very happy about that. Thank you for your kind >>>words. >>> >>>My children are doing very well, thank you! And >yours? >>>Since our last post, my eldest son has turned 13. For >>>these holidays, first, we spent a few days in the >>>mountains, then we celebrated New Year's Eve at our >>>house with my brother, his wife, and their two >>>children who came over for dinner. My two sons and my >>>nephew, as usual, were naked. They only had a >colorful >>>paper hat on their heads. >> >>Dear Anna. Happy birthday to your son. Thirteen is a >>big year, his first as a teenager. I'm glad you and >>the family have had some time to relax during the >>holidays. Our family enjoys the mountains too. We >>often go hiking. Of course, the boys hike in the nude. >>It's a little cold this time of year, but the boys are >>used to it. How was your time in the mountains? >> >>On shaving, we really do find the kitchen table to be >>much more convenient than anywhere else. Let me know >>how it goes if you decide to try it. >> >>Thank you for the lovely image of your sons and nephew >>wearing nothing except for their colourful party hats. >>Our boys have been naked for the holidays too. We >>spent Christmas at my parents' house. Since my parents >>live a six hour drive away, we stayed for four nights. >>Of course we didn't pack any clothes for the boys, so >>they were naked for the whole trip. All the family was >>there, from my aunts and uncles down to my nieces and >>nephews. Our boys were the only ones naked as usual. >>My eldest at one point got a bit embarrassed since >>there were many people there he didn't know, and he >>asked if he could put on some underwear, but I >>reminded him that unfortunately we had packed no >>clothes for him. In any case he seemed to have relaxed >>not long after. >> >>The boys are doing well. Lots of Christmas presents >>and time with friends and family, and not a piece of >>clothing worn. What did your kids get for Christmas? >>Soon it will be back to school and back to wearing >>clothes for the boys, at least during the week. > >What about when they get home from school, will they >still be wearing cloths? > >. No, the boys remove their clothes when they get home from school. :) [ Post a Reply to This Message ]

[> [> [> [> [> [> [> [> [> [> [> [> [> [> [> [> [> [> [> [> [> [> [> Subject: Re: After school Rituals Author: scamptoo to Anna [ Edit | View ] Date Posted: 13:22:57 01/06/26 Tue Author Host/IP: 24.57.206.80 >>Dear Anna, >> >>I apologize for not replying to so long. The holiday >>period has just been so busy!! >> >>To answer your questions about my son's shaving, >>sometimes his siblings do see, but usually not. We >>used to shave him in the bathroom, but we realised it >>is easiest if he can lie on his back and put his legs >>and arms in the air, so more recently we have been >>using the kitchen table. So yes, normally it is just >>the two of us, but occasionally someone will walk in >>to get a snack or a glass of water. About any >>embarrassment, he is used to the routine, so he only >>gets embarrassed if someone walks in or if I make a >>comment (the usual "Moooom!"). >> >>I'm sorry your son was teased in the shower. It sounds >>like you gave him good advise to handle situations >>like that going forwards. >> >>I hope you are having a happy holiday and New Year. >>How are your boys? I would love to hear back from you. >>:-) > > >Dear Ivana, > >It's so nice to hear from you again! > >There's no need to apologize. I also sometimes have >days full of work and family commitments and don't >have time to log on to the forum. >And with the holidays, I've also been very busy with >preparations, so I haven't been very active online. > >We usually do it in the bathroom too. Apart from the >first time, which I've already described, and the >subsequent time when my younger brother wanted to >watch the whole shaving process and asked questions >and made comments, from the third time onwards it's >always just been the two of us. I don't mind, in fact, >I prefer it, so I can use this intimate moment to talk >to him and strengthen our bond since it's just the two >of us. I thought I would have more difficulty >convincing him to get shaved, but he's practically >already gotten used to it and lets me do the job >without complaining; in fact, he's quite willing… I >wouldn't have bet two cents on it… >I'm glad that, even though he's older than my son, >he's used to you and doesn't feel embarrassed around >you… Your son is very well-behaved. >The idea of ​​using the kitchen table is >interesting… I might try that with my son next time. > >Unfortunately, there's always some silly kid around. >However, he told me that after the first two or three >times, nobody makes fun of him anymore in the shower. >I'm very happy about that. Thank you for your kind >words. > >My children are doing very well, thank you! And yours? >Since our last post, my eldest son has turned 13. For >these holidays, first, we spent a few days in the >mountains, then we celebrated New Year's Eve at our >house with my brother, his wife, and their two >children who came over for dinner. My two sons and my >nephew, as usual, were naked. They only had a colorful >paper hat on their heads. How did your brother and his wife react to seeing your son shaved? Did anyone in the family want to feel how smooth he is now down there? . [ Post a Reply to This Message ]

[> [> [> [> [> [> [> [> [> [> [> [> [> [> [> [> [> [> [> [> [> [> [> [> Subject: Re: After school Rituals Author: Anna [ Edit | View ] Date Posted: 13:37:58 01/07/26 Wed Author Host/IP: 146.70.230.101 >>>Dear Anna, >>> >>>I apologize for not replying to so long. The holiday >>>period has just been so busy!! >>> >>>To answer your questions about my son's shaving, >>>sometimes his siblings do see, but usually not. We >>>used to shave him in the bathroom, but we realised it >>>is easiest if he can lie on his back and put his legs >>>and arms in the air, so more recently we have been >>>using the kitchen table. So yes, normally it is just >>>the two of us, but occasionally someone will walk in >>>to get a snack or a glass of water. About any >>>embarrassment, he is used to the routine, so he only >>>gets embarrassed if someone walks in or if I make a >>>comment (the usual "Moooom!"). >>> >>>I'm sorry your son was teased in the shower. It >sounds >>>like you gave him good advise to handle situations >>>like that going forwards. >>> >>>I hope you are having a happy holiday and New Year. >>>How are your boys? I would love to hear back from >you. >>>:-) >> >> >>Dear Ivana, >> >>It's so nice to hear from you again! >> >>There's no need to apologize. I also sometimes have >>days full of work and family commitments and don't >>have time to log on to the forum. >>And with the holidays, I've also been very busy with >>preparations, so I haven't been very active online. >> >>We usually do it in the bathroom too. Apart from the >>first time, which I've already described, and the >>subsequent time when my younger brother wanted to >>watch the whole shaving process and asked questions >>and made comments, from the third time onwards it's >>always just been the two of us. I don't mind, in fact, >>I prefer it, so I can use this intimate moment to talk >>to him and strengthen our bond since it's just the two >>of us. I thought I would have more difficulty >>convincing him to get shaved, but he's practically >>already gotten used to it and lets me do the job >>without complaining; in fact, he's quite willing… I >>wouldn't have bet two cents on it… >>I'm glad that, even though he's older than my son, >>he's used to you and doesn't feel embarrassed around >>you… Your son is very well-behaved. >>The idea of ​​using the kitchen table is >>interesting… I might try that with my son next time. >> >>Unfortunately, there's always some silly kid around. >>However, he told me that after the first two or three >>times, nobody makes fun of him anymore in the shower. >>I'm very happy about that. Thank you for your kind >>words. >> >>My children are doing very well, thank you! And yours? >>Since our last post, my eldest son has turned 13. For >>these holidays, first, we spent a few days in the >>mountains, then we celebrated New Year's Eve at our >>house with my brother, his wife, and their two >>children who came over for dinner. My two sons and my >>nephew, as usual, were naked. They only had a colorful >>paper hat on their heads. > >How did your brother and his wife react to seeing your >son shaved? > >Did anyone in the family want to feel how smooth he is >now down there? > >. They were both very surprised. My brother because he has never shaved his pubic hair, armpits, or buttocks in his life, and therefore he didn't think I would shave my son who only had some fine downy hair. My sister-in-law, because she had seen him a few weeks earlier at the beginning of puberty, and since I hadn't said anything to them about shaving, I think she was curious to see how the hair had grown in the meantime and how his development was progressing. After the boys went into the other room to play, they asked me why I had decided to shave him, how he reacted, and if my husband agreed… In short, a lot of questions. They were very curious. My brother's wife said that besides being cleaner and neater, he looked much smoother down there. As she said this, she reached out and caressed his pubic area, commenting that it was indeed very smooth, that I'd done a great job, and that he looked much better this way. He blushed a little, thanking her in a low voice, but he didn't pull away from her and let her delicately inspect his entire pubic area for much longer than necessary… lol… She said I did a great job shaving it and as soon as her son is old enough to have pubic hair she will definitely shave it. My niece, seeing what her mother had done, said she also wanted to check how smooth her cousin was now. Without waiting for her cousin's reply, she reached out and ran her fingers over his cousin's pubic area, confirming what har mother had said. "WOW, you're really super smooth... I like your skin, it's so smooth, it feels like a baby's... but a baby doesn't have a penis that big… lol…" and as she said the last part, she grabbed the tip of his cousin's foreskin with two fingers, shook his penis a couple of times. My son was a little surprised by what his cousin was doing, he blushed again slightly, but he didn't scold her or pull her hand away. Although it was a little embarrassing for him, he was actually very pleased with these compliments because today he pointed out to me that the fuzz was growing back and asked when I would shave it again. [ Post a Reply to This Message ]

