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[> Re: 50th Reunion -- Larry Broga, 06:03:20 11/30/13 Sat [1]

A big thank-you to the whole committee who worked so hard to make this one the very best reunions ever. I have talked to many people over the years about their reunions, and none compare with ours.
I am not one to make a bucket list, having done most anything I wanted, but having a reunion and being able to reconnect with my classmates has been a wish of mine for some time now. Thank-you again for making this happen, it meant a great deal to me and I truly appreciated it.

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[> [> Re: 50th Reunion -- Phil Faherty, 11:26:40 12/01/13 Sun [1]

I too, wish to thank our commitee members for all of the hard work and planning that produced an outstanding 50th reunion celebration. Great Job!

To John, great job on WHS63. Thank you for all the postings and follow up to the reunion, it is appreciated!

To Ruth, thank you for inspiring our class to communicate and to produce a 50th reunion. You were missed physically at the reunion, but you were there in our hearts and minds.

I read your last paragraph of the home page on this site and sadly understand. Thanks again for your hard work and dedication.

Best regards to all, I hope the Holiday Season brings joy to your lives.

Phil

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[> Re: September Info for WHS63 Reunion -- Martha, 20:49:52 09/09/13 Mon [1]

John, Judi, Sue McA, Don, Pat, Sue West,Gordon and Karen,
Thank you, everyone, for all your hard work on the Reunion Committee. It sounds wonderful and I'm sure it will be a fun weekend. It isn't long now! I am really looking forward to it.
Thanks again and I'll see you in less than 2 weeks.
Cheers,
Martha

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[> Re: Another Jaime Brockett Concert - April 7, 2012 -- Karen Toney, 14:56:56 09/07/12 Fri [1]

My Bad - this is very late but wanted to say how nice it was to see Jaime perform and to get to talk to him after the concert. We had a good time and shared some memories. Help him get well soon by sending him an email or a card.

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[> Re: SCAM EMAILS -- Bob Poskitt, 13:24:21 10/19/11 Wed [1]

Thank you, Ruth, for your timely alert to the class. Yes, I was hacked last week and my Address List, Inbox, Folders, and Sent Messages were all stolen and deleted from my account. They even knew we were planning a trip to London last week and sent that scam message about being mugged over there. In addition, the State Dept has been involved re fraud in the misuse of our passport information.

It has taken me a full week to recover my lost identity. Since I have no Address List or records, I have not been able to share this experience with anyone else.

My advice is to be sure you have passwords that are 100% secure. Do not use personal names, streets, cities, pets, cars, etc. as professionals can deduce them with the right illegal software.

I hope no one else was impacted. Ruth's advice is excellent in that you should never respond if you suspect a scam. If you reply with an email 'to help,' it will go directly to the person who is scamming and they could readily worm their way into your personal accounts.

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[> [> Re: SCAM EMAILS -- Ruth K, 12:59:08 10/20/11 Thu [1]

Gad!!! Bob, I had no idea it was that bad! Did you buy a new computer? If you're thinking about it, think hard about getting a Mac. Seriously, you would love it and be much safer. You also really need a backup hard drive, and need to use it every day. My Mac backs up automatically every few hours to an external hard drive. I learned my lesson once. Do you have the same or different email address? And are you still going to London or did this experience ruin those plans for you???

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[> [> [> Re: SCAM EMAILS -- Bob Poskitt, 13:20:31 10/20/11 Thu [1]

Yes, I have the same email address and would welcome messages so I can re-enter your email addresses into my address book. And, No, we are no longer planning a trip to London when so much excitement happens right here!

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[> Re: SCAM EMAILS -- patti, 20:00:52 11/04/11 Fri [1]

Ruth thanks so much for getting the e-mail to Bob P about the scam . I was having a problem with some of my addresses and figured the best way to let him know was thru you. I have now fixed the problem. When I received the distress e-mail from Bob in London I knew it had to be a scam. Again thanks for getting in touch with him for me. Hope all is well. Patti

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[> Re: Ideas for Reunion -- meredith wilson sumner, 13:38:46 09/14/11 Wed [1]

First, apologies for not participating in the planning event, but car engine and other systems went belly-up this summer - and spirits were as low as "infrastructure."
I'm with Martha - If it takes money - let's use it for present fun - food, music, and/or photo - I have so much "memorabilia" that just gets recycled. I, personally, have too many teeshirts, insulated coffee mugs, regular mugs, that takes up space. For one, I'm into less - but photos really recreate the event and don't take up much room. Blah blah blah. Meri

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[> Re: Ideas for Reunion -- Phil Faherty, 17:29:42 09/14/11 Wed [1]

Looks like the ball is rolling and there are alot of great ideas out there. My wife's class just had their 45th and it too, was a 2 night event held at a local Marriott. The hotel provided for a great atmosphere to mingle during the day, take off on different events, golf, shopping, gambling etc. First night was a cocktail party and the second night was dinner and dancing. As an outsider, I had a great time and we would want our spouses, partners attending our reunion to feel as welcome.

I'm sure we can come up with some kind of souvenior for the reunion that would last awhile and keep our memories alive. I use letter openers, mouse pads, freezer mugs etc for our business and they are well received...and get used. I still(as does Vicky K) use the ruler the First National Bank of Westboro gave us back in '63.

It's great to see the interest that has been generated over the past several months and a special thanks to Ruth, John and the 1st reunion committee.

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[> Re: Date of Reunion -- Ruth K, 13:24:53 09/11/11 Sun [1]

I agree! Autumn is my favorite time of year everywhere, but especially in New England. Air fares and accommodations are generally lower after Labor Day as well. Sookie's idea of a picnic-type event somewhere locally to get reacquainted prior to the Saturday night big dinner is a good thought--maybe on the Friday afternoon.

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[> Re: Ruth Darlow's brother Richard has passed away -- martha oleson, 15:02:13 08/17/11 Wed [1]

I remember Ruth Darlow's brother as well. He was a very nice fellow, quiet and gentle. My condolences to Ruth and her family. Does anyone who reads this forum know Ruth or keep in touch with her in any way?

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[> Re: Robert Kirby -- Jeff Barclay, 09:20:50 05/23/11 Mon [1]

Mr. Kirby was an excellent coach as well as a true gentleman.. May he rest in peace.

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[> Re: Passing -- Ruth K, 12:42:42 04/27/11 Wed [1]

Mike, I am so terribly sorry! I knew nothing about the accident 5 years ago. It must have been horrible. My sympathy to you and your family as well as to Sue and Fred and family.

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[> Re: Passing -- Judi G., 09:44:01 04/28/11 Thu [1]

I am sorry to hear of your family's as well as the Fecitt/Skog family's loss. What a tragedy!

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[> Re: David's Passing -- Martha, 12:50:40 04/28/11 Thu [1]

Mike,
I'm so sorry to hear of David's passing. You had told me about the accident a year or so ago in one of our previous email exchanges, and I've often wondered how he was doing. I often thought of Susan as well and how her life had changed with that accident. My heart-felt sympathies go out to your sister Susan, Susan Fecitt Skog and her family and your Mother and you.
Sincerely,
Martha

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[> Re: Passing -- Diana Edwards, 18:44:59 10/11/11 Tue [1]

Somehow I missed this note earlier. I'm so sorry.

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[> Re: 50th -- Patti, 23:49:51 04/07/11 Thu [1]

Hi to all, As I have stated Larry"s idea of the WCC would be a great place to have our 50th. I think the sooner we make a decision would be helpful to those classmates who have to travel a long distance. Finances are certainly a concern for those who have to make travel plans etc. Reading some of the reply's I get the feeling that the majority so far like the CC . Correct me if I'm wrong. Thanks Larry for your hard work. Patti

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[> Re: Our 50th Reunion -- Sookie Stockwell Weymouth, 08:25:37 03/28/11 Mon [1]

I concur. One of the reasons I skipped the last reunion was money, and another was plans for music and dancing. I wouldn't mind getting together at our old H.S. with simple fare, background music, time and place to talk. I can do without booze, if that's an issue with the site we choose. Let's find a place and a date soon so we can all make our plans, which might include lowest cost travel and place to stay.

