I agree, up to a point. It looks as though I was raised as you both were, our church was our social life, it was weddings, funerals, baby showers, all the stages of life that made the world go around. Having a strong southern background as well, it was the norm for the family to have the viewing in the home, in the parlor, while other relatives who came for the funeral slept the night before the funeral. I have to say it, was really creepy way up in the hollow, with no street lights anywhere and a night so dark you couldnt see your hand in front of your face! -- HarmyBoard LifeStyles

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Date Posted: 16:34:04 06/18/12 Mon
Author: mkim I think it does depend on the child...BUT, like so many things, I dont think many kids today are as prepared as we were, life and times were different.
Subject: I agree, up to a point. It looks as though I was raised as you both were, our church was our social life, it was weddings, funerals, baby showers, all the stages of life that made the world go around. Having a strong southern background as well, it was the norm for the family to have the viewing in the home, in the parlor, while other relatives who came for the funeral slept the night before the funeral. I have to say it, was really creepy way up in the hollow, with no street lights anywhere and a night so dark you couldnt see your hand in front of your face!
In reply to: The Chief (now if there's a behavioral issue with the child, if they squirm and can't sit still, then there is reason to keep them away so as not to disturb the procedings) 's message, "Modern times are much different than things were for centuries prior. There weren't funeral homes, per se, so bodies/caskets were laid out at home and funerals were a part of life - people died earlier, children often, and it was part of life. Now we try to shield the little ones from it. Depending on your religion, death is not a thing to be feared, as many feel it is the door to the afterlife/heaven, etc. With a strong foundation, children can handle it, I believe." on 09:46:52 06/15/12 Fri

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