[> [> [> [> [> [> [> [> [> [> [> [> [> [> [> [> [> [> [> [> [> [> [> [> [> Subject: Re: After school Rituals Author: scamptoo to Anna [ Edit | View ] Date Posted: 14:24:28 01/07/26 Wed Author Host/IP: 24.57.206.80 > >They were both very surprised. My brother because he >has never shaved his pubic hair, armpits, or buttocks >in his life, and therefore he didn't think I would >shave my son who only had some fine downy hair. My >sister-in-law, because she had seen him a few weeks >earlier at the beginning of puberty, and since I >hadn't said anything to them about shaving, I think >she was curious to see how the hair had grown in the >meantime and how his development was progressing. >After the boys went into the other room to play, they >asked me why I had decided to shave him, how he >reacted, and if my husband agreed… In short, a lot >of questions. They were very curious. > >My brother's wife said that besides being cleaner and >neater, he looked much smoother down there. As she >said this, she reached out and caressed his pubic >area, commenting that it was indeed very smooth, that >I'd done a great job, and that he looked much better >this way. He blushed a little, thanking her in a low >voice, but he didn't pull away from her and let her >delicately inspect his entire pubic area for much >longer than necessary… lol… She said I did a great >job shaving it and as soon as her son is old enough to >have pubic hair she will definitely shave it. > >My niece, seeing what her mother had done, said she >also wanted to check how smooth her cousin was now. >Without waiting for her cousin's reply, she reached >out and ran her fingers over his cousin's pubic area, >confirming what har mother had said. "WOW, you're >really super smooth... I like your skin, it's so >smooth, it feels like a baby's... but a baby doesn't >have a penis that big… lol…" and as she said the >last part, she grabbed the tip of his cousin's >foreskin with two fingers, shook his penis a couple of >times. My son was a little surprised by what his >cousin was doing, he blushed again slightly, but he >didn't scold her or pull her hand away. > >Although it was a little embarrassing for him, he was >actually very pleased with these compliments because >today he pointed out to me that the fuzz was growing >back and asked when I would shave it again. Thanks for the reply to my questions. I wouldn't have thought that he would have shown any embarrassment to his aunt and his cousin feeling how smooth he is since he is naked all of the time at home, and the only difference is that they both felt how smooth he is. I got a bit of a chuckle when I read that his cousin grabbed the tip of his foreskin with two fingers and shook his penis a couple of times. Did he have any reaction to that shaking of his penis, other than being "a little surprised", like maybe 'chubing up' a bit? . [ Post a Reply to This Message ]

[> [> [> [> [> [> [> [> [> [> [> [> [> [> [> [> [> [> [> [> [> [> [> [> [> [> Subject: Re: After school Rituals Author: Anna [ Edit | View ] Date Posted: 14:43:38 01/07/26 Wed Author Host/IP: 146.70.230.101 > >> >>They were both very surprised. My brother because he >>has never shaved his pubic hair, armpits, or buttocks >>in his life, and therefore he didn't think I would >>shave my son who only had some fine downy hair. My >>sister-in-law, because she had seen him a few weeks >>earlier at the beginning of puberty, and since I >>hadn't said anything to them about shaving, I think >>she was curious to see how the hair had grown in the >>meantime and how his development was progressing. >>After the boys went into the other room to play, they >>asked me why I had decided to shave him, how he >>reacted, and if my husband agreed… In short, a lot >>of questions. They were very curious. >> >>My brother's wife said that besides being cleaner and >>neater, he looked much smoother down there. As she >>said this, she reached out and caressed his pubic >>area, commenting that it was indeed very smooth, that >>I'd done a great job, and that he looked much better >>this way. He blushed a little, thanking her in a low >>voice, but he didn't pull away from her and let her >>delicately inspect his entire pubic area for much >>longer than necessary… lol… She said I did a great >>job shaving it and as soon as her son is old enough to >>have pubic hair she will definitely shave it. >> >>My niece, seeing what her mother had done, said she >>also wanted to check how smooth her cousin was now. >>Without waiting for her cousin's reply, she reached >>out and ran her fingers over his cousin's pubic area, >>confirming what har mother had said. "WOW, you're >>really super smooth... I like your skin, it's so >>smooth, it feels like a baby's... but a baby doesn't >>have a penis that big… lol…" and as she said the >>last part, she grabbed the tip of his cousin's >>foreskin with two fingers, shook his penis a couple of >>times. My son was a little surprised by what his >>cousin was doing, he blushed again slightly, but he >>didn't scold her or pull her hand away. >> >>Although it was a little embarrassing for him, he was >>actually very pleased with these compliments because >>today he pointed out to me that the fuzz was growing >>back and asked when I would shave it again. > >Thanks for the reply to my questions. > >I wouldn't have thought that he would have shown any >embarrassment to his aunt and his cousin feeling how >smooth he is since he is naked all of the time at >home, and the only difference is that they both felt >how smooth he is. > >I got a bit of a chuckle when I read that his cousin >grabbed the tip of his foreskin with two fingers and >shook his penis a couple of times. > >Did he have any reaction to that shaking of his penis, >other than being "a little surprised", like maybe >'chubing up' a bit? > >. Hi scamptoo, I don't know if you can call it real embarrassment. After all, he let both his aunt and cousin touch him without saying anything, without moving their hands away or covering himself. He's completely at ease with them; they've seen him naked hundreds of times since he was a baby until now. And he's never had any problem being naked in front of them. His blushing surprised me a little too… maybe it was the touch of their hand… I don't know… In fact, they've seen him naked many times, but they had never touched him there… very close to his penis… I don't know what to say, I should talk to him about it… It was a gesture I had never seen her make before. A ​​sign of intimacy and a deep connection between the two of them. I don't think there was anything sexual about it. It was partly ironic, partly playful, and partly a compliment, I think. At least that's how I interpreted it. My son didn't say anything, he didn't scold her, so I think there weren't any problems for him. You're very curious… anyway, yes, his penis hardened a little and then protruded forward; it wasn't hanging limply downwards anymore… However, it wasn't a full erection, not even a half-erection, just a partial lengthening and hardening. [ Post a Reply to This Message ]

[> [> [> [> [> [> [> [> [> [> [> [> [> [> [> Subject: Re: After school Rituals Author: Ivana [ Edit | View ] Date Posted: 18:04:01 12/03/25 Wed Author Host/IP: 94.16.121.91 >> >>> >>>Ivana and Scamptoo, thanks for the suggestion. >>> >>>I spoke to a few mothers in front of the school and >>>the soccer field, and they all confirmed what I've >>>already written. At least here where I live, mothers >>>tend to keep their daughters' pubic hair shaved even >>>at the beginning of puberty, while their sons are >left >>>"hairy." It's the sons who decide whether or not to >>>shave when they reach their late teens, 16 or older. >>> >>>But I agree with you Ivana, he is still my "little >>>boy" even if he has the fuzz down there and in 10 >days >>>he will turn 13. I also thought back to how it was >>>"down there" until a few months ago and you are both >>>right: shaved is neater and nicer. I talked to my >>>husband about it, and even though he'll be the only >>>one of his friends (aside from a couple of boys who >>>are delayed in puberty and haven't developed yet) >with >>>no hair or fuzz, tomorrow, which is Sunday and >there's >>>no work or school, so we can take things slowly, I'll >>>shave him. So he will be my "little boy" again… >> >>Well it is Sunday now, and can I conclude that you did >>shave off that fuzz down there so you have your >>"little boy" again? >> >>Can you tell us what his reaction was when you told >>him that you will shave him down there? >> >>What was his reaction while you were shaving him? > > >Hi scamptoo, yesterday afternoon we went to visit some >friends and stopped for dinner, so I didn't get around >to replying. >Here I am. Yes, yesterday I shaved off his fuzz down >there and now I have my "little boy" again… >I almost forgot how cute he was without fuzz… much >better this way, you and Ivana were right! >His first reaction when I told him I was going to >shave him down there was, "Mom, you're crazy! Why?? >Absolutely NOT!!! Never! I don't want to look like a >little kid like my brother and like Mattia and >Federico " (his two classmates I've already mentioned >who haven't even started puberty yet and are still >small and have infantile genitals). >Very calmly and patiently, I explained to him that >given his height, his penis had started to grow >bigger, his balls were starting to drop, and that all >his friends had seen him naked with his fuzz, no one >would mistake him for a small child. But without fluff >he would have looked neater and better. I knew a lot >of guys and girls older than him who shaved, and his >mom (that's me) is also shaved down there… This last >piece of news must have struck him because he asked me >"You, mum, do you shave???? So you don't have any hair >down there????" He didn't believe it… he's never >seen me naked, only in a bathing suit or panties and >you can see he never noticed. Anyway, after I told him >it was a test and that if he didn't like it he just >had to wait for it to grow back, he finally agreed, >but he made me promise not to hurt him with the >razor… lol… >While I was shaving him he kept repeating to be >careful, not to hurt him, not to cut his willy. When I >told him that I certainly didn't mean to hurt him and >that if he kept talking I could distract myself and >cut him (it wasn't true, but he was so worried that he >wouldn't stop repeating those words, over and over, he >sounded like a broken record... it was driving me >crazy... lol...) he remained silent until I finished >my job, staring at my hand working the razor on his >pubic area very close to his penis. >In the end I was very satisfied, perfect job, no cuts, >he was neat and better… Unfortunately, he had to get >dressed shortly afterward because we went out to visit >some friends. >This afternoon, when he came home from school and >stripped naked, I was able to observe him carefully as >he played with his brother, then as he did his >homework, and then as he watched TV on the couch. I >admit, he's much better this way, without fuzz down >there. I think he'll keep it shaved until he is fully >grown and ready to leave home, like Ivana with her >sons. Hi Anna, that's all wonderful news! Thank you so much for sharing in such detail. I presume from your comments that Mattia and Federico are naked when they come to visit? Since you commented on the development of their private parts. [ Post a Reply to This Message ]

[> [> [> [> [> [> [> [> [> [> [> [> [> [> [> [> Subject: Re: After school Rituals Author: Sean [ Edit | View ] Date Posted: 03:40:26 12/04/25 Thu Author Host/IP: 76.195.201.31 I was noot forward enough to mention that to Anna, but boys swimming do same thing. We kept is shaved and required even if some of meets wore speedo. We would shave at gym shower though once a week or so, otherwise it takes too long. All the boys were shaved and curcumsized. It was easier to shave if erected but hard to do in public shower so do best you can. What was more common in early practice was early AM erection as normal. It is a lot cleaner and feels better [ Post a Reply to This Message ]