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[> Re: Our 50th Reunion -- Mike L., 14:58:55 03/28/11 Mon [1]

I'm available for planning meetings or whatever. I still have access to the clubhouse in Ludlow for that, if needed. It's free and has whatever. Let me know. MIke L.

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[> Re: Our 50th Reunion -- Martha (Hooks) Oleson, 18:07:06 03/28/11 Mon [1]

I totally agree with John, Moby and Sookie that we should keep the costs of the reunion down, but we want it to be lots of fun as well. This is a 50th reunion!!! We definitely want a venue that allows alcohol. The high school cafeteria idea might be fun (and nostalgic as well) as long as we can get a permit for alcohol. In many school districts, it is possible to get a 24 hour alcohol permit for adult dances or fund-raisers, etc. Another idea is that someone in the class might belong to a club in the Westboro area that has free rooms available for members, especially if you buy their food and drink. If we end up not having the reunion in the high school, we should definitely have a high school tour at some point.

I also agree that when we say "our class" we are referring to anyone who was part of our class even for a few weeks/days! However, I think that other folks who want to attend the reunion (brothers, sisters, friends) should be invited by a member of the class. Then that guest is accountable to the classmate who extended the invitation. Since we have been on-line, there have been lots of people who are not in the class following our class conversations, and there are probably many we don't even know about. For obvious reasons, the reunion probably should be by invitation only.

I really think we are ready for a Chairperson and a Team to work on this, preferably folks who are in the Massachusetts area. Are any of you who met with Mike last summer interested in doing this? I know you did a lot of brain storming! I'm sorry that I can't volunteer but I live the greatest distance away and I'm not even in the country. It would be too difficult for me. So that is my 2 cents worth! Thanks, Tiny, for getting the ball rolling with this. Also, Mega thanks to Ruth for making this communication possible!
Cheers,
Martha

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[> Re: Our 50th Reunion -- Ruth K, 02:28:31 03/29/11 Tue [1]

Hi All,

I think Tiny's ideas are good. Even though our old high school cafeteria isn't a fancy venue, we all have lots of fun memories of that place, including school lunches (where Peter Crowell always stole food off everyone else's tray while they went to get their milk), all kinds of fun dances, and so much more. I don't care whether there's alcohol or not, but keeping the costs down is good, as some of us will have high-fare plane tickets. I already emailed Tiny that I have virtually all of the old music we love on iTunes and can bring my laptop (or maybe iPad by then) to provide free music, so no DJ or live band necessary or even desirable. Oh, Carbone's -- talk about memories! We went there in everything from Halloween costumes and football uniforms to prom gowns and tuxes. What an awesome place and food! This makes me really want to do it!

Also, if anyone wants to get together in smaller localized groups (like the little get-together last summer), I think that's great. I hope maybe some of you can visit me in the summer or fall either this year or next, whenever. We just don't know anymore where or when or if any of us will see each other again, so we need to grab opportunities that present themselves.

I love you guys!

Ruth

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[> Re: Our 50th Reunion -- Phil Faherty, 17:05:45 03/30/11 Wed [1]

Wow....it sounds like you’re planning a wake, not a reunion. We’re not that old!!!! Let’s have some fun.

I can appreciate the quiet time to reflect and reconnect, that’s why a reunion should be hotel based to allow for more time than just a dinner and conversation. I would think quite a few classmates would be traveling from afar and would need accommodations anyway.

There most be a decent hotel in Westboro that would have reasonably priced rooms as well as other amenities. Planning an arrival on Friday with a dinner on Saturday would allow for reconnecting throughout the day on Saturday as well as time for other activities such as golf, a town tour or just visiting with classmates to name a few.

For the main event, I would think a cocktail hour followed by dinner, a couple short speeches and some light entertainment would be nice. In all probability there will be spouses in attendance and we should consider them, don’t want to bore them out of their minds.

Although I was a member of the class for only four years(1st, 2nd, 11th & 12th grades) and don’t have the long time roots that a lot of you have, it would still be nice to reconnect and catch up on the last 50 years.

Should we wait until 2013 for our 50th or have a 49th in 2012 instead? When the roses are blooming......smell ‘em!

As far as inviting non class members, let’s get a head count first and then see if we will need more people to make the numbers work. With my comments, we’ve heard from six classmates. Is anyone out there? Speak up(please).

Best regards to all,

Phil

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[> [> Re: Our 50th Reunion -- charlie o., 18:32:02 03/30/11 Wed [1]

I hope more people can speak up about this special time in our lives for it is only going to happen once. I agree with Phil that this should be fun for ALL at this event and a school anything would not be very much fun. Heck going to the state forrest would be more fun for many of us. I totally agree with those who have money concerns and hope they could start to put a little aside as I will. Is there a easy way to email all who have signed on to the site and ask for there opions or choices?. John has started making this site to look alive again and I would hate to see all Ruth's hard work waisted. Speak up guys! I am in for anything so lets keep chatting. Chas

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[> Re: Our 50th Reunion -- Diana Whittemore Edwards, 21:55:28 03/30/11 Wed [1]

Hello All,
I like the idea of blending economy with a comfortable setting that lends itself to conversational gatherings, while offering amenities to those – like spouses – who want a break from all the catching up. Many small hotels offer meeting/function rooms that might meet our needs. With a hotel serving as our headquarters, as it were, those who have traveled a distance have the opportunity to rest and refresh with some convenience. While I would hope that something other than a school might be available for the 50th reunion, it could be that this is the best value as we strive to keep the overhead low. In my opinion, it's important to make this an event that doesn't strain anyone's wallet. I would hope that as many classmates as possible will join in the fun of getting together, reminiscing, and saying hello after all these years! It seems we need a local reunion team to explore the options. I’m in favor of planning the reunion for 2013. Warm regards, Diana

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[> Re: Our 50th Reunion -- Larry, 05:42:13 03/31/11 Thu [1]

Well, I guess it's time for me to speak up and I hope no one takes offense to what I have to say. Our 50th. reunion is a milestone and may well be the last time many of us will ever get together again. Do we really want to spend this time sitting on hard plastic chairs in a smelly school cafeteria while dining on pizza out of a box? Personally, I won't travel from Florida for that type of scenario. Maybe I haven't matured as much as many of you, because I am still very young at heart and enjoy having fun. So here is my suggestion. I think the gathering should be held in Westboro, but you will find that the hotels and their function rooms are among the most expensive in MA. The Westboro Country Club has three function rooms, one large and two smaller. I would like, as a gesture of friendship and thanks for still considering me a class member, provide these rooms and a basic buffet for up to 100 people (members & significant others). Non-members and guests could attend at a nominal cost. The three rooms would give us the ability to move some tables in the large room for music and dancing after dinner while the two smaller rooms could serve as breakout rooms for more intimate and quiet conversation. If this is agreeable to the masses and a date, preferably a Saturday in either June, July or August (I don't do cold) of 2013 could be picked, I will start to make the arangements. Maybe a committee of members who still live locally could begin to plan some peripheral activities such as school and city tours, golfing, tennis, etc. etc. This time frame would give everybody more than two years to save for travel expenses. This would also give us plenty of time to reach out to all the members.
Ruth, if you or somebody else could put this out in an email so as to get everyone's opinion, that would be great. I'm not sure my email list is up to date.
OK folks, the ball is in your court, what do you want to do?

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[> [> Re: Our 50th Reunion -- Ruth K, 07:14:40 03/31/11 Thu [1]

Larry, I like your idea. The Country Club sounds like an ideal venue with a combination of easy location, function rooms, and hopefully good food. But am I understanding this right? Are you offering to spring for the buffet yourself? That would be a huge expense that should probably be shared among participants. Getting the Country Club on a summer weekend might be a little tough as well, but we do have two years to plan.

This is exactly what this discussion forum is all about--to bash around ideas. The more, the merrier, so everyone, please add your 2 cents and we will come up with the best combination of plans.

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[> [> [> Re: Our 50th Reunion -- Larry, 12:37:50 03/31/11 Thu [1]

Yes, it is my intention to provide the rooms and buffet. I have been in contact with the country club and it will be no problem. I will take care of all those arrangements as soon as a date and alternate date are agreed upon.

