The first and last photos his mom looks so hurt. First finding out Harm Sr might be alive in Russia and then finding out her husband had a child while in Russia. The middle one she looks so happy, it was after she and Frank renewed their vows. I remember thinking 'I wonder how she felt finding out Harm Sr was alive and she had remarried'. I wonder if that whole story line is why Harm had a difficult time committing to someone. He didn't want to leave a wife with the agony his mom went through. Just one of those side thoughts to the show. -- The HarmyBoard Portal

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Date Posted: 21:12:00 05/10/15 Sun
Author: usmgrad
Subject: The first and last photos his mom looks so hurt. First finding out Harm Sr might be alive in Russia and then finding out her husband had a child while in Russia. The middle one she looks so happy, it was after she and Frank renewed their vows. I remember thinking 'I wonder how she felt finding out Harm Sr was alive and she had remarried'. I wonder if that whole story line is why Harm had a difficult time committing to someone. He didn't want to leave a wife with the agony his mom went through. Just one of those side thoughts to the show.
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[> [> Since Harm's father died in Russia before Sergei was born, and Trish and Frank only renewed their vows in Season 6, AFTER she heard what Harm had told her about his search, I think she wanted to tie up loose ends with her marriage to Frank. She may have always felt she was cheating on Harm Sr. until Harm Jr. discovered the truth. -- The Chief, 13:49:43 05/14/15 Thu

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[> [> [> Did you notice Frank seemed to be pointing towards the house when he said... Inside -- Liz, 19:05:22 07/20/15 Mon

"The ghost of your father has always been between us." and then he goes on to say, "Your mom needs closure as much as you do."

I've always assumed that the first sentence and the gesture were both meant to indicate Frank was referring to Trish, not Harm. So yeah, I think it's quite likely she struggled at times with the thought of having betrayed Harm Sr. Her own words were that she'd always held a little bit back, waiting for Harm Sr. And Frank either knew because they'd talked about it or could tell. That he never seems to have let it affect his commitment makes him an incredible man, in my book.

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