[> [> [> [> [> [> [> [> [> [> [> [> [> [> [> [> Subject: Re: After school Rituals Author: Anna [ Edit | View ] Date Posted: 14:00:22 12/05/25 Fri Author Host/IP: 169.150.218.139 >>> >>>> >>>>Ivana and Scamptoo, thanks for the suggestion. >>>> >>>>I spoke to a few mothers in front of the school and >>>>the soccer field, and they all confirmed what I've >>>>already written. At least here where I live, mothers >>>>tend to keep their daughters' pubic hair shaved even >>>>at the beginning of puberty, while their sons are >>left >>>>"hairy." It's the sons who decide whether or not to >>>>shave when they reach their late teens, 16 or >older. >>>> >>>>But I agree with you Ivana, he is still my "little >>>>boy" even if he has the fuzz down there and in 10 >>days >>>>he will turn 13. I also thought back to how it was >>>>"down there" until a few months ago and you are both >>>>right: shaved is neater and nicer. I talked to my >>>>husband about it, and even though he'll be the only >>>>one of his friends (aside from a couple of boys who >>>>are delayed in puberty and haven't developed yet) >>with >>>>no hair or fuzz, tomorrow, which is Sunday and >>there's >>>>no work or school, so we can take things slowly, >I'll >>>>shave him. So he will be my "little boy" again… >>> >>>Well it is Sunday now, and can I conclude that you >did >>>shave off that fuzz down there so you have your >>>"little boy" again? >>> >>>Can you tell us what his reaction was when you told >>>him that you will shave him down there? >>> >>>What was his reaction while you were shaving him? >> >> >>Hi scamptoo, yesterday afternoon we went to visit some >>friends and stopped for dinner, so I didn't get around >>to replying. >>Here I am. Yes, yesterday I shaved off his fuzz down >>there and now I have my "little boy" again… >>I almost forgot how cute he was without fuzz… much >>better this way, you and Ivana were right! >>His first reaction when I told him I was going to >>shave him down there was, "Mom, you're crazy! Why?? >>Absolutely NOT!!! Never! I don't want to look like a >>little kid like my brother and like Mattia and >>Federico " (his two classmates I've already mentioned >>who haven't even started puberty yet and are still >>small and have infantile genitals). >>Very calmly and patiently, I explained to him that >>given his height, his penis had started to grow >>bigger, his balls were starting to drop, and that all >>his friends had seen him naked with his fuzz, no one >>would mistake him for a small child. But without fluff >>he would have looked neater and better. I knew a lot >>of guys and girls older than him who shaved, and his >>mom (that's me) is also shaved down there… This last >>piece of news must have struck him because he asked me >>"You, mum, do you shave???? So you don't have any hair >>down there????" He didn't believe it… he's never >>seen me naked, only in a bathing suit or panties and >>you can see he never noticed. Anyway, after I told him >>it was a test and that if he didn't like it he just >>had to wait for it to grow back, he finally agreed, >>but he made me promise not to hurt him with the >>razor… lol… >>While I was shaving him he kept repeating to be >>careful, not to hurt him, not to cut his willy. When I >>told him that I certainly didn't mean to hurt him and >>that if he kept talking I could distract myself and >>cut him (it wasn't true, but he was so worried that he >>wouldn't stop repeating those words, over and over, he >>sounded like a broken record... it was driving me >>crazy... lol...) he remained silent until I finished >>my job, staring at my hand working the razor on his >>pubic area very close to his penis. >>In the end I was very satisfied, perfect job, no cuts, >>he was neat and better… Unfortunately, he had to get >>dressed shortly afterward because we went out to visit >>some friends. >>This afternoon, when he came home from school and >>stripped naked, I was able to observe him carefully as >>he played with his brother, then as he did his >>homework, and then as he watched TV on the couch. I >>admit, he's much better this way, without fuzz down >>there. I think he'll keep it shaved until he is fully >>grown and ready to leave home, like Ivana with her >>sons. > >Hi Anna, that's all wonderful news! Thank you so much >for sharing in such detail. > >I presume from your comments that Mattia and Federico >are naked when they come to visit? Since you commented >on the development of their private parts. Hi Ivana, Yes, when Mattia and Federico came to our house to do schoolwork and then play with my children, they stripped naked like my two sons, so I saw them. They came separately, on two different occasions. I had warned their mothers that my children are naked in the house and that any guests (boys) who come can be dressed or naked, depending on what they're most comfortable with. Their mothers said it was okay and that if it was okay with me, their sons would undress. No problem for me, on the contrary. As soon as they arrived, they stripped completely and played and did their homework naked. So I could see their penises, which are still infantile, their balls are still very small, and they are both short. They look much more like my younger son than the older one. [ Post a Reply to This Message ]

[> [> [> [> [> [> [> [> [> [> [> [> [> [> [> [> [> Subject: Re: After school Rituals Author: Ivana [ Edit | View ] Date Posted: 20:10:17 12/05/25 Fri Author Host/IP: 194.15.36.117 >>>> >>>>> >>>>>Ivana and Scamptoo, thanks for the suggestion. >>>>> >>>>>I spoke to a few mothers in front of the school and >>>>>the soccer field, and they all confirmed what I've >>>>>already written. At least here where I live, >mothers >>>>>tend to keep their daughters' pubic hair shaved >even >>>>>at the beginning of puberty, while their sons are >>>left >>>>>"hairy." It's the sons who decide whether or not to >>>>>shave when they reach their late teens, 16 or >>older. >>>>> >>>>>But I agree with you Ivana, he is still my "little >>>>>boy" even if he has the fuzz down there and in 10 >>>days >>>>>he will turn 13. I also thought back to how it was >>>>>"down there" until a few months ago and you are >both >>>>>right: shaved is neater and nicer. I talked to my >>>>>husband about it, and even though he'll be the only >>>>>one of his friends (aside from a couple of boys who >>>>>are delayed in puberty and haven't developed yet) >>>with >>>>>no hair or fuzz, tomorrow, which is Sunday and >>>there's >>>>>no work or school, so we can take things slowly, >>I'll >>>>>shave him. So he will be my "little boy" again… >>>> >>>>Well it is Sunday now, and can I conclude that you >>did >>>>shave off that fuzz down there so you have your >>>>"little boy" again? >>>> >>>>Can you tell us what his reaction was when you told >>>>him that you will shave him down there? >>>> >>>>What was his reaction while you were shaving him? >>> >>> >>>Hi scamptoo, yesterday afternoon we went to visit >some >>>friends and stopped for dinner, so I didn't get >around >>>to replying. >>>Here I am. Yes, yesterday I shaved off his fuzz down >>>there and now I have my "little boy" again… >>>I almost forgot how cute he was without fuzz… much >>>better this way, you and Ivana were right! >>>His first reaction when I told him I was going to >>>shave him down there was, "Mom, you're crazy! Why?? >>>Absolutely NOT!!! Never! I don't want to look like a >>>little kid like my brother and like Mattia and >>>Federico " (his two classmates I've already mentioned >>>who haven't even started puberty yet and are still >>>small and have infantile genitals). >>>Very calmly and patiently, I explained to him that >>>given his height, his penis had started to grow >>>bigger, his balls were starting to drop, and that all >>>his friends had seen him naked with his fuzz, no one >>>would mistake him for a small child. But without >fluff >>>he would have looked neater and better. I knew a lot >>>of guys and girls older than him who shaved, and his >>>mom (that's me) is also shaved down there… This >last >>>piece of news must have struck him because he asked >me >>>"You, mum, do you shave???? So you don't have any >hair >>>down there????" He didn't believe it… he's never >>>seen me naked, only in a bathing suit or panties and >>>you can see he never noticed. Anyway, after I told >him >>>it was a test and that if he didn't like it he just >>>had to wait for it to grow back, he finally agreed, >>>but he made me promise not to hurt him with the >>>razor… lol… >>>While I was shaving him he kept repeating to be >>>careful, not to hurt him, not to cut his willy. When >I >>>told him that I certainly didn't mean to hurt him and >>>that if he kept talking I could distract myself and >>>cut him (it wasn't true, but he was so worried that >he >>>wouldn't stop repeating those words, over and over, >he >>>sounded like a broken record... it was driving me >>>crazy... lol...) he remained silent until I finished >>>my job, staring at my hand working the razor on his >>>pubic area very close to his penis. >>>In the end I was very satisfied, perfect job, no >cuts, >>>he was neat and better… Unfortunately, he had to >get >>>dressed shortly afterward because we went out to >visit >>>some friends. >>>This afternoon, when he came home from school and >>>stripped naked, I was able to observe him carefully >as >>>he played with his brother, then as he did his >>>homework, and then as he watched TV on the couch. I >>>admit, he's much better this way, without fuzz down >>>there. I think he'll keep it shaved until he is fully >>>grown and ready to leave home, like Ivana with her >>>sons. >> >>Hi Anna, that's all wonderful news! Thank you so much >>for sharing in such detail. >> >>I presume from your comments that Mattia and Federico >>are naked when they come to visit? Since you commented >>on the development of their private parts. > > >Hi Ivana, >Yes, when Mattia and Federico came to our house to do >schoolwork and then play with my children, they >stripped naked like my two sons, so I saw them. They >came separately, on two different occasions. I had >warned their mothers that my children are naked in the >house and that any guests (boys) who come can be >dressed or naked, depending on what they're most >comfortable with. Their mothers said it was okay and >that if it was okay with me, their sons would undress. >No problem for me, on the contrary. As soon as they >arrived, they stripped completely and played and did >their homework naked. So I could see their penises, >which are still infantile, their balls are still very >small, and they are both short. They look much more >like my younger son than the older one. A wonderful image Anna! I'm glad that your son's friends feel comfortable enough to go naked at your house. Some of our sons' friends do, but some prefer to remain clothed, which I always feel is a missed opportunity to enjoy being comfortable in their own skin and going *au naturel* for a change. Usually at family gatherings our boys are the only ones naked, so they are used to not wearing any clothes even when everyone else is fully dressed. [ Post a Reply to This Message ]