The country club holds fond memories for me. I caddied there while in junior high then played there later on. And one can never forget tobogganing and sledding the course. My best memory, though, is when Patty Horne and I won a twist contest at some kind of a function we were attending at the club! My mother still has one of the little trophies we won.

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[> [> [> [> Re: Our 50th Reunion -- Martha, 14:25:45 03/31/11 Thu [1]

Larry, I love your idea!! You are so right---the 50th Reunion should be a memorable. The country club holds a lot of memories for me as well. I think this is the Number 1 idea! Your very generous offer plus two years to save money should make the trip affordable to everyone. Cheers to you!

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[> [> [> [> Re: Our 50th Reunion -- Diana W. Edwards, 19:01:06 03/31/11 Thu [1]

Yes! The Country Club would be tops! Thanks, Larry, for setting us straight. What were we thinking! 50 years is an event! We definitely need to do it up right! Best to all, Diana

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[> [> [> Re: Our 50th Reunion -- Pat Romkey, 23:52:25 04/06/11 Wed [1]

Larry, Great idea for having the 50th at the Country Club..Thanks for the offer of making the arrangements for the club. I myself think that the reunion should take place in 2013 and just hope and pray the one's that are here now will be able to attend. I wished I could remember the twist contest we won, but at this age I sometimes forget what I had for supper. Right now we (Ralph,Bob and Sue West and myself are in Carrabelle,Fl. We are taking a trip cross countrythat will take us to New Orleans,Tx,Santa Fe, Grand Canyon, Hoover Dam, Ca, and on to Hawaii for a 1 wk cruise and 2 wks in Kauai. Then returning and doing northern Ca and home the nth route. Longest we have been away from our grandchildren, glad we are able to see them on skype. Modern tech, who would have thought. Well hope to see everyone in 2013. Again thanks

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[> [> Re: Our 50th Reunion -- Joanna Whittemore D'Andrea, 18:59:56 03/31/11 Thu [1]

Greetings!
Larry, thank you so much for this wonderful suggestion, and for your very gracious and generous offer! I think this would be an ideal venue - replete with all the amenities! This will be an occasion of a lifetime - a celebration to remember...let's make it top drawer!

In recent years, I've stayed in Westborough at both the Doubletree and another hotel nearby (I can't remember the name of it!), and found both of them reasonably priced and very agreeable. No doubt 'reunion group rates' could be arranged, which benefit all those coming from a distance.

It's great to see so many jumping in with ideas and suggestions and I, for one, am looking forward reconnecting after all these years! Let's keep the dialogue going.

Warm good wishes to everyone!

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[> [> Re: Our 50th Reunion -- meredith wilson sumner - aka meri wilson, 15:16:50 05/04/11 Wed [1]

I'm with Larry - graciousness (no plastic chairs with a cafeteria smell) while thinking of economics. Maybe some classmates who live near Westboro with space might be be able to offer housing to classmates who want to come but have economic limitations and those of us who are single could double up in local lodging. There are creative ways to make this event affordable without abandoning comfort, fun, and graciousness (Larry, yes!) Maybe those with more resources would be willing to pay the higher contribution at WCC? I don't know how that gets sorted out - but it might just work without oversight? Just some thoughts for making it work. I also think that a date should be set soon so planning can begin so those who want to come have time to plan. Those for whom this event is a priority will make it so - and find ways to fit it into their schedule and make it work financially. If everything has to be perfect, nothing will happen. I for one am in a phase of "good enough" especially if we can be happy and laugh and maybe even dance. Music is key (for me) and I hope Ruth will reconsider her music offer - and dancing would work for me. My two cents.
I am really looking forward to the ultimate event as well as the planning process. But who is in charge??? Don't we need someone to set dates and meetings or whatever is needed? I'm a bit on the periphery - not having graduated with you all - and a bit far afield. Is there someone in MA, the most appropriate planning venue, who might be willing to start the process? I'm prepared to travel and do whatever I can and make attendance a priority.
thanks Larry - thanks Ruth -
looking forward to reconnecting sometime soon.
Meri Wilson Sumner

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[> Re: Our 50th Reunion -- Phil Faherty, 09:25:42 03/31/11 Thu [1]

Larry, thanks for your generous offer and I would be willing to share some of the expense with you. We can discuss at a later date. I'm with you and Charlie, would not be interested in traveling from Fl or PA for a chat and pizza in a high school cafeteria(no offense, John and others).

If the Westboro CC is available, that would be great. I did a quick search for hotels in Westboro and found the Doubletree is close to the Westboro Country Club and rooms for this June are $109.00 a night. They have a restaurant, bar/lounge and other amenities. That price is pretty reasonable. The Doubletree doesn't quote prices two years out, but I would think the 2013 rates would be in line with current rates. They would probably offer a group discount as well. It would be a short cab ride from the CC for those who may have had a cocktail or two.

Ruth, thanks for your efforts and getting the site back up and running. John, thanks for sparking interest in the reunion plans.

Charlie had suggested a e-mail blast to direct classmates to the forum, good idea.

Phil

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[> [> Re: Our 50th Reunion -- Judi Grey Smith, 08:19:16 04/01/11 Fri [1]

OKAY, I'm in! I'm hoping Gordon jumps on the bandwagon too.. I will get some local pricing for several options, lay them out & we can decide. With the several options we have for what folks want, I think we can have a great party while keeping costs "down".
Thank you, Larry for all your encouragement over the years for this to happen & now the CC offer. (I'll ship you a homemade chicken pot pie thank you! Ha! Ha!)
I agree with several folks though that one hotel locally could be the central location for the weekend & we can arrange tour pickups, etc from there. We have so many hotels/motels in Westborough now & each one trying to outdo the other, this may be to our advantage. By the way, the Doubletree is the "old" Marriot on the hill at 495 for those wondering WHERE it is located. I DO think we can get an "in the range of" pricing this far ahead as they do it for weddings.
I have always put together & printed (wherever I was working)"the booklet" with all the questionnaires with either Gordon or Charlie drawing the cover. In the past, it has always been a hit BUT now that all is electronic & I don't pretend to be a whiz at this stuff, do we still want to know how many kids, do you look like your dog, etc that we don't already get on the website?? We could probably put together a picture album (electronically) after the event.
A big question is, I don't remember who has the bank book but there is probably no money in "our" account as we have always kept the cost pretty close to the bone at previous reunions. I will let you know if there are deposits necessary that I can not cover & we can discuss how that's gonna' go.
So Sue, we can be in touch (you're not that far away) & I hope we hear from a few others close by to do some legwork, as I KNOW John, Larry & Charlie would be on it if they were closer as they have in the past. I'm pretty sure we can rely on Karen T. to help, as well.
So with a little support, I think you can consider the Westboro High School Class of 1963 50th Reunion at the very least "in process".
In all sincerity, this is NOT MY ballgame, but we need to start saying "we are doing this" instead of "we should do this". We ARE doing this, folks!!!
P.S. I'm going to start with an estimate of 35-40 people just so I have a figure to work with. Ruth, do you think this is a feasible? Don't forget, not all current enthusiasm is met with a commitment in the end.

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[> [> [> Re: Our 50th Reunion -- Ruth K, 14:10:09 04/01/11 Fri [1]

Judi, Thanks for jumping in with so many good ideas and, as always, volunteering for the hard work involved in planning. Right now I have 40 on the email list, but I hope this number goes up substantially as we make a big drive to rally the troops. And I do think we should invite friends from nearby classes at WHS, especially some who still live in Westboro or nearby and stay active, like Paula Haynes Skog (her class did a reunion recently, I read on Facebook). I'm hoping we get 75 or more people including spouses and guests. We can do this! And I want a chicken pot pie, too!

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[> [> [> Re: Our 50th Reunion -- Joanna Whittemore D'Andrea, 15:58:03 04/01/11 Fri [1]

Some wonderful ideas, Judy! Your suggestion of a booklet - photo (How else will we know eachother?!), brieF bio info - could include as little or as much as you choose-is a great one, and I like the suggestion of a photo page following the event!
Thanks to those who live close by for stepping up to volunteer. Yes, this IS underway!
Joanna

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[> Re: Our 50th Reunion - Great Idea -- John Elberfeld, 10:01:10 04/01/11 Fri [1]

Hi everybody,

I like hamburger, but would never turn down a steak if it were offered.

