Subject: How can i help my son with dislexia in 7th grade? |
Author: RC [ Edit | View ]
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Date Posted: 22:56:10 09/20/11 Tue
My son is failing terribly in classes. I never fully recognized he had dislexia until recently.
1. He cant organize well.
2. He consistantly reverses letters in the middle of words (littel instead of little, for instance).
3. He frequently uses alternate words of the same sound which have different meanings (witch instead of which, for example).
4. When i say something is to the left, he looks/goes right.
5. He always comes home saying he has no homework, only to find out he is not doing much of it. We will find it apart from all his similar papers stuffed into a far corner of his backpack. Then, when he does do his homework, the answers do not make logical sense. We help him complete his homework, which is frustrating, to find out he didnt turn it in on time.
6. He has difficulty reading from the whiteboard in the classroom.
7. He is failing most of his "didactic" classes except for woodshop, and P.E.
8. I ask him daily to bring home his books, only to be disappointed with "I forgot."
I am throwing myself at your mercy to help me understand how to better deal with this. This is what i have read so far.
I should:
-Make an appointment with family doctor for him to see a psycologist (for detectiion of dislexia) Despite my wife and i not having the necessary financial means to do so.
-Talk with his teachers, and specifically ask them to move him to the front of the class. Ask them "not" to have him read aloud to the class from any textbook. Ask them to pre-print their homework assignments(instead of writing it on the whiteboard at the end of class). Ask them if he can have more time for tests. Ask them if he can not be tested on a timer (ie, writing for 10 minutes in English class). Ask the teachers if they can somehow offer praise for responses he may give, even if the are partially correct (to boost his self esteem).
-At home is where i need advice...
How can i help him when he doesn't bring home assignments, and due dates for the assignments?
How can i correct his grammar? Spelling? (With and without the use of Microsoft Word's spell-checker).
How can i get him to turn his assignments in on time?
What are good methods of teaching a dislexic child(English, History, Science, Math)?
How can i boost his self esteem while assisting him in the learning process?
Until this evening i had no idea i was going about it wrong. Yelling, raising my voice, grounding, taking away privaledges, etc... My eyes are welling up now considering he is my son, struggling, wanting to learn, but can't. I can't imagine how emotionally unstable he is, possibly thinking that he is mentally "stupid", and will never learn.
This last week, my wife an i have been getting onto him. I have really noticed the change in his behavior. If this were to continue, he would eventually do something terrible to himself i imagine. I love him and want to help him.
Please offer any suggestions to a father of 4 (13 year old son, 11 year old, 2 year old, and a 1 year old). Me and my wife have to mentally/physically do this for him, or he will fail terribly in academics and life(mentally, physically, and emotionally)...
RC
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