[> [> [> [> [> [> [> [> [> [> [> [> [> [> [> [> [> [> Subject: Re: After school Rituals Author: curious to Ivana [ Edit | View ] Date Posted: 09:24:28 12/06/25 Sat Author Host/IP: 24.57.206.80 >>>>> >>>>>> >>>>>>Ivana and Scamptoo, thanks for the suggestion. >>>>>> >>>>>>I spoke to a few mothers in front of the school >and >>>>>>the soccer field, and they all confirmed what I've >>>>>>already written. At least here where I live, >>mothers >>>>>>tend to keep their daughters' pubic hair shaved >>even >>>>>>at the beginning of puberty, while their sons are >>>>left >>>>>>"hairy." It's the sons who decide whether or not >to >>>>>>shave when they reach their late teens, 16 or >>>older. >>>>>> >>>>>>But I agree with you Ivana, he is still my "little >>>>>>boy" even if he has the fuzz down there and in 10 >>>>days >>>>>>he will turn 13. I also thought back to how it was >>>>>>"down there" until a few months ago and you are >>both >>>>>>right: shaved is neater and nicer. I talked to my >>>>>>husband about it, and even though he'll be the >only >>>>>>one of his friends (aside from a couple of boys >who >>>>>>are delayed in puberty and haven't developed yet) >>>>with >>>>>>no hair or fuzz, tomorrow, which is Sunday and >>>>there's >>>>>>no work or school, so we can take things slowly, >>>I'll >>>>>>shave him. So he will be my "little boy" again… >>>>> >>>>>Well it is Sunday now, and can I conclude that you >>>did >>>>>shave off that fuzz down there so you have your >>>>>"little boy" again? >>>>> >>>>>Can you tell us what his reaction was when you told >>>>>him that you will shave him down there? >>>>> >>>>>What was his reaction while you were shaving him? >>>> >>>> >>>>Hi scamptoo, yesterday afternoon we went to visit >>some >>>>friends and stopped for dinner, so I didn't get >>around >>>>to replying. >>>>Here I am. Yes, yesterday I shaved off his fuzz down >>>>there and now I have my "little boy" again… >>>>I almost forgot how cute he was without fuzz… much >>>>better this way, you and Ivana were right! >>>>His first reaction when I told him I was going to >>>>shave him down there was, "Mom, you're crazy! Why?? >>>>Absolutely NOT!!! Never! I don't want to look like a >>>>little kid like my brother and like Mattia and >>>>Federico " (his two classmates I've already >mentioned >>>>who haven't even started puberty yet and are still >>>>small and have infantile genitals). >>>>Very calmly and patiently, I explained to him that >>>>given his height, his penis had started to grow >>>>bigger, his balls were starting to drop, and that >all >>>>his friends had seen him naked with his fuzz, no one >>>>would mistake him for a small child. But without >>fluff >>>>he would have looked neater and better. I knew a lot >>>>of guys and girls older than him who shaved, and his >>>>mom (that's me) is also shaved down there… This >>last >>>>piece of news must have struck him because he asked >>me >>>>"You, mum, do you shave???? So you don't have any >>hair >>>>down there????" He didn't believe it… he's never >>>>seen me naked, only in a bathing suit or panties and >>>>you can see he never noticed. Anyway, after I told >>him >>>>it was a test and that if he didn't like it he just >>>>had to wait for it to grow back, he finally agreed, >>>>but he made me promise not to hurt him with the >>>>razor… lol… >>>>While I was shaving him he kept repeating to be >>>>careful, not to hurt him, not to cut his willy. When >>I >>>>told him that I certainly didn't mean to hurt him >and >>>>that if he kept talking I could distract myself and >>>>cut him (it wasn't true, but he was so worried that >>he >>>>wouldn't stop repeating those words, over and over, >>he >>>>sounded like a broken record... it was driving me >>>>crazy... lol...) he remained silent until I finished >>>>my job, staring at my hand working the razor on his >>>>pubic area very close to his penis. >>>>In the end I was very satisfied, perfect job, no >>cuts, >>>>he was neat and better… Unfortunately, he had to >>get >>>>dressed shortly afterward because we went out to >>visit >>>>some friends. >>>>This afternoon, when he came home from school and >>>>stripped naked, I was able to observe him carefully >>as >>>>he played with his brother, then as he did his >>>>homework, and then as he watched TV on the couch. I >>>>admit, he's much better this way, without fuzz down >>>>there. I think he'll keep it shaved until he is >fully >>>>grown and ready to leave home, like Ivana with her >>>>sons. >>> >>>Hi Anna, that's all wonderful news! Thank you so much >>>for sharing in such detail. >>> >>>I presume from your comments that Mattia and Federico >>>are naked when they come to visit? Since you >commented >>>on the development of their private parts. >> >> >>Hi Ivana, >>Yes, when Mattia and Federico came to our house to do >>schoolwork and then play with my children, they >>stripped naked like my two sons, so I saw them. They >>came separately, on two different occasions. I had >>warned their mothers that my children are naked in the >>house and that any guests (boys) who come can be >>dressed or naked, depending on what they're most >>comfortable with. Their mothers said it was okay and >>that if it was okay with me, their sons would undress. >>No problem for me, on the contrary. As soon as they >>arrived, they stripped completely and played and did >>their homework naked. So I could see their penises, >>which are still infantile, their balls are still very >>small, and they are both short. They look much more >>like my younger son than the older one. > >A wonderful image Anna! I'm glad that your son's >friends feel comfortable enough to go naked at your >house. Some of our sons' friends do, but some prefer >to remain clothed, which I always feel is a missed >opportunity to enjoy being comfortable in their own >skin and going *au naturel* for a change. Usually at >family gatherings our boys are the only ones naked, so >they are used to not wearing any clothes even when >everyone else is fully dressed. like you said , it is a missed opportunity for them to enjoy being comfortable in their own skin and going 'au naturel' for a change, but it is also a missed opportunity for you to see how well they are developing i would think. [ Post a Reply to This Message ]

[> [> [> [> [> [> [> [> [> [> [> [> [> [> [> [> [> [> Subject: Re: After school Rituals Author: Anna [ Edit | View ] Date Posted: 13:23:33 12/07/25 Sun Author Host/IP: 149.88.30.161 >>>>> >>>>>> >>>>>>Ivana and Scamptoo, thanks for the suggestion. >>>>>> >>>>>>I spoke to a few mothers in front of the school >and >>>>>>the soccer field, and they all confirmed what I've >>>>>>already written. At least here where I live, >>mothers >>>>>>tend to keep their daughters' pubic hair shaved >>even >>>>>>at the beginning of puberty, while their sons are >>>>left >>>>>>"hairy." It's the sons who decide whether or not >to >>>>>>shave when they reach their late teens, 16 or >>>older. >>>>>> >>>>>>But I agree with you Ivana, he is still my "little >>>>>>boy" even if he has the fuzz down there and in 10 >>>>days >>>>>>he will turn 13. I also thought back to how it was >>>>>>"down there" until a few months ago and you are >>both >>>>>>right: shaved is neater and nicer. I talked to my >>>>>>husband about it, and even though he'll be the >only >>>>>>one of his friends (aside from a couple of boys >who >>>>>>are delayed in puberty and haven't developed yet) >>>>with >>>>>>no hair or fuzz, tomorrow, which is Sunday and >>>>there's >>>>>>no work or school, so we can take things slowly, >>>I'll >>>>>>shave him. So he will be my "little boy" again… >>>>> >>>>>Well it is Sunday now, and can I conclude that you >>>did >>>>>shave off that fuzz down there so you have your >>>>>"little boy" again? >>>>> >>>>>Can you tell us what his reaction was when you told >>>>>him that you will shave him down there? >>>>> >>>>>What was his reaction while you were shaving him? >>>> >>>> >>>>Hi scamptoo, yesterday afternoon we went to visit >>some >>>>friends and stopped for dinner, so I didn't get >>around >>>>to replying. >>>>Here I am. Yes, yesterday I shaved off his fuzz down >>>>there and now I have my "little boy" again… >>>>I almost forgot how cute he was without fuzz… much >>>>better this way, you and Ivana were right! >>>>His first reaction when I told him I was going to >>>>shave him down there was, "Mom, you're crazy! Why?? >>>>Absolutely NOT!!! Never! I don't want to look like a >>>>little kid like my brother and like Mattia and >>>>Federico " (his two classmates I've already >mentioned >>>>who haven't even started puberty yet and are still >>>>small and have infantile genitals). >>>>Very calmly and patiently, I explained to him that >>>>given his height, his penis had started to grow >>>>bigger, his balls were starting to drop, and that >all >>>>his friends had seen him naked with his fuzz, no one >>>>would mistake him for a small child. But without >>fluff >>>>he would have looked neater and better. I knew a lot >>>>of guys and girls older than him who shaved, and his >>>>mom (that's me) is also shaved down there… This >>last >>>>piece of news must have struck him because he asked >>me >>>>"You, mum, do you shave???? So you don't have any >>hair >>>>down there????" He didn't believe it… he's never >>>>seen me naked, only in a bathing suit or panties and >>>>you can see he never noticed. Anyway, after I told >>him >>>>it was a test and that if he didn't like it he just >>>>had to wait for it to grow back, he finally agreed, >>>>but he made me promise not to hurt him with the >>>>razor… lol… >>>>While I was shaving him he kept repeating to be >>>>careful, not to hurt him, not to cut his willy. When >>I >>>>told him that I certainly didn't mean to hurt him >and >>>>that if he kept talking I could distract myself and >>>>cut him (it wasn't true, but he was so worried that >>he >>>>wouldn't stop repeating those words, over and over, >>he >>>>sounded like a broken record... it was driving me >>>>crazy... lol...) he remained silent until I finished >>>>my job, staring at my hand working the razor on his >>>>pubic area very close to his penis. >>>>In the end I was very satisfied, perfect job, no >>cuts, >>>>he was neat and better… Unfortunately, he had to >>get >>>>dressed shortly afterward because we went out to >>visit >>>>some friends. >>>>This afternoon, when he came home from school and >>>>stripped naked, I was able to observe him carefully >>as >>>>he played with his brother, then as he did his >>>>homework, and then as he watched TV on the couch. I >>>>admit, he's much better this way, without fuzz down >>>>there. I think he'll keep it shaved until he is >fully >>>>grown and ready to leave home, like Ivana with her >>>>sons. >>> >>>Hi Anna, that's all wonderful news! Thank you so much >>>for sharing in such detail. >>> >>>I presume from your comments that Mattia and Federico >>>are naked when they come to visit? Since you >commented >>>on the development of their private parts. >> >> >>Hi Ivana, >>Yes, when Mattia and Federico came to our house to do >>schoolwork and then play with my children, they >>stripped naked like my two sons, so I saw them. They >>came separately, on two different occasions. I had >>warned their mothers that my children are naked in the >>house and that any guests (boys) who come can be >>dressed or naked, depending on what they're most >>comfortable with. Their mothers said it was okay and >>that if it was okay with me, their sons would undress. >>No problem for me, on the contrary. As soon as they >>arrived, they stripped completely and played and did >>their homework naked. So I could see their penises, >>which are still infantile, their balls are still very >>small, and they are both short. They look much more >>like my younger son than the older one. > >A wonderful image Anna! I'm glad that your son's >friends feel comfortable enough to go naked at your >house. Some of our sons' friends do, but some prefer >to remain clothed, which I always feel is a missed >opportunity to enjoy being comfortable in their own >skin and going *au naturel* for a change. Usually at >family gatherings our boys are the only ones naked, so >they are used to not wearing any clothes even when >everyone else is fully dressed. Thank you, Ivana, for your kind words. It's a wonderful image for me too... All these boys playing naked, happy, filling the house with screams, laughter, and fun. Beautiful! And I'm very happy that Mattia and Federico are comfortable being naked in my house. Both for them and for my children. Only Luca, a classmate of my youngest son, besides Mattia and Federico, undresses when he plays with my children at our house. All their other friends remain clothed. I completely agree with you; they're missing out on a great opportunity, but I don't want to and can't force them in any way; it's right that everyone chooses what makes them feel most comfortable. Even at our family gatherings, our children are the only ones naked (along with their male cousin, while their female cousin remains clothed), so my two sons are also used to not wearing clothes even when everyone else is fully clothed. So the fact that most of their friends remain clothed isn't a big deal to them. [ Post a Reply to This Message ]