I'd be happy to meet at the old high school, but we would be crazy not to embrace Larry's fantastic offer of the country club.

To show our appreciation for his contribution, we should do what we can to help. We all have different skills. I suggest we start by making sure as many classmates and friends as possible know about this web site and our plans. Some may choose not to participate, but at least we can be sure that is their decision. Let Ruth know how to contact people missing from her list, please.

Keep in mind that some of the most supportive people do not appear in our yearbook - I hope this reunion will bring all our old friends and acquaintances together again.

Thanks,
John

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[> [> Re: Our 50th Reunion - Great Idea -- Larry, 06:13:12 04/02/11 Sat [1]

WOW !!! I'm sure glad I lit the fire, now let's keep the pot boiling !!!! I don't know about y'all (that's Florida talk), but I'm excited about this.

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[> Our 50th Reunion Planning Get-Together -- John Elberfeld, 17:21:27 04/03/11 Sun [1]

Hi,
If what is left of my memory is still accurate, often the work and planning parties before the big dance or prom were more fun than the actual event itself.

2011 is too soon for a full-fledged reunion, but an open planning party sounds great to me. All the fun without the hassle. As the flurry of emails confirms, getting together to plan the reunion this summer is a great idea. Driving in from Upstate NY to MA or VT or NH is worth the trouble.

Please keep EVERYONE informed so we can all participate and contribute to the best of our abilities. If you are not yet on Ruth's email list, send her your info!

John Elberfeld
66 Beebe Road
Berne, NY 12023

JElberfeld@AOL.COM
WWW.J-Elberfeld.com
518 872-2082

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[> Re: Our 50th Reunion -- Phil Faherty, 08:48:49 04/05/11 Tue [1]

Bob, you are not alone in considering an earlier date for a reunion. I posted my thoughts in the Forum on 3/30, "Should we wait until 2013 for our 50th or have a 49th in 2012 instead? When the roses are blooming......smell ‘em!", before your e-mail. I guess no one paid any attention to it. Nevertheless, earlier posts suggested no one really cared if it was a "50th" or not, they just wanted to have a reunion.

2 1/2 years is a ways off and unfortunately, some of us reading this now may not be around in 2 1/2 years or may be in-capacitated in some way. We're all on time bombs and who knows who will be next. From my own personal experience, my wife of 42 years was diagnosed with Non Hodgkin's Lymphoma in May of 2005, it was a real eye opener (she's in remission) for us. As I mentioned earlier, when the roses are blooming....smell 'em. It's a philosophy that everyone should embrace. The other is Q.T.R., Quality Time Remaining, let's not waste it.

Regarding the reunion, I would think the main focus would be to locate our lost classmates first, there is plenty of time to plan the event. Once more classmates are located, then we could take a survey from all and decide what date and events would be most desirable.

The volunteers to find classmates could work together through the website or e-mail to keep a record of efforts put forth.

I'm going to post these comments to the Forum, which I think was Ruth's intention. The Forum is an on-going dialogue and provides a "Paper Trail" of what has been expressed. E-mails on the other hand go away.

It's interesting to see the enthusiasm of our class, but it still seems there is an "In Crowd" and then all others. These barriers should be removed and a greater time shall be had by all.

A no reply to this entry re-inforces the "In Crowd" theory.

Enough said,


Phil

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[> [> Re: Our 50th Reunion -- Diana Whittemore, 09:13:13 04/05/11 Tue [1]

Hello All,
Thanks, Bob and Phil, for asking us consider and reconsider the options. While I think 2 1/2 years will pass in a wink, and am an optimist at heart, the future is an unknown for each of us. I would be willing to gather in 2012 if the majority deems that best. I'm a day's drive from Massachusetts so it's an easy decision for me, but I know that's not true for everyone. I'll help in any way possible and be happy to go with the flow. Warm regards, Diana

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[> [> [> Re: Our 50th Reunion -- Diana Whittemore, 10:01:36 04/05/11 Tue [1]

P.S. Phil, I'm sorry about your wife's Lymphoma and am glad to learn that it is in remission. Thanks for reminding us that QTR (quality time remaining) is an excellent philosophy for each of us, particularly at this time in our life. We just never know what life will deliver.

I agree, cliques are not in anyone's best interest.

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[> [> [> [> Re: Our 50th Reunion -- Phil Faherty, 10:22:49 04/05/11 Tue [1]

Thanks Diana, It's been an interesting road to Jeri's recovery, she is one tough cookie! We have embraced the Q.T.R. philosophy and savoring each moment of breath we have. Life delivers many wake up calls.

Phil

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[> [> [> Re: Our 50th Reunion -- Phil Faherty, 10:16:07 04/05/11 Tue [1]

Hi Diana: You're right, it well pass in a wink. Looking forward does seems longer than looking back. Here we are looking at the passing of 50 years, a few winks. Back in 63, we could hardly fathom the turn of the century and now we're already 11 years into it. I too, am open to whatever the consenus is regarding a reunion date. We just have to understand that the clock is ticking and we should not assume that we'll be as healthy and alive in two years as we are today. I'm not a pessimist, I'm the eternal optimist, but reality certainly is big player.

Phil

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[> [> Re: Our 50th Reunion -- Ruth K, 15:28:52 04/05/11 Tue [1]

I am not going to make this decision alone, and neither is anyone else! We're talking about our 50th High School Reunion, which is a once in a lifetime event. I have received comments from a number of mates opting for the 2013 date, but they sent the email to me, not to the entire class. The only ones I know thus far opting for 2012 are Bob, Allyson, and Phil.

There is NO in-crowd and out-crowd, and I take offense at Phil's remarks. It was Tiny's email that suggested we post this discussion on the Forum because not everyone gets their email and less than half the class is on the email list. Not everyone looks at the Forum either, so both venues have merit in trying to reach a democratic decision. It would be nice if everyone would respond, but that won't happen. But let's NOT point fingers at those who do offer input for everyone else's consideration and accuse them of being the in-crowd!

Earlier discussion for a reunion in 2010 or 2011 at Leigh's farm was about an unnumbered class party, without eliminating a future 50th reunion. Due to Leigh's health issues, that party did not happen.

It's fine to have small committee meetings to make reunion plans, and those meetings are like mini-reunions of their own. But the decision about what year the 50th Reunion should be held needs to be decided by the class at large and NOT by a small committee. Why does this start to stink of Washington, DC?

Ruth

PS - This need not be a fast decision. We have lots of time. I think 60-90 days for input and trying to locate others is a reasonable timeframe for a vote.

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[> [> [> Re: Our 50th Reunion -- Martha, 16:00:02 04/05/11 Tue [1]

I'm very sorry that your wife had lymphoma, Phil, but happy to hear she is in remission. I'll keep her in my prayers. I think since we are all around 65 or 66, most of us have had wake-up calls in our families one way or another, and you are right that we should "smell the roses." We should also be nice to each other.

I don't understand why you are labeling people who responded to an invitation for input to the reunion as the "In Crowd," and then go on to set up a challenge that a "no-reply to this entry reinforces the "In Crowd" Theory. People have responded out of enthusiasm and most everyone said they would go along with the date chosen by the majority, anyway. I feel badly by your comments and puzzled by them, especially since you've done your share of responding. It is a definite downer.

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[> [> [> [> Re: Our 50th Reunion IT WILL HAPPEN -- Bob Poskitt, 20:26:47 04/05/11 Tue [1]

I want everyone to take a deep breath, hold it, now blow it out. Do it again. OK. Now I want each of us to take the baggage we are carrying on our shoulders and let it fall to the floor. The good news is that there was no sound because it really was not that significant, was it.

We are doing this to help clear the air and get back on track to planning one of the most exciting events that will happen to us in the next 1 to 2 years. And that is seeing all the people who helped us be who we are today. I can't speak for everyone, but for me it is really important that this does happen. What does not make sense is to get crosswise with each other as we try to reconnect in a more meaningful way.

