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Date Posted: 09:55:02 02/07/26 Sat
Author: Mike
Subject: Yes, and yes..
In reply to: JeffsFort 's message, "IMAGINE Magazine Question for 3/15 - "Definitely 'NOT' Staring"" on 18:10:03 02/05/26 Thu

I had lots of crushes on school friends etc, and I wasn't out so they were all covert. Except for the few friends I had the chance to fool around with, and a boyfriend. There was no holding back from them. But I usually need the other person to make the first move, or show the first signs of interest, before make my own feelings clear. Not just because of the posible rejection, but also the risk of making things awkward.

Though the secret glances you asked about sounds more like how I was during the showers after PE and games. Getting the best sneak peaks I could to 'think' about later when I got home.

I've always been careful about how I check people out, anyway. Not always because of my sexuality, but just because of how it might make them feel. I don't want people to think I have a one track mind or that I don't value them as a person as well.

Though a hot person's a hot person, I will appreciate their fine gifts, without disturbing them if I can. It doesn't ever have to be more than that.

Have I ever been caught? I can't remember that happening. Sometimes I overcompensate if anything, which also makes me paranoid about me acting paranoid. It's a weird feedback loop. Like deliberately looking in another direction or giving someone more space than they need if they're walking past, etc. I'm just a basket case xD

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  • Sort of -- Dom, 11:31:17 02/21/26 Sat
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