[> [> [> Subject: Re: After school Rituals Author: scamptoo [ Edit | View ] Date Posted: 09:12:56 11/23/25 Sun Author Host/IP: 24.57.206.80 >>>Growing up in the 90s, I had a very unique—and >>>surprisingly consistent—after-school ritual that >>>shaped much of my childhood comfort and >>>self-awareness. The moment I stepped through the >front >>>door, no matter the season or whether guests were >>>over, the routine was non-negotiable: school uniform >>>came off. Every piece—shoes, socks, tie, shirt, >>>trousers—was removed with a quiet sense of ritual. >>>I’d fold each item neatly, hang the blazer if I >wore >>>one, place the shoes by the closet, and set the socks >>>perfectly aligned. It was almost like shedding the >>>outside world, layer by layer. >>> >>>Once undressed, I was expected—by my parents—to >>>remain completely nude for the rest of the afternoon, >>>evening, and even into the next morning, whether I >was >>>indoors or playing in the garden. Weekends? Same >rule. >>>No clothes unless we were leaving the house or school >>>started again the next day. It wasn’t a suggestion; >>>it was simply how things were at home. >>> >>>What’s more, it didn’t matter if family dropped >by >>>or friends came over—nudity was the default. No one >>>batted an eye. There were no awkward moments, no >>>comments, just normalcy. My parents never framed it >as >>>something “weird” or “shocking.” To them, the >>>home was a private, natural space—free from the >>>constraints and expectations of clothing. They >>>believed that being comfortable in your own skin, >>>literally, was essential to developing confidence and >>>body positivity. >>> >>>Looking back, I realize how profoundly this shaped >me. >>>I never developed a sense of shame or anxiety about >my >>>body. Being nude wasn’t sexualized, wasn’t >>>performative—it was just being. It felt as natural >>>as breathing. I learned early on that my body >wasn’t >>>something to hide, judge, or apologize for. >>> >>>Of course, I understand this isn’t the norm for >most >>>families, and every household has its own boundaries >>>and values. But for me, this simple, consistent >>>practice fostered a deep sense of ease and >>>authenticity that I still carry today. >>> >>>It makes me wonder—how many of our childhood >>>routines quietly shape who we become, long after >we've >>>outgrown them? >> >>Thank you once again Ross for sharing with us such a >>detailed account of your childhood routine. It sounds >>like you had a wonderful home. Consistency is so >>important for children to feel safe and secure, so >>it's really great that you had such a consistent home >>ritual every day after school. >> >>We try to keep a similar after-school routine with our >>boys. Like you, our boys remove all of their clothes >>at the door and put them away until they're needed for >>school the next day. Once they're naked and >>comfortable, I make them hot cocoa to enjoy in the >>living room while they tell me about their day, before >>they sit down to start their homework. Dinner is at >>7pm, and afterwards they have a few hours to relax >>before it's time for bed, either inside or in the back >>yard. Usually they will stay naked until it's time to >>get dressed for school the next morning. On weekends >>they will usually not wear any clothes at all, unless >>they need to leave the house e.g. for sports matches >>or to go to the cinema. > > >Ivana, your boys' after-school routine is very similar >to ours. I have two sons, ages 13 (almost) and 10, and >when they come home from school, they do exactly what >your kids do. The only two differences are that I give >them hot cocoa in the colder months and fruit juice in >the warmer months, and that our dinner is at 7:30 pm. >They're also always naked all day and all weekend >except when they have to go out for school, soccer, >swimming, the mall or to go to the cinema. >If friends of mine or my brother with his wife and his >two children (a boy and a girl) come to visit us, they >remain naked (in this very similar to what Ross wrote >about his childhood, nudity was the default). Having >adopted this routine since they were very young, they >are now completely at ease, without embarrassment even >in the presence of guests. >My older brother and I, when we were kids, had very >few opportunities to see each other naked (and on all >of them I saw him, never the other way around). At the >pediatrician, at the beach, during his bath, while he >was peeing, but these were occasional incidents (which >I've described in other posts to Dave, Sean, and >Spelvin). On these few occasions, he was always very >embarrassed, and they were moments of great stress and >shame for him. I want my children to be comfortable >with their bodies, and I think this routine is very >helpful. I think it is good that your boys stay naked even when guests are visiting. You should be proud of your creations and want to show them off in their entirety for all to enjoy their beauty. [ Post a Reply to This Message ]

[> [> [> [> Subject: Re: After school Rituals Author: Anna [ Edit | View ] Date Posted: 10:41:14 11/23/25 Sun Author Host/IP: 190.2.149.37 >>>>Growing up in the 90s, I had a very unique—and >>>>surprisingly consistent—after-school ritual that >>>>shaped much of my childhood comfort and >>>>self-awareness. The moment I stepped through the >>front >>>>door, no matter the season or whether guests were >>>>over, the routine was non-negotiable: school uniform >>>>came off. Every piece—shoes, socks, tie, shirt, >>>>trousers—was removed with a quiet sense of ritual. >>>>I’d fold each item neatly, hang the blazer if I >>wore >>>>one, place the shoes by the closet, and set the >socks >>>>perfectly aligned. It was almost like shedding the >>>>outside world, layer by layer. >>>> >>>>Once undressed, I was expected—by my parents—to >>>>remain completely nude for the rest of the >afternoon, >>>>evening, and even into the next morning, whether I >>was >>>>indoors or playing in the garden. Weekends? Same >>rule. >>>>No clothes unless we were leaving the house or >school >>>>started again the next day. It wasn’t a >suggestion; >>>>it was simply how things were at home. >>>> >>>>What’s more, it didn’t matter if family dropped >>by >>>>or friends came over—nudity was the default. No >one >>>>batted an eye. There were no awkward moments, no >>>>comments, just normalcy. My parents never framed it >>as >>>>something “weird” or “shocking.” To them, >the >>>>home was a private, natural space—free from the >>>>constraints and expectations of clothing. They >>>>believed that being comfortable in your own skin, >>>>literally, was essential to developing confidence >and >>>>body positivity. >>>> >>>>Looking back, I realize how profoundly this shaped >>me. >>>>I never developed a sense of shame or anxiety about >>my >>>>body. Being nude wasn’t sexualized, wasn’t >>>>performative—it was just being. It felt as natural >>>>as breathing. I learned early on that my body >>wasn’t >>>>something to hide, judge, or apologize for. >>>> >>>>Of course, I understand this isn’t the norm for >>most >>>>families, and every household has its own boundaries >>>>and values. But for me, this simple, consistent >>>>practice fostered a deep sense of ease and >>>>authenticity that I still carry today. >>>> >>>>It makes me wonder—how many of our childhood >>>>routines quietly shape who we become, long after >>we've >>>>outgrown them? >>> >>>Thank you once again Ross for sharing with us such a >>>detailed account of your childhood routine. It sounds >>>like you had a wonderful home. Consistency is so >>>important for children to feel safe and secure, so >>>it's really great that you had such a consistent home >>>ritual every day after school. >>> >>>We try to keep a similar after-school routine with >our >>>boys. Like you, our boys remove all of their clothes >>>at the door and put them away until they're needed >for >>>school the next day. Once they're naked and >>>comfortable, I make them hot cocoa to enjoy in the >>>living room while they tell me about their day, >before >>>they sit down to start their homework. Dinner is at >>>7pm, and afterwards they have a few hours to relax >>>before it's time for bed, either inside or in the >back >>>yard. Usually they will stay naked until it's time to >>>get dressed for school the next morning. On weekends >>>they will usually not wear any clothes at all, unless >>>they need to leave the house e.g. for sports matches >>>or to go to the cinema. >> >> >>Ivana, your boys' after-school routine is very similar >>to ours. I have two sons, ages 13 (almost) and 10, and >>when they come home from school, they do exactly what >>your kids do. The only two differences are that I give >>them hot cocoa in the colder months and fruit juice in >>the warmer months, and that our dinner is at 7:30 pm. >>They're also always naked all day and all weekend >>except when they have to go out for school, soccer, >>swimming, the mall or to go to the cinema. >>If friends of mine or my brother with his wife and his >>two children (a boy and a girl) come to visit us, they >>remain naked (in this very similar to what Ross wrote >>about his childhood, nudity was the default). Having >>adopted this routine since they were very young, they >>are now completely at ease, without embarrassment even >>in the presence of guests. >>My older brother and I, when we were kids, had very >>few opportunities to see each other naked (and on all >>of them I saw him, never the other way around). At the >>pediatrician, at the beach, during his bath, while he >>was peeing, but these were occasional incidents (which >>I've described in other posts to Dave, Sean, and >>Spelvin). On these few occasions, he was always very >>embarrassed, and they were moments of great stress and >>shame for him. I want my children to be comfortable >>with their bodies, and I think this routine is very >>helpful. > >I think it is good that your boys stay naked even when >guests are visiting. > >You should be proud of your creations and want to show >them off in their entirety for all to enjoy their >beauty. Scamptoo, thank you for your support. My husband and I also think it's right for our sons to be naked even when we have guests. If we made them dress up when we had guests, we'd be sending the message that their bodies are beautiful and innocent when we're alone in the family, but sinful and need to be covered up when we have guests. And that's not what my husband and I think. They've been doing it since they were very young (4 or 5 years old), so it's now normal for them; they're used to being naked even in front of their female cousin or the daughters of friends who come to visit. So we plan to continue like this until they tell us they are no longer comfortable. For now, that moment is far away. Today, my brother came to visit us with his wife and two children (a boy and a girl), and my two children remained calmly naked in front of them. They played all afternoon, having fun and being happy, and they had a great time. I'm actually very proud of them. I think they're two very beautiful children (as their mother, my opinion is biased and not objective, I know… lol…) and I see no reason why they couldn't be shown naked as well. I confess, I love hearing the compliments my friends give my children… and it fills me with pride… [ Post a Reply to This Message ]