I like Ruth's idea to take some time to reply to my initial question on the Reunion date........like until the end of May. At that time, the consensus will be used by the Reunion Committee to start the planning process. So that gives us the interim for the Committee to form its membership.......and for them to choose their leader (s).

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[> [> [> [> [> Re: Our 50th Reunion IT WILL HAPPEN -- Ruth K, 21:22:45 04/05/11 Tue [1]

A ZEBRA IS A HORSE DESIGNED BY A COMMITTEE.

It's already April, and I think we should allow at least until the end of June or July for a decision about whether to have a 49th reunion in 2012 or a 50th reunion in 2013. And it should NOT be a committee decision but a CLASSMATE vote.

No wonder there is resentment! I heard a big crash when the baggage hit the ground, and there's still a lot of weight on my mind and shoulders and lots of other people's.

I have busted my chops to try to make this website and related emails OPEN to EVERYONE in our class, even and especially to those who did not actually graduate with us in 1963 but were a special part of our lives at some point along the way. I want to encourage EVERYONE to participate, to speak up, to help locate the missing, and to get back on track at looking at this grand party and reconnecting with each other as FUN instead of just a battle in yet another stupid war. If this continues, I won't be coming.

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[> [> [> [> [> [> Re: Our 50th Reunion IT WILL HAPPEN -- Joanna D'Andrea, 22:33:38 04/05/11 Tue [1]

Greetings One and All,
I was surprised by the suggestion that there was an "In Crowd". I was operating under the notion that we were expressing our various points of view relative to the date of our '50th Class Reunion", so here's mine. I prefer the 2013 date, since it, in fact, is the 50 year mark since our high-school graduation. Additionally, it allows adequate time for planning relative to the many factors which come into play ....work, family, and finances....elements which have been mentioned more than once. We want as many classmates as possible to be part of this wonderful celebration, and I for one, would not like to think that someone wasn't able to attend simply because notice was too short (for whatever reason). I hope and trust that we are all beyond the "in crowd" days, which may (or may not) have been part of our adolescence. This is a time for celebrating the Class of 1963 - All of Us, so let's keep the positive momentum going!

It's not snowing here just now...so, I'm happily yours,
Joanna

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[> Re: Our 50th Reunion -- Phil Faherty, 17:36:21 04/06/11 Wed [1]

Dear Classmates:

Please understand that when I posted my comments regarding the "In Crowd", that I, in no way intended to offend or insult anyone, I was simply offering an observation. If you were offended, please accept my apology. What I was referring to is that on many posts they go without any response or acknowledgement, giving a feeling of one’s correspondence falling on deaf ears or blind eyes as it may be. Others on the other hand, always get a response. My intention was to try and get more people involved, which it did and yes, many were in agreement with my observation. Thanks to all that have made responses.

I certainly am not trying to create any animosities or dampen the spirit of plans for a reunion. I totally understand that a lot of friendships go back many years and obviously there is a bond and tighter communication between those friendships.

In school we didn't all hang out with each other, but we did have a lot in common and we were all together at various functions and activities. We collectively had great times together and still think of those times as the good ole days. I see the Forum as one of those venues and feel everyone should participate, be heard, be recognized and work together as one to produce a great reunion. One that we will all remember as a great time together!

Regarding the 50th vs 49th, I agree the 50th is a greater milestone and has more of an impact. I have no issues with waiting, I just hope we don't loose anyone else in the meantime. It is sad to see the list of our departed classmates and all of the others that have gone before us.

To those including Karen, Meri, Mike and John who have volunteered to get the ball rolling, thank you. I’m sure there will be plenty of time for more brainstorming to find a way to locate and connect with our lost classmates.

Best regards,

Phil

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[> [> Re: Our 50th Reunion -- Diana Whittemore Edwards, 22:00:17 04/06/11 Wed [1]

Thanks for your note, Phil. I, too, appreciate everyone who has stepped up to help choreograph the multitude of details that reunions entail. It's no small undertaking, and I am grateful for their willingness. Best to all, Diana

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[> Re: Peter Crowell -- Ruth K, 14:31:04 04/25/10 Sun [1]

Thanks, Diana. Peter was special to a lot of people and touched so many lives in so many ways. He loved life, and he lived it to the fullest extent of anyone I have ever known. I will miss him always, and there is barely a day that passes when I don't think of him at least once. I am grateful to have known and been such close friends with such a special person in my lifetime.

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[> Re: Comparing the '60's to Today -- Diana, 17:30:08 10/19/09 Mon [1]

Thanks, Bob. This is very funny and it was really just what I needed!

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[> Re: Comparing the '60's to Today -- Michael K., 20:01:28 10/22/09 Thu [1]

Very good Bob. Life marches on!

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[> Re: Comparing the '60's to Today -- Joanna D'Andrea, 13:01:02 01/16/10 Sat [1]

Hi, Bob. Somehow I missed this...it's great! Hope you're well. Happy New Year! Joanna

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[> Re: Peter Crowell -- Judi, 07:39:20 10/07/09 Wed [1]

OMG! I am so sad to hear of Peter's passing. He was one of the funniest people I ever knew. I always seemed to run into Peter at the most peculiar places. I will miss that!
I was not close to Peter but I smile when I think of him & now with the sadness of his passing, I'll remember my visits with him very fondly. One time he showed up at my door (because I was on the reunion committee) & said "Come take a ride" & we went thru some old neighborhoods, showed up & knocked on Janie Johnson DeBoer's door & surprised the heck out her. We had a really nice visit with her.
He used to tell these wonderful stories years ago about his oxen & the saw mill & so many other tales he had to tell.
He was fun!!!
May he rest in peace!!

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[> Re: Tornado of 1953 -- Phil Faherty, 11:46:24 07/24/09 Fri [1]

Diana:

Thanks for the links. I too, remember the tornado as if it were yesterday, memories forever etched into my mind. We were living in Westboro at the time, but visiting a relative in Worcester when the tornado struck.

My sister and cousins were outside playing when the hail began pelting us. Our parents immediately summoned us to get inside and by the time we got to the front door, it took 3 adults to close it.

My adult cousin looked out back and noticed that the garage door to the un-attached gargage was open. She ran out the rear porch and closed the garage door, by the time she got back to the rear porch...the garage was gone! Just as she closed the rear porch door a giant tree crashed on to the porch. We didn't know about nano seconds back then, but I would say that's how close she came to being killed.

After the tornado had passed we went out to assess the damage and it was destruction everywhere. At the end of the street we could see what I believe was Assumption College in the distance...on fire.

We then saw a pickup truck pass us with a man in the back, he evidently had been in the tornado. He had no clothes on, was totally covered with dirt/mud and his eyes were wide open to the point they looked like ping pong balls.

We were all blessed on that day! It would be nice if we could remember everything the way we do the horrific things that have happened along our life's journey.

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[> Re: PBS "History Detectives" -- Larry, 11:22:52 06/12/09 Fri [1]

Mike,
Isn't the media great. Many times during my law enforcement career I was involved in incidents that made the TV and/or newpaper and when I saw or read about them, I wondered if I had actually been there.
I'm looking forward to your TV debut, and already have it scheduled on the DVR.

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[> [> Re: PBS "History Detectives" -- Michael K., 19:27:20 06/30/09 Tue [1]

The hype in the actual segment wasn't as I had expected. The segment was very calm, honest, and flowed well. The ads prior to the airing on Facebook were a bit over the top.

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[> [> [> Re: PBS "History Detectives" -- Larry, 10:49:33 07/01/09 Wed [1]

Mike,
That segment was very interesting and informative. Thanks for sharing it with us.

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[> Re: Tornado -- Rich Boyd, 01:57:39 06/11/09 Thu [1]

The person killed on Flanders Road was "Mrs Timothy Cahill". Her son, James Cahill, age 12, was admitted to Framingham Union Hospital.

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[> Re: Tornado -- Leslie W, 12:48:40 06/07/09 Sun [1]

You are right about the date, Mike. it is 56 years ago that the tornado hit on June 9, 1953, my 8th birthday. Falling off my grandparents' front steps, I broke my left arm on June 10, Kathy DeLong's birthday.

