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Subject: Re: 聖經中存在性別歧視嗎?


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Date Posted: 13:28:58 04/29/04 Thu
In reply to: 基督徒 's message, "Re: 聖經中存在性別歧視嗎?" on 13:03:39 04/29/04 Thu
 //其實這些教導是對基督徒說的，教外人是沒有想到要聽聖經的教導而生活的，他們所跟隨的是世界的潮流和風俗，但基督徒郤不是這樣，他們有神的靈在心中，也願意聽神話而生活。//

But Christians who know that the scriptures only reflected a sexist society in Biblical time, should realize that and not follow those sexist tradition.

//對於一對跟隨神和願意愛神的夫婦來說，他們彼此願意學習相愛，作丈夫的愛妻子，順服他又如何呢？//

The point is not it is 'easy or difficult' for a Christian wife to obey her husband.

The point is it is 'wrong' in principle to 'tell' any wife to obey on husband because of a sexist tradition.

Wife could choose what she want with her husband. But it is not a 'requirement'. To put it as a requirement is enforcing sexism. That is unacceptable.


//難道怕他點條黑路給妳行嗎？//

What the husband 'tell' the wife to obey doesn't really matter. The point is that the husband would be a sexist (a jerk) to even think that he has the right to tell his wife what to do.

//如果妻子覺得有問題，當然要題醒丈夫，如果妻子的意見是好的話，他必會思考或接納她的意見，又那怕他的思考或決策能力比妻子低呢？//

You missed the point again. The wife has more than the right to 'suggest' to husband what to do.

Wife has equal right with husband. That is the basic.

If the husband is 'dumber' than the wife, the husband should follow the wife and see her as the decision maker of the household.

//其實，對於一對愛主的夫婦來說，根本就不需介意怎麼平等不平等//

From what you said, you are either a man (who is a sexist) or a woman who support male chauvinism.

To couples who love God, gender equality is the basic of their relationship. Of course it matter.

//各按各職，在愛中一同被建立是他們所盼望做到的，而不是什麼權。//

Not true. Only when they are equal in right would they be able to live in love and harmony.

If you still haven't noticed, I hate sexists, espeically sexists who go to church. Their bullshits is poison to Christianity.

//為何要爭取男女平等？//

Because there is sexism, gender inequality. And women are being oppressed and denied their basic rights by male chauvinists.

The fight will go on until gender equality is a given, a reality.

//是因為在沒有愛的情況下，權利就成了人的保障。//

Oppressing other and trying to deny women rights of equality is not 'love', it is a form of hatred. I don't see love if anyone try to promote sexism.


We don't expect the oppressors give up their 'power' freely. And lying about their intention and mislabelled it 'love' wouldn't change a thing.
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