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Date Posted: 12:28:32 11/25/15 Wed
Author: Alfred
Subject: Re: Spankings we never forget
In reply to: Susan 's message, "Re: Spankings we never forget" on 02:24:35 11/25/15 Wed



I was kind of naïve about life and justice. I felt that if I apologized, seemingly sincerely, I should be excused from my obviously earned spanking. In my mind there was no need for spanks or pain -- I could remember the lesson just from the scolding and the memorable sight on the yardstick or hairbrush poised to warm my bottom. I didn't need the actual spanks; just contemplating them had reformed me, induced my sincere apology, and would remind me not to repeat what I had done.

So, when I got the actual spanking, I thought it was unfair and, of course, it stung like I had sat on a hot stove! As we both can attest.

In addition, adding to my perception of unfairness, was the fact that when I reminded my mother, mid-spanking of course, that I was sorry and would never do it again, she did not immediately stop!

So, for me, I totally agree that while feeling the hairbrush or yardstick, I was a victim of injustice!

Afterwards, I also resented that there was nothing I could do to make it stop stinging! Rubbing helped and I really feel sorry for kids who had cornertime and a ban on rubbing. Were you allowed to rub?

I think later on maybe after sleeping "on it" (not really), I had a more balanced attitude. Still it wasn't easy to agree that I needed that incredible shock of the first spank and the building pain that the others induced. Were you always surprised by how much the first one could sting?










>Useful or unfair? Probably both depending on what I
>was thinking or doing when I say down and got the
>reminder of my recent misbehavior and the price I had
>to pay. Feeling unfair for me mostly occurred while I
>was still suffering the immediate effects of my
>spanking, the sting and the warm bottom at lest if I
>felt that I shouldn't have been spanked. Useful as I
>grew older the twinges over the next day or so
>reminded me of my misdeed and the fact that it
>probably would not be a good idea to go there again.

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