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Date Posted: 22:41:21 12/16/03 Tue
Author: Mouse
Subject: Erphmuch... I know, I suck at explaining myself....
In reply to: Kay 's message, "So sorry. *offers a belated cookie of condolance*" on 21:12:40 12/16/03 Tue

Let me try to put it more clearly: In my first post, I expressed how I did not believe in true love until the process of maturity is as close to completed as it can get. Never once did I say I was bitter towards love. Bitterness is an astringent, resentful feeling plagued with unpleasant harness. That is not my feeling towards love.

I have two parents who love each other beyond words, no bitter feeling there. My cousin, though she married young and suffered some awful ordeals, managed to win her significant other. My own young loves have come and gone, but while I might feel a lingering sense of loss, I do not feel bitter towards the emotion itself, only the flakes who put me through so much pain who were connected to me through that emotion alone. It might seem like what I said was unfeeling, but that was my special, roundabout way of telling Kain to be careful. Spencer sounds like an awesome person, even if you did meet online. (I won't bug you with my feelings on -that- way of meeting people, but needless to say I don't look on it fondly. But whatever works for you, I suppose.) If you trust Spencer, then I say good for you. It's always fulfilling to believe that you've met that special someone.

Just, please, don't announce the wedding bells anytime soon.

Okay, that might have given you a shock because Spencer is only 15 and I'm guessing your somewhere close to that. First you should know something about me: I constantly worry about people. I attach to somebody, and then follow their lives even after our friendships have drifted apart. I don't like to see people get hurt. You might say that this is unhealthy and that I should get my own life, but trust me; I have a life and don't need any comments about the way I live it. When somebody who I used to be friends changes their ways and turns to a path that I don't agree with, I still care. I just don't interfere. This is my special, roundabout way of telling you I care, Kain. I realize that it is idiotic. Please forgive my oddities. *Sigh at own strangeness* I frequently have communication problems like this...

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