I lived in Hopkinton then and was having a birthday party which was cut short. The tornado split in Shrewsbury and headed toward Grafton and Westboro. My grandparents who lived on West St., were spared from a huge tree that fell parallel to their house.

87 people perished in Worcester and Central Mass. I say a prayer for them on every June 9th.

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[> Re: Tornado -- Ruth K, 16:32:02 06/09/09 Tue [1]

I also remember the day well. We had 56 children at our house in the back yard, my entire class plus my sister Mary's and the teachers, for a picnic. The day was hot, steamy, very quiet, and the sky turned green. My father came home from work to tell the news of the approaching storm, and my mother started calling all the parents to come pick up the kids. Amazingly, everyone got home before the tornado hit. We lost 28 big trees in our yard, and the Aronson farm, where the new high school now stands, got flattened, as well as the Harvey house. I think 6 people in Westboro were killed that day. The rest of us are very lucky to be around to remember that horrible day.

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[> [> Re: Tornado -- rich boyd, 01:25:21 06/10/09 Wed [1]

Oh, thank you, Ruth. I was trying to think of the name of the Aronson family.
Two days before the tornado, Mrs. Aronson came to our house and, completely out of the blue, gave my mother some real sleigh bells. Two days later the Aronsons were gone. My mother always felt that Mrs. Aronson must have had a feeling that some thing would happen. The sleigh bells were hung on our door in Westboro very year at Christmas. I have them here now in Washington State and still put them out at Christmas and think of the Aronsons.
My parents worked so hard after that storm. Although I was four, my father had to take some of us along as he went out to treat people while my mother treated people at our house. I still remember walking around the Harvey's home, spread across the field. We also went to a farm on Flanders road where I seem to remember the dead cattle and trees without leaves and the men working to help round up the surviving cattle. Was that the Zerettis? (I am sure my spelling is off).
I have always felt that my career in medicine started when I went on my first house calls that day.

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[> Re: (John) Bryan Robinson ? -- Marilyn (Mead) Leffler, 21:16:02 05/28/09 Thu [1]

Hi Fran, I went to Bryan's mother's funeral. He didn't know me which didn't surprise me at all due to my weight and just getting old. Once he did, he was glad to see me though. He invited me to sit with him at the restaurant where they held a little get-together after the funeral. We had a nice visit although it was a sad time for him. His dad died in 1991. His sister Anne has 18 grandchildren!! Bryan married again but only briefly. He isn't married at the moment. He lives in PA and is still working as a Chef on the tugboats.

Peter is enjoying being a grandfather to 3 year old Zak.

I guess I'll be seeing you soon at Betsy's wedding.I went to her bridal shower a couple of weeks ago.

Keep in touch.

Marilyn "Moe"

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[> Re: GRADE SCHOOL PICS -- Phil, 15:44:45 03/19/09 Thu [1]

Gordon:

To the best of my recollection, the photo of "Phil Flaherty?", is indeed, yours truly...Phil Faherty.

I attended 1st and 2nd grade in Westboro and then was transplanted to Miami until returning to Westboro for 11th and 12th grades.

My sister, Caron, has been keeping me up to date on you and Cathy.

Phil

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[> [> Re: GRADE SCHOOL PICS -- Gordon Rowe, 13:51:38 04/01/09 Wed [1]

Hi Phil,
Well, I stand corrected. Good to see your pics in Classmates. That pic made me look long and hard and I just couldn't make up my mind it was you especially with the ? after the name. The boy I mentioned, Kenny Mayberger, looked something like that. Phil, this mind has had a lot diversions in time so I am glad you responded and now we all know fur-sur. You certainly have been able to carry through the great looks you were born with.
Do see your sister Caron from time to time and remember some rather bizaar (ahem-I mean great) times back in the late 60's and 70's with that group of friends.
I also remember your folks Tom & Hanna and the many laughs sitting in the kitchen on Spring St. I also see Paula some and she reports that she sees me or Kath & I both on rides that go through places she drives to and is so surprised to see someone she knows on a motorcycle, especially Kathy.
Thanks again and say hello to your lovely wife.
Gordo

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[> Re: Larry's Profile -- Larry, 12:58:29 03/17/09 Tue [1]

Thank-you for the kind words and the wonderful job you did putting my profile together. I am sure as more submit their profiles we will discover that there is much we didn't know about each other. I am glad you gave me the opportunity to tell my story with all it's ups and downs and prove that things are not always as they seem. I am looking forward to our class gathering and the chance to renew old friendships and form new ones.

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[> Re: I remember...... -- Mike l, 08:04:27 02/18/09 Wed [1]

If it's any consolation, I still have all my Boy Scout badges and stuff (no uniforms, they were passed on to others). I also remember working for our band uniforms and the first parade we wore them in! Someone said something about Miss Marcy. I remember being in the orchestra and playing for Graduations (Pomp and Circumstance), and how sad she was when the new music program came to be and she was eased out of the picture.

I remember working for Fay's Dairy, both at the farm and the plant, making minimum wage and paying social security, and now I have to wait until 66 to get mine, it's tough being the baby of the class. At Fay's, I worked with Sue S's father, and remember him often.

How about making flowers at the get together? I remember making lots of those at all the Flower Power parties a lot of the girls held. Guess it wasn't a very Green event though.

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[> Re: I remember...... Too! -- John Elberfeld, 17:41:33 02/21/09 Sat [1]

Hi Judy,
Thanks for jogging my memory. I, too, remember Richard Moore singing - and the song I remember (or is part of my fantasy - hard to tell now) was "Rose of Tralie." I have a memory of you sitting on a piano bench singing "Pony Boy." Any reality to that?
I, too, spent 2 years in the Harvey School and 4 years at Eli Whitney. I remember playing marbles in the dirt before they paved over the front playground. Did we really have boys and girls entrances, or did the girls just play out front, and the boys in the side yard more?
Do you remember the "gym" we had in the basement of the Eli Whitney building? I remember we had to duck when we jumped over the bar so we didn't hit our heads, and the ropes we climbed couldn't have been more than 7 or 8 feet high.
How about when we finally went to Junior High at the OLD old high school, and asked the teachers if we could "go to the basement?" They would look at us as if we were crazy, until they realized what we needed.
Of the three people you mentioned, I only remember Bruce Devlin. I went out to his house several times.
Not all memories are good - as we all had Miss Mason for third grade. How the authorities let that woman teach is still beyond my comprehension. But Miss Gleason the next year made up for it.
I think the "Eli Whitney" crowd was especially close because our class was the only one at that grade level at that location. Most of us spent 6 years together - even though we lost some when the "New School" opened. It was a shock when we were split up in Junior High and had to deal with all the "New School" kids who were used to bells ringing between classes and fancy stuff like that.
Enough already - good to hear from you. And again, thanks for your work on the past reunions.
John Elberfeld JELberfeld@AOL.COM

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[> [> Re: I remember...... Too! -- Judi G., 09:44:08 03/09/09 Mon [1]

John, I just wanted to add one comment to your Miss Mason comment:
I remember Joseph Fitzgerald & he sat in the front row in Miss Mason's classroom. He used to bite his nails terribly & she would put mittens on him. I also remember when his hair got kinda' long, she put a bow in it!! Can you imagine what that did to an 8-9 year old's psyche? It was not his fault that his parents didn't get him a haircut. We were 3rd grade for God's sake. I hated her for the way she treated some kids in her class.
Do you remember the summer of (I think) 6th grade when the library had a contest of sorts going for the most books read over the summer? You won but I was a close second & I always remembered that.
Like I said, it is odd what you remember from childhood.

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[> [> [> Re: I remember...... Too! -- John Elberfeld, 17:44:34 03/16/09 Mon [1]

Hi:

Yes, I have a very clear memory of Joseph with a bow in his hair. I think one time she did it because he talked as much as a girl talked, so he should look like a girl. (Again - don't trust my memory to be accurate, but this is still up there for some reason!) I'm a teacher, still, and am always very careful about what I say and how I say it to my students. I think having some truly sadistic teachers of my own helped me realize how powerful teachers are, and how much damage they can do. (And also how much good we can do with the right words at the right time!)