[> [> [> [> [> Subject: Re: After school Rituals Author: Adam [ Edit | View ] Date Posted: 13:19:01 11/23/25 Sun Author Host/IP: 76.113.145.227 That’s great! I’m very glad your boys get to have the experience of playing with other kids while naked, I think every boy should get that experience growing up whether the other kids are clothed or not! [ Post a Reply to This Message ]

[> [> [> [> [> [> Subject: Re: After school Rituals Author: Anna [ Edit | View ] Date Posted: 14:26:30 11/23/25 Sun Author Host/IP: 103.216.221.104 >That’s great! I’m very glad your boys get to have >the experience of playing with other kids while naked, >I think every boy should get that experience growing >up whether the other kids are clothed or not! Adam, thanks for your support. We're glad you agree with us (my husband and I). We also think every boy should have that experience growing up, whether the other kids are clothed or not. When my children's friends or schoolmates come to our house, they know that if they want, they can undress too, or stay dressed, as they feel most comfortable. Of course, other parents know that our sons are naked at home, so they can decide whether to allow their children to come to us or not. Today, my brother came to visit us with his wife and two children (a boy and a girl). My nephew stripped naked like his cousins, while my niece remained dressed. OK, no problem. Just as there wouldn't have been any problem if she'd wanted to undress too.The important thing is that each guest is comfortable, whether naked or clothed. Some of my sons' male friends or classmates also undress when they come to our house and play together completely naked. Others, however, stay clothed. I'm happy either way because I see my sons happy having fun with other happy children (naked or not). So, everything is fine. [ Post a Reply to This Message ]

[> [> [> [> [> [> [> Subject: Re: After school Rituals Author: Sean [ Edit | View ] Date Posted: 12:18:54 11/24/25 Mon Author Host/IP: 76.195.201.31 I enjoyed your recount in that it made me feel that my childhood was more normal. I had a wonderful foster mom at 10 and her best friends son and daughter were raised nude at home. It was not in a sctrict sense but they preferred to be nude when warm I always played with them.Both moms seems happy I put up no fuss about this and adapted quickly at that age. The girl was my age and we were quite close and boy was 7 and had a best friend always with too. Area was quite remote with few other kids around. They always took us to a park or a beach on most weekends too. Though it was required for boys to play naked all day, and girl worn same yellow swimsuit. I was explained it was too messy otherwise. At beach third of boys did it at that place and fewer did it at park but still did. [ Post a Reply to This Message ]

[> [> [> [> [> [> [> [> Subject: Re: After school Rituals Author: Anna [ Edit | View ] Date Posted: 13:51:53 11/24/25 Mon Author Host/IP: 185.107.80.121 >I enjoyed your recount in that it made me feel that my >childhood was more normal. I had a wonderful foster >mom at 10 and her best friends son and daughter were >raised nude at home. It was not in a sctrict sense but >they preferred to be nude when warm I always played >with them.Both moms seems happy I put up no fuss about >this and adapted quickly at that age. The girl was my >age and we were quite close and boy was 7 and had a >best friend always with too. Area was quite remote >with few other kids around. > >They always took us to a park or a beach on most >weekends too. Though it was required for boys to play >naked all day, and girl worn same yellow swimsuit. I >was explained it was too messy otherwise. At beach >third of boys did it at that place and fewer did it at >park but still did. Sean, your childhood, from what you tell, was absolutely normal, in fact it was a wonderful childhood, IMHO. I think this friendship between you and the girl your age and her younger brother was wonderful. It's a good thing you played naked without false modesty when it was hot. My sons also go naked on the beach, but only on public, unspoiled, and uncrowded beaches. They're not nudist beaches—my husband and I aren't—but they're free and somewhat secluded. I see that my children play much more happily when they're naked. However, when we go to crowded beaches, close to cities, with umbrellas and lounge chairs, I make them wear swimsuits. Italy is a somewhat bigoted country, and I don't want to get into trouble with people calling the police for indecent exposure. They would be comfortable on these beaches too, my youngest son often asks me if he can take off his swimsuit, but I prefer not to. [ Post a Reply to This Message ]

[> [> [> [> [> [> [> Subject: Re: After school Rituals Author: Sean [ Edit | View ] Date Posted: 18:16:20 11/24/25 Mon Author Host/IP: 76.195.201.31 That is comforting to know. We are not nudists either, but I will go nude on remote beaches where nudity is allowed. I would not take kids to crowded nude beaches in any case, much as you described. I will go nude on beaches if remote, but son always does. However in past, all three of us went naked on secluded beaches and just boys when less secluded or people around. A few other kids in area did too so nothing was ever said in past about it. Another brother and sister did same thing on beach too. We also went nude at public kids pool for a period of time, as it was more tolerated just for boys in kids pool only till 12 or so. But mostly we played naked in a grandmothers pool and backyards out of sight. Boys gym classes were more fun in past too but perhaps that is another topic. [ Post a Reply to This Message ]

[> [> [> [> [> [> [> [> Subject: Re: After school Rituals Author: Anna [ Edit | View ] Date Posted: 14:31:16 11/25/25 Tue Author Host/IP: 190.2.151.119 >That is comforting to know. We are not nudists either, >but I will go nude on remote beaches where nudity is >allowed. I would not take kids to crowded nude beaches >in any case, much as you described. I will go nude on >beaches if remote, but son always does. > >However in past, all three of us went naked on >secluded beaches and just boys when less secluded or >people around. A few other kids in area did too so >nothing was ever said in past about it. Another >brother and sister did same thing on beach too. We >also went nude at public kids pool for a period of >time, as it was more tolerated just for boys in kids >pool only till 12 or so. But mostly we played naked in >a grandmothers pool and backyards out of sight. > >Boys gym classes were more fun in past too but perhaps >that is another topic. Sean, what you write comforts me too and seems very similar to our experience. As I wrote the other day, we also only do it on uncrowded, isolated beaches, where it's allowed. Often, my sons aren't the only naked boys, just like in the examples you gave. How old were the brother and sister naked on the beach? The public kids' pool, which tolerated naked children up to 12 years old, is interesting... my children would have loved it and would have liked to go there often... Here, they only tolerate naked children up to 5 or 6 years old. My children always play naked in the courtyard of their grandparents' country house... the house is relatively isolated from the others, so they're pretty out of sight. Not completely; from some points along the street, you can see a few specific, narrow spots in the courtyard, but very few people pass by, so it's fine. Weather permitting, they play outside naked. Sometimes their two cousins ​​(my brother's children, whom I mentioned earlier) are there too. [ Post a Reply to This Message ]

[> [> [> [> [> [> [> [> Subject: Re: After school Rituals Author: Sean [ Edit | View ] Date Posted: 19:21:20 11/25/25 Tue Author Host/IP: 76.195.201.31 Our group when I started was 10, myself, girl 9, and her brother 7ish. The brother and sister at beach going nake were 9 and 7 too. If boys younger in group did it I always did too and it was OK, as we were remote. But we only got to go to ocean beach once in awhile, we would all play naked in a grandmothers pool and backyard in summer if warm. We were on a gravel road and no one cared to look or travel there. I do remember even walking to over brother ans sisters house naked sometimes a mile away. No way that happens today. It seemed girls living on farms all knew what boys looked like anyway. [ Post a Reply to This Message ]

[> [> [> [> [> [> [> [> [> Subject: Re: After school Rituals Author: Anna [ Edit | View ] Date Posted: 15:37:02 11/27/25 Thu Author Host/IP: 80.79.6.86 >Our group when I started was 10, myself, girl 9, and >her brother 7ish. > >The brother and sister at beach going nake were 9 and >7 too. If boys younger in group did it I always did >too and it was OK, as we were remote. > >But we only got to go to ocean beach once in awhile, >we would all play naked in a grandmothers pool and >backyard in summer if warm. We were on a gravel road >and no one cared to look or travel there. > >I do remember even walking to over brother ans sisters >house naked sometimes a mile away. No way that happens >today. It seemed girls living on farms all knew what >boys looked like anyway. I'm so happy for you and the boys and girls you played naked with. You must have had a really wonderful childhood. Sean, I had that impression too, lol... The girls who lived on the farm knew practically everything about boys' bodies, unlike me and the girls from the city... When I talked to girls at school or at the beach, the girls from the countryside or who had grown up on the farm knew everything about boys' penises and balls... lol... I really envied them. [ Post a Reply to This Message ]

