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Date Posted: 23:42:04 03/30/20 Mon
Author: Mike
Subject: Oh! Good question...
In reply to: Comicality 's message, "Imagine Question For 4/1" on 17:17:30 03/30/20 Mon

How would I feel if my SO was flirting and having an intimate connection to someone else, online (and IRL too)?

I wouldn't like it and things would have to change. I don't know if I would end the relationship, as I would if they had physically cheated on me. It depends on the situation.

I do consider it a form of cheating. Unlike pornography which is impersonal, and I wouldn't care if my SO was masturbating to porn. But I would if they were 'sexting' with someone online. It's the personal connection, not the porn aspect of it.

We'd at the very least have to have a conversation about why they're having this relationship with someone else, online. And it would either have to end, or we'd have to end. They might not have a choice. Even if they promised to end it, depending on the details, I might not be able to forgive them.

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  • This one's a little hard for me. (No pun intended, but gratefully accepted) -- TurtleBoy, 00:03:15 04/01/20 Wed

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