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[> [> [> Re: I remember...... Too! - Reading Contest -- John Elberfeld, 10:23:32 03/20/09 Fri [1]

Hi:
With a librarian for a mother, do you think I had any choice but to read the most books in that contest? Growing up in a small town with a very demanding parent who worked at the school really cut down on my options. You are right, I didn't remember that you came in second, but I still remember the pressure on me to come in first.
Keep the memories coming - not all are good, but they all need to come out in the open. Thanks.
John "Tiny" Elberfeld

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[> Re: I remember...... -- Gorodn Rowe, 23:03:22 03/18/09 Wed [1]

Yup Judy, good memory!! White buck loafers, white buck instep clip shoes, 3-button collars and leave the back one un-buttoned.???!!! 7th grade lunch in the bleachers at Forbes School, the Merry M. Yikes, Friday night high shool basketball games at Forbes school with the chain link baskets.....50 kids on the corner of the First National Store or in front of the old Rexall's. Driving around th erotary in reverse. I gotta stop here. Thanks

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[> Re: Hello from Fred S and Sue F (now S) -- Diana Whittemore (Edwards), 09:20:24 02/17/09 Tue [1]

How nice to read this posing from you and Fred. I've thought of you often over the years. I'm sorry to learn about loosing a son in the prime of his life; surely, that was a difficult time for you. I look forward to catching up with you at some time.
Diana

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[> Re: Kathy -- Ruth K, 17:39:51 02/15/09 Sun [1]

Susan, thank you for sharing this sad story with us. We all feel terrible about the loss of Kathy. She was everyone's good friend and always had a big smile on her pretty face. I do hope that overall she had a very happy life, and it is comforting to know that you, as a special friend, were there with her to the very end.

Please know that it was the loss of Kathy that inspired us to reconnect with each other and get this website and related correspondence going. I'm just sad that it happened too late for her, as she would have loved it. She will always have a special place in our hearts.

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[> Re: Kathy -- Larry, 17:44:12 02/15/09 Sun [1]

Thank-you for the story about Kathy. Since I lived about a block from her, we often walked to school together and after I got my drivers license, she would ride to school with me every so often. Her passing was very sad news for me.

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[> Re: Future Reunion Ideas -- Bob Poskitt, 19:36:02 02/14/09 Sat [1]

Here are my thoughts, John, re a Reunion.

I personally do not like the word 'reunion' especially when there is a number like 50 associated with it. That's what my parents and grandparents used to wait for and talk about. They would wait for X years for their 50th and then what.....wait for another 10? Fewer people showed up at every event. My mom wasn't there herself.

We are not Boomers, but we are on the cusp of being Boomers. As a result, we should and can think differently about a lot of things. This year, 2009, should be THE year that we find as many of our classmates as possible. The first 40 are easy compared to the last 37. It will take the rest of this year and maybe a little longer. How about holding a Class Party in the summer of 2010 in Westboro for everyone who has been found and wants to attend? Leigh has already offered her farm for the location. Perhaps we could meet on a Saturday afternoon that continues into the evening. An outside barbeque, low key, lots of one-on-one discussions, adult beveridges, lots of story telling, all very casual and inclusive. We could plan to stay overnight in the area and then take a tour of our schools which could be opened for us on that Sunday morning. Think of all the additional stories to be told once we get back in those buildings..........a great way to end a memorable Class Party that will never have a number associated with it.

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[> [> Perfect Solution to Reunion Question -- John Elberfeld, 09:27:55 02/15/09 Sun [1]

Leigh's place sounds great. Seeing it in print on an open forum, inviting all who are interested in attending, makes it an ideal response to the reunion question. You have my full support and I will do my best to be there. I hope we all reach out to all our classmates, and encourage everyone to attend. A perfect solution, IMHO!

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[> [> Re: Future Reunion Ideas -- Mike L, 10:35:01 02/15/09 Sun [1]

The summer get together sounds very good. I would like to attend. I'll be the guy riding a 2008 Victory Vision Weather permitting). I finally acheived my many years dream of riding motorcycles, and have jumped in all the way. In 2008, I joined the Melha Riders, a sub groiup of the Shriners. I also joined the Longriders, a motorcycle club, complete with tattoos and vests, never thought i'd get to do it.

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[> Re: Future Reunion Ideas -- Ruth K, 20:38:31 02/14/09 Sat [1]

Hey John, You must have lost your goggles for a week or so while some of us were discussing this reunion thing. Go dig those emails out of your trash folder -- and the potatoes out of your ears! :) I think a relaxed lazy hazy summer day no-number gathering in 2010 at Leigh's farm sounds just perfect! I really enjoyed your post!!!

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[> Re: Memories ... -- Larry, 16:31:23 02/13/09 Fri [1]

Wagner's Bakery, Don's Donuts, Danny's Rambler Dealership, Ted Ware Pontiac/Sunoco Station on the rotary, the volunteer fire department, sledding at the Westboro Country Club and the "beach" at Lake Chauncy.

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[> [> Re: Memories ... -- Judi, 08:32:15 02/16/09 Mon [1]

Eclairs from Wagners Bakery!!! I can smell them thru the screened door as you walked by now!! How easily we were drawn in!!

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[> Re: Miss Kane -- Larry Broga, 05:16:36 02/11/09 Wed [1]

You're right Bob, she did have a lot of class. After I got drafted into the Army, she called my mother to find out where I was stationed. She sent me a package of baked goods and a very touching letter. I thought this was very special since I wasn't one of her better students and usually gave her a hard time.

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[> [> Re: Miss Kane -- Bob Poskitt, 19:12:59 02/12/09 Thu [1]

Thanks for your comments, Larry, about Miss Kane.

You and others probably never knew I had a third brother, David, many years older than either Tom or myself. Dave struggled terribly in school and never went beyond 8th grade. And the one teacher who was always, always supportive of him, even though he could really never do the school work, was Miss Kane. She knew his skills were high in areas other than school studies. Dave is an excellent musician, can play any song on almost any instrument, but never had a lesson and cannot read music. Miss Kane helped him find that gift in himself.

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[> [> [> Re: Miss Kane -- Diana W., 22:11:19 02/12/09 Thu [1]

A wonderful story, Bob; thanks for sharing this with us.

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[> Re: Hello Everyone -- Joanna Whittemore (D'Andrea), 12:50:51 02/08/09 Sun [1]

Larry,
So nice to see a posting from you! Hope you're well. Your mention of Judy Grey jogged my memory. One time, several years ago (over 15, I believe) I was phoning Massachusetts (I don't even remember where I was calling!) and I found myself chatting with the person who was helping me on the other end of the call. One thing led to another - and when we discovered that we had gone to school together - it was Judy Grey! Small world!

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[> Re: Hello from Joanna W. -- Judi Grey Smith, 14:55:58 02/13/09 Fri [1]

This is the sweetest story about your son & Vinnie Lee's wall rubbing. Thank you for sharing it. It brought me to tears but alot of things bring me to tears these days.
I love being able to communicate with all of you. THANK YOU SO MUCH, Ruthie!!!!

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[> Re: Mrs. Burnham and Her Daughter -- Larry, 16:25:37 02/13/09 Fri [1]

Hmmm, I was never invited to any teacher's home. I wonder why? !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

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[> Re: Hello from San Diego -- Ruth K, 01:10:56 02/06/09 Fri [1]

Hi Mike!

I was just about to contact you through Classmates.com, as I see you found me there and vice versa. Thank you so much for the update.

Your story about Vinnie brought tears to my eyes. The Vietnam Wall also came to Belfast, Maine, some years back, and I made a point of finding both Vinnie and Tommy Bonine and stood there for a very long time in tears. How wonderful that he has a son who looks just like him. Thank you for sharing this with us.

I am so sorry to hear of the loss of your brother Tiger. He was an awesome person. He was in the Navy stationed in Machias, Maine, at the time I was going to Colby so long ago and came to visit me quite often. I considered him a very good friend.