[> [> [> [> [> [> [> [> [> Subject: Re: After school Rituals Author: Sean [ Edit | View ] Date Posted: 23:58:46 11/27/25 Thu Author Host/IP: 76.195.201.31 I enjoyed growing up that way when warm outside playing near end of school year. I would take my shorts off after school as routine as two other boys did too. Girls I grew up with were used to seeing penises all summer and not that unique or shocking. It was just part of being a good boy at that time and gift you give moms and girls in summer. One of the girls in group was often just in panties. Boys , meaning three of us would just be naked all afternoon though. As I mentioned one of the girls younger brother was being raised nude in summer and I joined him when there with no fuss. I slept in boys room when there [ Post a Reply to This Message ]

[> [> [> [> [> [> [> [> [> [> Subject: Re: After school Rituals Author: Anna to Sean [ Edit | View ] Date Posted: 14:17:14 11/28/25 Fri Author Host/IP: 169.150.218.78 >I enjoyed growing up that way when warm outside >playing near end of school year. I would take my >shorts off after school as routine as two other boys >did too. > >Girls I grew up with were used to seeing penises all >summer and not that unique or shocking. It was just >part of being a good boy at that time and gift you >give moms and girls in summer. One of the girls in >group was often just in panties. Boys , meaning three >of us would just be naked all afternoon though. > >As I mentioned one of the girls younger brother was >being raised nude in summer and I joined him when >there with no fuss. I slept in boys room when there I'm sure you loved growing up like that. You had an amazing childhood! I would have loved, for my brother and I, to be part of your group of friends. You would have convinced him to be naked like you (which he never did), and I could have played with naked boys… I would have been dressed, but when it was really hot, I would have worn just my panties like that girl you write about. [ Post a Reply to This Message ]

[> [> [> [> [> [> [> [> [> [> [> Subject: Re: After school Rituals Author: Sean [ Edit | View ] Date Posted: 13:31:50 11/29/25 Sat Author Host/IP: 76.195.201.31 Yes I miss it of course. There were three girls in group and they were all different. The one with brother was happy to were panties at home and one piece at beach, one was modest and wore sundress and sandals but happy to wear one piece on beach with boys. The younger girl 7 was often nude with boys but stopped at 9 or so. Boys did not have a cut off age really. I was oldest and would have to watch boys at beach when we went. I was required to swim nude in pool and beach if other boys did. I would take off shorts for whole day if a beach day. I did not have problem at beach but diners on way home had no shirt no shoes no service policy. They were more lienient on young boys though. I am guessing third of boys went nude at beach and most at a kids pool nearby. Even so the most nudity I saw was PE and sports. [ Post a Reply to This Message ]

[> [> [> [> [> [> [> [> [> [> [> [> Subject: Re: After school Rituals Author: Anna to Sean [ Edit | View ] Date Posted: 14:24:48 11/29/25 Sat Author Host/IP: 185.184.192.247 >Yes I miss it of course. > >There were three girls in group and they were all >different. The one with brother was happy to were >panties at home and one piece at beach, one was modest >and wore sundress and sandals but happy to wear one >piece on beach with boys. The younger girl 7 was >often nude with boys but stopped at 9 or so. Boys did >not have a cut off age really. > >I was oldest and would have to watch boys at beach >when we went. I was required to swim nude in pool and >beach if other boys did. I would take off shorts for >whole day if a beach day. I did not have problem at >beach but diners on way home had no shirt no shoes no >service policy. They were more lienient on young boys >though. > >I am guessing third of boys went nude at beach and >most at a kids pool nearby. Even so the most nudity I >saw was PE and sports. I would have been like the first girl, the one with her brother: I would have worn panties at home and a one-piece swimsuit at the beach. I would have remained in just my panties even in your presence or around the other boys in the group, it wouldn't have been a big deal. You wrote, "I was required to swim nude in pool and beach if other boys did. I would take off shorts for whole day if a beach day" Who forced you? Couldn't you take care of them even if you were wearing shorts or swimming suit? "I am guessing third of boys went nude at beach and most at a kids pool nearby. Even so the most nudity I saw was PE and sports." In my childhood, it was the opposite. The few naked boys I saw were at the beach or at the pool, changing from wet swimsuits into dry ones or into clothes to go home. As you wrote, "Boys didn't really have a cut-off age." So while girls were changed in the bathroom or covered with a towel, boys were changed openly, with no privacy. Luckily for me... lol… Now I'm curious... would you like to share a few stories or add details about "Even so the most nudity I saw was PE and sports"? Thanks! [ Post a Reply to This Message ]

[> [> [> [> [> [> [> [> [> [> [> [> [> Subject: Re: After school Rituals Author: Sean [ Edit | View ] Date Posted: 20:31:31 12/01/25 Mon Author Host/IP: 76.195.201.31 You wrote, "I was required to swim nude in pool and beach if other boys did. I would take off shorts for whole day if a beach day" Who forced you? Couldn't you take care of them even if you were wearing shorts or swimming suit? Well I always went intially with boy and girl, and boy always went nude so they wanted me to as well. He was 7 and I was 10. Since they drove and took me I just did it with no objection. I just had heavy weaith cotton shorts so would not swim in them anyway.I would walk to beach in towel and fliplfops or nothing. No one objected about kids back then. I did when older too [ Post a Reply to This Message ]

[> [> [> [> [> Subject: Re: After school Rituals Author: curious to [ Edit | View ] Date Posted: 11:03:12 11/24/25 Mon Author Host/IP: 24.57.206.80 >>>>>Growing up in the 90s, I had a very unique—and >>>>>surprisingly consistent—after-school ritual that >>>>>shaped much of my childhood comfort and >>>>>self-awareness. The moment I stepped through the >>>front >>>>>door, no matter the season or whether guests were >>>>>over, the routine was non-negotiable: school >uniform >>>>>came off. Every piece—shoes, socks, tie, shirt, >>>>>trousers—was removed with a quiet sense of >ritual. >>>>>I’d fold each item neatly, hang the blazer if I >>>wore >>>>>one, place the shoes by the closet, and set the >>socks >>>>>perfectly aligned. It was almost like shedding the >>>>>outside world, layer by layer. >>>>> >>>>>Once undressed, I was expected—by my parents—to >>>>>remain completely nude for the rest of the >>afternoon, >>>>>evening, and even into the next morning, whether I >>>was >>>>>indoors or playing in the garden. Weekends? Same >>>rule. >>>>>No clothes unless we were leaving the house or >>school >>>>>started again the next day. It wasn’t a >>suggestion; >>>>>it was simply how things were at home. >>>>> >>>>>What’s more, it didn’t matter if family dropped >>>by >>>>>or friends came over—nudity was the default. No >>one >>>>>batted an eye. There were no awkward moments, no >>>>>comments, just normalcy. My parents never framed it >>>as >>>>>something “weird” or “shocking.” To them, >>the >>>>>home was a private, natural space—free from the >>>>>constraints and expectations of clothing. They >>>>>believed that being comfortable in your own skin, >>>>>literally, was essential to developing confidence >>and >>>>>body positivity. >>>>> >>>>>Looking back, I realize how profoundly this shaped >>>me. >>>>>I never developed a sense of shame or anxiety about >>>my >>>>>body. Being nude wasn’t sexualized, wasn’t >>>>>performative—it was just being. It felt as >natural >>>>>as breathing. I learned early on that my body >>>wasn’t >>>>>something to hide, judge, or apologize for. >>>>> >>>>>Of course, I understand this isn’t the norm for >>>most >>>>>families, and every household has its own >boundaries >>>>>and values. But for me, this simple, consistent >>>>>practice fostered a deep sense of ease and >>>>>authenticity that I still carry today. >>>>> >>>>>It makes me wonder—how many of our childhood >>>>>routines quietly shape who we become, long after >>>we've >>>>>outgrown them? >>>> >>>>Thank you once again Ross for sharing with us such a >>>>detailed account of your childhood routine. It >sounds >>>>like you had a wonderful home. Consistency is so >>>>important for children to feel safe and secure, so >>>>it's really great that you had such a consistent >home >>>>ritual every day after school. >>>> >>>>We try to keep a similar after-school routine with >>our >>>>boys. Like you, our boys remove all of their clothes >>>>at the door and put them away until they're needed >>for >>>>school the next day. Once they're naked and >>>>comfortable, I make them hot cocoa to enjoy in the >>>>living room while they tell me about their day, >>before >>>>they sit down to start their homework. Dinner is at >>>>7pm, and afterwards they have a few hours to relax >>>>before it's time for bed, either inside or in the >>back >>>>yard. Usually they will stay naked until it's time >to >>>>get dressed for school the next morning. On weekends >>>>they will usually not wear any clothes at all, >unless >>>>they need to leave the house e.g. for sports matches >>>>or to go to the cinema. >>> >>> >>>Ivana, your boys' after-school routine is very >similar >>>to ours. I have two sons, ages 13 (almost) and 10, >and >>>when they come home from school, they do exactly what >>>your kids do. The only two differences are that I >give >>>them hot cocoa in the colder months and fruit juice >in >>>the warmer months, and that our dinner is at 7:30 pm. >>>They're also always naked all day and all weekend >>>except when they have to go out for school, soccer, >>>swimming, the mall or to go to the cinema. >>>If friends of mine or my brother with his wife and >his >>>two children (a boy and a girl) come to visit us, >they >>>remain naked (in this very similar to what Ross wrote >>>about his childhood, nudity was the default). Having >>>adopted this routine since they were very young, they >>>are now completely at ease, without embarrassment >even >>>in the presence of guests. >>>My older brother and I, when we were kids, had very >>>few opportunities to see each other naked (and on all >>>of them I saw him, never the other way around). At >the >>>pediatrician, at the beach, during his bath, while he >>>was peeing, but these were occasional incidents >(which >>>I've described in other posts to Dave, Sean, and >>>Spelvin). On these few occasions, he was always very >>>embarrassed, and they were moments of great stress >and >>>shame for him. I want my children to be comfortable >>>with their bodies, and I think this routine is very >>>helpful. >> >>I think it is good that your boys stay naked even when >>guests are visiting. >> >>You should be proud of your creations and want to show >>them off in their entirety for all to enjoy their >>beauty. > > >Scamptoo, thank you for your support. >My husband and I also think it's right for our sons to >be naked even when we have guests. >If we made them dress up when we had guests, we'd be >sending the message that their bodies are beautiful >and innocent when we're alone in the family, but >sinful and need to be covered up when we have guests. >And that's not what my husband and I think. >They've been doing it since they were very young (4 or >5 years old), so it's now normal for them; they're >used to being naked even in front of their female >cousin or the daughters of friends who come to visit. >So we plan to continue like this until they tell us >they are no longer comfortable. >For now, that moment is far away. Today, my brother >came to visit us with his wife and two children (a boy >and a girl), and my two children remained calmly naked >in front of them. They played all afternoon, having >fun and being happy, and they had a great time. > >I'm actually very proud of them. I think they're two >very beautiful children (as their mother, my opinion >is biased and not objective, I know… lol…) and I >see no reason why they couldn't be shown naked as >well. I confess, I love hearing the compliments my >friends give my children… and it fills me with >pride… you say, "They've been doing it since they were very young (4 or 5 years old), so it's now normal for them; they're used to being naked even in front of their female cousin or the daughters of friends who come to visit." since they have been seen naked for so long a time, with different people and different genders seeing them that way, can i assume they are so comfortable being seen that way that they don't get erections knowing others can see their boy parts? [ Post a Reply to This Message ]

[> [> [> [> [> [> Subject: Re: After school Rituals Author: Anna [ Edit | View ] Date Posted: 14:03:09 11/24/25 Mon Author Host/IP: 185.107.80.121 >>>>>>Growing up in the 90s, I had a very unique—and >>>>>>surprisingly consistent—after-school ritual that >>>>>>shaped much of my childhood comfort and >>>>>>self-awareness. The moment I stepped through the >>>>front >>>>>>door, no matter the season or whether guests were >>>>>>over, the routine was non-negotiable: school >>uniform >>>>>>came off. Every piece—shoes, socks, tie, shirt, >>>>>>trousers—was removed with a quiet sense of >>ritual. >>>>>>I’d fold each item neatly, hang the blazer if I >>>>wore >>>>>>one, place the shoes by the closet, and set the >>>socks >>>>>>perfectly aligned. It was almost like shedding the >>>>>>outside world, layer by layer. >>>>>> >>>>>>Once undressed, I was expected—by my >parents—to >>>>>>remain completely nude for the rest of the >>>afternoon, >>>>>>evening, and even into the next morning, whether I >>>>was >>>>>>indoors or playing in the garden. Weekends? Same >>>>rule. >>>>>>No clothes unless we were leaving the house or >>>school >>>>>>started again the next day. It wasn’t a >>>suggestion; >>>>>>it was simply how things were at home. >>>>>> >>>>>>What’s more, it didn’t matter if family >dropped >>>>by >>>>>>or friends came over—nudity was the default. No >>>one >>>>>>batted an eye. There were no awkward moments, no >>>>>>comments, just normalcy. My parents never framed >it >>>>as >>>>>>something “weird” or “shocking.” To them, >>>the >>>>>>home was a private, natural space—free from the >>>>>>constraints and expectations of clothing. They >>>>>>believed that being comfortable in your own skin, >>>>>>literally, was essential to developing confidence >>>and >>>>>>body positivity. >>>>>> >>>>>>Looking back, I realize how profoundly this shaped >>>>me. >>>>>>I never developed a sense of shame or anxiety >about >>>>my >>>>>>body. Being nude wasn’t sexualized, wasn’t >>>>>>performative—it was just being. It felt as >>natural >>>>>>as breathing. I learned early on that my body >>>>wasn’t >>>>>>something to hide, judge, or apologize for. >>>>>> >>>>>>Of course, I understand this isn’t the norm for >>>>most >>>>>>families, and every household has its own >>boundaries >>>>>>and values. But for me, this simple, consistent >>>>>>practice fostered a deep sense of ease and >>>>>>authenticity that I still carry today. >>>>>> >>>>>>It makes me wonder—how many of our childhood >>>>>>routines quietly shape who we become, long after >>>>we've >>>>>>outgrown them? >>>>> >>>>>Thank you once again Ross for sharing with us such >a >>>>>detailed account of your childhood routine. It >>sounds >>>>>like you had a wonderful home. Consistency is so >>>>>important for children to feel safe and secure, so >>>>>it's really great that you had such a consistent >>home >>>>>ritual every day after school. >>>>> >>>>>We try to keep a similar after-school routine with >>>our >>>>>boys. Like you, our boys remove all of their >clothes >>>>>at the door and put them away until they're needed >>>for >>>>>school the next day. Once they're naked and >>>>>comfortable, I make them hot cocoa to enjoy in the >>>>>living room while they tell me about their day, >>>before >>>>>they sit down to start their homework. Dinner is at >>>>>7pm, and afterwards they have a few hours to relax >>>>>before it's time for bed, either inside or in the >>>back >>>>>yard. Usually they will stay naked until it's time >>to >>>>>get dressed for school the next morning. On >weekends >>>>>they will usually not wear any clothes at all, >>unless >>>>>they need to leave the house e.g. for sports >matches >>>>>or to go to the cinema. >>>> >>>> >>>>Ivana, your boys' after-school routine is very >>similar >>>>to ours. I have two sons, ages 13 (almost) and 10, >>and >>>>when they come home from school, they do exactly >what >>>>your kids do. The only two differences are that I >>give >>>>them hot cocoa in the colder months and fruit juice >>in >>>>the warmer months, and that our dinner is at 7:30 >pm. >>>>They're also always naked all day and all weekend >>>>except when they have to go out for school, soccer, >>>>swimming, the mall or to go to the cinema. >>>>If friends of mine or my brother with his wife and >>his >>>>two children (a boy and a girl) come to visit us, >>they >>>>remain naked (in this very similar to what Ross >wrote >>>>about his childhood, nudity was the default). Having >>>>adopted this routine since they were very young, >they >>>>are now completely at ease, without embarrassment >>even >>>>in the presence of guests. >>>>My older brother and I, when we were kids, had very >>>>few opportunities to see each other naked (and on >all >>>>of them I saw him, never the other way around). At >>the >>>>pediatrician, at the beach, during his bath, while >he >>>>was peeing, but these were occasional incidents >>(which >>>>I've described in other posts to Dave, Sean, and >>>>Spelvin). On these few occasions, he was always very >>>>embarrassed, and they were moments of great stress >>and >>>>shame for him. I want my children to be comfortable >>>>with their bodies, and I think this routine is very >>>>helpful. >>> >>>I think it is good that your boys stay naked even >when >>>guests are visiting. >>> >>>You should be proud of your creations and want to >show >>>them off in their entirety for all to enjoy their >>>beauty. >> >> >>Scamptoo, thank you for your support. >>My husband and I also think it's right for our sons to >>be naked even when we have guests. >>If we made them dress up when we had guests, we'd be >>sending the message that their bodies are beautiful >>and innocent when we're alone in the family, but >>sinful and need to be covered up when we have guests. >>And that's not what my husband and I think. >>They've been doing it since they were very young (4 or >>5 years old), so it's now normal for them; they're >>used to being naked even in front of their female >>cousin or the daughters of friends who come to visit. >>So we plan to continue like this until they tell us >>they are no longer comfortable. >>For now, that moment is far away. Today, my brother >>came to visit us with his wife and two children (a boy >>and a girl), and my two children remained calmly naked >>in front of them. They played all afternoon, having >>fun and being happy, and they had a great time. >> >>I'm actually very proud of them. I think they're two >>very beautiful children (as their mother, my opinion >>is biased and not objective, I know… lol…) and I >>see no reason why they couldn't be shown naked as >>well. I confess, I love hearing the compliments my >>friends give my children… and it fills me with >>pride… > > >you say, "They've been doing it since they were very >young (4 or 5 years old), so it's now normal for them; >they're used to being naked even in front of their >female cousin or the daughters of friends who come to >visit." >since they have been seen naked for so long a time, >with different people and different genders seeing >them that way, can i assume they are so comfortable >being seen that way that they don't get erections >knowing others can see their boy parts? Hi curious, ff course, erections can happen; it's normal. It would be a medical problem if they didn't have them; there would be something wrong with their boy parts… But they don't get erections knowing that others can see their private parts; they're completely comfortable with that and their penises remain soft. When playing games with a lot of jumping and running or simulating wrestling, their penises have sometimes become partially hardened or even erect at the end of the game. It's happened, but only a few times, and it was mostly due to mechanical friction, not embarrassment or arousal. [ Post a Reply to This Message ]

[> [> [> [> [> [> [> Subject: Re: After school Rituals Author: Mark [ Edit | View ] Date Posted: 17:47:40 12/03/25 Wed Author Host/IP: 76.195.201.31 I knew a boy with seemingly conservative mother. They had normal farm house, but when I played with him after taking school bus to his house, he just shed all clothes and put on shorts or kept bare and played. I had seen this before but did not expect him to do that. When my mom came she saw us outside playing with a hose and she just giggled. I did it more and more after that experience [ Post a Reply to This Message ]

[> [> [> [> [> [> [> [> Subject: Re: After school Rituals Author: scamptoo to Mark [ Edit | View ] Date Posted: 10:22:20 12/04/25 Thu Author Host/IP: 24.57.206.80 >I knew a boy with seemingly conservative mother. They >had normal farm house, but when I played with him >after taking school bus to his house, he just shed all >clothes and put on shorts or kept bare and played. I >had seen this before but did not expect him to do >that. When my mom came she saw us outside playing with >a hose and she just giggled. > >I did it more and more after that experience Did your mom giggle because she saw that other boy playing naked, or because she saw you also playing naked with him? . [ Post a Reply to This Message ]

[> [> [> [> [> [> [> [> [> Subject: Re: After school Rituals Author: Sean [ Edit | View ] Date Posted: 02:12:36 01/02/26 Fri Author Host/IP: 76.195.201.31 It was end of school in late were twelve years in rather modest town in Florida to go nude once school ended .Once we were done surfing n empty beach shorts always came off for rest of afternoon . So, the second we were done boogie boarding, they came off. Me and my friends would strip right there on the sand and spend the next two hours completely nude at end of school year. Nobody said a word. and back then, nobody thought twice about a twelve-year-old boy running wild in the sun. We would wrap towel back to car but younger boys were nude in parking lot too. [ Post a Reply to This Message ]

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