For those who do not know, my sister Mary passed away in 1999 after a very long battle with Lou Gehrig's Disease, also called ALS, the most devastating form of MS. She spent her last 8 years at the Westboro Nursing Home when her condition advanced beyond my mother's capability of taking care of her at home. By the time she died, she was totally paralyzed, could not talk, and could only turn her head from side to side. She never complained once in all those years and was always so happy to see visitors and recognized everyone, even from many years past.

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[> [> Re: Hello from San Diego -- Diana W, 09:15:45 02/06/09 Fri [1]

I am saddened to learn about Mary's battle with ALS. She has always held a special place in my heart - I can still see her moving about our classroom. Meri W and I were talking about her last night and how much we loved her, and how fortunate we all were that she was sharing the journey.

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[> [> [> Re: Hello from San Diego -- Ruth K, 11:32:22 02/06/09 Fri [1]

Thank you, Diana, for your kind words. I remember that you were always so nice to her, and she so appreciated kindness and friendship from people who took the time to get to know her.

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[> Re: Hello from San Diego -- Diana W, 08:55:33 02/06/09 Fri [1]

Hi Mike, Good to hear from you. I'm sorry about Tiger. I love the news about Vinnie's son. I always pass my hand over Vinnie's name when I visit the wall in DC. Joanna has a very moving story about Vinnie, the wall and a very special gift, but I will let her share that with others. When the travelling wall came to Essex Junction, Vt a few years ago, volunteers were asked to read aloud, over a mike, for an hour, the names of those who were lost; Vinnie was in my heart the entire time.

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[> Re: Hello from San Diego -- meri wilson, 11:30:38 02/06/09 Fri [1]

Hi Mike,
I too was a good friend of Vinnie's - he was like a brother to me - especially when I felt a bit "out of it" - and soon after the Vietnam Memorial was opened I too found his name (along with a couple of other friends whose names were etched there) and cried. He was a crazy and good hockey player. I used to bum rides with him to go skating at the Worcester Arena (I'm a girl, so wasn't playing hockey except on ponds with my brother and Dexter Newton and Forbes Farmer) and he had two concussions early on and was warned that another would be big trouble. He pressed on regardless and continued to play (in all venues) It would be such a trip to encounter his clone in CA - or anywhere....his death was a big loss...so long ago - and now three of our classmates who loomed large Peter, Allan and Cathy. We are lucky that it seems that there are still so many of us alive and functional. Just getting back into the "Westboro" state of mind. Funny, I couldn't wait to escape from Westboro - too small - and now I find myself happily living in a town that is so much like Westboro back then. Guess you gotta get a perspective to find out what you want. Looking forward to meeting up with the class of '63 soon. best, Meri Wilson (Sumner)

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[> Re: Found another! -- Karen J Toney, 10:44:40 02/18/09 Wed [1]

Hi all,
I too was only with you for Junior and Senior years as my family moved from Medfield, MA to Westboro in 1961. I have been living in Waltham, MA for the past 36+ years. I too was looking to retire in a few years but my 401K and the economy has added a few years on to that.
Judi Gray called me last night and told me about this site - it is great! I don't have as many memmories as most of you have but it is fun reading about all of them. I am sad to hear of the passing of some of our classmates - another reason to try and reconnect as we never know when it will be our turn - I think we feel like we will live forever. My thoughts and prayers go out to their family and friends.
I love the idea of a "Class Day" in the summer - I was dissapointed that we did not have a 45th reunion - I went to the 25th. Judi said you had a 30th but I did not receive any information about it so did not go.
I also will mark this site as a Favorite and visit it often - it is so important to keep up with old friends and classmates - and so much easier with email and websites - can contact a lot of people at once.
Glad to be aboard and hope to hear from and see a lot of you soon.
kjt

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[> Re: Hello from Diana W. -- Bob Poskitt, 13:41:34 02/04/09 Wed [1]


This is really great connecting with classmates. Diana, I am sorry Florida did not work out but MA and then VA aren't all that bad.

A number of years ago, like maybe 8 to 10, my dad told me that he had gone to a yard sale at your folks home on Flanders Rd. He spoke with either you or your sister and shared the conversation back with me. Was it you or Joanna?

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[> [> Re: Hello from Diana W. -- Diana Edwards, 17:56:57 02/04/09 Wed [1]

Hello Bob,
I remember speaking with your dad. I don't recall whether or not he bought anything at the yard sale, but I loved the fact that I was rather circuitously reconnected with the class of 1963. It was neat!
Good to hear from you.
Diana

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[> Re: Hello from Diana W. -- Ruth K, 19:15:54 02/04/09 Wed [1]

Welcome aboard, Diana! I was so excited when I found you and Joanna and some others on Classmates.com, and I haven't finished digging and leaving little messages for them.

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[> [> Re: Hello from Diana W. -- Diana W., 20:52:57 02/04/09 Wed [1]

So happy to be found!

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[> Re: Hello from Diana W. -- Kris Lorentzson Giger, 19:38:37 02/06/09 Fri [1]

Hi Diana,
The year Mom died, I travelled with Dad from Florida. On the nostalgia tour through Massachusetts, we stopped at Little Dorothy [the lake that served as the water/power source for his company, Buck Brothers, years ago] in Millbury, wondering if the dam was still operational. When visiting with a man who had also stopped to look at the dam, he mentioned that he was from Westboro - turns out it was your brother - small world.
later. . .kris : )
I enjoyed your and Joanna's pictures on Classmates.com

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[> [> Re: Hello from Diana W. -- Diana Whittemore, 10:21:06 02/07/09 Sat [1]

Hi Kris,
Small world indeed! What are the odds of the happening!
Looks like you are still in Big Sky country. One of my favorite states! Back in the 60s Joanna and I camped from New Hampshire to California, and we fell in love with Wyoming. The hot springs at Thermopolis were amazing! That trip was quite the adventure. We pitched our tent the wrong way from the NH to Michigan or there 'bouts. One evening a guy asked us how long we'd been pitching the tent like that. Of course, we initially thought that he was being a hot shot, but when he was kind enough to point out our error, we were grateful and somewhat abashed, to say the least.
Look forward to leaning more about life in the beautiful part of the country!
Best,
Diana

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[> [> [> Re: Hello from Diana W. -- Diana Whittemore, 10:52:40 02/07/09 Sat [1]

Hi Kris,
Maybe Wyoming is not 'big sky' county. Now I'm thinking it is Forever West. You would know better than I!
Again,
Diana

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[> [> [> [> Re: Big Sky Country -- Ruth K, 03:57:25 02/08/09 Sun [1]

Big Sky Country is MONTANA, my favorite place in the whole wide world! I hope to live there someday soon!

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[> [> Re: Hello from Diana W. -- Judi G., 15:48:45 02/13/09 Fri [1]

Hi Kris,
It is a small world as I now live on Dorothy Pond in Millbury across from Little Dorothy & it's funny that in Millbury they pronounce it "Little Daugherty".

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[> Re: Finding Classmates -- Ruth K, 19:10:28 02/04/09 Wed [1]

Hi Leslie! I'm so glad Diana connected with you, and I thank you for your interesting post.

I agree about some of the outstanding teachers we had at WHS, even if at the time they seemed oh so serious and so demanding of all of us. They made us learn all the stuff correctly. I can attest to the fact that many people in rural Maine never had such good teachers, as their grammar and spelling skills are unbelievably bad!

I hope you might be able to locate some more people. This is great, as more and more respond. I will keep updating the list of found people!

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[> Re: Finding Classmates -- Bob Poskitt, 08:45:40 02/06/09 Fri [1]

Leslie, thanks for sharing that story about your gandparents old Chevy. My dad loved that car for many years. After my mom died, it became one of his new loves. He had it fully restored and often drove it in the Westboro parades, together with one of his several new lady firends. He attended classic car shows throughout New England and brought all of his 50 trophies with him wherever he displayed the car. The other entries were always a little intimidated when he would open the trunk to show them. After having car trouble and being stranded in the mountains of New Hampshire following a show, my brothers and I had to take the car away (and his license) at 96. The car, however, is still in our family and my older brother David, has it. When I see him next, I will share your story with him.

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